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Why are introverted people so hated in the work place?
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Because women create a "community" that introverts don't take part in
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>>26169223
this is surprisingly true.
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Because most people don't understand perspectives or have true empathy, and you are more likely to encounter extroverts in the wild. They cannot imagine someone being different than they are.
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>>26169199
What's this "work place"?

It's all relative.
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Because humans are social creatures. It's how we got ahead as a species. If you're not social, you're defective. No one wants to work with some defective broken weirdo.
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>>26169223
ironically im introverted and im accepted and loved by all the women at my workplace. and i only have a crush on one of them.
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>>26169199
introverted people aren't hated. anti-social people are. you anti-socials give introverts a bad name.
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>>26169430
>introverted people aren't hated.
maybe YOU arent, you stupid fuck.
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>boss evaluates me after my first 3 months working
>gives me a C- for socializing and how friendly i am with my other co-workers

Fucking gay shit, it's not my fault I'm so bad at socializing, I don't know how to make friends and everyone is an asshole to me and never invites me anywhere or talks to me. Literally fuck this gay earth, I can't believe people like us need to be demonized all the time in every context.
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>>26169199
Normies are so full of themselves that when they see someone that doesn't want to engage with them they react with hostility and confusion.
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Seeing humans not happy with existence ruins the Normie's illusion that life is good and has purpose
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>>26169469
and here, ladies and gents, is why moody, anti-social introverts are hated and give a bad name to everyone else.
there's plenty of successful introverts you stupid fuck. go outside.
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>>26169485
My boss gave me the best rating for socializing. I literally can go weeks without speaking to anyone at work. If the boss says hello to me I always have a short conversation with him though. I guess its good enough for him.
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>>26169485
>it's not my fault I'm so bad at socializing
Yeah it actually is. If it's not your fault, then whose fault is it?
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Because people can't figure them out or relate to them and that makes them scared and or uncomfortable with this displaced character. Fear or the unknown makes people do/say stupid and harsh things.
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>>26169485
>WAHH IT'S NOT MY FAULT
>WAHH I ONLY GOT A C- AND NOT AN A+!!!!!!

Calm down fucking sperg faggot. C is a passing grade. Why do you feel entitled to an A if you're a quiet, introverted person who can't crack jokes or relate to people in any way? What have you fucking done to earn a spectacular grade? You get a PASS, instead of a "WOW YOU'RE GREAT". Can't you fucking handle that? What grade would you give you?
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>>26169199
>Why are introverted people so hated in the work place?

Because you live in the United States of America.
/thread
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>>26169584
so just because i insult somebody in a taiwanese bedroom posting forum it means im antosocial? get real, fucko, i obviously dont flip out like that in real life.

and yes, believe it or not some introverts are treated like shit in real life. thats like one of the main reasons there are robots

source: my ass

if you really think all introverts that mind their own business are well liked, take a tour around this board. read some of the stories that directly contradict what youre saying and then come back and argue your point again.
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>>26169409
Pretty sure we've "gone ahead" enough to the point where everyone doesn't need to be social to work peacefully in a damn cubicle .
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>>26169727
youre right, not in a cubicle, but in society.
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>>26169409
shut the fuck up stacy
/thread
There is no "flaw" in being introverted. In fact, there is no "flaw" in being anything. There isn't even such a thing as mental "illness". Screech all you want, the truth is still the truth.
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>>26169423
If you come across as alpha, introverts are accepted or even considered leaders
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>>26169833
Gender dismorphia and homosexuality are mentally illnesses though. Same with sociopaths and schizophrenia
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>>26169199
Because normals think that if you aren't literally saying every peasized thought that comes to your brain, you hate everyone and will come shoot the office up.
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>>26169884
Introvert, can confirm.
Stacies hit on me all the time.
I really don't like people taking up my time, asking me their silly questions, expecting me to answer, and watching every single fucking thing I do
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>>26169485
I know that feeling.

I get called into my boss' office not for work related performance, but how "team environment is very important" and "communication needs work."

It was pretty much we'll replace you if you don't talk to Stacy about her two kids or her Chad husband.
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>>26169988
Loners are simply leaders without anyone to lead
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>>26169409
>If you can talk you need to talk

>if you have a vagina , you need to have sex with me because humans have sexual urges
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>>26169485
this, if they don't even try to be my friends and I don't show any intention either, why am I the anti-social and not them as well?
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>>26170035
ugh what in the fuck
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>>26170097
It's true, but only for men. I should have added that earlier
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>>26170255
shouldve known you were a woman just by reading that post. im disappointed in myself
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I don't get it. Why do you all think introverts are hated so much?
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>>26169199

Because of the tendency to second guess ones self, seek other opinions before you make up your mind, and what they perceive as timidity or antisocial.

Also, because you work better alone, with nobody in your way, distracting you.

and some jobs? well. You need to work together.

Not much you can do about it, really.

Just get a job where you don't have to deal with people.
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>>26170330
gee. hmm. i wonder.
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>>26170425
No, I'm serious, I really don't fucking get it.

Please explain this to me.
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>>26169199

because they were taught by mtv and the cool kids at school to view introversion as something "creepy".
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>>26169944
this

Normies just throw shit at you hoping some of it sticks and expect you to be thankful for having had the chance to listen to them.
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>>26170438
maybe because a lot of us are introverts that have been shit on by people all our lives.

being an introvert, not having social skills + not being attractive means youre basically dislked by everybody.

>youre fat? pfft man that doesnt matter, youre fucking rad or whatever
>ugly? im not going to judge you for something as silly as looks! im not that vain!
>shy? aww how cute you jsut need to come out of your shell
>you dont feel comfortable around people and are therefore incapable of socialising in an acceptable or "fun" way (+youre not attractive)? what the fuck is your problem weirdo? go away.
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>>26169199

i know that feel.

will probably have to leave my current job (or get fired) soon, due to increasing general hostility and disrespect from my coworkers. I can't fit in, no matter what i do.

The problem is, there's always that one upper-management person that just hates your guts if you're uncool or just different from them. No matter how you try, they'll never let you develop a rapport with them.

Ultimately these people talk shit about you and sour your relationship with everyone, to the point where your boss has to eventually give you the "poor team fit" discussion which precedes termination.

