>>26139325 Trust. The minute your trust breaks down with them it's over. You aren't physically near them so thoughts of cheating will pop up. It will be even longer than 3 years before me and her will be together.
>>26139331 From my experience yes. She couldn't really understand how fat I was until a few months ago, but she doesn't even care now. We have a suicide pact together.
>>26139221 i got one and i hate it. I dont even know why, im a 19 kv and shes a really sweet 5/10 slim, tall girl. Not model tier but also not extremely ugly. I only have like 3 hours free per day and we usually spend it talking but i just want to relax and play vidya.
>>26139396 How often do you talk? I'm trying to navigate the space between clingy and distant, so that she won't get bored of me, but also won't think I'm not paying enough attention to her. And any other advice in general? Thanks by the way anon.
>>26139554 Your situation is probably different, but I talk to her at least 4 hours a day. We both need each other. We are both virgins and had no previous relationships. We're both insane, talk about death and our blood fetish often. My advice is probably not good for you.
>>26139221 They aren't worth it unless you find ways to meet irl. I have a friend from here that got into a relationship with a "girl" from here that is catfishing him. Always make sure to get timestamped photos and find ways to talk that would be difficult to fake.
fuck i'm in one right now, she's the only girl i have ever loved, meeting her in a few months and known her since new years night, she was the reason i didn't an hero. its just so shit that i'm pretty much not gonna live another 2 years and she always says how she loves me
>probably a 4-5/10 >start talking to a girl on a penpal site in full sperg mode >end up talking to her 7-10 hours a day >8-9/10 girl actually tells me she likes me >ask her if she could be my gf >mfw she says yes
nearly a month into it now >have days when I go full sperg and talk about my inscurities and shit >she tells me she still likes me very fucking much >I joke about just breaking it off (h-haha) >she asks me not to "Scare her" and stuff
man it's so fucking hard to believe someone like her likes someone like me. She either just finds me interesting as fuck or she's a manipulative sociopath who's just playing with me. I kinda want off this ride, brobots.
>tfw she literally lives in the country farthest from the country I live in
Mine lasted ~10 months, maybe more. I don't know. It ended up with suicidal threats whenever we had fights. As a result I had the hardest time breaking up. I felt trapped. It was a living nightmare. By the end I wasn't in love anymore but still didn't have the guts to leave.
There's a lot of lonely and fucked up people looking for love on the Internet. The person I was dating already had at least 2 online relationships before me (99% sure it was more than that). I only knew that way after I fell in love though.
Be careful. The internet is full of desperate people. People that can't find love IRL and rely on online relationships to feel better. Often the poor self-esteem kind. This can be very unhealthy.
I broke up a couple months before we were supposed to meet IRL. The person didn't commit suicide despite all those threats, btw.
I've had my online boyfriend for probably about 8 months now We're not incredibly close (which I think is a good thing t b h) but we at least chat on Skype or voice chat on steam if we're playing warthunder or something together
I take comfort in being able to say I have a bf but I don't think it could compare to a rl bf that I can hold and kiss and cuddle all I want. It'll be a while before we meet because his parents are kinda strict and get in the way of things
he turns 18 in March, I can't wait for all the lewds
>>26140543 >3 years ago >having a conversation with a few people on /v/ >they decide to make a steam group >join >don't talk much because I was 16 and underage >after a few months they are all pretty close and getting on well >I don't participate much >eventually open up >do a stupid thing and lie about my age, said I was 23 >create a narrative to fill the missing years in >eventually get close to this straight guy despite being straight myself >both have a mutual confession of faggotry >best month of my life goes by >tell truth about my age >he was 27 mind you >he eventually gets over this fact >go back to normal, he helps me with my depression and anxiety and stuff >few months later >want to meet up >lie to parents about his age >they buy me a plane ticket to from Britain to Sweden >tell therapist his real age >big mistake >suddenly police and child protective services are involved >get all ways to talk removed and put in hospital for a night because I was a risk to myself >eventually get phone and computer back >break up and say goodbye >been put on sertraline since then The end. I'm a faggot.
