>want women to be my equal in a relationship
>tfw they are all only turned on by being dominated and submissive
this is why women love bad boys and rebel/treat nice guys like shit
Maybe we should just stop acknowledging females like that as human. Much easier abstraction. They act like animals, they get treated like animals. It sounds bad, but I hear that Woz's dog gets steak.
this post again
there are loads of women who want the "nice guy"
stop believing in this meme
those women are in denial, they are all genetically programmed to only be turned on and fall in love with men who dominate them and make them submit.
this is why they love 50 shades of grey, they will never like nice men for real unless we change their biology
Just because someone is dominant doesn't mean they aren't nice.
There's different types of dominance.
Whenever I hear someone complaining that women don't want the nice guy the nice guys is usually an autist who doesn't even talk to women.
girls are all attention whores and lazy cunts
"domination" to them is just when the guy is preferable to them in all ways already and thus feeds their ego and allows them to not have to do anything if he pursues takes control of everything for them
calling it "domination and submission" makes it sound like some niche fetish and not just what every lazy self centered entitled whore wants
so you want women to be dominated by their partners? Treat them like children? That seems to be what women desire giving their sexual interest in 50 shades of grey and other stuff. That's all I'm saying. They are vile little creatures who can never be a mans equal while she remains in that childish state of wanting a daddy/authority figure.
Like I just said there's different types of dominance. Just because someone might be dominant in bed doesn't mean they treat the female like a child in other parts of the relationship.
Women just don't want to date weak guys who are afraid to speak their mind. They want you to still be considerate but assertive also.
As a robot I find dealing with other robots annoying at times. Imagine how a normie must feel dealing with that shit.
>muh bedroom only dominance
nope women just say that to hide their true desire which is to have a ruler over their whole life. Why do you think divorce is so high? Why do you think women are constantly breaking up with their boyfriends but yet GO BACK to their abusers??
They love guys who act as an authority over them and punish them, they hate men who just want to be their equal and relax with.
Well most divorces are usually over because of lack of communication or money not because they want to be in an abusive relationship.
Also you've never been in an abusive relationship and it really does cause ptsd for some people so your opinion on that matter isn't relevant.
Being dominant doesn't mean you are abusive. It doesn't mean that you don't want to chill either. It just means you have a more assertive personality which women relate to being more masculine.
Women function differently than men. You can never expect for men and women to be the same.
Obviously acting like a man is attractive to females, but you can't really generalize. I've seen hot girls go for the most submissive bitchy guys. There's just no explanation for why girls do shit. We try to generalize their behavior with biology but then there's a million others that do the opposite. Just don't even try to understand it
My GF of four years is my equal in our relationship. She is not secretly craving Chad. I do not dominate her. I am not a bad boy or a rebel. I did not get incredibly lucky. My GF is not secretly a lizard person.
Bullshit. Utter bullshit. I find that most women I know appreciate decisiveness. There's a goddamn ocean between wanting to be dominated and appreciating somebody's quick decisions on where to eat and shit. Jesus christ.
found the butthurt roastie, just because I expose your vile gender don't get mad at the messanger
women initiate most divorces, their number one fantasy is rape, they love 50 shades of grey, they have low libidos with average nice guy men who respect them, etc etc
now fuck off and make me a sammich
>inb4 you come up with more bullshit excuses to convince yourself all women are shit and any man in a loving relationship is destined to be unhappy so it's OK that you're going to be lonely and miserable your entire life
>she's been fucking some guy behind your back the past year
Just wait for it man lol
I love naive fucks like you that try to act like special snowflakes. Just you fuckin wait. You'll eat the words you typed here tonight
You keep telling yourself that if it means you spend a little less time crying yourself to sleep every night, you pathetic fuck. You keep telling yourself that you know more about my GF than I do, even though you spend your life in Mommy's basement getting all your opinions from other lonely losers like yourself. It is absurd how confident you people are in your shitty theories about how the world works.
Oh man keep going. Screencap your posts for reference when you get shit on. Women doing shitty things isn't just fairytales anon. It happens to basically all of us, and it's most likely gonna happen to you. Just you wait.
>tfw no dominant motherly gf
fuck my life
>basically all of us
You shitheads just don't listen to reason. Respected, scientifically-minded organizations have done studies showing that the rate of cheating is 10-20%, with more men cheating than women. Loads of people with actual experience, who are in committed relationships and know people who are in committed relationships, come here and tell you that it is far from ubiquitous. But instead of listening to actual evidence, you keep believing in your fairy tale because it makes you MARGINALLY less miserable about your unfulfilled life. This board is the biggest case of sour grapes I have ever seen. You would rather listen to a bunch of bullshit theories by people who are too much of cowards to talk to women than listen to people with actual experience, or people who do actual studies, because you haven't had success with women, so women must not be worth it.
My GF is crazy about me. She is constantly seeking my affection. She is more invested in our relationship than I am, and I am very invested in it.
And, hey, you know what? Even if she was cheating on me - even if some man-child from 4chan somehow knew her better than I did, because his man-child buddies told him how ALL women operate, it would be alright, because I had good times with my current GF, and I could go and find another GF. I'd rather have a series of several-year-long happy relationships that ended badly than sit in Mommy's basement my entire life wishing anime was real.
so a person with a foot fetish wont get excited if a girl puts up her feet on a chair in the office? of course it bleeds over to ordinary life, because it's their general like
women who enjoy being subs in the bedroom are lying to themselves if they dont think those same masculine qualities will attract them no matter what the circumstance is
Women who are "dominant" in real life are delusional, and so are most people who believe in their legitemacy.
