I have a date with a girl from Tinder in three hours. She is a literal 4/10, and I am a 7-8/10 according to friends, /r9k/, /soc/, random girls I've met, and my own honest opinion.
This would be my first date ever, as well as my first gf if it goes further. I also would lose my virginity if I fucked her. I feel like I deserve a better looking girl, but I dont have the social skills to get one currently.
I would feel like a piece of shit being seen with a girl who I do not feel is very good looking. It'd make me look and feel like a bitch.
Should I go through with this or not?
Explain it to me anon. How would it be shitty for her?
>That's your whole plan.
More like my friend's plan. I dont even know what to do during the date anyways. Sit and talk in the student union? Take her somewhere in this boring town when I barely have money as a student?
At least she thinks you're good enough to go out on a date with REEEEE
At least she's not a land whale and if she is I hope you'll at least bring a harpoon with you.
It's not all about looks you also have to account for personality. A lot of stacies have the personality of a fucking doorknob. Would you prefer that over someone you can actually have a meaningful conversation with?
>Would you prefer that over someone you can actually have a meaningful conversation with?
Probably. Women aren't that great to talk to anyways
>Most of my Tinder dates turn out to be abysmal failures and I never hear anything from the girl again
Let's hope that's what happens if I do go through with it.
This is her btw
Let me know what you think
My Tinder date tonight looks better
I'm in a similar situation.
She was aggressive in talking to me because she is lonely and thinks I am attractive.
She sends me naughty pics and wants to fuck me, so I was cool with texting her. But now she is starting to send more bf/gf type texts like "how is your day going".
She is like a 7 personality wise, kinda funny, but like a 4 physically. I'm kind of the reverse of her, 5 personality 8 looks.
I'm debating about whether or not to meet up with her because I have a penis and my biological imperative to procreate is telling me to do it, but my brain says she is using sex to bait me into a relationship I don't really want long term.
Will you feel like shit being seen with her though? I care a lot about what others think and she lives on campus. I can't just bail out of this because I could see her again anyways.
maybe she does but life isnt fair and people choose partners for arbitrary reasons all the time, like that black girl I saw the other day who said she only dates white men.
I can at least try
She looks like she has a decent body. If she had long hair she'd actually be presentable.
You should get her to grow her hair out, and practice gf her for a few months.
Yea, it might suck. But the experience you'll get from it will be really helpful.
I know you're right, but what about my parents? I dont want them to see their son's first gf and think she's ugly. It'd devastate them
I have to at least meet her today though to be courteous, but I'm hoping I'm wrong about that
If OP is actually a 7-8/10, giving him the benefit of the doubt, he should be with a girl better than a 4/10 no matter how shitty of a person he is.
If his social skills cant facilitate a date with a qt then the only way to get enough EXP to romance an actual hottie, is to practice with this girl and get good at it/comfortable with the idea of dating someone.
This is how it works for all men, he's just late to the party
OP again, what should I do for the date? I'm meeting her in the campus dining hall.
She's not that ugly mate. I wouldn't feel that embarrassed, she has a nice body, and is kind of cute. Her face is a little round, but that's about it, and even that is not that bad. I honestly doubt you are that much better looking. If I were you I would date her and not feel awkward about it. If you don't feel awkward about it no one else will either.
John Cena loves to fuck fat chicks and doesn't apologize about it, and people don't care. Usher was dating a chick that looked kind of like a man, no one cares. And Usher is like the catch of all catches.
We all love to think that people care about what we do, they don't give a shit about you. They will care much much much more if she is a bitch/cunt.
If she is cool to be around, then fucking go for it. Honestly she will probably dump you in the end after she finds out you're not a match for her personality wise. Then you will be thinking about how awesome the sex was and how she was cool with watching nerdy sci fi shit
Where you go to school OP? Just play it cool and ask her questions about herself and stuff. It'll probably be a little awkward for both of you but if you be interested it'll be ok
>She's not that ugly mate
>she's not tooo~ ugly
If I were OP I'd deck you m8.
