Black women VS Indian Men, who has it worse?
Both groups are undesired by many and Indian men in particular are SUPER beta and Black women need no explanation really.
From what I understand Indian men date within their own race by choice, not because others don't want them. I'm a guy but I still think that Indian men are among some of the more attractive races, can't really speak for women though so not really sure what that statement's worth.
Black women on average probably have it tougher, although I'm not sure what metric we're using to compare the two. Generally any woman will have a slightly easier time on dating websites than any equivalently unattractive man.
I'm a black woman and I have no problem finding men who like my looks and my company. Get over your shit.
Men always have it worse romantically and sexually. Remember.
Indian men by far.
Black women are still women.
>smallest dicks on the planet
>impossible to understand their gay fucking accent
>just as dark as black women
Really how have they all not killed themselves yet?
As an indian man born in america, I can tell you that there is honestly nothing worse. There isn't one day that I go without wishing that I was white or whatever.
I mean I even pretend to be a white person on a azerbaijani goat herding forum for fucks sake.
I'm a mestizo leaning heavily to the native side. Women will not give me the time of day unless theyre obese. Everyday I wish my skin was lighter and I had whiter features. Worst thing is I live in the CA Bay area filled with Asians and other Latin Americans, yet hey all worship the pale devil. I can not fathom the despair associated with being the average Indian male.
I mean I don't smell like curry or anything, and I'm in decent shape. I'm pretty average looks-wise and i'm on the mid-lighter end, but still sucks man.
I don't ever want to date an indian at all, but that seems to be the only choice for me.
That or some downy white trash.
max kek. Fucking shitskins.
In all honesty though, have a lot of white roasties rejected you?
India is not ethnically homogeneous. It depends which ethnicity you belong to, with Southern lads faring worse than Northern ones.
Middle Easterners are the best "shit skins" (many of them are not even that brown)
pick one pajit
thank you, pajit
>India isn't diverse
>This image doesn't even include Asian looking Indians
all of 4chan is racist. This isn't tumbr, you dumb beta cuck.
>who has it worse?
in terms of money: black women.
indian family usually have their shit together so they only really need to worry about themselves and get pampered by their mothers until their arraigned marriage happens.
in terms of finding a long term partner its probably black women too. we all know the stats of how hard it is to get married as a black female. i think plenty of men think theyre physically attractive but there's a lot of stigma to over come.
>Literally the only two famous Indians on TV are Southern (Aziz Ansari and Mindy Kailing)
>They are both hardcore SJWs
When two ugly SJWs who aren't even the same ethnicity as you are your only representation in the media you'll be pissed too
Indian lads, if they're born in the West and from high-caste families, can be quite attractive.
>who aren't even the same ethnicity
Yes they are. You are Indian, they are Indian, ergo you are the same ethnicity. Get over it.
Ok, I googled Indian actors and found all but one of them to be unattractive - and those are supposedly the creme de la creme of the country.
Now I'm googling black actresses...
OK, wow, also many uglies lol. But still, 10% of them could be generally considered good looking.
For fun googling white actresses...
9/10 are fucking hot.
So let's say that both black women and black men have a hard time dating outside their group.
But that isn't the only thing to consider.
Indian men have it much better off because they can get Indian girls, while black women can only get worthless niggers.
Think about it. Which are typically more valuable human beings as potential partners? Chimps or Indian women?
>thank you for the You
holy shit, this is a new level of beta cuckholdry
>just make a lot of money anon! Just BE YOURSELF!!!!!!
it's all facts, beta cuck
good, I don't give a shit Sharquisha
I think black American women have it worse in every way except sex.
>we have very little culture at all and the culture we do have, hates us and thinks we are the blame for everything
>it's harder for us to find stable bfs who aren't mentally ill
>many guys outside of our race only want to fuck us to get it off their bucket list
>more likely to be raped and abused by black men(don't believe it look up the statistics yourself)
>we get harsher punishments in court
>from the day we are old enough to walk we are seen as something sexual and evil
Daily reminder Indians are less cucked and less inferior than whites are.
