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Are female virgins considered as weird as male virgins?
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>>26248671
no
a male virgin can't get any fucking looser
a female virgin is pure
>inb4 only applies to hot grils
fuck off
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>>26248671
There's a different cutoff point, but yes.

>Male (it's okay to be a virgin between)
13-18
It gets a little weird after this point.
19-22+
There is no hope for you.
25+
>Female
13-24
It gets a little weird after this point.
25+

For guys being a virgin is weird because you can't get anyone. For women, being a virgin at 25 means nobody wants you, IE there is something wrong with you.
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>>26248751
WTF is this a roastie posting? Virgin women are angels and aren't weird, you're fucking stupid no one thinks badly of a female virgin EXCEPT people who are trying to fuck her and don't want a prude. Meaning the only people who look down on it, are people who she wouldn't want to be with anyway.
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>>26248939
OP is asking for the opinions of normies, not about your preferences.
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>>26248939
>WTF is this a roastie posting?
For one I'm a man.

You obviously didn't read my post did you? I said virgin women are fine. UNTIL a certain point, 25+ where everyone expects them to be in a secure relationship, and be popping out babies.
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>>26248970
Plenty of normies want virgins, you never asked anyones opinion before I'm guessing?

If a guy just wants a ONS from a woman or a FWB, it's better she's a slut so she'll actually put out.

Although at least 90% of the guys I ask want a virgin or low partner count woman for marriage.

People who want roasties are the weird ones.
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>>26248671
Female virgins are considered weird if they lack social skills but male virgins even with best social skills are considered undesirable after 17-18 years old. If male virgin is fairly attractive but not Chad he can diffuse the situation by saying "I didnt had time in uni because i was focusing on learning" but after uni it's dead end for males.
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>>26248976
> no one expects them to be popping out babies in 2016.
> most people expect them to still be slooting around.
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>>26248939
>Virgin women are angels and aren't weird
You really need to get out more. If a woman is around 25 and hasn't lost her virginity, people will assume there's something wrong with her. They'll think she's crazy or weird. I know a girl who is a 27 year old virgin, normies don't like girls being virgins that long. Normies don't even like virgins because they're bad for sex and generally awkward people. The difference is, they'll cheer for a woman being a virgin and applaud it for so long but there is a point where there's a cutoff date and they consider it creepy. But this r9k where people know jack shit about real life and instead just live in their own bubble.
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>>26249011
> no one expects them to be popping out babies in 2016.
Their mothers do. And they pressure them to have children and get married.
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>>26248939
>Virgin women are angels and aren't weird
Haha

They're as autistic as you, anon.
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>>26248671
asl?

hurr durr comment
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>>26249007
>considered undesirable after 17-18 years old.
Is this bait? In what fucking country? People in the US lose their virginity usually around 19. Unless you live in Iceland where people are fucking around 14, then you're full of shit.
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>>26248671
Why would you even ask that, silly girl, you already know the answer
This is what pops up in the minds of people when you say "virgin girl"
When you say "virgin man" they think of a fat, hairy, ugly, balding 30-40 year old
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>>26248671
Not in the slightest.

original comment
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>>26249078
>comparing "girl" with "man"
>expecting them not to be hugely different
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>>26248751

Female Virgins = Desirable

Male Virgins = Involuntarily Virgin, Ugly, Undesirable
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I'm a 26 year old virgin girl.

My dad said a guy out there will think I'm special because I saved it. I-Its true right?
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>>26249078
>This is what pops up in the minds of people when you say "virgin girl"
No, that is what pops in my mind when I think 'slut trying to look pure but isn't'. When people think of female virgin, they think some greasy woman with lots of cats.
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>>26249078

I WANNA SEE HER BLACKED
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At worst they're considered prudes. They may be bullied about it among other girls. But its not as bad for them as it is for guys. Guys will get viewed as inferior by both genders, while girls get viewed as inferior by only one
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>>26249070
Not entirely true, it's 17, more or less:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adolescent_sexuality_in_the_United_States#Sexual_activity

But otherwise I agree, being a virgin doesn't get weird until you hit 20, possibly even later than that in some places.
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>does the sky appear blue from sea level during a clear afternoon near the equator
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>>26249070
>US lose their virginity usually around 19
not in working class areas or ghettos. Maybe in your bourgeoisie upper middle class gated community. where i grew up most girls had taken dick by the time they where 15
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>>26249105

