>hot girl on facebook thinks I'm "Like, the funniest person I've ever met."
>tags me in a status asking if I want to do something this weekend
>know she's going to flake (she's done it to others in the past)
>know she's just toying with me for validation
>plan on turning down her offer
>want to do it in a way that makes her feel worthless
Let's be honest, few things piss off a Stacey more than getting rejected, especially by someone who isn't Chad. Any ideas on what I should say?
Find a way to do it on a platform where all her social media followers will see it but she can't erase it. Put her on blast for flaking on people in the past and she's only doing this for validation. After you come up with something don't respond to anything she says, it will be funny seeing the shoe on the other foot for her, I hope you post the results anon just don't sound too autistic in doing this.
Yeah, I was thinking about doing something along those lines, but I didn't want it to come across as bitter or "autistic" as 4chan loves to say. So far, what I had in mind was "Nah. Already made plans with someone who is guaranteed not to flake." But someone might have a better recommendation.
Don't mention the past. That's just giving her more ammo. Just turn her down in the briefest, most common way imaginable. Let's be honest here, she's a Stacy, you can't hurt her social status much because she's more valuable than you(socially). You can only hurt her. So just turn her down as if it's normal. As if not turning her down never even crossed your mind. That's the only thing you can do.
>>know she's going to flake (she's done it to others in the past)
>>know she's just toying with me for validation
Go somewhere or do something by yourself that you actually want to go to. Tell her you're doing that, and she can come if she wants. Go not expecting or caring whether she comes.
Maybe do all this in a public post so others can see you aren't a cuck too if that's possible, I don't know how facebook works.
it's pretty old britslang m8. flake = not turn up.
I agree a nonchalant "I'm not interested" will be the biggest blow to her self esteem. I still think it would be best to do it so all her social media followers can see it yet she can't erase it. Even if it doesn't hurt her social status much, maybe a few kids like you will see it and get a nice laugh at her getting turned down.
you guys really think she'll give a shit if she gets "turned down"?
she'll probably just be "ewww I was just kidding anyway lol XD"
the only way you win is if you truly don't care, which you obviously do. You already lost m8.
well if you want to open eyes I would still say try not to appear the cunt yourself. Saying you got something else to do (perhaps something trivial that could easily not be done) rather than just "not interested" which might look rude to others.
>I've got (some trivial bullshit) to do
is the typical disinterested female response anyway
>boy chats with girl in private chat
>girl asks boy on a date on a public site
>boy respond with "With you? LOL hell no xDD"
Point is, if I am not mistaken not many people know that the two are talking in PC, which makes it even more of a shock since nobody knows he has been kind to her in the first place, making her sound even more desperate. My preferred approach, please deliver OP.
These guys are all correct. If you say anything more than a casual "no thanks" she will just say you're an asshole, autist etc. If you just casually reject her it'll show you don't even give enough of a fuck about her to provide a reason. It'll shatter her ego
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Brief, dismissive. You could even add some lame excuse that everyone knows is bullshit. Girls use "washing my hair" pretty often, but I'm sure there's a male equivalent.
This. Exactly this. with a
Be there by whatevertime sharp, or i'll assume you're not showing up.
...like what happened to Jarrod, and mike, and Kyle, and <list every person she's flaked>
"no thanks I'm good"
this is the perfectly engineered response to make her suffer in agony
she will keep on thinking about what you meant when you said that you're "good"
do you think she's unworthy? do you think that she's that much of an unpleasant person to be around?
these thoughts will keep running through her head because she probably really cares about her ego and putting others down to lift herself up
you will basically be shooting her down with a shotgun as if she was just game, which will absolutely destroy her from the inside out
all of this coupled with the nonchalant "no thanks" which is not vindictive in nature, but instead shows that you just don't want to go to a place with her will make her crumble
Do you actually think she's gonna give it that much thought? Response would work fine though.
If you're looking to flame her, "Sorry, not interested" would work fine and make you look polite