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Is casual sex bad for us?

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Is casual sex bad for us?
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If that's your only human connection then yeah. It feels lonely. But if you have friends and shit casual sex is just a fun activity that you practice with someone you don't know.
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>>26177283

there is no such thing as a rapist.

people like to rape.
Get over it.

;^)
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>>26177304
This.

There is literally no such thing as a rapist. People like to fuck, get over it.
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It'd bad for society
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>>26177283
VERY VERY bad.
It's like heroin addiction.
Can't you do stuff properly if haven't had your daily dose of sex?
If we weren't such ill ppl, our world would be a better place. JUST STOP THINKING ABOUT SEX and do better stuff.
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>>26177304
>>26177953
yet you two will be the first to bitch and moan if you get ass raped.
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Depends on why they're doing it.
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>>26177996

Gayfag here, inclined to agree, especially since I'm an addict. I've sucked off over 100 dudes, just because I'm bored. If I go out, I'm going out because I want to try to get my dick wet. So many evenings lost just walking around dark rooms of bars or waiting at gloryholes, and every time I drive home telling myself that it wasn't worth it. Entire weekends lost having meaningless casual sex.
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>>26178019
>I've sucked off over 100 dudes

Jesus fucking Christ. That's fucking disgusting.
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>>26178040

Yeah, I know. It might be 3 or 4 in a night, just out of boredom.
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>>26177283
It's bad for you as it build dependence.
It's bad for women as it feeds their ego and validates their shit.
It's bad for society as it makes women degenerate whores unable to breed in their family and nurture their children.

It's bad for everyone.
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>>26177283
Despite what r9k might meme, humans shouldn't have multiple partners or be polygamous. We are supposed to find the one mate that gives is the strongest offspring and protect it. It's good mentally for all involved and physically. When there is a single parent it lowers the chance of a strong child being produced and raises the chance of a defect.
Multiple women getting pregnant by one guy also lowers the chances because the females might not be the best mates. Lastly the emotional connection that is not formed when multiple partners are had weakens the dogma and raised the chances of a ruinous bloodline.

Why do you think some people are successful while others are not? You will observe they came from a full family home most of the time, and the history of both parents are probably not too extreme like having sex with 20+ partners or making porn.

Polygamy is like saying fuck you to nature and ruins the human.
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>>26178008
You missed their point, senpai

roblox
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>>26178070
That's why royals and elitets breed between their bloodlines, keeping their genes clean from subhumans is the first step to be at the top.
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Some folks like murder and cannibalism too. Should we just get over that?
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>>26178127
But inbreeding makes you genetically inferior.

Any competent geneticist will you tell you genetic diversity is best.

Honestly, women are smart to cuckold men, from an evolutionary standpoint. It makes for better, more viable offspring. Like it or not, cuckoldry is doing the human rate a great service.

No, I'm not memeing
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>>26178160
>genetic diversity
>fewer males in the gene pool better for the population

Righto.
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>>26178220
Fewer males from a wider population = higher genetic diversity
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>>26178127
No. Inbreeding was bad and royals stopped doing it because it created retarded children.
What royals did was breed with other royals.

>>26178160
From am evolutionary standpoint what you're saying is pure bullshit.
Diverse genetics mean nothing if it's too dilluted to recieve any actual benefits of having those genetics.
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I don't have casual sex, mainly because I'm a fat, reclusive autist, but is it really any worse than the other modern vices available to us, such as Internet, video games, etc?
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Casual sex is a symptom, not the disease. You take the most intimate act you can do with another person and you break it down and strip away everything that makes it special. You make it as impersonal as shaking hands. And then you wonder why you're 35 years old and you still can't relate to another person on a personal level.

I don't even speak as a bitter virgin. I speak as someone who used to have intimate sex and then looked for casual sex as a band-aid when his girlfriend left him. Casual sex makes you less of a man. It makes you feel used and like nobody gives a shit about you beyond what you can do for them. You don't matter. You're just a dildo for them to use and then toss aside when they get tired of you and feel like finding a different one.
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>>26178236
Why not go ultimately wide and include non-humans?

Actually there is an optimum amount of genetic diversity, after which increases are harmful. This limit is exceeded when very distant humans mate, and the children suffer from increased rates of disease.
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>>26177304
Sorry but rape infringes on another's rights. Casual sex does not.
I hope you either kill yourself or get killed tonight, this bait was awful
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>>26178270
Sounds to me like, oh, I don't know, maybe casual sex isn't your thing?
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>>26178312
>provide reasons why casual sex is bad for people
>"I-it's just not your thing!"

Fuck off.
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>choosing mates for sexual pleasure rather than the best possible reproductive partner

trash tier degenerate genetic filth
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>>26178335
Are you slow? Do you not realize that all men don't have the same reaction to things? You're as bad as a feminist, talking about how all men are pedophiles and rapists. Now take this information and change your behavior accordingly
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>us
>casual sex

Who the fuck are you talking to, normie?

