>>26326569 Either she has a better guy in mind or is testing to see how much attention she has over you. Don't reply till she does, see what happens. Generally if you don't reply in 48-72 hours she'll reply back, when she does be succinct and don't try to further any conversation till she starts it up again. If she still doesn't reply, you're done with her.
>>26326569 this reminds me of the time i had a girlfriend, except pictures kept going up on facebook of her being cosy around another guy on facebook, then she said we should break up, so i called and texted her and she didnt answer for hours, i asked her friend on facebook what she was doing and she was out with this guy and some friends, when she replied to me she said she was in the cinema and couldn't answer her phone which didn't make sense because a movie is 3hrs long max. good times...
>>26326734 Yeah, how well do you know the girl anyways? If you see her often enough and she doesn't reply to your text, she's not interested and you should just freeze the conversation with her to avoid being "creepy". Giver her some time to think about it the date you had with her, etc. She might contact you again after a while even if she's not interested in you, just to keep a connection so don't misinterpret that as interest. Good luck, anon.
>>26327907 it's probably a lost cause, but if you really want you could try one more time.
but don't text her some inane pointless retard shit like "hey wats up :PPPP". see if she wants to get together again, if she isn't receptive to the idea (says she is busy this week, etc.), forget about her.
>>26328015 Did you make any attempts to show you were interested? When I went on my first date I was cuddled with. He made his move on the first night. Some girls like assertive guys, who go for what they want.
Also its a real shame you feel like a cuck for paying for everything. You spent money to have an enjoyable evening. I don't like the way you phrased that at all. You sound like an asshole.
>>26327907 Ignore all the betas in the thread. Don't text her for a week MINIMUM. Go and enjoy your life in the mean time, go do something else, resist the urge to text her. Hell chat up some other girl while you wait.
You are over thinking the shit out of the texting game. She's either busy or doesn't like texting 24/7. Don't have actual conversations in text do it in real life. Look at this way, if she's the kind of person who is ALWAYS on her phone and texting someone, wouldn't you be uncomfortable sitting around her in real life while she does so?
all my real relationships have been through tinder. theyve both ended awfully. but, i did get laid/lose my virginity, so worth it i guess. it takes some work and practice to actually be able to get anyone to meet up. i say go for it.
>>26328223 No this is stupid advice. Do you think a girl would like it if the guy she was dating considered her a backup plan? How would you like it if you found out you were her back up plan. You wouldn't so stop this nonsense.
Wow, you fucked that up bad. Now she thinks you're desperate. Pack up and move on. Pray that she doesn't tell all her single friends about how much of a loser you are.
Next time, do NOT text after the date. Wait for at least a couple days. Say something like "that was fun, let's do it again some time". If she doesn't text you back, it's OVER. If she does text you back, set up your next date. That's ALL the texting you should be doing.
The fact that you started a conversation with this bitch makes her think that you have marriage plans in your mind. That instantly raises the CREEPER flag. Learn from your mistake and never do that shit again.
>>26328988 Confirmed for not knowing how women work. It's called pre-selection. She'll see that you also talk to other women, even if they are just friends and this will make her see you have value, consequently making her compete more to date you.
If you don't believe me just look at the hoards of fan girls at a Justin Bieber concert, they are literally only interested in him because other women are interested in him, it's a domino effect.
I even tested it myself on my first date the other week. Hanged out with her for a bit then met up with my friends from uni who majority happened to be women (due to my course). She saw all these women talking to me and they were also being wing-women for me. It works like a charm anon trust me.
>>26329373 It's not a complete deal breaker but it does more harm than good. Many textaholics feel the need to be always be texting, when in reality they don't. It's not needed because the guy literally just spent the whole night hanging out with her. If he texts immediately the next day she starts to think that he has nothing else going on his life, no job, no goals, no fun and is just sitting there thinking of her and wanting to text her. It's a turn off.
>>26329619 >Would a good looking guy be fucked if he pulled what OP did? Absolutely. Even if you looked like Channing Tatum, you're going to creep out a girl at least a little if you get clingy like that. >ugh he texted me right after our date, that's creepy af I wanted a date not a marriage proposal
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