They simply replaced traditional family life, and a supporting husband, with a corporation and the government. Corps they work for and goavernment checks are their new dominant husbands, they just can't dick them yet.
lol it's true, if you don't want a man to boss you around so you go get a job where you get bossed around. The thing is women love it that's why they so often fuck their bosses. Why do they hate the idea of their boyfriend being their boss but have no issue with the government or workplace doing that?
Men get different things out of corps.
Women are still less likely to negotiate higher pay, or work for a harder roll. They just want the social aspect of belonging to a hierarchy and being bossed and provided for. They want a safe provider.
Women are much less visually oriented than men when it comes to arousal and being sexually submissive is not a visual fetish so much as a situational one with usually extremely unlikely scenarios, so I feel like the foot fetish is a poor comparison.
Even so, you would expect that person with the foot fetish to simply avert their eyes and control themself, focusing on the task at hand to make pragmatic decisions as an adult, wouldn't you?
im not saying nobody should have jobs, I'm saying anybody who says men being the boss of their wife is misogynistic is wrong, it's actually natural
if you only have one chick you have no room to talk like you know anything about human nature.
get back to me when you're fucking three plus females who all know about each other.
>but i would never allow it to escalate any further or result in domestic abuse
women actually think they can stop a motivated man from doing w h a t e v e r he wants.
lmao, the delusion
the only reason you haven't been raped 1000 times is the self-restraint of men. nobody's scared of you. be thankful
>this is why women love bad boys and rebel/treat nice guys like shit
Being submissive in bed doesn't necessarily imply being submissive IRL. "Dominant CEO who secretly sees dommes" is a stereotype for a reason.
so one or two ceo's like being sub and MILLIONS AND MILLIONS of women LOVE 50 shades of grey and have rape fantasises and say they secretly like the man to be in charge
anecdotes do not work
>so one or two ceo's like being sub
Nice made up numbers you got there. And you missed my point entirely.
All I said was that submissive in bed =/= submissive in life. At least not necessarily.
>and MILLIONS AND MILLIONS of women LOVE 50 shades of grey and have rape fantasises and say they secretly like the man to be in charge
How is this any less anecdotal once you look at it? 50 Shades was mainstream shit so of course lots of people read and "loved" it. Just as they loved Twilight before that and Harry Potter before that.
And if your reference were boards like /soc/ or sometimes /r9k/ you could also claim that almost all men dream of being a slave to some bully domme.
That being said: Yes, most women prefer the man to be "in charge" (for both social reasons and reasons of convenience in my experience).
so you accept most women like the man to be in charge? That implies they like being sub. It's hardwired into their nature, that's why feminism has lead women to being more miserable than ever. They have no libido around men who want to be their equal.
>so you accept most women like the man to be in charge?
I've met both types of women, but the majority yes.
>That implies they like being sub.
No. You go to 4chan. Does that imply you visit /b/ and like child porn?
>It's hardwired into their nature, that's why feminism has lead women to being more miserable than ever. They have no libido around men who want to be their equal.
Not even gonna comment on that. I can only tell you that I've seen otherwise.
actually doing it.
i keep women at a distance. Usually after I sleep with them they want to stay and be my girl, then I say "I don't really know you that well yet, plus i'm seeing other people."
most girls can't deal with that for long but some will stick with you regardless. Those are the ones I take care of.
if equality in relationships is so great where the man is not the boss, why are women so miserable and initiating so many divorces?
feminism told women a man being your boss is oppressive and slavish, but it's linked directly to their libido and happiness, that why women are all depressed and anxious these days
desu senpai a relationship with a woman is like training a dog
you need to establish yourself as the master. punish bad behaviour and reward good behaviour. the big misunderstanding is that punishing means abuse. that's a shitcunt way of doing it. you need to establish that your approval must be worked for and earned, this will sate her ego. if she behaves bad, withdraw your approval and attention. she'll need to behave properly to regain it. obviously all this needs a foundation of initial attraction, but this is they key to a relationship in which your desires are met. an 'equal relationship' is a cuckold relationship. fuck that shit.
Why do you keep strawmanning me?
I never said anything like that. Just stop trying to propagate your "redpill" bullshit. Yes, women in general like to have the man in charge, no, this does not imply any inferiority whatsoever.
Kind of a broad statement. I'll concede that our society clashes with our instinctual understanding of relationships, but we can no we must push forward for another century or two. By then we'll upload, and we won't care about society and biology conflicting anymore.
At least I goddamn hope so.
i didn't say it made women inferior, i said women desire their man to be their boss yet deny it to society because they dont want to look weak in the eyes of feminism or "intellectuals"
Which in turn would be perceived inferiority on their behalf.
This whole matter isn't black and white only. My gf for example is a feminist (though she's closer to egalitarism) and yet, 3rd wavers would probably strangle her for most of her views. And even though she's a "real" sub in the BDSM sense of the word, she's the one who's in charge most of the time at home (mainly I'm indifferent towards most matters).
And yes, blah blah anecdotal.