OP DONT FUCKING DO IT. IF YOU THINK YOU DESERVE BETTER THEN TRY TO GET BETTER GAME AND DO THAT
Are you blind? Look at her jowls. They make her look old. Her hair is fucked and her collarbone is too wide
He'd be a cuck to go through with this
It's his first date. I was the same way. When you're over 18 and haven't fucked or dated before you want your first girl to prove to you that you can do what Chad does. Starting with an uggo isnt helping anyone
I agree but you sounded autistic when you mentioned the collarbone
Grab a bite to eat and suggest going for a walk (if the weather's nice where you are)
It'll be a good change of scenery and it could also lead to you walking her back to your place
>go to dining hall with laptop
>have her meet you at your table
>this will minimize your shaking and nervousness
>talk to her
>if you aren't funny or witty, tell her interesting things you did
>if you aren't interesting, bank on her shit
Then take >>26274280 advice and walk around with her (wear a coat pussy). Since you live on campus, then maybe she does. Walk to her place, and ask to watch one of her stupid movies.
You know she is attracted to you since you matched on Tinder, so you're free to start touching her. When she giggles start kissing her, then your natural instincts will lead to fucking.
After that you can bail or keep dating her for practice.
>what to do
What to do is to go on this date and not think about it. You only hurt yourself by thinking. There is thinking, and then there is living. You need less thinking and more living.
I forgot I was a footfag. I guess I could get some foot action out of this, and since I'm new to campus no one I know will see me anyways.
I'm gonna go clean out my car. be back in 20
Just talk to her. If a lull happens, make a comment on something going on around you that may be interesting.
For the love of god don't make negative remarks about the current events either, I don't want to see a thread in 2 days about how all you did was talk shit about everything and then wonder where it all went wrong.
Ok. I'll be posting a new thread with this image and this trip if anything happens to this thread
Oh well, there will probably be others. Use the fact that you didn't really want to go out with her but were going to anyway as motivation next time you feel like not going on a date. A nut is a nut nigga.
she literally implied she was "homesick" but then she says "No I'm at home sick"
So now I look like a fucking idiot. So I just told her that's a bummer. I'm not going to message her again.
>tfw casually chatting with this goddess on Tinder
I didn't expect anything, I was hoping to christ she flaked on me since this would have been a disaster.
>Hows it feel knowing she is having 'casual chats' with about 30+ other men at the same time?
I mean I don't have any real expectations of it working out but it can't hurt to try.
It's not ironic. It's fate telling me that I belong with a more attractive woman because I too am attractive and Staceys are always nice to me anyways.
I'll continue improving myself and get the qt I deserve
lol I was already on the fence with her so why would I willingly date someone worse looking? You also need to chill, there are way more "arrogant" guys than me. Also women like arrogance anyways.
Did you ever have a woman this pretty? How attractive are you? because if you don't stand a chance then there's no point in talking to her you're only boosting her self-esteem and thus hurting others in the long run
I'm moderately attractive but I found out she's actually only 17 (18 in a few weeks) while I'm 24. So maybe the fact I'm older than her peers will give me a better chance. But even if there's only a 2% of meeting her it's worth it
I am 7-8/10 too and i want to tell you this - You decided well... You can do better for that first time! Later with some experiance you can fuck those low tier girls and don't care, but your first time try definitely some better and put some standard or you may regret...
This is why you queerbots will never be Bigguns McSwag. Any hole is a goal, faggots. 4/10s fuck like demons and are grateful for it when you shoot it in their eye. You don't have to marry a bitch, just fuck her on the D/L.
Seriously, life is too fucking short. Get ad much pussy as you can. Fat, slim, ugly, hot, it's all the same.
Nigger where do you think we are? The face of god almighty could pop up in front of my fucking monitor and my autism would find some wrong shit.
Fool I find flaws in diamonds on a daily.