>>26308083 >Do you deserve friends? I don't know if I deserve anything 2 bh ( to be desu) >Do you even want friends? I don't really look for them, but people seem to like me. I've gotten tired of people pretending to be nice to me though
>>26308512 >I guess I'm too nice >dontignoremeyourancidswine.jpg
There's always a reason why a person has no friends. For me, it's because I don't want friends. If you want friends but don't have any then it's your personality. Chances are you're either too shy or too annoying.
I get lonely sometimes I only have my bf to talk to He's been my only friend for years I wish I had friends, but I don't know how to talk to people The only reason I can talk to my boyfriend is because he doesn't judge me for how I talk or the stupid things I say I'm also very boring, never know what to say, and I don't really know how I can fix that I'm grateful I have my boyfriend, but I need friends I can joke about other things too...
>>26308083 Do you deserve friends? No because Im 2 lazy to put in the effort to make them/keep them. Do you even want friends? No, I can't be myself near other people because im not confortable with my physical appearance. Also 98% of people don't interest me and I rather be alone than being with someone I don't relate to/interests me.
>>26308632 no, I didnt mean nice as in a "nice guy" entitled to women, I'm legitimately nice to everyone, I just cant put myself as a priority. >Chances are you're either too shy or too annoying. a bit of both I guess, I take months to talk to someone, but when I do I cringe at what I said afterwards
>>26308083 >Do you deserve friends? Probably not. >Do you even want friends? There's part of me that would say no, and there's another part of me that desperately desires any kind of meaningful interaction with another human being.
>Who /lonely/ here? We'll post here to try to get a reply that the majority of us won't, so, yeah, I am lonely. I'm lonely. I'sadfgagsdfa
>>26308829 I like to talk about Pop music and celebs, and he listens to Indie music for one, there's no point in discussing Rihanna's new flop album if he doesn't care You sound upset that I have a boyfriend and you don't though
>do you want friends had friends in my 20s. i never maintain relationships however, and over time i eventually cut all contact. i honestly cannot say if it is worse now. i'd rather be happy with myself than be strung along as a back-up plan 3rd wheel option for others. i am happier alone. it's odd, but that's the truth.
>>26309013 Yes, that happens to people who don't make real friends and just think they're friends with those people/that person. Like I said, that whore is in relationship that is DOOMED TO FAIL. I will be here for the greentext about how sad her life is because her boyfriend left her.
If you don't even like the people you call friends then they aren't your friends and THAT is why you still feel lonely.
>>26309012 >strung along as a back-up plan 3rd wheel option for others. Fuck I am that right now. I wish I could just cut them and be happy alone but they are all I have.I have been alone for years so even being back up feels nice. God I am pathetic.
>>26309286 I am a failure in society, I've nearly dropped out of it if it weren't for me getting hired months ago. I went from school and sitting at home, to work and sitting at home. I do this same thing every single day. I am still tired. Sure I may have my own personal hobbies I do at home, sure I have my interests other than posting 4chan. But in the end I am laughing alone at my own jokes, talking to myself, and see no point in going outside anymore. I buy new nice clothes, I put them on, look in a mirror, and take them off. Those are my special occasions. The worst part is that I'm going to die this way. In a world full of at least 8 billion people, I won't have experienced what they have. But on the bright side it is my own life that I don't entirely hate, solitude is peaceful, it is the enemy called "loneliness" that tries to get you otherwise.
How many people will have lived a life like mine? I'm glad it's a life I can live in.
But do I deserve friends or not to be lonely, do I even deserve to live? Probably not.
>>26309416 Anybody who thinks they should die for being a virgin should die anyway. Why do these people need to continue living? The fact that you pretend to care about them just shows that you're a huge fucking normie.
>>26309413 If youre here you deserve to live. Fuck anything otherwise. >>26309448 You should actually kill yourself >>26309454 >>26309463 I hope youre trolling but for real there worse things you can do and deserve to die than to not do something and desrve to die.
Oh look, the idiot turns out to be a hypocrite. I didn't see that coming. It really doesn't matter what you want because I have no intention of killing myself whereas the people you don't want to die, do feel like killing themselves.
I dont want friends anymore, I want company because company doesnt judge. They come, they go, and it doesnt hurt on their way out. They are just replaced by newer company with different minds, or the same mindsets, or even better, none at all.
Fuck friends, they are wolves in sheeps clothing with fanged snakes for penises that wriggle into your eye sockets all the way into your heart so that when they are done, POP they rip your heart out and flaunt it so that you are even more injured than when they had originally found you out in the flock.