>Traditional, virginal women
>Encouraged to be hard-workers and have large families to spread progeny
>In America, have better professions, better academics, and higher IQs than the natives do.
>Religious and spiritual attitude towards life
>People stepping out of cultural bounds are extremely rejected and socially isolated so no JUST B YOURSELF XD or I'm le quirky person :~D faggots
Please stop with the memes friend, we're actually trying to have a serious conversation.
Truth is, hood rats go for niggers. Get pumped and dumped, beat, knocked up then complain about all black guys being assholes. It's what woman in general do.
While the more educated black girls tend to date white guys. It's usually all about insecurity and escaping whatever identity they think they are a part of. To them, white guys are a form of social status.
>Look! I'm not like all the other hood black girls! I made it!
If you go to any serious 4 year collage, you will meet plenty of cool, educated black dudes.
>poo in loo takes over Microsoft
>ruins the comany
>poo in loo takes over gym
>15 DYELs taking up the entire floor lifting in polos and jeans
>poo in loo takes over coding
>spaghetti code with no comments in the entire thing
>poo in loo takes over Subway
>get get rid of the $5 footlong
Literal worst race of all time
Indian men are constantly picked on in the media and in society even though they are productive members of said society
>Thread about Indian lads
>easy TA and "engineer" work through family and friends
>LITERALLY coming onto American soil and stealing American jobs
>can start shit and nobody cares
>not expected to be smart or good at anything
>can have as much sex as you want and nobody judges you
>infinite scholarships and welfare
Let's face it, both of them have too many advantages
>They hate us because they aren't one of us.
Thank you for proving my point anon. This is exactly why white kids sit alone in the cafeteria and shoot up schools. Most of the world fucking hates you because your either ridden with white guilt or overcome with this false sense of supremacy. Just be fucking normal you stupid fucks.
India is currently in a state of rapid modernization. Indian immigrants bust their ass and make their kids work hard so that they can be someone successful. That is what I mean by they are actively trying to improve
All 3% of them?
face it, Indian girls are just a much richer pool , more fertile pastures to find a mate from than black men are
>India is currently in a state of rapid modernization
>shitting in the ocean is considered rapid modernization
How are any of those "advantages" for a black woman? That's exactly why were stuck with the worst jobs and never get married. We have it far worse than anyone. Luckily for me though I'm kind of a hermit and don't give a shit about a lack of human contact.
>Indian immigrants bust their ass and make their kids work hard so that they can be someone successful.
Indians are soulless tribalist niggers just like the chinks.
>oh sure white man you can trust me, I came from "we have TWO loos university" where 100,000 people go annually and costs $100 a year
>no white man you cannot have that job jaboto and haram are harder workers
>what do you mean you can't understand your teacher or TA's accents you racist
When I was in school? A few.
But like I said, most of the girls they wanted, you know someone on there level, were white washed as fuck and would only date non-blacks. For some reason, they really like Indian woman. But ideally, they would want an attractive black girl.
>false sense of superiority
>history of dominating the world mercilessly and only stopping when we feel like it
Daily reminder Arabs have a false sense of superiority (but far less of guilt) than whites do AND they spread their religion , culture , and language through different lands.
Arabs and Europeans rival each other, but at least Arabs aren't CUUUUUCKKKKKS!
>stuck with the worst jobs
I went to Tim Hortons and ordered 10 Timbits in a box. The bitch put like 14 in. She couldn't even count.
>never get married
Stop dating niggers.
>repeat for 20 generations
Your people could've caught on by now.
Deep down I'm sure nearly everyone realises that Indian diaspora are usually significantly more successful educationally and financially on average and on median than average for the White country being considered, and that indian diaspora are generally the best assimilated in that once they've grown up here or been here 8+ years they typically have lots of white friend's, share white humor, date whites without getting butt hurt and durka, and that Indian diaspora typically commit little crime, and that Indian diaspora never try to change the country they're in.
They are basically the ideal non-European diaspora immigrant group.
