During the summer I went overseas on a backbacking trip from beijing to chengdu. Going to a country where you barely speak the language and get forced into situations will really help you break out of your shell.
I went from being afraid of taking initiative to not giving a fuck at all.
After I started the year I hit up as many people as I could. I think I had like 50 numbers in my phone in the first week.
real talk I only talk to like 5 of them after the first semester, but it's just trying to make opportunities.
I also tried to join a frat, I actually got a bid but it was more for the experience of pledging because I was bored. Basically it's the ultimate normie test, if you can hang with a top house frat full of chads, you've made it.
Eventually I found my close friend circle of 5-6 good looking guys and now for next year we're getting a house together.
I went from the quiet asian kid in highschool who tagged along random social groups trying to fit in to pretty much fully normie passing.
The only thing that gives my power level away is the fact my dorm is still plastered with anime, but who cares, the girls actually don't mind surprisingly.
I tried to make friends and join clubs and even felt like I was making progress the first two years, but now I still have no friends and no changes seem to have stuck. This makes me think there is something about me fundamentally off-putting to people but I don't know exactly what
I'm struggling, but I also have other complications which affect my progress. It's my third year, due to that as well as dumbshit choices. My advice to you is to visit your advisor ASAP, figure out what classes you NEED to take (need being keyword) and then enroll as fast as you can in those classes. Second thing is to always go to class. Third is just do your homework. Last is just pass. Don't fail your classes, it's a huge waste
>>26433343 You should find a fair amount of brobots among the normies, so you don't necessarily have to "become normie" and make friends with people you know you won't even like. But you do need to befriend people. No sitting in your dorm room in the dark all day
If you are incapable of immediately talking to people on your hall/in your dorm or whatever the fuck you call it then it isn't worth. Unless your ok with eating alone and doing all your work by yourself, which is why I do
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