whats /r9k/ opinion on online relationships? Have you ever had one?

I'm currently in one that's lasted for a year and a half now. Have to stay in it, she's the only reason I choose to stay alive.

>>26139248
Got any advice anon?

In an online relationship right now, but I'm planning on meeting her in a month, and I really care about her a lot.

>>26139221
are they easier than irl ones

>>26139325
Trust. The minute your trust breaks down with them it's over. You aren't physically near them so thoughts of cheating will pop up. It will be even longer than 3 years before me and her will be together.

>>26139331
From my experience yes. She couldn't really understand how fat I was until a few months ago, but she doesn't even care now. We have a suicide pact together.

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>>26139221
Yes. Then I took the fucker's gold, sunmotes and learned fast flying.

Only for a short while, we both agreed we should meet up in person otherwise it's pointless

turned out she is a complete mental wreck

Online relationships lasting more than a few months are guaranteed to end in the guy getting cucked.

>>26139221
i got one and i hate it.
I dont even know why, im a 19 kv and shes a really sweet 5/10 slim, tall girl. Not model tier but also not extremely ugly.
I only have like 3 hours free per day and we usually spend it talking but i just want to relax and play vidya.

Kill me please

Yeah, in fifth grade. Leave your house you autist,

>>26139491
I'll kill you if you promise to kill me in exchange.

>>26139396
How often do you talk? I'm trying to navigate the space between clingy and distant, so that she won't get bored of me, but also won't think I'm not paying enough attention to her. And any other advice in general? Thanks by the way anon.

>>26139554
Your situation is probably different, but I talk to her at least 4 hours a day. We both need each other. We are both virgins and had no previous relationships. We're both insane, talk about death and our blood fetish often. My advice is probably not good for you.

>>26139221
They aren't worth it unless you find ways to meet irl. I have a friend from here that got into a relationship with a "girl" from here that is catfishing him. Always make sure to get timestamped photos and find ways to talk that would be difficult to fake.

fuck i'm in one right now, she's the only girl i have ever loved, meeting her in a few months and known her since new years night, she was the reason i didn't an hero. its just so shit that i'm pretty much not gonna live another 2 years and she always says how she loves me

>>26139221
Post more delicious lobitah you faggot

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>>26139221

>probably a 4-5/10
>start talking to a girl on a penpal site in full sperg mode
>end up talking to her 7-10 hours a day
>8-9/10 girl actually tells me she likes me
>ask her if she could be my gf
>mfw she says yes

nearly a month into it now
>have days when I go full sperg and talk about my inscurities and shit
>she tells me she still likes me very fucking much
>I joke about just breaking it off (h-haha)
>she asks me not to "Scare her" and stuff

man it's so fucking hard to believe someone like her likes someone like me. She either just finds me interesting as fuck or she's a manipulative sociopath who's just playing with me. I kinda want off this ride, brobots.

>tfw she literally lives in the country farthest from the country I live in

>>26139221

i get boys to buy me games on steam. im a guy btw

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>>26139735
>lobitah
why are you so mad anon?

>>26139221
>tfw no lewd skype gf

>>26139833
if theres no chance you meet some day, she probably is only doing that out of pity.
She knows that if she leaves you will an hero instantly

>>26139833
We will meet someday, I think she'll try and see if she can visit in a few months.

And nah, I told her that if she ever wants to break it off, I can transition into my old lifestyle without any problems.

Mine lasted ~10 months, maybe more. I don't know. It ended up with suicidal threats whenever we had fights. As a result I had the hardest time breaking up. I felt trapped. It was a living nightmare. By the end I wasn't in love anymore but still didn't have the guts to leave.

There's a lot of lonely and fucked up people looking for love on the Internet. The person I was dating already had at least 2 online relationships before me (99% sure it was more than that). I only knew that way after I fell in love though.

Be careful. The internet is full of desperate people. People that can't find love IRL and rely on online relationships to feel better. Often the poor self-esteem kind. This can be very unhealthy.

I broke up a couple months before we were supposed to meet IRL. The person didn't commit suicide despite all those threats, btw.

>>26139953
Oh, I meant >>26139976

>>26140064
all cool m8, i hope it ends well but dont get too attached to her or it would be hard to get back to your old lifestyle.

Kek Why Would You Date Your Computer Screen Nigga?

>>26140099
yeah thanks, I'll try not to.

Yeah, didn't work out well.

>>26140103
Isn't that what all y'all fags with 2D waifus do anyhow?

I got into one that lasted a year and a half before some 3/10 got into her life and fucked her. She was pretty, but a compulsive liar...

So just try to meet and pump and dump soon as. she'll only leave

>>26140103
Because it's more than I'll have otherwise

>>26140231
Just to add we'd broken up before they fucked... Possibly

I've had my online boyfriend for probably about 8 months now
We're not incredibly close (which I think is a good thing t b h) but we at least chat on Skype or voice chat on steam if we're playing warthunder or something together

I take comfort in being able to say I have a bf but I don't think it could compare to a rl bf that I can hold and kiss and cuddle all I want.
It'll be a while before we meet because his parents are kinda strict and get in the way of things

he turns 18 in March, I can't wait for all the lewds

>>26140231
>she'll only leave
i-it's not true anon

this time will be different, she really does care

>>26140415
Fuck off normie slut

Ruined my life forever, I went Gay for a guy and it fucking ruined everything.

>>26140468
greentext you faggot

original comment familia

>>26139978
Goddamn this is so similar to what happened to me, maybe it was the same girl, kek

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>>26140465
I'm a guy tho

far from a slut, too

>>26140587
>fag
Even worse
>>>/lgbt/

>>26139900
Because I don't care about your topic.
Just keep posting that pale Mexican girl.