There's not much you can do; you simply NEED to be liked on a personal level by each and every individual who matters in any given office. It's also not enough to be generally pleasant and competent, if you're not able to make your coworkers laugh on an almost daily basis, and if it feels like pulling teeth just to get them to open up to you (without disrespect), then they don't like you and you're on the way out.
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>>26169199
They aren't, it's in your head anon. At the absolute worst they simply don't give a shit about you, but they don't hate you, unless you're actively being a dick.
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>>26170647
I dunno about that one. I'm just assuming that it's stupidity+fear of the unknown.
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>>26169199
Are they really? I'm an introvert and I'm scared to start working (never had a job) for reasons like this. Along with social anxiety and shit, it sounds awful.
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>>26169199

It's literally because of 'oh he's quiet all the time, he's probably going to shoot up the place' XDDDD.

Faggots then wonder why the person retreats even further.
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You probably mean asshole, not introverted. I'm introverted and nobody hates me.
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Maybe you're an awful person, I talk to very few people and barely start conversations but people seem to love me and I can't pin down why. The work slut won't even leave me alone
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>>26170761
They don't think that though, where are you getting this idea? Did someone openly tell you this, or did you overhear it, or do you just assume people think that?
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>>26170738
its human nature. you HAVE to be social, doesnt matter with whom. could be a little niche underground star trek watching club full of "dorky" people with zits all over their faces or with your "crew" at "da" club(lmeo).

not being able to properly socialize with people is like a fish not knowing how to swim. you suck at one of the few things that are fundamental for humans living in a society, so now youre fucked, and no one cares.
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>>26170800

That is the mindset of normies.
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>>26170800
im not that guy, but people in hs "joked" about me shooting up the school. and by "joked" i mean made fun of me in my expense. i was the joke, not part of it.

so, hmm.
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>>26170035
Fucking
Disgusting
(this comment is original)
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>>26169553
this one.
it's why you're never allowed to be negative and it's why people ignore the homeless.
don't ruin this perfect, great awesome life for everyone else broooooooo!!!! when something bad happens, just fuck off by yourself and deal with it alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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>>26169199

It's because most people are extroverts and fail to understand what it's like to get tired of being around people and socializing.

They see your introversion as being either stuck up or afraid to speak, and lose respect for you because they're ignorant twats.
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>>26169485

How hard is it get a decent grade? You come in, say hi to whoever you see, do your work, occasionally team up for the sake of the higher goal and then leave. I admit that in some settings, things are more complicated but I work in an office and can just sit at my desk with my headphones for a few hours without anyone bothering me.
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Introverted people are disliked for one good reason I can think of. They're much less likely to engage in typical group discussion. Typical group discussion often being vapid, shallow, and generic. This discussion isn't meant to bring about anything meaningful, but simply to establish group cohesion. Introverts tend to engage in this discussion very little, undermining attempts at cohesion. One reason for their reviled state.

There could be a whole host of other reasons, but I'm too lazy to think of them right now.
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>>26169199
cause we are seen as self important egotist
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>>26170298
No I'm a man, I was implying that you were the woman. Men who are supposed to lead but don't get shunned and become loners.
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>>26169485
>>26169199

This shit honestly make me want to blow my fucking brains out

I hate this world so much
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>>26169485
Was your boss a cunt?
guess not
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Cause everybody hates work. When trying to make work bearable, a lot of people try to find somebody to love, but it's hard to love or even be entertained by someone who doesn't even talk.
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>>26169199
because they are seen as a threat. like a "if you're not with us, you're against us" attitude. So the dude who comes in, does the hours, keeps to himself and goes home when the clock strikes 4 o clock will definitely be hates by at least one person.

engaging in contact with one another assures a sense of safety within a group, so the extroverted person who doesn't understand will always have a problem with it because it's a mystery. extroverted people don't like unknowns. it tears them apart so they will do their best to make things work but when it doesn't it just get awkward on both ends
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>>26169485
being graded on socializing is a thing? wtf
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>>26169724
no shit
>i don't socialize, why does everyone hate me???
just because you're an introvert does NOT give you an excuse to not socialize. this doesn't mean you have to be an extroverted fuck, but jesus, it's not hard to greet someone at work and ask how they're doing and shoot the shit. i'm an introvert and do it every damn day.

source: real life experience
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>>26169199
i was feared in the workplace
walk with a clipboard and no-one dared step to me
no-one wants to get killed by weird guy
no-one wants to have awkward conversation with weird guy
wierd guy doing his thing, let him be
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>>26171679
i'm the "angry" guy at work. what people don't know is that i was actually diagnosed with Tourettes syndrome as a child.

my anger isn't actually anger, it's me having Tourettes outbursts. like people at work are genuinely afraid of me, they think i'm gonna lose it and harm them, i guess?
does it scare people when i curse loudly? i think they're scared of someone who expresses anger so readily and freely. i express anger like any other emotion, it comes and passes like nothing happened, i'm not going to beat someone to death because i got angry, like i'm not gonna rape you because i felt horny.

fear is just silly to me.
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>>26169919
Psychiatry isn't a science. What is or isn't a mental illness is entirely arbitrary.
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There is literally nothing worse than having to attempt a normie facade in the workplace

I honestly struggle to hold a job for more than a few months because of how socially ostracized I am
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Over the course of the last few years i've become more social with normies. At my work place I'll talk to coworkers and they'll say:

"[coworker] is weird"
"why"
"he never talks"
"So, maybe he's just a little introverted"
"It's weird. It's not normal to never talk like that."

They just don't understand some people don't live by blabbing constantly
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Because extroverts are like dogs, they always need attention and someone to play with and introverts do not give them that to the extend they need, so they automatically assume that they are rude or do not like them.
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>>26169884
Depends on your definition of alpha in the workplace. I can be assertive in some aspects at work and I always tell funny jokes and make everyone, not just the women, laugh at work. I get along well with everyone except one cunt or two. People respect me and I always help out whenever I can and they always seem grateful when I do. They're good people there.

>>26169988
I think some of them flirt with me most of the time. I tend to do so unintentionally and intentionally with some of them. I work in a produce department and we take care of flowers so whenever there's a broken flower from the stem I carry that around in my chest pocket and they get all cutesy about it. Usually at the end of the day I give it away to one of them and make them feel good about themselves. Always bring a smile to them.
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>>26172231
It's pretty hard for me to find people in real life who are like me, that's why I've only met people that I genuinely like online. I maintain contact with real life friends because I need to go out and start doing shit instead of sitting on my computer all day. Sometimes it's frustrating dealing with how normal they are. Any unique idea/view doesn't get understood. For people like us, the struggle to maintain a normie facade is a fact of life for coworkers, friends, and anyone else we need to interact with. You either deal with it or become a complete shut-in.
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Because they're smarter and more threatening economically.
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>>26171139

This guy dug a little deeper.

