>mom, I don't think I'll ever have kids. I gave up on women >>never say never, but k >dad, I don't think I'll ever have kids. I gave up on women >>k son, it's your life Who else /chillparents/ here? Greatest fucking feel on earth. Doesn't change the fact I'm a failure tho
>be with my dad at a bar >he's busting my ass saying having kids is a pain in the ass >i say i want no wife, no kids >old fat bar lady says with this stupid tone "well yeeeeahhpp, some people ARE that way, until they meet the right girl that is heheahae" >mfw
>>26328139 ohoh big sis, you don't have to be so sour. I'm sure that this year David will ask your hand, I mean you two are together since 2012, and now you turning 31... he would be an asshole if dumps you now for a younger woman..
My mom asked me if I planned on having kids with my current GF, I explained that given my long, constant battle with depression I didn't want too. I fear my kid would inherit my fucked emotions or that I would enter into a super deep depression while they were young and not be able to be a decent father.
She got real quiet for a bit, apologized to me but said she understood. Only time I think she ever appreciated how bad my depression has effected my life/life choices.
>>26327895 I will be entirely honest with you. I do not value women as humans in any way, and feel that relationships and marriage are entirely pointless. I hold it to be self evident that the only use that women possess is reproduction, and that even is limited, due to upcoming artificial womb technology.
>be 12 >mom says something about grandkids >tell her I have no intention of having children >she makes some sly arrogant smile and says "oh, THAT will change"
>be 15 >mom says something about grandkids >tell her I have no intention of having children >she makes some sly arrogant smile and says "oh, THAT will change"
>be 18 >mom says something about grandkids >tell her I have no intention of having children >she makes some sly arrogant smile and says "oh, THAT will change"
>be 21 >never had any sort of relationship or contact with a female at all >mom says something about grandkids >tell her I have no intention of having children >she is no longer smiling >she seems genuinely concerned >panicked, almost
I don't understand. Did she think I was joking all those years?
What really kills me is how she just arrogantly assumed that she would get a grandkid. She felt entitled, as if it was owed to her.
I've heard the same thing from other guys. Their moms don't seem to grasp that it's our decision to make, not theirs.
>She'll be out shopping >randomly call me on my cell >pick up thinking I'm going to once again be bitched at for something I didn't do >"Oh anon, I just talked to the prettiest girl! You would've loved her, she would've been perfect for you!" >hang up every time >mom gets home and just starts bitching about how disrespectful I am
Also; >me and mom will start talking about life and what I envision for my future >"Anon, I know you don't bring up getting a girlfriend or wife, but I see it in your future, I can't help it"
This psychic shit that women try to pull just makes me shake my head.
>>26329191 Man, fuck my dad and his extended family as well.
>longest time Dad would make gay jokes towards me, trying to egg me on >eventually just started ignoring him >I've never met my dad's extended family >dad gets invited to some shitty party, I say fuck it and go with him >get there, these strangers I've never known are all over me >my dad's friends are cracking gay jokes right off the bat due to my long hair and earrings >I guess what's supposed to be my aunt cracks a gay joke straight to my face "Anon, how come you didn't bring your partner to the party? Everyone else did" >Stone faced at this point >tell my dad I'm leaving >aunt tries to call me up later asking if I want to go out for coffee with her as an apology >tfw she died roughly 6 months after this happened
>oh one day you'll meet the right girl and she'll sweep you off your feet I don't get to fucking select a bride you fucking idiots. I always tell them she would have to like me too and they always say "well you're a handsome young man any girl would be lucky to have you" I'm a 5'3", 95lbs KV. I sure am a real fucking catch.
>"I really wish I could. But every woman I've ever had feelings for has never felt the same way about me. I'm always the friend, or ignored. My genes are clearly not worth saving. I'd rather die alone than bring into this world a child who would have to live the horror that I've dealt with."
If my parents want grandkids then they should've raised me properly rather than berating me in an undermining bipolar fashion that destroyed any self-esteem I may have once had. I'm a 25yo khv so hopefully they've figured out they ruined their own chances of carrying on the family line.
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