Get out.
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>>26178335
>muh analogies

Your reasons are subjective. So yes, maybe it's not your thing.
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After being cheated on because my ex had such a casual opinion of sex, I realised the issue with taking the "casual" approach to things that would have had heavy consequences in the past.

She acted like it wasn't such a massive deal breaker, but I made it clear it was and broke off. That's the shit of this generation, I slut shamed her for hours over text until she broke down.

There are those that will disagree with what I'd have done but she keeps asking for me to come back, she is broken emotionally so that's on her.
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>>26178429
There are consequences for your actions.

Same thing happened to me, and I did the same thing.
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>>26178270
Your anecdotes and feelings arent shared across the globe m8. Not everyone is a sensitive sally.
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>>26178429
She wasn't your fucking wife, she was some chick you were dating. You really should be broken her down like that. A breakup was all that was necessary
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>>26178352
>>26178423
Not him but try having casual sex and having a wife you care for. You'll feel detached and eventually you'll just drop out of Responsibility's because you made what used to be special mundane.

The anon pointed out his experience, if you think he isn't for casual sex, are you saying you have had the same amount of partners and still feel emotionally secure in finding a longer lasting partner?

Seriously this whole thread reels of 16 year old try hards, trying to fit in to a college party.
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>>26178468
Are you defending the act of cheating?

Because I'm telling you right now that I'll disregard whatever the fucking you shit out at this point if you are, knowing you're just baiting as a whore not understanding what the fucking you do to people when you break the exclusiveness you agreed to when you date another person.

Go on and try to defend a cheater, I fucking dare you, I want to see you run mental gymnastics to rationalise one of the fastest ways to destroy trust.
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>>26178479
Projection is strong with this post.
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>>26178468
>leddit

yes its an original comment
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it's bad for Robots

great for chads
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>>26178270
good post
too bad little shitters will never understand it
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>>26178535
>i heard this meme how to discredit someones opinion but i dont understand how to use it properly
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>>26178535
>I'm thick cocked Chad
>getting bitches/Chads left and right
> Yeah, having sex is is so easy
>who gives a fuck about disease
>who gives a shit about my emotional destruction
>getting pussy validates my existence
>getting cock is easy, and my vagina is the only reason I have people to talk to but oh well
>I'm so much cooler than a couple that have sex exclusively and make a big fuss over every time they do it together
>why can't I have that connection to the random rave pricks I shovel into my phone?
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>>26178528
It's hard to get mad when you realize you're arguing with slime. You and your scumbag cheater girlfriend should both off yourselves. She's a whore, you're an asshole, I don't feel bad for you. I hope your faggy avatar makes you feel like a big boy. Oh, also, keep up the strawman, it makes you look real smart.
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>>26178535
Nice buzzword you retarded faggot
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>>26178468
How do you think people learn you fuckwit?

As a child, you are punished for misbehaving. As an adult, it's no different, just you aren't being punished by grounding or spankings.

People need to know where the line is, and won't figure it out until someone shows them

Maybe you aren't one to stand up for yourself, I think
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>>26178592
You're insecure and projecting those insecurities. Least of all speaking like someone who has barely explored their sexuallity and still has it wrapped in ego. Ie the 16 year old you accuse.

Projecting.
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>>26178612
>steven universe post

Opinion discarded
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recently i've been having a bit of casual sex, not much, but just a bit with two different girls.

it's not good at all.

we fuck and whatnot and that is enjoyable on a physical level, my nature takes over and i won't stop until i fuck this girl. but when it's over and we are lying in bed i just want to die and think about this other girl who i was like properly seeing for a while and how much better that was. casual sex is a fucking hollow hoax.

but you know what, i'm going to keep doing it because i just can't stop. even if it feels shitty. it's all i want to do. fuck my life.
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>>26178602
You type like you're a highschooler on Facebook trying to not look offended but doing a hilariously bad job.

Passive aggressiveness just makes you look like a massive pussy, I'm not an asshole for damaging a cheater's ego, that's just putting the foot down and telling them what they did in hurtful words, otherwise we'd have more sluts cheating and not learning anything.

Whatever crowd you subscribe to, you should probably commit mass suicide after whatever enlightening orgy you love to have.