>He told his dad hes a virgin
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>>26249104
Again you're not reading the actual post. Virgin women are desirable UP TO the cutoff point where it gets weird.
>>26249105
No, it means nobody stuck around long enough to take it.
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>>26249070
Normies lose their virginity in 16-18 age gap, beyond that you're either lose it in some drunk party with the ugliest girl or stay wizard. Girls can literally see if you're inexperienced in mere seconds.
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>>26249105
If you find someone like the guys in this thread, yes. If it's a well-adjusted man of your age, just don't bring it up until he asks.
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>>26249104
>Female Virgins = Desirable
Again, r9k shows it's ignorance. People don't like virgins, ever. People will say they like female virgins but they wouldn't date one. Just because YOU would doesn't mean others would. Normal people see virgins as awkward, socially inept and bad at sex. Just because you want a pure waifu doesn't mean most people do.
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>>26249151
Most people don't mind if the girl is a virgin unless she's super old for being one. Some even prefer it. Not so much for guys. Guys who are good with win and get lots of girls are sexually attractive. Guys who have a ton of sex (without help of a hooker/escort) are considered very attractive. Girls are judge for having lots of sex. Guys are judged for having little to no sex.
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>>26249105
I don't feel it effects your desirability. I would think it was weird, my first thought would be "Why?" not "Eww".

I don't know how much stock you want to put in my opinion though, people around here call me a normie but I'm not sure true normies would agree.
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>>26249132
Why wouldn't a girl tell her dad shes a virgin? Dads don't want to hear that their daughters suck cock, they want to be reassured that their princess is pure.
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How much will autism hurt my chances with a boy?
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>>26249180
>I would think it was weird, my first thought would be "Why?" not "Eww".
It's the implications of the "Why?" that matter. Also, a lot of people would be afraid of her getting too attached.
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>>26249210
Unless your autism makes you fucking disgusting, not much. Girls can get by with a lot of shit that would make a guy unattractive
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>>26249174
Unless you're religious, you're going to get shit on for being a virgin past around 21ish. Girls can go longer without getting shit for being a virgin, but around 25 it gets weird no matter what. After all, why would a woman be a virgin at that age? If she's saving herself for someone, why hasn't she found someone? What's wrong with her that people wouldn't want to be with her? Female virgins are weird in normal society, there's no doubt about this whether you believe it or not, the question is when it gets weird, which is different for everybody.
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>>26248751
>nothing wrong with me
>more hygenic than your average roastie
>very articulate and well rounded
>men would rather date a non virgin dirty thing wearing thot who's loud and stupid after 25
I don't get it man. People are fucking nasty.
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>>26249181
Not when she's 27. Most parents want grandchildren.
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>>26249105
>I-Its true right?
Roman Catholic that would actually be glad you saved it here.
No it's not true. Most people are going to wonder why you haven't had sex, and unless you have a legitimate excuse (illness, religion, etc.) people are going to think there's something wrong with you.
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>>26249273
Maybe it's your big head.
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>>26249273
>nothing wrong with me
Then why are you a virgin? I don't mean that in a derogatory way
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>>26249210
Not at all. Be my girlfriend.
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>>26249210
It depends how bad it is, my girlfriend is autistic and most guys would not tolerate her, but I'm also autistic so it's fine.

>>26249241
The only implications of the why are:

Most people enjoy sex
Most women have the ability to get sex

so when I hear about a woman who hasn't had sex, I wonder what's up.
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>>26249181

nvm, i thought you were a dude
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>>26249332
>my girlfriend is autistic
In what way? Any unusual habits?
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probably in real life by this stage, I have seen a video of some "sex blogger" defending having HPV by saying everyone in her city had it and you don't have a life if you don't have it

thankfully I spend all day on 4chan so feel good about being a 25 year old KV
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>>26249210
It won't for the most part
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>>26249380
She's got a bunch of associated stuff, it's not all autism related, some of it is technically other conditions.

Strange interests
She collects the bones, skins and other parts of dead animals and does taxidermy, just earlier she was showing me a severed fox face she got a present.

