>be in 3rd day of class in uni >teacher asks who wants to comment about the topic >some guy lifts his hand and start talking >I think I should take advantage that no one knows me and try and be more outgoing from the start >simply *decide* Im going to talk next >I havent even lifted my hand or made known I want to speak next but just deciding Im going to gets my anxiety going >heart racing, sweating, breathing heavily >teacher lets no one else speak and continues his lecture >my hand is shaking so much I cant even write afterwards I'm fucked for good aint I
>>26273094 Sorry to break it for ya, but yes, you're fucked. This always happens to me too. Even thinking of talking in class makes me dizzy, my heart's racing and my hands are shaking. Second year in uni now, I know no one in class, never talk to anyone and mostly don't even g to classes. Be careful not to end up like this, anon.
>>26273469 It's better that way. If you can skip classes, that's all you're going to do (that's what I do ;_;). It's better to be forced to go to classes, cause otherwise you're more prone to giving up on uni. Good luck, anon. I hope it works better for you.
>>26272834 Social anxiety is a meme disorder. It's not even a disorder. Normalfags created this to appear "quirky" and "weird XD". Neither women nor men have social anxiety. Getting a bit stressed over something isn't "social anxiety". It's a normal reaction.
However, women can have actual disorders, like Avoidant Personality Disorder, which is a bit similar to what normalfags call "social anxiety", only worse.
>>26273829 This is a load of crap. I had agoraphobia for two years, and I got my shit together to a degree and went back to college, but I have stupid amounts of social anxiety. Every time I talk to someone I panic internally in case what I'm saying is stupid. I obsess over every instance of me saying dumb stuff. One time I was sitting with some people from a class and I stuttered when trying to say something. I went home and dwelled on that for hours, convinced they wouldn't talk to me again. Which was stupid - they don't give a fuck and still talk to me. I can get utterly paranoid.
I can't approach strangers. A group of us had to survey people for a project and I had to let other people do the legwork of going up to strangers and talking to them because I couldn't bring myself to do it. I hung nearby, feeling weird second-hand anxiety. It wasn't me doing the approaching but I still dreaded the stranger's response.
So yeah, it's real. I don't even have it that bad, because I manage to (mostly) function, and it's more of an internal struggle. Lots of people can't function with it.
>>26276287 Did I say that men can't have it? Are you reading me or what? I'm just saying that what normies call "social anxiety" is nothing more than being a bit worried about normal things. If you actually have a problem, it's not "hurr durr social anxiety".
>>26272834 Yes. I've struggled with social anxiety since 6th grade. It used to be so bad that I wouldn't be able to speak in public at all and I just never talked to anyone outside of my family. If the teacher called on me in class, I physically couldn't bring myself to say anything. I'd just freeze up and cry. People knew me as 'that weird girl that never talks' so I never really had any friends. And I've never been approached by any guys because of all the negative stigma attached to me. I went to a year of regular high school and couldn't handle it so I switched to homeschool and became agoraphobic. I'm in college now and no one tries to talk to me or anything so my anxiety isn't as bad, but I still have panic attacks every day I'm there.
>>26272834 used to hang out with this bitch who would have panic attacks every other day for whatever reason she could come up with at the time. worse part is the attacks were legit, most of the time I was able to calm her down but we had to rush her to a hospital twice.
>guys im one of you i swear, stop being losers virgins XDD
Not falling for it you slutty cum rag.
Even if you werent lying, 40 year olds have no conception of what its like growing up as a millenial male. They'd kill themselves if they saw and experienced the vile shit our generation of women are capable of.
>>26279302 I'm not one of you, but hey >40 year olds have no conception of what its like growing up as a millenial male. They'd kill themselves if they saw and experienced the vile shit our generation of women are capable of. you seriously think your generation has it somewhat extraordinary hard? You're way more delusional than I thought. The best thing however is that in a few years a nice girl will save you from your pathetic life. I don't even grudge you that
>>26279631 You really live in this r9k meme world. Fascinating. But you'll grow out of it most likely
>>implying a self-proclaimed 40yr old wizard knows anything about when a woman comes in to your life I can tell you this: everyone, really everyone will get his chance (sooner or later). You have just to take it
>>26279679 >>26279914 This guy, once the admin of wizardchan, who said the very same things you say (women! society! hurr durr) now has a sex life, thanks to internet. You'll get laid too some day, if you want, because thanks to social media it was never as easy as it is today to get laid
same as what everyone has already said. only thing stopping you from fucking a pretty girl is you. >be me >social anxiety >go on local chat sites >talk to people around my city >they all want to meet >i always just delete account and lose all contact. ive already lost count how many women have given me naked pics (without me even asking) and i just e-run away
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