Good job, tiger.
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>>26169647
mental illness isn't anyones fault, it's a fault of circumstance, an unavoidable thing in life you need to accept
GET OUT OF MY BOARD NORMIE REEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>>26169199
Fucking hell I hate the extroverty crap.
>HR department (Made up entirely of women of course) always making people have forced fun
>the whole floor has to take part, and if you refuse you're not a team player
>you're expected to dress up and take part in decorating contests
>feels like you're being treated like a child
>used to have these special off-site days where groups of people had to share their feelings and talk about their personal lives
>at the end of these off-site days they used to make people hold hands in a circle and jump in the air, shouting the brand values
>it's not as bad these days but they still heavily push the "feel-good' crap

The place really feels like being back at kindergarten sometimes.
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>>26171744
that's a bad one, sorry anon :(
for me ihave anxiety and when i idn't answaer i think people whould think i was being an asshole
on purpose
like a psycho man or something stereotypical quiet guy
i talk to no-one and so no-one talked to me
(for many years) lol
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Everyone at work seems to like me because of my humor. I credit most of my wittiness to 4chan.
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I'd guess it'd be because when a person is quiet and introverted, they don't go and make some level of connection with their co-workers. Thus, the co-workers don't ever get a chance to get to know you. People generally want to feel comfortable in their work environment. Getting to know who you're working with, or having an idea of what kind of person the co-workers have to deal with, makes them more comfortable. I don't mean to say this in a demeaning way OP. but by being introverted, you're making your co-workers uncomfortable, and it's because they don't know all that much about you. Who would want to show up to work every day having to try and work with someone you feel as though doesn't want to get along?
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Right, but where you at work or school? People change immensely once they get out of highschool, even the shitty people. They either straighten up and become better people or they become burnouts desperate for companionship.

Either way, far as I've found, nobody in the adult world gives a shit about how shy you are or what your social status is, they honestly can't even spare the effort of forming a cohesive opinion about you (unless you have a huge impact on their life, which I'm guessing you don't). The only people who care how much of a "creep" or a "loser" you are are the ones who still DO care about social status, and they're too busy thinking about themselves to think about you.

You need to get out of the middle/highschool mindset, I've been reconnecting with people I fucking hated in school who turned out to be cool as fuck as adults. The idea of social status is poisonous and artificial and only applies to schools and prisons. Once again I can't stress this enough: NOBODY GIVES A SHIT ABOUT YOU. USE THIS TO YOUR ADVANTAGE. EVERY TIME YOU STEP INTO SOMEONE'S LIFE IT'S A NEW OPPORTUNITY TO REPRESENT YOURSELF, AND ALL ANYONE IS LOOKING FOR, ALL EVERYONE IN THE WORLD IS LOOKING FOR, IS A FRIEND, MAKING ENEMIES AND SINGLING PEOPLE OUT IS SOMETHING A MINORITY OF REALLY SHITTY PEOPLE DO.

You deserve to be happy and everyone wants you to be happy. Everyone wants someone in good spirits around them, doesn't matter who they are or who you are. That's what value you have to people, just allow yourself to have a good time and don't worry about your status and just have fun in the moment, try to engage in peoples' bullshit instead of worrying about yourself and I 100% garaun-fucking-tee you everyone in any room will like you. Every single person. Except the bitter ones, but they can just fuck right off.

Seriously, go try it. Just go and be a person, for fuck's sake. It took me waaaay to long to learn that.
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>>26172687
father is a high ranking police officer and he has to do regular meetings with other high staff members and there comes days where some cunt will ask how everyone is going and expects a detailed evaluation of their life during the week and weekend like some mothers club instead of discussing actual fucking work.
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>>26169199
Extroverts need attention to feel satisfied

Introverts need isolation to feel satisfied

You are both are naturally opposed to each other's lifestyles and are doing the opposite of what each other want you to do
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>>26169423
This.
Women love you. You're polite and don't give any trouble. You just do your work and get out. In fact you can get away with being lazy a lot of the time with them.
Guys on the other hand just either don't respect you, or flat out hate you. I mean, women don't really expect you to talk with them, but guys expect you to banter with them and all that stuff, and be outspoken and alpha, and if you aren't, then you might as well not be a guy in their eyes.
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>professionalism
>hated
I don't say a single word at work almost everyday, my boss loves me.
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>>26172737
That's not true though, as long as you don't piss your coworkers off, then it shouldn't negatively impact your worth in the eyes of your boss.
I'm a web dev and I quit last my job because I got a B on my first review for "socialization". My boss admitted that I was by far the most productive worker and I even saved a project and the company tens of thousands of dollars single handedly, but I got a worse score than others just because I didn't speak unless spoken to, I'd go weeks of work without opening my mouth to say even one word, yet I still outperformed all of my peers at the actual job we are getting payed for.
I told him he's giving me a $20k raise or I'm quitting, he didn't so I told him I quit. Luckily I'm in Ohio with a low cost of living and I live with my parents so I have a lot of money saved up, and since there are a lot of open jobs here since no one wants to live here, I got a higher paying job while only working 30 hours a week the next week and my new boss has no problem with me.
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>>26172738
>You deserve to be happy and everyone wants you to be happy.
>100% garaun-fucking-tee you everyone in any room will like you. Every single person. Except the bitter ones, but they can just fuck right off.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm
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>People on this board think "introverted" means "cunt with avoidant personality disorder"

Protip: Most introverts can get on fine with people, they just prefer little or no company
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The truth is I don't really like being a NEET. Being broke all the time sucks.

But I can't handle the social aspect at work. I've been fired from a couple of jobs solely because of my lack of socialization. Why can't people just go to work, do their job, and go home? Why do you have to chat up your coworkers for most the day? It doesn't help that I have virtually nothing in common with your average normal so its not like I can engage them over their stupid kids or them whining over their stupid meaningless "problems" they usually caused themselves.

Find me a job where I don't have to talk to anyone and I get paid enough to survive and I will NEET no longer.
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>>26173052
The bitter ones are the ones who don't speak up, so you don't even have to worry about them.
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>>26173072
This, introvert/extrovert is more of a subconscious thing. You can get on as well as any extrovert, it's just gonna take more out of you, you feel like you need to be alone to "recharge". The advantage is you get to enjoy your time alone, which is just as valuable as your time spent socializing.

