>>26155946 >mfw I fucked it up with my oneitis in highschool because I sperged out
>be doing mandatory community service through choir >oneitis is in the group >she lives a bus stop away from me and takes the same bus >I notice her and I'm pretty sure she's seen me staring at her >after a performance she talks to me >"Hey, do I know you from somewhere?" >"Maybe, hey you take the XX bus right? I think I've noticed you." >Smooth so far, haven't met with laughs or disgust yet >"Yeah, I've seen you too. I was worried you thought I was following you or something. Sometimes my eyes just wander and I-" >She thought I thought she was stalking me? >inthebag.jpg >cut her off >"Oh yeah, I totally do the same thing, it's like blah blah blah..."
>only realize after that I fucked up
>Sometimes see her at the bus stop >way too enthusiastic greeting >mfw she definitely thinks I'm stalking her now >mfw it really was in the bag if I wasn't such an autist
>go to prom alone later that year
>>26156051 There's a difference between having a "strong" personality and sperging out.
I get told that I look intimidating. I'm 5'10" but I have broad shoulders(6'3" wingspan), very wide face with prominent brow ridge and dark eyes. Actually everyone tells me I always look angry and that from first impression they wouldn't even come near me.
>>26156185 It's the Chad that came up to talk to you when you were sitting alone at the lunch table. The chad that would take a new transfer student/new employee and try to make him feel welcome. The kind of guy that walks into a room and commands attention through his handshake, his greeting. Someone who doesn't shy away from social situations but tackles them head-on. That's a strong personality, and everyone, men and women, like that.
>>26156291 It means cutting people off, dominating the conversation and not letting people get a word in edgewise, trying to steer it so that you continue to dominate it, rather than let the conversation drift where it may. It's offputting and makes people not want to talk to them becuase it's usually just that person masturbating their ego.
>>26155232 Because they have been brainwashed by the media which taps into people's tribal instincts.
If you don't care about pop culture or some foreign/sub culture they have been told to accept, then basically they think there is something wrong with you, they won't give you the time of day, they will find everything about you boring, weird and creepy because they are unwilling to try new things or give you a chance and get to know you.
>why not just give in an adopt pop culture This requires years of developing your social skills in high school, during which time most of us were being completely socially ostracized due to an undiagnosed mental illness, being abused at home or whatever reason we have ended up as robots.
During high school most normies socialize nearly all day everyday, easily 10000 hours over 3 years. As an adult most can only socialize a few hours every friday and saturday night, you would need 30 years of this to get the same number of hours.
Been told i always look angry, and I'm 230 lbs and lift but
>be me on crowded train >girl talking to her friend >blond qt >pretty as fuck >take a step back so it doesnt look like im trying to touch her >she edges back until her hair is in my face and im pressed against her slightly >diamonds >train bumping >almost cum in trousers
>at work >crowded >try to subtly touch qts arse as i brush past her >she covers her bum with her hands as i touch it >feels my hand >turns around >looks at me >she smiles cheekily
>6'1", my brothers wife and her friends (who are all hyper-Stacey and work at the Tilted Kilt or similar) have told me I have a masculine/built/fit body >comments vary from how strong my jawline is, how huge my skull is, having big arms that make that Popeye shape but I haven't lifted in months, often look like I'm "concentrating really hard" or just angry, furrow my brow a lot without realizing, have big dark permanent circles from not sleeping and wearing thick rimmed army glasses (almost indestructible) and hazel eyes >run in the army and stand on my toes so my calves have a good definition >skin fade with loose long hair in a HY combover, have to shave every day I work >think all of this work and effort in hygiene and style is beneficial because I feel better when I take care of myself >roommate tells me I have a "doughy baby face and those dead, serial killer eyes" >all the females in my unit either refer to me as "the guy that looks like a serial killer/spree shooter" or "that guy who's always in the crazy house" or "that guy who always seems fucked up" >but everyone, even if they don't know my name, everyone knows who I am when they say "the guy that talks monotone like a robot" >am put on unofficial company-wide watch list for both homicidal and suicidal risk >haven't even had a full conversation with any females or anyone besides my roommate and my chain of command >I'm polite and try to talk to everyone at work, quiet outside of work and like to stay in my room on my computer >roommate continuously pokes at me with the school shooter jokes, mentions one every time it happens and connects me to it or just tries to make me out as a creepy, "weird reclusive nerd" >stigma was all made up from how I look >everyone shocked when I try to an hero >now even more reclusive and only talk to my brothers, literally scared of interaction with others because of what they might do to me >especially women
>>26156648 Well you can't change your looks, but I think you can change how you act. I'm the guy you replied to. And despite people telling me how on first impression they wouldn't even come near me, that's what they usually say after they get to meet me and find out I'm not a serial-killer.
I just kinda abuse their instinctive fear and come in talking to them about literally anything, but I have to remind myself to talk about cheerful things and smile a lot. They're usually caught off guard by that and they end up liking me. But as I said, when they expect you to bash their head in, it's not that hard to leave a good impression.
It's kind of like eating something that looks really disgusting but finding out it's not that bad. So try to use this to your advantage. As do I. Obviously I haven't had a gf yet, but I figured getting some practice can't hurt.
Because I look very intimidating or autistic so people dont talk to me, desu I almost never talk first so I guess I'm missing some etiquette, like if you want people to talk to you you have to talk to them first. basically I have BB's expression in this pic all the time
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