This is pretty obvious and I can't imagine people on 4chan genuinely being unaware of this, even though they enjoy making fun of native Indians for open defecation , bathing in the ganges, leaving retarded sounding comments on poem websites.
>Only outlier black girls date white guys.
Yeah, the outlier being actual educated black girls. Shit, out of the three black girls I asked out in my life, they all had boyfriends. Guess what they were.
Just bro tier. Fun to be around, easy to get along with. Won't stab you and take your sneakers.
As logical as it all sounds, decent socially-conservative black men are 1 in a million and even that tiny number dates out more often than not. We'd be non-existent if no one ever gave it up to Tyrone.
>Implying I am attracted to white women
>Not understanding that Latinas are the superior race of women
Look at any Indian actor. What's his next role going to be? Taxi driver? 7-11 clerk? He's gonna have to put on a ridiculous accent even though he was born in California. The media systematically portrays Indian men as being both nerdy yet buffonish and predatory while still being asexual. Indian women, the moment they step in the West, turn into sluts. Even if an Indian man were to try to get an arranged marriage that requires the bride to A) Find you attractive, B) For you two to date for some extended period of time, C) For you to be rich, from the right caste, varna, ethnicity, political party, and straight edge. Black women on the other hand, if they aren't "urban" are applauded. Black culture is seen as cool. Hell, ass-less white girls are trying to copy you constantly. There's a fuckton of ebony threads on 4chan. Ever see any woman ever saying something nice about an Indians guys' appearance? We can bust our ass getting a good job yet will always be seen as the worst possible option for women. Least you don't get laughed at the moment you post on this thread.
>litter of mixed bastards
Aren't you the black chick with crippling yellow fever, that wishes she was a kawaii azn grill? kind of ironic that you think interracial kids are "mixed bastards", you know, considering how you want to mother mixed raced kids
California is LITERALLY facing an engineer crisis because they keep hiring poo-in-laws for half the cost to replace real engineers. Then when they become managers they hire family. It's literally destroying tech companies in California, and Facebook, MS, and pretty much every company wants no restrictions on H1-B immigrants.
>never get married
That only happens to the cunts who get knocked up by gangbangers and thugs.
Just find a regular black guy. Oh wait, you won't because they don't make your gina tingle.
>Yeah, the outlier being actual educated black girls
All the educated black women I know married black men or are dating black men.
WM/BW is just a meme. I don't know why any sane black girl will purposely go after a white man. The only decent white men are South European but they pale in comparison to MENA qts.
>Come on man, black women rarely date out compared to black guys. You can stop parroting that "only date non-blacks" shit.
Yeah, the ghetto hood rats, which the media tend to over exemplify. I'm talking about black woman who are educated anon.
It's not even black woman though. The fucking jewish media has woman of every ethic group paired with white guys. It's actually fucking hilarious. Look up any movie with an attractive minority woman. 99% of the times, they are dating/fucking white guys.
The brainwashing is real.
It isn't just about my appearance you moron. Did you even read the rest? I have to be from the right caste and varna, my family needs to be respected and wealthy, I need to have a high-paying job, I can't smoke or drink, I have to be politically conservative, I can't be a different ethnicity form want she or her parents want, and I can't be from a different province. Me and the bride-to-be have to date for at least a year to see if we're a good match. It isn't just "Oh, she finds me okay looking, let's get married!".
>non-black guy and he pumps and dumps her leaving her with a litter of mixed bastards
That never happens. Ever. Or it's such a minor occurrence, you won't find many mixed kids with a black+other combination.
Every minority group in the world other than blacks would rather live in a mostly white neighbourhood and go to a mostly white school than have to live in a mostly black neighbourhood and go to a mostly black school.
Middle class minorities like Indians and Asians and non-cholo Latinos generally get on very well with white people and make friends many with or date them.
It's really only black people who have a perpetual chip on their shoulder against white people and are constantly, desperately trying to get other successful minorities to join them in perpetually-aggrieved victim hood status by asking them to give up their ethnic identities and convince them to identify as "people of colour" instead.
