>my friends are all having babies
>they're so tiny and cute
>i want one to hold and take care of
>instead im sitting at home wasting my life on r9k
A failed normie would like to do normie stuff(like going clubbing, watching sports, having the "right cloths" and shit like that), but he fails at it, while the robot doesn't give a shit about doing normie stuff, he hates the society and doesn' want to fit in, at lest for the "fake social" part.
The only thing in common is that both would like a gf and/or friends(but not a normie one if robot). BUT, a robot can't have it while the failed normie can have occasional sex once in a while or few friends.