What do you do when an ex ruins something you once liked due to association?
I've long had an interest in history. I used to like to read about ancient Rome. I'm also part Italian. My ex girlfriend cruelly broke up with me and went to study abroad in Italy where she claimed to be happier than ever and now refers to Rome as "home" despite having only been there three months. I can't think of Italy (or other interests we shared) without becoming angry, which is difficult because its part of my heritage and part of the roots of our civilization. Ive been focusing on what america has to be proud of and how we are the modern rome, but it still comes up. Until I can travel there myself someday, what can I do to get over this?
you tell me, there is a ton of my music I can't stand because of my ex girlfriend
used to love it, but now the songs take me back to a time where we were in love
A lot of shit.
Like my own bed, can't sleep without seeing that face that was cheating on me the entire time.
I did become the liquor. Amazingly enough, I started watching TPB right when she dumped me over the phone.
I went on a multi month bender and gave myself gastrointestinal problems from constantly drinking liquor while not eating. Thanks, Sarah!
>dude messages me saying she told him she is still with her ex
>"yes but just in a little bit of November "
>I read a text from the ex who I thought was bullshiting who said they were still sleeping together in October
>she then confides and says that it was also in December
>then as i browse tumblr (its not too too bad) I find pictures of her skating
>they went on a romantic skating trip at night together that that me and her were planning
>it stretches back
There wasn't a single moment of exclusivity.
I'm so angry that I'm tired.
Eventually your life just becomes a walking nightmare where everything you see reminds you of a time when you were happy with someone else.
Doesn't seem to bother the women though. Go figure.
my ex told me she still loved me when she dumped me over the phone
zero emotion in her voice
i smashed my phone against the wall
I know that feel man. Found out through her tumblr that my ex was crushing on her ceramics professor and Snapchating him, was gushing over pictures of guys she wanted to fuck, was still talking to her exes as "friends", was still thinking about her exes. She almost used the thing as a public diary. She used to call me "Kit" and told me it was short for "kitten" (cringe-worthy I know). Found out she had an obsession with Kit Harrington, the guy who plays Jon Snow. She was calling me another man's name.
I never want to see my next girlfriends blog ever
Yup I had that done to me too. Told me she loved me after telling me that if I called her again, she would get a restraining order.
I don't know if its mental illness or selfishness to think of herself as a good person or cruelty or what.
YES, I CANT TRUST ANYONE ANYMORE
I was so happy and niave and care free. Now I see how women act, I won't let it drag on.
I don't care that women aren't the lure beings we expect them to be. But I just wish they weren't actively fighting against the vision and trying to be a whore on purpose.
Probably testing to see if you still care.
If you want to talk to her you'll have to find a reason as to how you found out without sounding like you were stalking her.
How did you break up dude
I've had some ex's and some lady friends who couldnt listen to a particular song or artist becuase it reminded them of some times that they would rather forget.
She basically deactivated her facebook and broke up with me without telling me why then kept leading me on for a while until I found out she made a new facebook the day she deactivated her old one and blocked me on it, she'd also been talking to some other guy for a few months who she ended up dating but I think they broke up about a year later.
If she was just bored I think she would've blocked me on it after, I barely put anything on facebook anyway so there's not much for her to see