Also extroverts can be bad at socializing, usually they take the form of dickbags who get off on annoying people.
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>>26173281
What do you do when you literally have no interest in common with the norms? can't really find someone to discuss Hume and Voltaire with.
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>>26169988
Yes!! Yes!!! I couldn't agree more
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>>26173389
>What do you do when you literally have no interest in common with the norms?
Pretend you do, or pretend to hate something they hate

If you really were intelligent this wouldn't be hard

BTW Hume is for plebs
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>>26173457
it's quite tiring to have to pretend all the time.
>Hume is for plebs
le
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>>26169199
I just pretend to be extroverted. In fact, I just fake whatever personality that's needed for the particular situation, in order to get ahead. It's extremely tiring, but it works. I can get along with virtually anyone, but actually deeply hate most people I meet.

BEEing urself around others if you're introverted is absolutely retarded. First of all, it leaves you vulnerable to all sorts of attacks, being exploited, ignored, or fired.
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>>26169199
You gotta be attractive anon
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>>26173803
this. all u need is lie every fucking time when ppl are around you. Just dont forget to release stress in privacy
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>used to work in an office
>boss bitches at me whenever I ask a question
>whenever co-workers ask questions she gives long answer and laughs and talks to them because they are normies
>One day I get mad at this shit
>ask a question
>when she starts to tell me she is 'too busy' to do her job and help the people she manages try to be as edgy as possible
>'w-w-w-well my BOYFRIEND fucked my PUSSY so I missed my P-R-APArking sPACE this morning NOW I'VE TOLD YOU ABOUT MY FUCKING DAY MAYBE YOU CAN ANSWER MY QUESTION'
>she looks at me stunned
>everyone staring at me
>I get in trouble for this
>end up getting fired 3 weeks later
>got fired for 'not learning quickly enough'
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Anybody else just never feel lonely? Even if I'm cut off from the internet and alone for months I feel perfectly fine.
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>>26170647
> maybe because a lot of us are introverts that have been shit on by people all our lives.

This. I used to be very social, but bullying and rejection caused me the become the autistic introvert I am today
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>>26173457
Genuinely be interested in their shit. You don't need to contribute if you don't have anything to say, people are happy to have a blank face to unload their shit on. You can learn all sorts of weird shit by just turning your brain off and listening, like I don't give a shit about cars but I live around a bunch of gearheads and it's kinda interesting to listen to their chatter.

When people get going and you just let them talk they will get REALLY deep into some shit, down to the most obscure details they can think of, and you learn interesting stuff from those details, and the more you just let people talk the more comfortable they'll be around you. When you feel like you really have something to say on the current topic then say it, otherwise don't worry about not speaking up, just hang back and listen.

Believe me it's a weird mindset to get into, it's something I'm actively trying to get myself into and so far it's going great. It takes a lot of work, step by step, to get in a zone where you're not feeling constant anxiety and getting lost in your own thoughts when you're in a social situation, but I think it can be done. The more you do it, the less stressed you'll be, but you gotta actually do it.
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>>26173803
>BEEing urself around others if you're introverted is absolutely retarded. First of all, it leaves you vulnerable to all sorts of attacks, being exploited, ignored, or fired.

What the fuck do you actually think is gonna happen to you anon? You think someone's gonna give you a wedge if you admit you like anime?
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>>26169199
It's the same as school, sadly. If you don't fit in, expect to be cast out.

People form pecking orders and tribal mentalities real damn quick in groups, and if you don't buy into that shit for whatever reason you'll be targeted for being different.

High school never ends.
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>>26174001
I feel like there's more to this story that you can't express or refuse to because of autism.
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>>26174001
is this shit real
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>>26174001
>praparking space
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>>26174130
youre in the wrong place

i envy you
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>>26174323
It definitely has pros but people end up hating me just cause I don't need them. It's weird
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>>26171659
>it's not hard to greet someone at work and ask how they're doing and shoot the shit. i'm an introvert and do it every damn day.

I find this so stupid and pointless, when you already know that person is miserable, hates working, and wish they could do whatever they want, but instead will tell you otherwise, so they are not considered abnormal by societies standards. Everything is built off of lies.

>Get real, anon.
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>>26169553
>illusion that life is good and has purpose
This
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>>26174561
>..when you already know that person is miserable, hates working, and wish they could do whatever they want, but instead will tell you otherwise

Keep hiding under the fact that you call yourself an "introvert" to excuse the fact you are horrible at any social interaction. Not only that but you seem to blame normal social interaction as "society standars" what the fuck...
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>>26174323
He's a true robot.
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>not manipulating every normie at work
>not putting on a smile to fool everyone
>not sucking up to your boss so you'll get easier work
>not being nice to everyone so you'll never get into trouble even though you constantly make mistakes
>not telling your coworkers about all the shit your boss says about them behind their backs
>not getting an A+ for collegiality during your performance interview

Just smiling and being nice to everyone makes my life a lot easier.
Might be the fact I don't have to work with women though.
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Normies hate anyone who doesn't buy in into their scam and pretends to be happy 24/7. They don't want to see people who aren't normies and happy all the time, because it threatens their perception of the world. To live in this delusion is what they call social skills.
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>>26174822
Autism at it's finest folks
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>>26169199
Because social ability is seen as a must have in the work place.

I completely agree and disagree depending on the job it's for.
I'm an awkward and social retard but why the fuck can't I do data entry or file management?
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>>26174847
So tell me why I'm wrong instead of insulting me.
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>>26174857
First off this is an opinion. Just because you come up with some psuedo phychological proposal doesn't mean it's true, so stop acting like it is.

Secondly, people like being happy and hearing that people are happy, certain folks don't like hearing how someone is down in the dumps and that their dad is going through a serious bout of chron's disease. More than anything social interaction boils down to getting to know someone better. Once you're friends then people divulge sad shit.
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>>26174951
>First off this is an opinion
As is everything in your post. So yeah.
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>>26174996
forgot source:
>going outside
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>>26175024
Yeah see that doesn't mean shit to me. You're just trying to give your opinions more value by implying that you are more social than me. That's essentially an ad hom. So I don't give a shit, since you can't prove any of it.
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>>26175049
No that's the thing, you won't learn unless you actually interact with people failure or not.

You're right i can't prove it, only you can by testing, and only you can make the decision to accept it.
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>>26175090
Yeah because people really like interacting with someone who doesn't share their mindset. Fucking retarded advice.
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>>26175145
>interacting with someone who doesn't share their mindset
I do it everyday, social interaction isnt just about you anon it's a two way street.

Anon for fucks sake if you don't want to try then keep crying to someone to validate your opinion.