It's tumblr bullshit and very few successful minorities buy into perpetually claiming to be a victim like blacks do unless they studied an arts or humanities subject at a liberal university.
Every non-black ethnic minority is both more likely to be willing to date a white man or woman than a black man or women and every ethnic minority would be less likely to be unhappy with their son or daughter dating a white person than a black.
Honestly black people are trying their very hardest to sell the POC victimhood meme to other minorities but most are tired of their whiny bullshit and the fact that they cannot work hard and make it while every other group who came to America with nothing can.
Niggers need to just drop the useless whining and resentment and excuse-making and actually work hard to be successful.
If they aren't naturally too lazy and stupid that is.
kek I know several Arabs who think white men brainwashed black people into becoming Christians and accepting European culture. I met one who said it would be great if all blacks became Muslims instead of being cucks for the white man.
None of that prevents you from getting an Indian gf and you know it.
Indian girls are usually open to dating white guys but very few actually avoid having Indian boyfriends , and their interracial marriage rates are actually lower than those of most ethnic group women.
You're right it is bullshit how there are barely any parts for Indian people, but that's because the Jews in control of broadcasting and production are hell bent on pushing as many black men as hard as possible.
Anon, I went to college. Only one of my black friends had a white boyfriend for a short time. The rest had black boyfriends. I never really saw BF/x-M couples on campus at all, and I went to a massive school.
>Look up any movie with an attractive minority woman. 99% of the times, they are dating/fucking white guys.
I'm not sure about this. I don't see it much, whereas black male music artists far and wide have excluded black women from their music videos and their general brand unless it's ultimate degradation. Ex. watch through the cop car scene
>Middle class minorities like Indians and Asians and non-cholo Latinos generally get on very well with white people and make friends many with or date them.
You know this is all a facade right? They just do it for the sake of networking in hopes of finding a good job. Most minorities fucking hate white people for the reasons I mentioned. You're all venomous snakes. Liars who think they are better then the world and constantly talk shit about any one who isn't white. You have disgusting smug personalities. Of course you wouldn't ever hear this in person. Just like you whites, minorities constantly talk shit about white people when they aren't around. Because they're not stupid and know how white people feel about them.
The only people who would even want to be friends with white people are those insecure enough to let themselves be berated in hopes of "making it".
To all white guys:
Instead of wasting your time trying to feel superior over obviously inferior Indians and what not, why don't you stop wasting your whiteness and use it to accomplish something, like get a gf, or maybe follow in the path of your ancestors and discover/invent something?
Because you can't?
I come from an indian family and was on the path to getting an arranged marriage with a pretty hot chick. That is until I dropped out of college. Now it's all been canceled because my social status has hit the gutter.
Don't even care, I always knew I was never smart enough for college.
And just to continue my rant, these rappers are just like 4chan really - they seek to stick to the black woman at any given chance. I don't get why the world is being so shit to us. What is the end goal? What is the climax? Do they want us to kill ourselves or something?
LOOOOL yeah Arabs traditionally love blacks and don't persecute or look down on them at all.
"Of the neighbors of the Bujja, Maqdisi had heard that "there is no marriage among them; the child does not know his father, and they eat people -- but God knows best. As for the Zanj, they are people of black color, flat noses, kinky hair, and little understanding or intelligence."
Ibn Battuta, 14th century
"We know that the Zanj (blacks) are the least intelligent and the least discerning of mankind, and the least capable of understanding the consequences of actions."
"The geographer al-Idrisi ascribes 'lack of knowledge and defective minds' to the black peoples. Their ignorance, he says, is notorious; men of learning and distinction are almost unknown among them, and their kings only acquire what they know about government and justice from the instruction of learned visitors from farther north."
Watch, I will now summarize your rants into a politically correct and concise one line statement.
>Immigrant minorities tend to assimilate to Western culture as they climb up the social ladder.
Uh huh sure thing man. The fact that Indians and East Asians and non-cholo Latinos are usually much more likely to surround themselves with white friend's than black friends is all a conspiracy.
Really they all like and respect black people a lot more but are just constantly practicing networking school from the age of middle school.