Selective mutism
She's never spoken to my family, we've been on holiday with her and she never said more than one word at a time to them.

Anxiety disorder
She has panic attacks sometimes if we say try to go to parties, frets constantly about everything.

Asexual
She's repulsed by sexual organs, sexual activity and all things sexual in addition to just having no sexual attraction or arousal. This is probably the biggest dealbreaker for other people.
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>>26248993
Only a fucking man-child cares about virginity. Why the fuck are you obsessed with if a dick has been in her pussy? Are you that much of an insecure faggot?
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>>26249181
He was implying you are a guy.. Fucking newfag, learn the ropes before you post.
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>>26249705
You don't really need to ask that.
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>>26249705
Because sex isn't "just sex"
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>>26248751
What's your opinion on non-gay males who have rejected dozens of women or on males who have fucked 200+ women before their 22st birthday?
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>>26249761
It really doesn't matter how many guys a woman's been with if you like her. Honestly, since when did anyone fall in love with a girl AFTER they found out she's a virgin? You are basically falling in love with her virginity, not her, what a dumb ass thing to say.

It's really sad that anyone would care so much about it that they suddenly stop loving someone.
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Mostly by other women, yes.
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>>26249974
Women who've had sex with other men can't properly pair bond
This is a scientific fact Now fuck off
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>>26249513

Just out of curiosity, what does she look like? Is she pretty?
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>>26250007
There's a very good chance your mother wasn't a virgin when she met your father.

Though maybe that would explain some things.
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>>26250059
Come back when you can make a legitimate argument
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>>26250018
I can't tell myself, it's been 4 years, I think she just looks like herself to me. I think she's slightly above average but not a lot.

I asked two people quite recently and they both independently gave me 8/10, which I don't buy... My friends rate her at like a 6 or a 7.
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>>26250086
>implying you actually have an argument
If your parents are still married you've already been shown to be wrong. If they're not then ha
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>>26249974
cvck

orgnl
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>>26250007
>confusing correlation with causation

Even your precious chart says that there are women with 21+ partners with stable marriages, you just have to, shock horror, be a good judge of character when getting married.
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>>26250202
>he fell for the correlation is meaningless meme
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>>26250243
Not as bad as falling for the misleading graphs from a biased source based on a fucking self-reported study, at least. As though these women are going to tell these people how many men they actually slept with and report unhappiness when they're in a long term marriage.
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>>26249308
I have Aspergers and have a hard time forming connections with others. Usually I talk and the interaction gets nowhere or I probably can't read social ques.

I've only been asked out on a date once in my life. When he first asked me I thought he was saying if I wanted to head to the mall to shop or something. He was actually asking me to be his gf. I only figured it out after he started crying and slowly distanced myself because I didn't know how to remedy the situation.
A few weeks later he found a gf. I didn't like him anyways but If people were subtly asking me out throughout the years I never noticed or understood until it was said in literal terms and far too late.
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>>26249974
It does to me actually
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>>26250243

let me educate you with where I get all my info from

http://www.buzzfeed.com/kjh2110/the-10-most-bizarre-correlations
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>>26250007
That chart is fucking retarded. They define "stable marriage" as lasting for >5 years yet ignore the correlation between having fewer partners at age 30 and marrying young.
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>>26249070
>People in the US lose their virginity usually around 19.
you cant make this up
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>giving a shit about virginity
Though I have to admit it would bug the everliving hell out of me to think of how many cocks a girl has sucked. That's a lot more demeaning from my point of view.

Of course, >being in a relationship
You stand to lose so much more than if you fly solo. And that's not relationships just in general, that's based on the new standards set forth by relationships as they are today. It's definitely not for everyone, least of all those with even the slightest insecurity about their virginity, but doing the MGTOW shit sounds a hell of a lot nicer than getting pussy whipped and then shooting yourself in the head for being a complete retard after she takes everything she possibly can from you.

That's only a half bitter perspective, though. You can look around and verify this shit yourself considering everyone is inexplicably compelled to make their personal failings known to all the world. Thank God for social media, right?