Making excuses won't help your situation more or less.
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>>26173803
This anon managed to sum it up quite nicely. Fellow introverts, learn to get past your initial social anxiety so that you may level up!
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>>26175209
No I don't want to try. You got that right. I don't see why I should when many people have it easier than me. Call it crying or whining if you want, but it's the simple truth.
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>>26175258
Good at least you admitted it, now then can you stop bitching about how it's unfair that "people have it easier than me". You sound like a SJW for real.
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>>26175297
No I will keep bitching about it. I'm not gonna accept it like a bitch. See that's what a bitch would do, bitch gets dealt a bad hand and keeps playing even if it's obvious that he can't win. By this he helps the other players who got better cards while getting nothing out of it compared to them. That is what a bitch does.
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>>26175340
Lol good luck blaming personal failures on the rest of society.
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>>26175385
Well society likes to deflect responsibility for everything. I mean I get it, you would want me to be a good goy. To think that everything bad in my life is due to my decisions. That things out of my control didn't play any role in this, but that ain't happening, for I know it's bullshit. And so do you, you just keep pretending it isn't as the rest of deluded normies.
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>>26174561
You don't have to lie, and the more honest you are the more honest they'll be. I tell people I'm an awkward virgin NEET all the time, that I'm into weird shit and spend most of my time alone in my own filth drinking shitty vodka, and it started out kinda awkward but now we both laugh it off because everyone has some shit they're dealing with.

Went over to a friend's place, hadn't seen him in months, I saw him hanging out and being super social with people, chatting up girls, I was envious of him. He asks me how I'm doing and I tell him the truth, he tells me he's poor, he's got a shit job, he's been single for years, that he's surrounded by complete assholes 24/7, and we just laugh it off and move on. This seems to happen more and more as I force myself to do it and it totally relaxes me for the rest of the night, you have no fucking clue.

You just gotta try it, just take a leap of faith. Open up and shit, it'll be hard but you'll numb yourself to the awkwardness of it. Then the few times you actually DO go out you get to enjoy those times instead of being depressed and terrified of judgement.
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>>26175462
People have gone through worst shit and lived to tell the tale. The irony in your comment is that being a bitch in reality is accepting your stupid fate as a "victim of circumstance". You make you're own decisions, your life is what you make of it. Live it or don't
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>>26170484
that darn mtv
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>>26175583
Yeah they got shat on by luck and normie society. And they still worked hard to live in it. If that's not being a bitch then I don't know what is. Kinda like a dog who is getting beaten up regularly but always comes back to his master. That's what it's like to live as an inferior human. If you decide to live, your live will be filled with failure, delusion and humiliation.
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>>26169584
Thank you.
I'm rather introverted myself, and often get called out for it, but I'm moderately successful with other people, and am generally well-liked
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>>26175644
Aight i tap out, you win. fucking g8 b8 my friend. Seriously fucking 10/10 4chin for win
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>recently got myself a job doing landscaping and show shoveling by myself

The only human being i've talked to for the last 4 months is my boss.
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>>26169199
because we don't indulge retards in normie-speak
making them realise how ridiculous they are without someone as pathetic as them to complain about their dumb problems in a workplace
they feel invalidated when we don't care that "adam is gluten free now" or when other trivial shit happens and is such a big deal to them
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>>26175671
Well I wasn't trolling. I am 100% serious in what I say.
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>"hey anon how come you're not talking?"
>idk i guess i don't have anything to say
>hfw

it got to me everytime. idk if i was being rude or if they really didn't understand the idea of not aimlessly talking about irrelevant bullshit.they didn't have conversation really, they basically took turns telling stories. nobody gave a fuck. they were just waiting for their turn to tell theirs.
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>>26175693
nail on head.
we show that we don't give a damn, while everyone else pretends they do. it's mostly women who get butthurt by this.
"omg, omg, teacher, Anon isn't participating!!!" same thing.
i don't have these problems with people who are at least 30 years old.
young people are just retarded in every way, as was i when i was young, but i was highly self aware, i consciously tried to be modest.
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>>26171336
>Cause everybody hates work.
Legal slavery*
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>>26174744
>>26175488
Nice try at trying to psychoanalyze me, but you failed terribly. I am very good at socializing, but what I said before still stands, because it is true. It is obvious you do not see like I do about reality, so I am not even going to bother.

Not afraid of:
>People
>Judgement
>et cetera

Also, even though I am easily capable of socializing does not mean that I want to constantly have a full on conversation with you (if I worked with you). I find that annoying as hell, because it makes you seem like a needy bitch (e.g. like a woman or child).
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>>26169348
This. It may look like a paradox, but extroverted people are the one with no empathy in this society, and they are the 95% of the total(at least). Thats why everithing is shit in this world.
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>>26176003
Being good at socializing has nothing to do with it. I was "good at socializing" when I was in highschool but I still felt like shit around people every day. The goal here is not to be a social butterfly, it's to truly enjoy socializing, like sincerely, and allowing yourself to enjoy it.

I'm not saying you HAVE to enjoy it, but there are a lot of enjoyable things about it, cool shit just happens if you allow it to go there instead of being a detached, bitter faggot who thinks he's better than everyone else. I'm not saying you have to do it, maybe you just really love being alone, but I am trying to sell you on it if I'm being honest.
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>>26169348
>extroverts have never ever been lonely in their entire lives and don't understand it at all

It's the extroverts who feel the loneliest when they're alone.
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>>26173830
>boss gets on my case about not talking to anyone ever
>have a single short conversation with someone else
>boss then gets on my case about wasting time talking
>neither of us even had anything to do, it was either that or pretend to work
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>>26176103
Not him, but what is there enjoyable about pretending to enjoy things? About constantly feeling like I'm walking on eggshells so I don't say something that hurts someones feelings? About letting people humiliate and laugh at you because lolbantermate and because they have the numbers so they get away with it. There is nothing enjoyable about social situations. Like many people ITT, I can fake it, but it's so frustrating and tiring you wouldn't believe.
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>>26176103
>detached, bitter faggot who thinks he's better than everyone else.
Wrong

>>26176103
>maybe you just really love being alone
Right
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>my tourettes outbursts at work are more preferable than me not talking at all
at least everyone is entertained by me even though they won't admit it. they don't know i have tourettes, they just think i'm weird.
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>Why are awkward people so hated in the work place?
FTFY
Being introvert doesn't mean you're not good with socializing.
I'm introvert, and I'm good too at socializing.
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>>26176209
Why are awkward people hated though?
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>>26176137
You don't have to pretend to enjoy anything. Just enjoy what you enjoy and don't be ashamed of it. If you don't share enough interests with someone then just say you know nothing about what they're talking about, and they'll either try to change the subject or just talk to someone else, and you can listen to them and chime in with no pressure if you feel the need.