And really the fact that they're generally much more happy dating whites and letting their sons and daughters date whites than blacks is also just in order to keep up the act, right?
Yeah really every non-white person is on black people's side.
It's not like they're generally annoyed by your whining and offputting by your violent criminality, laziness, stupidity and lack of civilised culture.
Japanese are masterrace along with whites
Japanese are honorary Aryans
As a proud white man I believe it is our and the Japanese man's duty to subjugate this planet for his needs and then go on to colonize the galaxy
My autism isn't strong enough for me to screen cap every black woman in that video. But I'll just say you're wrong and picked a bad video to prove whatever bullshit point you were trying to make.
I told him that but he said "of course da white man would tell you Arabs hate and treated blacks worse than white people did. Remember Bilal?"
What a faggot. literally a retarded sand nigger
Your summary fails to account for the fact that in their non-western native countries like India and the Middle East and Far East, there is far more racism by those people against blacks than there is exhibited by diaspora living in western countries.
It is not simply that western countries are racist against black people, basically the whole world is racist against black people, and western countries actually tend to be the less racist towards blacks people than the Middle East, India, China, etc.
kek, anon I wasn't even trying to state those groups prefer whites over blacks. Whites in general face universal hate from every ethnic group out there. The only people who like white people are other white people (barely) or ones trying to fit into the "white" subculture.
And it has nothing to do with a victim complex. It's simply fighting fire with fire. As a white person, you wouldn't understand though.
If he grew up in a ghettoish neighbourhood in America then he probably has no idea what his country of extraction is like.
He'll probably have the same level of ignorance as one of those Americans who can't point out France on a map
Cool great back peddling.
So you're implicitly admitting that most middle class minorities prefer white people to black people while also claiming that non-black minorities typically having white people as friends is an act for networking, even though they do this from when they were children and have no incentive not even know what networking is. Lol
Lol you mean ubiquitous western culture? Hahaha
I literally see nothing in the two posts I summarized that indicates we were talking about anywhere but the United States.
Regardless, swap the term
>Western culture with the phrase
>the culture of the country in which they reside
and we're good to go.
Now, I'm not doing this for the benefit of providing a tl;dr to other anons. I'm doing this to illustrate the quality of /pol/ posters that drift here. If you're going to push an unorthodox opinion, propose it eloquently otherwise nobody smart will want to be associated with it.
And you know why that's the case? Because minority parents believe in order to make it in the U.S, there kids need to assimilate as much as possible, hence why I mentioned "white culture", or as you said it western culture. Of course parents wouldn't want there kids to hang out with black people. The media portrays them as animals and personal life experience (being mugged, robbed, assaulted) shapes a persons view point on an entire group. I know it's what happened with my parents and my other friends while growing up.
That still doesn't change anything about white people in general. Yeah sure, they will have minority friends. But they wouldn't truly ever be there "friends". You and I both know it.
>Regardless, swap the term
>>Western culture with the phrase
>>the culture of the country in which they reside
>and we're good to go.
So you're saying that it is a shared trait of all world cultures to look down on and be somewhat averse to black people.
Yep good summary, except obviously you need to add the exception of Black-afrucan countries themselves.
>non-black ethnic minorities continuously hang out and make friends with white people from when they were children, except when they suddenly become adults and at that point they hate white people and are just trying to deceive them to get jobs.
> Anglo Saxon
Let's see how you feel the next time we blitz your cities fucking untermensch swine
>non-black ethnic minorities continuously hang out and make friends with white people from when they were children, except when they suddenly become adults and at that point they hate white people and are just trying to deceive them to get jobs.
I don't know why that's so hard to believe. We see things for what they really are as we grow up.
>So you're saying that it is a shared trait of all world cultures to look down on and be somewhat averse to black people.
No, that's not what I said at all. I did not once use spoke directly of one race or another. I'm just saying, there's a correlation between accepting a host society's culture and being successful in it.
Clearly you still want to see the spirit of the original posts in my summary. My summary is a racially neutral statement, which makes it easier to digest and discuss in a mixed group. You CAN be racists out loud, as long as the racism is never spoken but written between the lines.