I'm not lonely though I live by myself and seldom go out on the weekends. I really do like talking to people. I have a large circle of friends and acquaintance but won't bother with either group unless repeatedly bugged to. I do have to start hanging out with my best friend again. He's a great guy and I don't want him feeling neglected.
when i think about my past i get sad. even when it is something that isnt sad. like its already over and there is nothing to look forward to. im tired all the time. sometimes if i feel like someone gets the hint im not very social it makes me kind of want friends but its fleeting. ive been alone in my room for so much of my life now i just dont feel any interest in doing anything else. i dont even own a car or know how to get one or can even afford one. i cant deal with going to a job in person. im just not that interested in most things and have lost all my old hobbies many years ago.
Pretty fucking lonely here. I'm currently at a house party, felt too out of place so I locked myself in the car to shitpost here. Talked briefly to a qt but couldn't keep conversation. These events only depress me further, I don't know why I keep coming along with my friends.
I haven't had friends since I was 8 years old. I had a couple friends who lived in my neighborhood, each a block away in either direction on the next streets over. We'd play together riding bikes or playing NES or screwing around outside like kids do. I usually wasn't the one to call them first, though. I don't remember much, but I do remember that awkward feeling when I'd call their houses. If I wasn't playing with them, my activities were mostly quiet and alone - reading, drawing, playing with toys like Transformers and Ninja Turtles by myself, watching cartoons.
Then When I was 8 years old we moved and I never made any new friends. I could talk and joke around with other kids, but once the school day ended I returned to my separate existence. We all got older and they moved on to dating and partying and the kinds of things that teens do. I still kept to myself drawing, reading comics and playing video games.
Now, I've been alone for so long I don't know anything else. All of my pursuits are solitary ones. I can't relate to people my age, or really anyone. I just feel awkward around people, like I have to pretend to be a functional human being. I don't think I'm even capable of having friends any more. I don't know what to say or what to do. At least when I'm alone I don't have to pretend.
>>26308083 >Do you deserve friends? Don't deserve my current ones and don't deserve any more, I'm self-centered, socially inept and lie to the point of being almost pathological. >Do you even want friends? Of course. I'm still an extrovert, just only a failed one.
>>26310676 It isn't impossible that a robot could've been invited to a party. Believe me when I say sitting alone outside of a raging party because of your complete and utter failure to socialize with others like a normal adult is a horrible, horrible experience. You really reach this new level of hatred for how different you have to be.
>>26310593 Just being at the part is step 1, and its a big step. You might feel hopelessly awkward and out of place in the moment, but you're taking the steps necessary to become more social. Note your errors and continue to build.
>>26310778 Talking to people is horrifying, and even when I have enough weed or alcohol in my system to get rid of the anxiety, the payoff is NEVER worth it. I've tried taking on every approach and attitude I can think of, but people are invariably repelled by me. There's nothing left for me to try.
I get lonely a lot. it's getting worse, too. I am lucky enough to have a brother who I can relate to but now even he has his own friends and I feel us growing more distant. I used to play WoW with a group of people but we've all grown apart, they now have gf's and no time for social gaming. High school friends are LONG gone, the only person I've had visit since getting my own apartment visited once for an hour and then she left. She's in art school and so obnoxiously normie I don't even speak with her on Facebook.
Complete Kissless virgin. And of course, I can't complain about that apparently since I'm gay, but no one understands that I don't want a quick fuck. I want someone to spend time with. But I'm so hopelessly clueless with picking up signals and definitely not flamboyant, trying to find a guy is just impossible outside of scummy dating apps.
I've just got my brother and my mom, and I don't know how much longer I can do that. I feel like I fit in when I keep people at a distance (like with my coworkers) but when I get close to someone I just completely lose interest. It's like I've learned to make people like me, but I never learned to like people. Fuck.
>>26313132 Seconding this question. I mean, there's getting a job but what if you work from home or with people who are nothing like you. Also, there's online gaming and online dating, but what if you don't play games all that well and don't get dates. I remember asking someone about how I can make friends and they suggested I go to meetup .com but I just browsed for a bit and couldn't really find anything I wanted to go to very much.
>>26308083 I'm further realizing that I'm only lonely when I'm among people I know. They're able to have relationships with others -- friendly or romantic -- that I just cannot replicate.
I went out tonight for a co-worker's birthday thing. It was him, his boyfriend, and these three girls they knew. I tried fitting in with them and I just couldn't. The best part of the night was the ten or so minutes I was alone at the bar, drinking and observing those I didn't know around me.
The idea of death being the ability to float around and observe everything going on is incredibly appearling.
>Do you deserve friends? No, I really don't. I don't even put the effort in anymore because it's impossible to fight autism. I'm also a hollow person who can barely think for himself. I shouldn't be putting people through my bullshit for my own selfish reasons.
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