And if you hurt someone's feelings then big fucking deal, if they don't speak out against you then it's officially their problem. If you have self-respect you look out for yourself and speak up when you feel offended or insulted, you don't just sit there and absorb it like a little bitch. Believe me that you are not the weirdest or most offensive person in anyone's circle, some people might get offended some people won't.

And who are you worrying about humiliating and laughing at you? Normies? They don't give a flying fuck about you, if anything they'll just feel genuinely bad for you and try to change the subject. Hell everyone I've admitted my nogf virgin lifestyle to has been sympathetic towards me, and I live in a trash town full of trash people. Then we forget it and just move on into some inane bullshit.

And believe me, I fucking know that feel. I've known it for my entire life, every one of your posts is exactly what I would have written a few years ago when I was the loneliest fucker on the planet. NEET as fuck, went "out" maybe three times a year so I could sit awkwardly in the corner of a room and worry about how I could morph my personality to fit the situation and make everyone "like" me, so that I wouldn't offend anyone, or start any fights, my only objective was to not have a panic attack, and I'd go home knowing that I filled my quota of "socializing" and wondering when this shit was gonna be over.

I know exactly what that shit feels like anon. That shit is all lies though, humanity is better than you give it credit for. It's honestly just teenagers who are shitty like that.
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>>26176274
Awkward people are cute.
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>>26176336
> Just enjoy what you enjoy and don't be ashamed of it.
Well that's kinda not possible in this world, since humans are social animals and I everything is more enjoyable for me when done alone(inb4 someone mentions sex, it should be obvious I'm not getting any of that).

Also if you're not a Chad, no one gives a shit if you feel offended. And if you offend people, you get expelled from the social circle. It's that simple.

Normies and sympathetic? Don't make me laugh, they secretly loathe you and laugh at you.

Everything you've said is bullshit pretty much.
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>>26174165
This.

I hate most people I talk to, but you'd be surprised how much normies talk if you just ask questions, maintain eye contact and let them go off on whatever is bothering them at that moment and really listen. That's all that's needed when you talk to the norms, a listening ear. Then they think you're really quiet but don't hate you so much.

The milleage may vary because many of them just assume that quiet people are horrible and insult them for not talking much when you're within earshot. Fuckin' idiots.
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>>26174178
They'll make fun of you behind your back or when you're within earshot.
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>>26172871
very true
When i first start work in a warehouse nightshift, my first day i just 'being myself bro xD' and i could tell all the men were starting to hate me. By day two i changed and adapted to their ways and now i hang out with the two alphas.

if only they knew i go home and watch anime
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7kLsDK19WM

Never turned my back on society, society turned it's back on me. Never tried once to drop out I just couldn't get in from the very start.
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>>26174857
That actually sounds like autism though. I'm not trying to insult you.
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>>26176620
Well if you think I'm autistic that doesn't really relate to what we were talking about. You were just trying to derail.
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>>26176380
>And if you offend people, you get expelled from the social circle. It's that simple.

Are you kidding me? No you fucking don't. I yelled the nigger word out loud, in an insanely racist southern black man voice, in front of a gay hipster black guy and nothing happened to me. I've yelled "GAS THE KIKES RACEWAR NOW" several times amongst groups of complete strangers (with like one or two friends mixed in who get the joke but that's it) and nothing happened to me. I've made some vile fucking sexist/homophobic jokes just for the fuck of it and nothing happened to me. And I didn't apologize for any of it.

And if it sounds like I'm bragging I am, I only started to try this kind of stuff about a year ago and I'm fucking proud of myself god dammit. Nobody tried to shame me, or hurt me, or laugh at my problems, or anything. I'm not saying that not giving a fuck will make people like you, I'm not even saying you don't have to care if people like you, I'm saying you need to try and trust people, and try working under the assumption that most people actually are good.

That's all I've found so far, I've been waiting for someone to point and laugh at me, or shun me from going to a party, or for someone to start sizing me down and call me a pathetic loser, but it hasn't happened yet. It hasn't even come close to happening.

Once again it's a highschool mentality, teenagers are only like that because they feel the need to place themselves on some shitty social hierarchy they made up, and NO ONE involved is fucking happy. They laugh and mock to put you down and move themselves up, so that nobody will laugh at and mock them, they do it out of defense, not pleasure. Even the jocks and babes weren't happy, because they were forcing themselves into relationships with people they barely knew but wanted to fuck for the status.

You ever see a teenage couple get into an argument? Shit's stupid as fuck every time. Teenagers are just miserable and stupid.
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>>26169833
>There's no such thing as mental illness
Objectively wrong
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>>26176641
Few sentences I've read convinced me that you're just a bragging faggot. Get fucked.
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>>26176686
Yeah, what of it? I feel really good and I want to brag to SOMEONE, so I might as well brag to you fuckers. Why, you using that bandwidth for anything more important?
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>>26169199
never mind socializing at work

but who here HATES work outtings? Especially the annual christmas party?

Fuck me i hate that shit so fucking much. I come there to work, get paid and go home. I don't give a fuck about your shitty family and what you guys get up to.

>worked IT in construction company
>everyone was a family tier bogan
>boss expecting me to go to the company outings
>gotta make up excuse every fucking time cause i can't stand them
>finally go to some family picnic thing
>literally kids running around everywhere
>i'm 22 btw so i don't fit in with all the 40+ year olds
>stay for half an hour and bail home

fuck sake that was unbearable. Even at my new job i only showed up at my christmas party for half an hour and then i bailed. I say go to show face and just appear to be "involved" and then say you got commitments and bail after 30mins. Least they see you put the effort in for trying and thats what matters with these people.
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>>26174822
>threatens their perception of the world. To live in this delusion is what they call social skills.

100% true.
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>>26176729
Well since I didn't really read your posts much, just skimmed through because I can see a bragging post from a mile away. No I'm not using that bandwith on you.

But what you just admitted is that you're not trying to give advice, you're not even trying to contribute to the discussion. You're just bragging to make us feel worse, just trying to raise your confidence. Which is why robots should NEVER trust normies. Because that's all they're going to do. If you're not a Chad, only thing you're good for is so other people can use you to get confidence. Don't give them the pleasure by trying to fit in society. You're playing right into their hand.
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>>26170725
you are much better to leave on your own terms than get fired. Not sure where you live but in australia if we leave we get all our annual leave paid out so hopefully you get that too.