If you want the shorter and possibly less autistic point, then here it is: I'd much rather be happy and successful on my own, than go and make a massive emotional and financial commitment to someone who can--whenever and for whatever reason--fuck me ass backwards with a smile on their face.
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>>26249769
>What's your opinion on non-gay males who have rejected dozens of women
It's their own choice. The thing is with the majority of male virgins, it's outside of their control. If it's obvious it's through choice, it doesn't matter.
>Males who have fucked 200+ women before their 22st birthday?
Slut.

>>26250303
Fair enough. Hope you get through it anon, if it's your desire.
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>>26248671
Are the most desirable women considered weird? Not on planet earth sir.
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>>26249151
>People don't like virgins, ever.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, WEWLAD
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/08/16/AR2010081602839.html
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>>26249705
>>26249974
Of course it matters.


Marriage and family related materials.
Links
http://www.medicaldaily.com/ignorance-bliss-when-it-comes-marriage-fewer-partners-youve-had-more-likely-your-298752
http://socialpathology.blogspot.com.au/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html
http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2012/08/more-promiscuity-data.html

http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2012/07/single_motherhood_worse_for_children_.html
psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/03/22/how-common-is-cheating-infidelity-really/
www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/unmarried-childbearing.htm
http://www.nytimes.com/2014/02/09/magazine/does-a-more-equal-marriage-mean-less-sex.html?_r=1


PDFS
http://nationalmarriageproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/NMP-BeforeIDoReport-Final.pdf
http://www.asanet.org/journals/ASR/Feb13ASRFeature.pdf
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_23/sr23_028.pdf
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr036.pdf
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I'm 28 and I haven't lost my virginity. Waiting for my conservative cool hubby to swoop in and take me away.

In my dreams.
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>>26249070
>19
naw not where i live
>>26249144
16-18 more like 14-17
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>tfw Scotland
We have no female virgins here
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>>26249974
>It really doesn't matter how many guys a woman's been with if you like her.

Not to objectify women, but let's use analogy:

>Find a nice pair of nikes
>You'd wear the shit out of those nikes for 5-10+ years
>Suddenly you learn there are jizz stains inside those nikes
>You still like them but you're conflicted because jizz stains in new nikes

essentially.
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>>26253826

How many people know, if any? Have you ever gotten treated like a weirdo because of it?
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>>26253826
NEET? of course this comment isn't original
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>>26253826
>Waiting for my conservative cool hubby to swoop in and take me away.
24yo virgin and iktf
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>>26252992
>wanting a virgin wife is high expectations
truly a degenerate time
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Where do I find these 20-30yo virgins that claim to exist
How would i go about meeting one
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>>26254696
>>26253826

What would you guys do if you got attacked by Rapefugees?
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>>26254785
abdullah wants to rape blonde white staceys, not ugly black chicks. i'm safe.
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>>26248671
I'm 18 and I doubt there is a single female virgin in my year. I can verify that I'm not the only male virgin if you dont count blow jobs
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>>26254805
This is sad but funny, is that you bebe?
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I don't like to admit it, but I would really prefer a virgin. You can call me an insecure faggot if you want because it's probably true but I'm not looking to lick up Chad's sloppy seconds. I guess fuck me for being a little picky
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>>26254805
>abdullah wants to rape blonde white staceys, not ugly black chicks. i'm safe.

I'm white and this shit's funny as fuck.

They'd still rape you anyways. Kuffir pussy is Kuffir pussy to a Muslim
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virgin women have literal worth equivalent to currency
virgin men is seen as a waste or inferior by most people and society around the world
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>>26248939
wtf is this nonsense

Sure every dude in the world would like to think they're the first one to be inside their GF and so every guy is going to find that kind of appealing but even if that is a good thing to them they're still likely to think a girl is a fucking freak, crazy or that there's something wrong with her if she's even 20+ desu and still a virgin
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>>26250113
late so I know you're probably not still here, but I've not really heard someone in a relationship say that kind of stuff before. do you still personally think of her as attracted and you're just thinking objectively here?

what you said just kind of scared me a lot. going to hit our third anniversary soon and i feel like my partner has probably lost interest in me now. i know he was sharing images of me getting ratings and i can't figure out if it was because he just wanted something objective (why???) or if wanted to brag or i don't even know.
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>tfw no 14yo gf
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