I did it, robros.
I faced my fears. I asked a random qt for her number so I could get to know her. She said she has a boyfriend, so I didn't get it but it feels good I conquered my fear. She was nice to me, she wasn't harsh about it.
I actually approached a Stacey :3
I'm moving up, guys, one step at a time.
you will get a number and not have the balls to text
you will set up a date and she will flake
no girls will stay for longer than the few minutes you meet at random, never to be seen again
fuck this world
>he fell for the cold approaching meme
Anon, this is not how people meet each other. They will all "have a boyfriend". Yeah you got to sack up and ask girls for their number but you also have to be somewhere where it's socially acceptable to talk to strangers (besides work), otherwise you'll end up another creep story. It's a delicate, vapid dance.
Go to bars when local bands are playing. Find people who are obviously friends with the performers, or the performers themselves. Ask them what time the set ends, who else is playing, some other trivial bullshit. After you strike up a somewhat long conversation, buy someone a beer. There you go. You have friends now.
you're a self-defeating fuck
this guy did a brave thing
good job, op
keep it up, you will make it!
fuck it, you are making it: don't view "it" as an ideal to reach, but a journey of self-improvement and growth
you can make it once you have a positive mindset free from misogyny and reeeeee
Asking girls out gives me this rush of adrenaline it feels amazing, I don't give a shit if they reject or not to be honest, I do it for the rush, makes me feel alive. I can only compare it to the rush I get when I get twist lines while skydiving or hitting 100mph on my bike, shit's amazing, I live for that feeling and I'll die chasing it.
sure, so don't cold approach
try and meet someone where you have common ground
>>26355278 is a fine idea, go and talk about music with people, maybe one of those people is a girl and you have similar taste, don't be a shitlord and you can probably make a friend
assuming you made a friend, see if this is a person you want to be around more than average, maybe they feel that way about you too
so find common ground, bb steps, don't feel entitled, don't assume people will feel the same way you do, and don't give up if they don't
alternately, if you don't care about music, then don't fucking pretend you do
it's so easy to tell when someone is bullshitting
there are girls who like the things you like too, if you want to meet them and befriend them you just have to be friendly and not a trash heap