>>26298684 Normie here, this is true. At worst you would just be a story that we told our friends, at best you remind us how fleeting life can be and we would finish our meal and fuck the rest of the night.
>>26298768 Just world fallacy is a defence mechanism that humans use. Pretty much if something bad happens to someone, people protect their ego by thinking if it happened, they must have deserved it, it was because of their mistakes or actions. They are thinking the world is just. While absolutely ignoring the many external factors that play a role. Because to accept that things are random and just happen, that's pretty scary to a normie, who got everything in life handed to them and thinks they deserve it. That is why normies are so afraid of cancer. Because it shows them just how unjust is the world.
>>26298819 i want proof that normies actually feel that
also the thing youre talking about is sheltered rich kids which isnt nearly the bulk of humanity. you sould like someone who had his ego shattered and is making swift generlizations. but if i were to believe that whole heartedly i too would make a swift generalization. but you really seem that way.
>>26298640 i'm going to a movie with this fat girl from ok cupid i had sex with. she's not so fat that i'm embaressed to be with her in public and her face looks alright from the front but the thing is she's hairy. you can't see it but she's prickly all over. i'm going to try to escape after valentines. i don't know how though. any advice?
>>26298640 And this "depressive and schizophrenic" bitch is gonna have the time of her life with Chad dick and beta gifts while I spend the day alone because otherwise I would be seen as an opressive male and generally a nuisance to the people around
qt weeb girl asked to be my valentine, and she keeps making jokes about us dating. I'm going to take her to this japanese arcade and we're buying each other chocolate and shes making me a card. She's really cheesy and cute. I feel bad because I don't know how I feel about her and I already have very strong feelings for one of my close guy friends
The bitchy intern that most of our coworkers hate asked me out. She never struck me as the type to take the initiative and it's weird because I'm 7 years older than her but she's pretty cute and we get along so it might be fun. I don't know what you're supposed to do on v-day though because I've never had a date on it before.
>>26298965 >Well I will gladly reffer you to the reference section on that wikipedia page. That should be enough to get you started. any more sources would be a appreciated
i shouldnt have said shattered ego let me rephrase myself. i see a lot of times people who have had troubled histories create egos that make them feel transcendent. that they are above the world. and because of that they are so vexed and angry with the rest of the world they create swift generalizations for everyone.
>>26299503 Well who doesn't. Truth is most people I know didn't get bullied as much as me, but still. It's not that rare. Also I kinda don't see what you mean by creating an ego. Maybe I'm just obtuse.
>>26299192 It's not the day itself, it's how other people react to the day. I'm not someone pursuing the dream of romance, I'm someone that's just gonna congratulate everyone that celebrates it and focus on whatever keeps me busy at the time. That said, those people are able to actually celebrate it. The part of me that's envious of them is envious because they have that reason for happiness, not where it came from. It seems nice, but it's not something everyone is meant to experience
>>26299551 >Well who doesn't a lot of people didnt get bullied even if they had a hard time fitting in. >It's not that rare. i never said it wasnt rare and i never said the transcendental ego wasnt rare. >Also I kinda don't see what you mean by creating an ego you made a swift generalization for regular people that barely applies to the world
The problem is you think being in a relationship means you are happy. Your purpose of life shouldn't be "getting a gf" because once you do you will only get short term happiness, but after a while you will feel the same like before or even worse actually.
Valentines day being a reason for happiness for fucks sake. Try to make you weird hobby/passion your actual job and then you will be truly happy, fuck everything else
>>26299867 You took it the wrong way. Valentine's isn't a reason people are happy, people can celebrate Valentine's because they're already happy. Nowhere did I say the purpose of my life was getting a girlfriend. If that was so, I wouldn't be congratulating them. If my purpose in life was getting a girlfriend, I wouldn't have given up on entertaining the thought of having a partner
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