Also, its called a reaction image, we're on an image forum, not tumble, you should go back and tell your trammy friends to fuck off
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>>26178692
thats not what casual sex is
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>>26178698

alright kike, i tell these girls straight up that all i'm looking for is a bit of fun, nothing deeper than that. seems pretty casual to me.
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>>26178697
>smug anime image
Always an excellent indicator of what posts to just skip over
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>>26178698
What is then, having a fuck circle of friends you all sleep with? I can just imagine your friends and you naming the diseases you pick up after the names of whoever gave it and received it.
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>>26178719
>>26178730
casual sex isn't having a fuckbuddy

casual sex is going out to the club and fucking a chick and you're both just happy with that

if you're feeling guilty or sad about having a fuckbuddy, it mean you think you're in a relationship and cheating or some shit
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>>26178721
>can't argue

As usual, sluts can't argue worth shit.
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>>26178297
People don't have rights
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>>26178698
if you think casual sex is only fucking girls you meet out at clubs/one night stands you have outed yourself as a turbo-virgin
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>>26178721
>no argument to justify being a dirty slut
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>>26178429
Sorry to hear, bro.

You had your time her now its the other guy...

>>26178468
>>26178528
Cheating is wrong unless if it was an open relationship; having your partners consent and theirs to sleep around.
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>>26178070
>We are supposed to find the one mate that gives is the strongest offspring and protect it


For a couple of years while the baby is small. then love dies.
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I stayed up all night having sex with a scarecrow I made out of clothing and pillows to simulate sex with a big butt girl.

I'm 22.
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>>26178744
fuck you are stupid.

pic related, you should do it to yourself.
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>>26177283
Yes it is. Normies are too stupid to pull out or use a condom. As a result, more babies will be shat out of their mom's hole, and then more over population. We need to follow Japan where there's more old people than young.
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I don't really care what other people do. I don't like the expectation that all people fuck though. I am a robot, but if I had a friend or something, I would want it to have no chance of sex at all. Like it doesn't exist. That is how it was when we were kids.

I remember when people started getting sexual around 12-13

>group of friends includes one guy's sister
>age range 12-15, with girl being 14
>girl starts essing dees and taking dee in her vee
>everything is about trying to fuck her
>guys competed to be one who gets sex that day
>worse when alone
>she only wanted sex
>calls me to come over
>get there and no one answers door
>text her
>come up
>she is naked and pretending to dress like i walked in on her.
>leave to let her dress
>in basement playing vidya
>she starts grabbing my weewee through shorts
>tries to pull out my dee
>move away. i just want to play vidya
>makes fun of me for being afraid to have sex with her
>afraid your dick is too small?
>calls me virgin and homo

She was pissed I didn't fuck her. From then on she would flaunt her fucking in front of me when she could. If it was just me, her, and another guy who wasn't her brother, she would always blow or fuck the guy if I went to get a drink or take a piss or something. She actually too my sweatshirt and laid on it as a guy pounded her. She refused to give it to me. Some crude double entendre with "cum" like she will give it back if I let her ess my dee. Guy didnt help because he wanted to keep fucking her.

It ruined everything. Instead of friends it became sex sex sex. Her, her brother, two friends, and me went to some corn maze for halloween. Brother goes off with his friends. Girls takes two guys and go off for outdoor trheeway. I was just alone. I think this directly led to being a robot.
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>>26177283
There's no such thing as a school shooter

People like to kill get over it.
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>>26178766
Because you like it? That's a pretty good justification for doing a lot of things (avatarfagging isn't one of them).
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>>26178800
The solution to unwanted pregnancy: just become a faggot.
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>>26178771
Oh, she cheated on me, but only because she apparently never broke up with the other guy until we were dating for 4 months.

That's when I told her that she was disgusting since we didn't use a condom at our leisure.

So I dumped her, whether she goes to the other guy is not my business, that's on her, I've seen first hand the other guy and I think that's karma enough for her.

But nah it still hurt, I'm doing my best, but venting here isn't helping.
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>>26178800
you degenerate fuck, old people should be exterminated. as well as the disabled. If anything, there should be more babies being born. Although in cohesive family units. preferably suited to that specific nation as well if you catch my drift.

>>26178804
you don't just sound like a robot you sound like you have got proper autism/aspergers.
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>>26178847
HAHAHAHAHA sounds like you were the one she was cheating with. Hey, at least you cucked the other guy. THis is why casual sex can be good, imagine if you just fucked her and moved on, that would have been so sweet.
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Morality isn't relative.

Every thread until you understand.
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>>26178744
>fuckbuddy is not casual sex
It is literally sex that is casual you moron
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There's a reason people are disgusted
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>>26178653
>recognizing some fag show in the first place
You're worse than he is, lmaoaaaoooo
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>r-reality is muhsogonist
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>>26178929
>people with agendas publish sudies that seem to match their agendas
Hmmm
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>>26178887
She was sort of arranged marriage for the other guy.

She was really sweet, honestly, but she "belonged" to someone else and wouldn't stop glorifying me.