Was wasting my time a part of your plan?
Why is it simply the case because of the news media influencing the opinions of parents , when you see even greater racism towards black people from Indian Indians than Indian diaspora living in America? Or Libyans compared with Libyan diaspora in America? Or Chinese Chinese people than Chinese diaspora in America? All those countries show more virulent racism against black people than America or other western countries.
So what reason is there to make the claim that it's just the western news media poisoning the minds of Indian parents, say?
And for that matter isn't the news indicative of reality? Black people are presented in the news disproportionately much as criminals, and disproportionately commit much more crime and violent crime than average in Anerica and the U.K. And other western countries.
So yeah boo hoo, a group that is more likely to be violent and criminal and unsuccessful in life is thought of as being more likely to be violent, criminal and unsuccessful in life.
>they will have minority friends. But they wouldn't truly ever be there "friends". You and I both know it.
That is not an accurate generalisation.
White people only have black "friends" because of a few reasons
-we're racist against them because their violence and inferiority intellectually and in terms of working hard is apparent
-even when not racist fit the above reasons, the atmosphere in the media and social media that nearly black people hate white people makes us wary and distrustful of them
- even when a white person is totally liberal-brainwashed to hate racism and white privilege, their media-conditioned reaction to black people is still so forced and contrived that they can't actually be true friends because every time they meet a black person they think of the situation through their white-guilt filter .
So yeah white people in general are "friends" with black people but the same is not true with other ethnic minorities because the above reasons don't hold--
Companies can't give two fucks. It's everything or bust for the CEOs:
--they don't hold
-most white people who have some sort of racist belief about black people aren't actually white supremacists. They see that most other minority groups from different parts of the world do well in school, are often more successful than the average financially, usually don't commit much crime. So there isn't the looking down on other ethnic minorities that there is with blacks. It's simply and obviously abd evidently the case that east Asians and Indians and most American Arabs (not in Europe ) do as well as the white population or often better.
-- white people don't think that most non-black minorities automatically hate and resent them and so aren't too wary or guarded to let them truly be friends (in Europe this isn't true of Arabs again because Arabs are a lot less assimilated in Europe and quite open in disliking Europe).
--the white liberal people with white guilt don't feel as much guilt to Indians or East Asians or assimilated Arabs or middle class Latinos so can actually be real friends with them as normal human beings instead of just thinking "I need to check my privilege how can I be a good ally to this poor, persecuted, oppressed black person?"
So no it's just white and black relations that are totally broken.
White peoples and other ethnic minority groups get on quite well.
But in your original summary you attempted to paraphrase what I said about minorities looking down on black people as "assimilating to western culture".
So if you want to extend that to "the country of the culture in which they reside" then you are saying that every country has a culture of looking dien on black people.
How many blacks do you think live in India? You know most of those people get there world news from CNN and the internet right? And I didn't even say the media is the sole reason as to why so many people hate blacks, I was stating how constant negative reinforcement shapes a persons judgement (I even mentioned personal experience has a lot to do with it as well).
>So yeah white people in general are "friends" with black people but the same is not true with other ethnic minorities because the above reasons don't hold--
Of course it does. And it applies not because whatever dribble you posted earlier but simply because of the color of your skin. You won't fool me whitie, I see through your lies and deceit. I would trust my dog with a steak in front of him before I trust any of you.
I look like a skinnier version of this guy, mate
Poo-in-loos and slants are fucking abominable man. You get to know them, and you realize they don't fucking have any personality, they don't have any will (every indian and chink will say their parents pushed them into their major but they hate it lol), and these are literally the ones who escaped their shithole countries, the best of the best, and they still will only get a grade better than A's, and that's with cheating and having 100 other bastards like themselves to copy from and study with. White people actually have some fucking diversity and create shit, we don't like minorities because anything non-white is fucking disgusting. One drop rule is STILL the law of genetics, look at how shit countries have gotten when mutts are forming the majority. there's not a single white country which has improved as a result of minorities, and not a single non-white country that has gotten worse when whites were in power.
