feeling completely alone and no one cares about me, i fell asleep last night crying and woke up crying, now im crying again and im still alone.I just want someone nice and caring to be with me is that too much to ask?
or am i doomed to just be alone forever?
yeah i tell myself that every day
because i have no friends and my only human interaction is steam and skype, i havent left the house in 3 weeks, also the most love i get is from my cats before i go to sleep which makes me even sadder because i know thats as good as its ever going to get for me
any chance you can pick up a hobby? There are a lot of really welcoming communities out there. Smash bros, Magic the gathering. I go to the Local university and just hang out in the cafeteria, meet lots of people like that. Most of them are kids with no social skills that just get together and play CAH
well its mainly just to play csgo and stuff, i only have like 1 person i could truly call a friend on steam and skype is literally a bunch of people i added that i talk to once every aeon
I can't remember the last time I cried.
well we have known each other for like 4 months and he is always nice to me and talks with me when he can, but outside of that i dont talk to much of my friends list and i try and not get attached to people alot because i get clingy and i rather not bother people with that
> i get clingy and i rather not bother people with that
Why are you going to complain about being lonely when you clearly are being self destructive regarding this matter? Just let it happen.
welcome to adult life senpai. this is forever.
well i guess that is my fault for not asking how to, because i probably should seek a way to better myself rather than just whining about it, but most times i just dont have the drive to do anything
im a big baby so i tend to cry when i get even a bit emotional ;_;
ive always been someone that needed to have someone to talk to all the time, but im an autist and people either ignore me or get tired of me for being clingy and needy, but yeah having some people to talk to would make life less sufferable
yeah i guess i just have to get used to it
but what do i do about being clingy, desu the only reason i still have the one person on steam i consider a good friend is because he doesnt mind me being clingy but alot of people have told me i shoulndt be as clingy towards others
That doesn't sound too bad. But like I said, I've had too many "friends" leave me out of group projects, activities, lunches, lab partner, etc etc and clinginess just goes to show that at least you actually do consider yourself a friend. Or something. I don't know. People who don't feel that way'd probably just find it annoying I guess.
well im a neet and im home in my pc literally all day hence the reason im clingy, when i have no one to talk to i get really depressed, so just having someone to talk with and having someone to be nice to me sounds really nice and comfy to me
>i just don't have the drive to do anything
Maybe you are setting goals that are too grandiose.
Don't say, "This year I will complete the Amigami Challenge!" That is too complex and the outcome is too far off. You need to get fairly regular, short-term rewards to keep yourself motivated. Break down any large goals into things you can achieve day-to-day, weekly or monthly.
mfw spent all of college studying in college
have nice engineering job
0 friends 0 dating prospect
entire life is work, gym, being rejected by people, and being alone in my 2200/month apartment
i really don't understand the point of venting if you're going to make the same choices tomorrow and for the rest of your life. people who fail need to vent, people who have sudden tragedies/problems pile up or are just burnt out trying to get somewhere. you have the luxury to just cry and play counter strike while saying you "want" to be doing something else. fuck off.