>>26141391 seriously. He said he couldn't trust me anymore. I was too busy planning the whole god damn trip. Turns out he didn't know how to use the machine. I had to show him. Holy shit I cringe just thinking about it.
>>26141555 The whole thing is sad though. Basically he's a nerd that is 23, still lives with his mom, and was broken up with because he refuses to move out of his parents' house even with a live-in gf. He brought up the idea of moving out to his mom and she was all "no no don't move out we'll make this tiny european house into 2 apartments!" and he fell for it. The umbilical cord was still attached man.
She contacted me first (very rarely happens with women so that in itself was a green flag for me) and as soon as i found out she was lurking too it developed into an e-relationship where for a while everything was awesome and she kept giving me tidbits about her life and we made plans to meet up IRL so on - This went on for like 4 or 5 months but then all of a sudden it's like she turned her infatuation switch off and she started making up insane incoherent stories/excuses for her own shitty behaviour (which she later admitted she pulled out of her ass) and then i basically told her to fuck off when she directly hinted at wanting to end it and friendzone me for no viable reason at all
She came crawling back multiple times a couple months later but i just told her to fuck off again, never heard of or seen her since
>>26139396 >>26139396 You're an idiot, trusting these whores puts everything at risk and gets you nothing in return. I found this out myself. You don't "trust" a dog not to run off while you're taking a walk with him, you keep him on a tight leash.
I've had several, and all of them ended with the girl stopping all communication with no warning. It's pretty fucking heartbreaking when that happens and it seems to happen a fuck of a lot more often online. So I'm done with that shit.
I have never been in an online relationship but many of my skype and steam friends have I don't think they work, skypecalls and cybersex can only sustain it for so long. Physical intimacy is absolutely an essential for a successful relationship. Probably why most of my online friends ended up finding out their E-gf had a IRL bf the whole time etc
>>26141724 I pity anyone that moves in with a manchild that can't do basic chores desu. Even when he brought out the "I can't trust you anymore" I still went to target by myself and got detergent and did his fucking clothes so he would shut up.
>>26141760 >be in middle school >acquaintances with some girl >start chatting it up on online >go to diff hs and we start chatting even more >really hitting it off as friends, 'i can't believe we've become such great friends anon' >one day she's just gone Everyone online disappears, it's the rule. >>26141798 >actually doing his laundry >getting cucked by his mom cuz she bakes better cookies
>>26141780 >Probably why most of my online friends ended up finding out their E-gf had a IRL bf the whole time etc How filled with rage would you fucking be if you came home to find your gf needs so much god damn attention she degrades herself for dweebs on skype?
its the only thing i could tolerate after my past unknowingly and unwillingly led me to a life of seclusion and isolation from others. online dating was a way for me to feel comfortable with things and feel not numb like i ended up for a long time
>>26141843 Yeah. But I didn't expect a 22 year old to not know how to/use such emotionally charged language about it. After all it's not like he ever forgot to do anything for me (sent my bday package a month+ late)
I did it once, never again. We talked literally every day for about 2 months, then one day she just fucked off completely (literally like 2 days after telling me she loved me). She came back about a week later and gave me the whole "lets just be friends, we were never official dating, etc..."
any girl whos willing to online date you is probably fucked in the head and should be avoided at all costs.
>>26139221 I've been friends with a dude online for almost 6 years now and I like him so much I can't stop thinking about him. He used to like me at one point a long while ago and I didn't have any strong feelings for him, and now the tables are turned and I don't really expect his feelings to reignite anytime soon. If they did, though, I would really try to make an e-relationship work, but I don't think he'd be happy in it for long because of the lack of physical contact and distance (he lives in the middle of fucking eastern Europe). Plus we've been through lots of shit and pissed each other off a lot in the past. Feels really bad, I'm mad at myself for not doing anything when I had a higher chance.
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