This is in Canada
She was Chinese, and her parents are probably spies, that's why they never let their kids mingle. The other guy is psychopathic, but a massive pussy. They all have a lack of human consciousness and awareness of how others feel, all emotionless robots
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>>26178896
Okay, please explain to me which morality is universal.
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>>26178896
To you, at least.
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>>26178952
>probably spies.

okay mate hope u r ok
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>>26178929
>girls with less partners are likely to be less attractive than girls with many partners
>ugly girls with no options decide to stay in marriages
>hot stacies realize they can do better and leave

Makes sense, but doesn't do anything to prove that the marriages are in any way better.
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>>26178871
>you don't just sound like a robot you sound like you have got proper autism/aspergers.

I don't agree with that conclusion. I am a robot. Outside of this girl, only a fat girl has shown any interest.
I don't like what sex results in. If someone says they want to do something, then they should do that and not leave me to go off and fuck. I have a tinge of the social anxiety. I can go outside, but I never talk to strangers at all. I need to be very comfortable and sure I won't be disliked before I can talk to someone.
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I don't understand what is with you fags and your obsession with marriage. Like fuck any of you are ever getting married.
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>>26178962
>>26178953

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Categorical_imperative
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>>26178977
I'm not even trying to have a go at you man, I just think that all sounds like kind of erratic behavior/way of thinking. I'm not trying to shame you for not wanting sex, nothing wrong with that, but just the way you phrase your story and stuff ....
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>>26179000
>According to Kant, human beings occupy a special place in creation
Prove this.
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>>26178986
I don't know if it is an obsession with marriage or anxiety about being inadequate.

I am 3/10 khv with small penis. Anyone who has ever had sex has had much much better. I could only be disappoint.

People on here who are virgins or never been in relationships are at an disadvantage to start. They/we want someone who is on a more equal footing.
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>>26178929
>>26178936
so are you two arguing (with well known fake charts) that people should just marry the first person they get along with, and hold off on basic human functions like sex until they are completely committed to one person for life?
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>>26179000
People do not occupy a special place in creation and Kant isn't God.
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>>26179049
>>26179082

I experience two worlds: a physical world, and a mental world. The physical world is everything that I perceive. The mental world is only my thoughts. Therefore I, as a human, am special because I have complete control over 50% of reality.
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>>26179057
>sex
>basic humsn function
Nice. Why aren't babies and children fucking? Why aren't old people?
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>>26179108
>old people
they do
>babies
haven't developed yet

are you retarded? what do you think a penis is for?
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>>26179106
Solipsism is a very teenage idea. You don't control other people's minds and you can't possibly suggest their mental realities aren't real. And you can't suggest either than an animal controls less mental reality than you. Mental function maybe, but not mental reality.
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>>26179138
Urination, for one thing. Body waste removal. And not all old people fuck. And they're still alive. Basic human functions are things necessary for survival.
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>>26179106
>I experience two worlds: a physical world, and a mental world.
Prove this.
>I have complete control over 50% of reality.
Then this.
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>>26179174
>Urination
Wait, I thought girls peed too.
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No, there is literally nothing in life more important the pursuit of pleasure.
Life is meaningless and you might as well have fun while it lasts.
This garbage is actually considered sage-like wisdom in 2016.
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>>26179198
Is the vagina only for sex?
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>>26179144

Why can't I suggest that? I have no evidence to the contrary. It seems a little childish to discount a perfectly good idea just because of its negative cultural perception.

>>26179175
I know the mental world exists (cogito ergo sum). I cannot prove the physical world exists, admittedly, but I will choose to believe it does, which is effectively the same for the purpose of this discussion.

When I think, my mental state changes. The perceived physical world does not change. Therefore, control of 50% of reality.
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>>26177283

Yes.
It's been scientifically proven that the more sexual partners you have the less likely any of your current or future marriages are going to succeed.

>getting married

Fine, even if you don't fall for the trap that is officially getting married your chances of a lasting relationship are still fucked and you will either never have children or have them and they'll end up damaged from a shitty childhood
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>>26177283
>Is casual sex bad for us?

Aside from the risk of STIs, no. But advertising it, going out of your way to dress like a slut, gangbanging dozens of people at a time or even having a Tinder / Grindr profile pretty much puts you at the bottom of the barrel.

I really don't have any puritanical attitudes toward sex, but I doubt I'd touch you with a ten-foot pole if I knew about all your sleazy hookups. That's more of a risk mitigation on my part.
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>>26179198
girls piss is literally toxic

men's (or eunuch) piss is the holy grail
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>>26179261
Your mom is toxic pal
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>>26177283

>there are still people discussing this bait
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>>26179217
For reproduction, yeah. Sex being the part that comes between menstruation and ovulation.
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>>26178053
wow what a fagg
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>>26179212
This is pretty much what all wisdom is, except it usually requires that you enjoy one thing more than others.
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>>26179229
>I cannot prove the physical world exists, admittedly, but I will choose to believe it does, which is effectively the same for the purpose of this discussion.
Which is to say that morality has no bearing on the world beyond your perception?