College degree is massively important. The "we will accept no less than" kind of important.
A nation of people who love cricket that much can't be all bad.
Yes, northern Indians, especially high caste tend towards lighter skin, lankier frames and are taller as well. The further south you go, the darker, shorter and stouter they become.
>tfw strong jawline and high cheekbones
>tfw wide shoulders
>tfw strong facial hair that's difficult to shave without leaving stubble
>tfw want to trap but wide shoulders/strong jawline and high cheekbones makes it hard
>tfw northern indian born and raised in Canada
>6'2, wide shoulders, light skinned
>white girls love me
Honestly its not that bad. I mean i'm still depressed as fuck, but thats mostly my fault.
>most people in India watch CNN
This is wrong and totally delusional.
Not many black people live in India.
>not because whatever dribble you posted early but simply because of the Color of your skin
Why then do white people find it much harder to be friends with blacks than other ethnic minorities? If it's just skin colour then East Asians and Indians and Mexicans usually have noticeably different skin colour.
So it isn't just that while people can't be friends with anyone who is a different skin colour, there are obviously other reasons. You dumb nigger.
please please please please don't remind me...
In my experience, engineers either end up complete cucks or never marry at all. 99% of "that uncle who never married" types are engineers.
The biggest problem I see with Indian guys is the fact that most of us are very neurotic. Indian people tend to have a lot of worries and insecurities.
In Indian Americans this often manifests as racial* self-hatred.
*Indian isn't a race--Indian people are by and large a mongrel population not belonging to any clear "racial" group, which is why you'll find some Indians who look fairly caucasian, others who look fairly black, some who look quite like Chinese or Malays, and many who look like varying combinations thereof.
The best thing an Indian guy with insecurities can do is stop worrying. That's easier said than done. I think Indians are naturally neurotic, personally.
As a group though I think some Indians can be very kind. We're just very high strung. Obviously there will be some exceptions. I'm speaking generally.
There are also a lot of racist stereotypes against Indains--for example, that we're cheap. I think it would be more accurate to say that Indians HATE the thought of being cheated or taken advantage of in any way. From what I've seen, a lot of white people don't care if they're cheated out of a small amount of money. Most Indian people care A LOT.
North Indian here. Vegetarian (by my own volition) since around 5, vegan since 11ish.
I'm 5'10". A little taller than most of the men in my family, even those who eat meat.
I don't think vegetarianism makes you shorter unless you're doing it wrong.
I've also noticed a predisposition to substance abuse, whether alcohol, weed or cigs. I have never met an indian guy over 30 who doesn't binge on something. Definitely a byproduct of insecurity, perhaps due to high societal expectations
It is very easy to do it wrong though, it's hard to maintain certain vitamins and protein levels with a vegetarian diet. If you care and are taught well you can make it work, but its alot harder than slapping a few steaks on the grill
I can relate to a lot of that. I spent most of teenage years living up to social/religious expectations set by my parents. Once highschool ended and university started I said fuck it and started smoking a ton of pot. Then my parents caught me and threatened to kick me out. So I moved on to abusing alcohol by myself. I've been limiting myself a lot over the past couple months but i'm not gonna lie its been difficult. Its kinda easy to drink yourself to sleep every night instead of thinking about how alone you are...
I notice this too. I myself tend to drink a lot and it does have something to do with quelling my constantly racing mind.
This might be why many Indian people abstain from alcohol. Perhaps they often find it difficult to drink reasonably. I honestly do think we're easily stressed compared to most other people and tend towards perfectionism/neurosis.
If you understand the basics of nutrition, it's really easy to get enough nutrients on a vegetarian or even a vegan diet. Especially if you're in a country where fortified foods are available. Here in the US (I said I was Indian in an earlier post, but actually I'm Indian American) both meat eaters and vegetarians alike tend to get a lot of their nutrition from fortified foods like Cheerios, etc.
But, if you don't really know much about nutrition then I suppose it could be harder to get on without meat.