Leave peacefully and get a good reference and thats what matters.
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>>26171744
seriously hope you are not around phones or customers lol
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>>26176766
I gotta say I'm pretty fucking flattered right now, that you think yelling some swear words in a crowd is brag-worthy, means I'm doing something right. I've only been bragging to myself for the past few weeks because I don't wanna unload that shit on anyone like they even give half a fuck, but you guys, you'll always give a shit.

And here is the only place I'll indulge it to, because at the end of the day I'm just another normie who wandered in from leddit. You won't remember any of this masturbatory garbage I'm writing, you said yourself you barely even read it. It's just bits in the wind man, gotta get it out of my system. And there is some genuine advice in those posts, it's like a good 70/30 between bragging/advice.
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>>26176746
This
Normies don't understand we don't share the same interest
I don't like drinking
I don't fuckihg care about news and politics
I don't listen to your boring music
I dont want to waste $60 in restaruant for some shit that I can cook for $8
God damn they think you're a monster if you are not as boring as them

To make it worse, they know I don't have gf and have no interest in getting one. God damn these cucks
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>>26176893
There is no such thing as advice. When people give advice it worked for them and that doesn't mean it can work for anyone else. It worked for them due to their initial conditions, because they got lucky in some way and so it helped. So your posts are 100% bragging.
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>30ish employees at my company
>only 5 men, including me

Feels bad man. Working in a place full of women is not as good as you think it'd be. I'm 20 and they're all 30-50, except for this one girl who's 20 something. I dislike socialising with any of them, since all they ever do is make small talk about the weather, or talk about their kids or their husbands or how men are so terrible. There's one woman I can actually have a decent conversation with, but she's a dirty liberal hippy who thinks she's really cultured because she lived in India for 10 years. She actually tried to tell me about muh wagegap once and I had to physically hold back the urge to sperg out and tell her why it's bullshit.

As for the guys at the company, they're actually pretty bro-tier, but you can tell they're basically dead inside due to being stuck in a shitty dead-end office job for years and years. I honestly think they're much more suited for the management roles since they can actually handle responsibility and aren't emotional wrecks like the women here, but sadly only 1 of the 5ish managers is male. And women complain that THEY're the ones outnumbered in the workplace.

tl;dr men are much more interesting people and better workers
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>>26176963
>working in a female dominated workplace

how the fuck does anything get done at all? Seriously i'm curious how any work gets done since all females do is small talk 24/7

You'd think the small amount of guys there would be bro tier given who else is there.

Just work for experience OP, soon as you are ready to jump, do it.
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>>26176934
Didn't get lucky and all, I worked my ass off to improve my outlook on life. I still can't sustain eye contact for more than a second or two, or be in a room full of total strangers for more than a few minutes without having half a panic attack, but I'm working on it, and I've been working on it.

I didn't wait to go out, the opportunities didn't happen upon me, I put myself out there for once and that's the biggest reason I feel as good as I do right now.

I'm saying it's possible, I'm saying I'm a still in-progress example of that. Whether I'm succeeding or not is starting to bother me less and less because it's becoming so thrilling to stick my neck out and risk rejection. I didn't just run into some dude that changed my life, I fucking pondered on that shit for years and years, with basically no one to support me but my parents, which made me feel even shittier because I felt sheltered and spoiled for what little support I had.

I just couldn't take it anymore and started looking for solutions, that's the only thing you need to do. Start looking for solutions and keep trying new things, chip away at my insecurities one day at a time, pushing myself into terrifying social situations simply to make them less terrifying. Not being scared and on edge in social situations is worth it on its own, and I think that's a good goal for a NEET to shoot for.
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>>26177085
Man, re-reading this, this is a pretty insane set of paragraphs, I'm gonna stop now.
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>>26177096
That's alright. I didn't even read it. I'm not gonna take "advice" from a bragging faggot.
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>>26176922
It is strange when you read something that sounds like yourself who wrote it, but it is somebody else. Although, I would have added more.
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>>26177120
Thanks anon, I'm glad you didn't.
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>tfw admit to boss i have severe social anxiety
>tfw he forces me to go to company picnic anyway

JUST
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>>26177045
>how the fuck does anything get done at all? Seriously i'm curious how any work gets done since all females do is small talk 24/7

Yup pretty much. All they do is bitch about people behind their backs then put on a nice face when they have to work with them. And they always pull bullshit excuses for taking off hours of work like "I need to leave early and see my baby" or "My periods are playing up, I need to go home". They always make huge fuckups as well, which the guys inevitably have to come and sort out. They're just ditzy as fuck and shouldn't be given any sort of responsibility.

Idk man, it's a fairly comfy job and it's only really the people that are shitty. The company probably only has a few years left anyway since it'll either go under or be sold. Hopefully I won't get the sack since I'm a young newbie, and if the new owners have any sense they'll put more men into the higher roles so that we can actually get this place back on track and cut the bullshit.
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>didn't go to the christmas party
>didn't give any valid reason, made up some bullshit like "oh I might be busy that day"
>everyone could tell I just didn't want to come
>no fucks given
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>tfw had 10% docked from my annual pay because my socializing report was poor
>tfw have to take a course in March to develop my social skills
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>Quit last two jobs working in hospitality as a waiter due to anxiety and depression.
>Spent the next months after getting on Centrelink getting even worse to the point where I get dizzy and light-headed from worry even being outside by myself.
>Job service provider was in the process of setting me up with a landscaping job where I don't have to talk with customers and just focus on some nice, mentally relaxing repetitive gardening and mowing.
>Got a phone call today saying I got the job as a kitchen hand that I applied for and that I start tomorrow.
>I only applied because I needed to apply for 20 jobs a month as part of my Centrelink requirements.
I don't think I'm going to make it.
My chest muscles won't stop spasming from anxiety, I'm trembling and I feel nothing but terror.
I just wanted to cut grass and move piles of dirt around but I can't say no to another paying job because more money equals more savings which makes me feel a bit more safe in case of bad things happening.
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>>26172756
>police officer

Sorry that your dad dropped out of high school, anon.
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>>26177572
I always say i have a family thing planned as it sounds more legit and everyone knows "family comes first"
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>>26177626
what the fuck, thats fucking BS. You are doing the job correctly right? Take those fucks to court, and contact your union if you can. That shit is so illegal.>>26172756
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>>26172756
>works in a job where there is constant stress, seeing dead bodies, lots of gore, and some of the worst society has to offer
>boss wants to check in to see if his employees are doing ok
>this is bad

kill yourself OP, if you actually knew what kind of shit police officers had to see you'd agree that this simple basic counciling is enough to keep them going.
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>>26177626
>had 10% docked from my annual pay because my socializing report was poor

Bullshit.
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>>26169409
>most innovation comes from people stepping away from the herd
>exploration comes from leaving the nest for the unknown lonely boundaries
Cavendish and Heaviside were hyperrobots and some of the greatest scientists of all time. Ditto for the hacker club at MIT that started the computer revolution. Gross, autistic weirdos fixated on their computers.