>When I think, my mental state changes. The perceived physical world does not change. Therefore, control of 50% of reality.
Can you show that your mental state changing doesn't cause you to think, rather than the other way around?
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>>26179237
Statistics aren't science. Science must be reproducible.
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>>26179333
>Which is to say that morality has no bearing on the world beyond your perception?
Yes, but as I've said, I don't think there is a world beyond my perception, so morality is universal.

>Can you show that your mental state changing doesn't cause you to think, rather than the other way around?
I think you've got me now. I'm not going to pretend to have some sort of magical answer to the mind-body problem. I'm certainly not an epiphenomenalist, as you've seen. I personally believe that I have free will, but I have no way of knowing. Maybe the belief is what's relevant? I think pre-established harmony also works, as I might have worded things awkwardly. The actual "control" of the mental state is probaby irrelevant, just it's perception (or apparent perception) by a thinking entity.

Thanks for the good questions!
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>>26178692
was in exactly the same situation. After some shitty situations managed to drop the one that was just awesome at everything sexual to be with the one i loved. Turned out she was highly unstable and constantly unsatisfied as a person. Fuck i miss muh casual sex..
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>>26179419
*last "it's" should be "its", I always fuck that one up.
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>>26178468
t. some dumb roastie
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>>26179419
>Yes, but as I've said, I don't think there is a world beyond my perception, so morality is universal.
Wait a second, what is the physical world in that case? Also, what value do you see in morality if yours is the only perception?
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>>26178270
Dude ur doing it wrong.. Lately I've been getting sluts to fall in love with me by playing really sensual music and having heavy foreplay/making sure they cum.... The culmination is now four girls all with 15+ partners think I want to date them... I just like the attention though
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>>26179469
Physical world is just the mental state I can't change

>Also, what value do you see in morality if yours is the only perception?
I think the value in philosophy is the change it brings to the way you perceive and interact with the world. It should be obvious from some of the stuff I've said that I was an nihilistic edgelord for a long time. If I recognize humans as special, rational entities, and apply the categorical imperative to my interactions with them, I generally end up behaving according to society's moral standards AND I know why I'm doing it: because morallity is objective and unchanging. I don't try to preach sophomoric solipsist nonsense to people, because that's not what it's about. I've found rules that let me be an edgelord while still doing what's right. I guess I'm just an autist, but it makes me really happy to not have to take anything on faith. If I obey the rules, I am morally justified and therefore a good person. If I don't, I am a bad person.
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>>26179106
It doesn't work exactly like that. For the most part (by far) you are are influenced by what your senses have picked up in the past coupled with your inbuilt mental systems. Everything you sense has a stake in influencing your mind.

Animals have a less complex memory system than humans (with a few exceptions). This means that they can't build upon as much memories as us. So your argument is as valid for the, as it is you.
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The issue I have with casual sex is that it promotes a culture of throwaway pleasure. It enforces the idea that pleasure and happiness are one in the same thing and that sort of mentality infects peoples minds to the point that they look for quick pleasure in other pursuits-
>Games are too hard, make them easy
>School/Uni is too hard, make it easier
It creates a society built on instant gratification without any actual work.

Good relationships demand work and commitment from both parties. Casual Sex simply demands the desire to have sex. Giving into base urges simply because the opportunity presents itself is crass and damaging to your ability to create a connection between sex and stable relationships. People who decide to follow their base urges and do as they please will end up less fulfilled because of it. They won't understand the endless joys of a deed done through grind and pure force of will. They'll only understand a fleeting sense of pleasure in an otherwise blank life.

We're Humans, we should be built from the foundations that separate us from Animals and out ability to govern our actions separate from instinctive desire is one of those foundations.
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>>26178335

It erodes a woman's capacity as a long term partner.

Long term partnership and familial interdependence are part of the basis of society.

Widespread casual sex, coupled with a welfare state, therefore helps in the overall societal decline that we are now seeing.

It promotes the Good Cad society, rather than the Good Dad society.

Cad societies are unsustainable.

Controlling and harnessing human sexuality is integral to long term societal success and sustainability.
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>>26179605
I'm the only thinking entity because I only experience my own thoughts. What I'm trying to say has no relevance to biology: I've never seen a brain. In the world I perceive (which is the entire world) there is an equal chance that my head is full of brain and that my head is full of water.
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>>26178468

So you would be fine with your GF cheating on you because you're not yet married?

Explain how that works.

One of the ways you vet someone for long-term-worthiness is by gauging their fidelity.

If you can't trust her to be faithful pre-marriage, how can you trust her to be during marriage?

I mean, what's your train of thought here?
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>>26179556
So the physical world is still a part of the mental world.

>[I] apply the categorical imperative. . .because morallity is objective and unchanging.
I thought the categorical imperative existed to provide an objective, unchanging morality. Here it sounds like you've decided that it is that way and are using that decision to justify the categorical imperative. Maybe I misunderstood?
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>>26179665
In order to make more accurate claims to how your body interacts with the world, you should work on having a better understanding of your biology.
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>>26178744

>casual sex isn't having a fuckbuddy

I literally is.

Literally.

>casual sex is going out to the club and fucking a chick and you're both just happy with that

It's that too.
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>>26179770
>I literally is.
>It's that too.
Pick one.
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>>26179702
You have to apply the categorical imperative to any given maxim in order to determine if an action is correct or incorrect: once determined, that action is unquestionably right or wrong. Maybe I misworded that a little bit, my apologies. I think the usual point of Kantian ethics is that any rational entity can obtain the same rules without some higher power bestowing them.

>>26179757
I think you've missed the boat a little bit on what I'm trying to say. Back to edgelord land I guess. I don't care about biology because I fundamentally have no way of knowing whether or not my body is real or whether or not the world I perceive exists. I am not talking about how the lenses in my eyes allow me to perceive light or some nonsense like that. I'm talking about how the mental state composed of things I believe I am perceiving interacts with the rest of the mental state.
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>>26178971

You're assuming that ugly girls don't have options when they absolutely do.

A below average woman has more options than an average, or even above average man.
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>>26179789
It can literally be both things.

>Casual sex is literally having a fuckbuddy or Going out to the club

Literally doesn't imply a singular point, just that whatever you say is the actuality of what you said.

>Vodka is alcohol
>As is Whiskey
Both are LITERALLY true
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If it opposes your values, then yes.
I feel pretty indifferent towards it, everything in moderation etc.
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>>26179789

They both fall under the category of "casual".

Not that hard to understand.
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>>26179841
>Alcohol is literally vodka
>Alcohol is also whiskey
This is equivalent to what you said.
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>>26178297
>muh arbitrary constitution
what about my right to rape? why have my rights restrained?
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>>26179835
WTF? I woudn't fuck that walrus with your dick.
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>>26179809
Is rationality objective?
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>>26178971
>ugly girls
>not desirable
do you also post on /r/foreveralonegirls?
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>>26179174
Sex is necessary for survival though. And that's not what a basic function is. Using your body properly isn't some mystical challenging shit. Even a retard can have sex. The reason we complicate it is because it can have serious consequences.
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>>26178828
>I like being a burden to society.
stop with the le all subjective meme
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>>26179057
Yes. Doing otherwise would be hedonistic.
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>>26180198
How is it a burden to society?
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>>26177283
Dumping my usual stuff, can't stay in the thread however.

Marriage and family related materials.
Links
http://www.medicaldaily.com/ignorance-bliss-when-it-comes-marriage-fewer-partners-youve-had-more-likely-your-298752
http://socialpathology.blogspot.com.au/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html
http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2012/08/more-promiscuity-data.html

http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2012/07/single_motherhood_worse_for_children_.html
psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/03/22/how-common-is-cheating-infidelity-really/
www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/unmarried-childbearing.htm
http://www.nytimes.com/2014/02/09/magazine/does-a-more-equal-marriage-mean-less-sex.html?_r=1


PDFS
http://nationalmarriageproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/NMP-BeforeIDoReport-Final.pdf
http://www.asanet.org/journals/ASR/Feb13ASRFeature.pdf
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_23/sr23_028.pdf
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr036.pdf
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>>26179301
muh meaningless life... We're the first generation of humans to experience that, we're just pussies, I hope a war breaks out and we face reality
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>>26180198

>complaining about someone being a burden to society
>on a board full of fatties, smokers, alcoholics, junkies, and NEETs

My. Fucking. Sides.
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>>26178772
>I like to make assumptions about things I have never experienced or know anything about and then state them as facts
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>>26178721
>can't tolerate anime
Why are you even here?
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>>26178772
>abandoning your mate
That's just something wrong with you.
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>>26180233
being a whore just undermines human mating rituals. "this girl just had sex with me without testing if i'm actually good for her, she's either not really smart or she just wanted some pleasure." if the latter, other guys will see she just wants some pleasure out of sexual realtionships and will sleep with almost anyone - they wont want to be her long term partner so they probably won't have kids or won't be able to raise them well which is destructive to society.
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>>26180267
so you aren't one of those i suppose?
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>>26179895
You aren't sounding smart.
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>>26180375