The real reason is that normies can't stand their vapid existence being challenged by an alternative. Every time they see a loner, they must at some level know that it's someone "who sees what they're doing and considers it beneath him."

Normie life is so stressful and unnatural that normies must maintain prestige and demonize the outsider as much as possible--as well as rewrite history.
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>>26169199
Because they're useless from a business perspective.
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>>26173132
become a programmer
>little interaction with others
>meet fellow robots and autists in the field
>just do your job as a code monkey, receive your pay and go home
it was a job made for robots
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>>26170725
I'm getting fucked around by a bitch who was claiming to leave that year to pursue her real dreams only to stay and fight because she heard I was new and making more money than her.

She has seniority which is why she's bitter because no one paid her adequately. So far she made 50% of the office only tolerate me but 75% percent of them think I fuckup often. Fat fucking bitch, go be a journalist already and quit so I can stop wondering if my job is in jeopardy, fuck.
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>>26178261
>Cavendish was a shy man who was uncomfortable in society and avoided it when he could. He conversed little, always dressed in an old-fashioned suit, and developed no known deep personal attachments outside his family. Cavendish was taciturn and solitary and regarded by many as eccentric. He only communicated with his female servants by notes.
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>>26173132
that's the thing about jobs, they are literally ment to just socialise

to truly enjoy a job you have to enjoy it with the people you are doing it with. this is something a lot of "bosses" don't understand they see employees as nothing more but slaves.

you want people around you that care about you and the other way around
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>>26174445
i recognise this alot, but it's not really weird. like give me 1 reason why you would hang out with someone who doesn't want anything from you

damned i feel like i've learned more these past 3 hours talking to anons than i ever have browsing this site
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>>26176003
exactly, sometimes being in a room with each other without talking communicates far better than actual words do, just being is nice sometimes, with others that is
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>>26169485
>gives me a C- for socializing and how friendly i am with my other co-workers

What the fuck is this kindergarden shit, how in the fuck is this normal
wagecucks not even once
>I'm in med school so fuck you go slave away for the corporate jew
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>>26176137
>but what is there enjoyable about pretending to enjoy things?
he's not saying to pretend, he's saying to be genuinely interested in someone for no other reason than to show empathy, when you give you get back that's how the world works
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>>26169584
>watering down the word so it means "well-adjusted normalfaggot"
Suck my cock. I bet you're a total geek and nerd xD too.

Fuck the world.
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>>26176766
he is trying to help you man we all are, everything he said was not bullshit, i feel like there's really only 2 types of ppl on here posting

depressed robots
people who used to be depressed robots and trying to help the depressed robots

nobody is wasting any bandwith, you are both using bandwith on each other in order for lurkers to get a better understanding of what might be wrong with them
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The TL;DR of this thread is that people are self-absorbed, boring and mean and that it's best to avoid them most of the time
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Too many goddamned normals in the fucking thread.

I deal with you fucks at work all shift, don't want you here too. You poison, you poison everything.
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>>26178972
>JUST OPEN UP TO OTHERS BRO
>JUST SAY HI TO THEM AND ASK THEM ABOUT THEIR WEEKEND BRO
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>>26169199

In my experience no one really cares. I just go to work, do my job, and go home.

I am always polite to anyone who talks to me, and always politely decline invitations to the weekly "work night out".

A few of the women seemed to make a thing of me never going a few months ago, think they want the whole workplace "community" thing. Thankfully they have given up now.

No one has a problem with me and I don't think anyone hates me. Works pretty well to be honest.
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>>26178742

>I'm in med school

your entire job LITERALLY relies on you not being a social fuck up. you fucking up can actually cause people to have worse medical problems, you chose the one profession where social grading seems justifiable
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>>26172871
from my experience this holds true pretty well, though I seem to be with a pretty good mix of people in general. I think there's only one person that I'd say didn't get along with me, but even now they're appearing to act friendlier towards me

just a shame that I don't want to handle the nightmare of dating a qt from work
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>>26179912
>your entire job LITERALLY relies on you not being a social fuck up

you have a point but even so, even if I'm one of the most autistic dude in our year, I still manage better than most here since I do study and prepare myself so normies always ask me for advice and shit
I'm also get along well with the teachers and collaborate with them outside of regular classes
Being a doctor at the end of the day relies on YOU doing your job good, no matter how social you are, no one gives a shit here if you talk and make people laugh, at the end of the day I know better than them and I'm more responsible because normies don't know how to go for the extra mile.
And when talking to patients I never contradict them or raise my voice even if they say stupid shit, they like it when I just listen
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>>26169223
>Because women create a "community" that introverts don't take part in

This. fucking this.
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>>26176922
>I don't fuckihg care about news and politics
Mcfucking kill yourself. Everyone should atleast be interested in the news.
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>>26180843
>Everyone should atleast be interested in the news.

You mean fake bullshit staged by the Jews? I thought so.
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>>26180843
>politics

Also staged by the Jews. It is a known true fact.
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I start a new job this week and I'm so reluctant because in my last jobs I was so quiet and everyone always thinks I'm weird, I know it's just going to be a repeat again. Just fucking die in my fucking sleep already,
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>>26180869
>>26180884
>not keeping track of da j00s so you're atleast aware of how they're trying to jew you
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>>26180902
>job
Position in legal slavery.
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>>26180911
No shit, but you have to track more important shit behind the scenes, than the "read from one script" news.
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>>26180913
and what do you do with your time anon?
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>>26180936
We're all slaves to the elite no matter what.
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They are bitter and selfish.
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>>26171659
what part of i CANT socialize didnt you get? its not like I dont want to, but theres something about me that people find extremely awkward. im pretty sure theyre just sensing how awkward im feeling but thats besides the point. i cant ask somebody how theyre doing without them looking around obviously feeling awkward just because they're in my presence. fuck you.
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>>26180990
This faggot (>>26171659) uses images of cats, so you know he is a beta cuck bitch.
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>>26180990
>>26180990
>i cant ask somebody how theyre doing without them looking around obviously feeling awkward just because they're in my presence. fuck you.

You sound like a pussy ass beta bitch. Who even cares and ignore it, just live or die. Most people you meet in life are cunt bag pieces of shit who will fuck you over hard when they see fit (always happens no matter what, due to it is inevitable). Do not ever let your guard down.
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