Where did I say I wasn't one of those? Just pointing out its stupid to complain about burdens to society on such a board. Find a better excuse for being mad at people who fuck more than you.
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Guy asks girls for sex "no". Girl asks guys for sex "yes". Looks to me like we just live in a society where it's easier to be a loser virgin or a stacy whore than a chad stud or a pure waifu. And it seems based on biology and human psychology not some religious patriarchy thing. After all people decide on their own and I believe in democracy.
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>>26179108
"Look everyone, I'm retarded!"
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>>26180396
Haha ok, enjoy your used up roastie whore and don't think that plenty sex with many partners will be the focus of your life forever
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>>26178053
And this is why STDs run rampant in the gay community and why bi sexual people ruin it for everyone.
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Here's the thing about "slut shaming"; fucking a bunch of people is one thing, but is it safe sex? Because if its not, then yeah you deserve to be shamed for contributing to the spread of disease.
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>>26177283
>Fucking around a lot
>Not a slut
>Not just accepting the fact you're a slut because that's what the term describes

Fucking normieautisits
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THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS A RAPIST

PEOPLE LIKE TO FUCK. GET OVER IT.

(Surprisingly enough, this was not an original comment)
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>>26177283
>i like being a slut, that means there's no such thing as a slut
what the fuck is this logic
not even defending yourself, just denying that you're doing anything wrong
fucking stacy whores
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So the vast majority of posts in this thread can be summarized as such:

"I can't get laid and i don't know how to handle that in a healthy way so I'll invent reasons to judge other people for being more successful at getting what I want."
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>>26180867
>>26180867
Strawman ad hominem at its finest

Back to tumbleddit, roastie slut
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meh. "slut" is a loaded term that doesn't hold the same meaning as "promiscuous" since it has a moral judgment about the virtue of promiscuousness embedded in it. If you disagree with this premise "slut" is an incoherent concept.
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>>26178297

>not getting the point
>getting actually buttmad

back to tumblr
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>>26180768
Wouldn't that be closer to bareback shaming than slut shaming?
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>>26179648
Personally I think the whole "people with good marriages and virgin brides are just ignorant of what they're missing" narrative is just trying to put a good spin on things. Maybe the women who value their chastity just aren't pieces of shit, and that's why they have better marriages.
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>>26180867
implying you have to be succesful to be a slut. just open your legs.
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>>26181058

That may be a factor, but it's undeniable that the more men a woman has fucked, the lesser the likelihood that the next guy will stack up. The "talent pool" is deeper and deeper, so to speak.

That, combined with the fact that women are wired to want the "best" man possible, means that women will marry the guy they find "meh" and be a bitter vindictive cheating cunt to him because he's not as hot as the Chad she got convenience-fucked by for a few weeks in college.

The result is the corrosion of women's LTR-worthiness, which then corrodes gender relations and then the basis of society itself.

Human sexual selection, especially the female, MUST be controlled for sake of social stability.
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I don't think I could do casual sex. I'd love to give it a try but I don't think I'd enjoy sex without the "love"

I've had 3 opportunities to have sex. two of them I couldn't get hard. I was too nervous about the whole ordeal and the other time it was with my friend who I've wanted to fuck so I knew her.

I thin it helps me if I know the person before I fuck them.
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>>26179895
John Stuart Mill's Harm Principle.

You can rape yourself if you want but if you cause harm to another then your liberty to do so should be restrained.
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>>26178252
thats not how genetics work, they dont become "diluted" as number of offspring increases
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>>26183029
>mfw while judging a high school debate, a debater characterized the harm principle as negative utilitarianism
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>>26178270
This one gets it.
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>>26180867
Or people just have different opinions than you. Could be that.
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>>26177283
>there's no such thing as obesity
>people like to eat. get over it.

>there's no such thing as an alcoholic
>people like to drink. get over it
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>>26177283
Yes if you want to have anything meaningful.
If you just want your dick to get wet, than it's not so bad BUT keep in mind that this 'feel' will go away eventually and you'll want to settle down.
You'll find a nice girl, she is loving and loyal. but when it comes to sex, Stacy was way much better than her and same will apply to her. After some time the weight that sex have on your relationship will be way too heavy to carry and you'll drop her/she'll drop you.
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>>26178270
iktf anon
although it's the first part happening to me
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You can be a whore if you want to, and I can dismiss you for being a whore if I want to. Only a madman will date a semen collector and think she's worth anything. She's not. For her, you're just another dick in her among many. There is nothing special about you. To her, you will be just another guy she's fucking. To me, she'll be just another whore I'll be using.
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>>26177283
the only people against casual sex are ugly men who can't join in the fun. Sexual morals are a defense mechanism
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>>26184288
>hurp hyperbole
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>>26184588
>indulging in too much sex earns you a socially constructed stigmatic name
>indulging in too much food/alcohol earns you a socially constructed stigmatic name
?
Too much of a good thing, is too much of a good thing.
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>>26177283
Holy shit. This thread is still going?

I posted this purely as bait on my way out the door for work. Goddamn, I love you, r9k.
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>>26184700
>implying people aren't taking the bait to bait others
>implying everyone in this thread isn't a master baiter
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>>26184687
But alcohol and food are actually deadlier than sex. You can get 100s of blowjobs and worse case is herpes(which causes alzheimers and some other fucked up stuff but that's late in life). Mcdonald's can easily kill you in your 20s and alcohol offs people all the time.
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>>26184756
I master bait.
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>>26184852
>Mcdonald's can easily kill you in your 20s
The point, is that each can potentially inhibit both your life, and the lives of others when you over-indulge in them. Therefor, the comparison stands.
Long story short, get fucked. :^)
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>>26177283
>There's no such things as drunks; people just like to drink. Get over it.

A better analogy exists.

I like to fuck, and have done so plenty, but with the same woman for several years, and so few people would accuse me of being promiscuous.
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>>26185095
yeah it's possible to over indulge. Obviously it's dangerous to have like a thousand sexual partners. But I sincerely don't think 20-50 is bad. Even 100 is permissable
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>>26185278
The point is though, is that society has always condemned over-indulgence. If society does it with food, alcohol, drugs, shopping, etc. then it follows that sex would be held to the same standard.
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>>26180893
>I can't believe you are sexualising intercourse

Wot
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>>26185431
Alright I'll admit it's degeneracy. But of all the degenerate things to do I have less animosity towards it. I've seen the deadly side of gluttony, I've seen some very sad stories around alcohol. Promiscuity, at least for men, seems a little better because it's more challenging to do. You can buy alcohol and mcdonald's whenever for cheap. To become a chad style man whore you need fitness, charisma, good genetics, and lots of other things to practice sexual degeneracy. It can harm you in the end but it's not something you need to fight hard against since most people aren't in a position to be sexual degenerates
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>>26178270

Women have become psychopaths in regards to social relationships, we do not give ourselves fully to another because we are all scared of getting hurt.

This is psychopathic and will perpetuate, as more people cheat, so to do more people accept that giving themselves to someone else will only result in pain.

The superficiality of relationships is folding in on itself. Sex has become the only meaningful interaction because you cannot falsify it, its a real event, objective. And even then, sex is just an actualization of what we've learned through porn.

Sex has effectively become masturbation by proxy. Its nothing but self-gratification and self-pleasure. The other party is just there to make it "authentic", to confirm that yes, we did have sex, I have obtained the object of my desire.

Masturbation. Psychotic masturbation.
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>it's the same thing for men and women!
kek

A good man through the eyes of nature is a man that fucks a lot, a good woman through the eyes of nature is a woman that selected only the best.
Mens can make up to 3 women pregnant per day.
A woman needs 9 months to finish pregnancy, and she needs to stick with the child.

Our behavior as a species is directly related yo our DNA as a species, just like it is for any other animal. Men have to go on the hunt to fuck, while the women just accept or denies. If you accept anyone, that makes you undesirable (but we will still fuck you, but you're a whore to be fucked, not a woman we desire to mate with), and if a guy fucks a lot of girls, that makes him desirable to you and you know it (because that means he is the best, he can mate with any women he wants, including you).
We don't have a saying in what attract us, it does or it doesn't, it's in our genetic code.

You can either accept reality, or go running to the arms of your feminist friends, to hear what you want, and please fuck off.
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>>26185705
>But of all the degenerate things to do I have less animosity towards it.
Well, to be quite honest with you familia, I don't really care whether or not it's degenerate, I just can't stand the people who get so asspained about being condemned for it. I'm the type of person who is a textbook degenerate, but I own it, I'm not afraid to admit it.
To follow that up, I'm perfectly fine with "sluts," I only have a problem with people who expect to be treated like "non-sluts" when they clearly are not.
If that made any sense.
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>>26185973
fair enough
People naturally find sluts to be disgusting because of the diseases they tend to have.
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>>26177283
ye its bad for robots but why would anyone need to care about that?
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>>26185972
>releases a huge thick cloud and takes another sip from an e-cig
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>>26177283
Us? It's bad for romantic people who liked to believe sex and love had actual value, now that thinking that way will get them shamed and bullied.
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>>26178070
>Despite what r9k might meme
did you think we were joking when we said that we want all women to stop being sluts??
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People just like dedication in their lives it doesn't matter if it's sex or jobs or friends people like exclusivity for a reason.
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>>26178721
either this is B8ing or you're a genuine roastie who doesn't understand where she is.
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>>26183029
People having sex in which I'm not involved causes me psychological harm and so they should be restrained.
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>>26177283
no. My gf and I started as casual sex and then it evolved into dating. That's just how it works for a lot of people these days, and I think they we will start to see that become more and more common.

INB4 normie reeeee
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>>26177996
So then what is regular sex if casual sex is heroin addiction? Shitty b8.
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>>26180867
>at getting what I want
But who said I want that ? Many of us don't. Maybe you're the one who wants to be a manwhore here, but keep me out of that shit.
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