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>>26140601
woah hey buddy woah nice buddy woah hey calm woah hey :^) calm woah hey just :^) buddy calm woah.

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>>26140601
>being this triggered
Try breathing in and out slowly.

>>26140716
>try breathing
>fail

>tfw too autistic/scared to text my matches
I feel like profile pics of me traveling one time and smiling are like lying to them
Little do they know I hate leaving house and don't smile around people

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>>26140601
someone's upset that my boyfriend is cuter than your nonexistent girlfriend

>>26140759
>>26140716
>>26140657
>ACCEPT ME !1!11!
Fucking faggots need to be gassed

>>26139478
Then why did i get cucked

>>26140850
the Chad factor

on my second.

I broke up with the first one after almost 4 years because he was a 22 year old manchild. Idk how the second will turn out but so far he's p nice

>>26140543
>3 years ago
>having a conversation with a few people on /v/
>they decide to make a steam group
>join
>don't talk much because I was 16 and underage
>after a few months they are all pretty close and getting on well
>I don't participate much
>eventually open up
>do a stupid thing and lie about my age, said I was 23
>create a narrative to fill the missing years in
>eventually get close to this straight guy despite being straight myself
>both have a mutual confession of faggotry
>best month of my life goes by
>tell truth about my age
>he was 27 mind you
>he eventually gets over this fact
>go back to normal, he helps me with my depression and anxiety and stuff
>few months later
>want to meet up
>lie to parents about his age
>they buy me a plane ticket to from Britain to Sweden
>tell therapist his real age
>big mistake
>suddenly police and child protective services are involved
>get all ways to talk removed and put in hospital for a night because I was a risk to myself
>eventually get phone and computer back
>break up and say goodbye
>been put on sertraline since then
The end. I'm a faggot.

>>26141067
>manchild shaming
>on /r9k/
Fuck off roastie/faggot

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>>26139221
probably not a good idea, but i'm lonely and picky enough that if i liked someone's internet personality enough i would probably go for it anyway

>>26141070
Thats pretty sad man. Doe not feel nice.

>>26141070
sorry man
how are you now

>>26141070
isn't the age of consent 16+ in both those countries

>>26141083
stay mad. If you can't do laundry at 22 just stop existing.

My last relationship lasted like 5 months. I got her to masturbate on skype to me jerking off so it was pretty nice. Also got lots of nudes

>>26141189
I can do that
I thought manchild meant "plays vidya and has autistic hobbies" to women

>>26141189
Why would he have to do laundry when it's online shit anyways

>>26141205
How do I get this anon
Share your secrets now
I need a lewd skype gf

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>online relationships
>trusting women at all

>>26139221
Relationships for cucks, waste of time

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>>26139221
Max lies.
It's retarded to fall in love online the cost of lying is way too low and people are infinitely more disposable. I laugh at people who get their nudes posted or get catfished.

>>26141165
I'm still pretty shit, doesn't help that I'm super clingy. Thanks for asking.

>>26141172
Yeah but very strict parents and police saying I was in danger and shit. Mum believed that he would kill me and I would never return if I went.

>>26141232
cause we met up and he called me a lying bitch for not doing his laundry

>>26139221
yes and it was awful

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>have like 5 girls telling me they love me on Interpals
>they think I'm gonna meet up with them and shit

it's not even worth it, girls aren't fun to chat with

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>>26141067
You sound like my ex, so I'll say 'fuck you' to you since I can't bring myself to say it to her.

Fuck you, I hope you die of herpes or something.
...
I'm not a very passionate person you see.

>>26141212
current literally works for firaxis so no

>>26141296
Well why didn't you just do his laundry

>>26141238
She was depressed/alone and lived in a apartment with her 3 friends and ex who lived there. Though her ex hated me a lot which was funny since a 20 year old cucked him out of his ex's nudes

>>26141347
>dating a successful normie
Go away

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>>26141296
>cause we met up and he called me a lying bitch for not doing his laundry
Oh god I want this to be true so bad.

>>26141364
Where did you find her?
How do I meet damaged qts that want to be lewd

>>26141369
not with girls he isn't. Hence me

>>26141413
>works for normiaxis
>not good with women
Okay
Go fuck chad and post on /soc/ roastie

>>26141391
seriously. He said he couldn't trust me anymore. I was too busy planning the whole god damn trip. Turns out he didn't know how to use the machine. I had to show him. Holy shit I cringe just thinking about it.

>>26141432
I will thanx <:3c

Was in one, she broke up after a week because she couldn't handle it... after telling me she had liked me in the first place

For fuck's sake

>>26141434
You betrayed his trust, it's literally your fault

>>26141398
Chatango. I used to do roleplayimg and shit

>>26141434
>Turns out he didn't know how to use the machine. I had to show him.
I'm fucking dying please greentext the whole thing.
>>26141398
Literally anywhere online, tumblr, omegle, etc.

>>26141492
how will he ever trust anyone other than his mammy again :( :( :(

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>Had a couple of relationships online with confirmed girls
>tfw most of them had a boyfriend in real life
>tfw none of them thought that having an online relationship was considered cheating

>>26141591
You sound bitter, no wonder he ditched you

>>26141476
Was her name jade?

>>26141643
Nope, Sarah

It's been a year and it still hurts. Especially since she posted on social media like immediately after breaking up how she wished she had a good bf

>>26141555
The whole thing is sad though. Basically he's a nerd that is 23, still lives with his mom, and was broken up with because he refuses to move out of his parents' house even with a live-in gf. He brought up the idea of moving out to his mom and she was all "no no don't move out we'll make this tiny european house into 2 apartments!" and he fell for it. The umbilical cord was still attached man.

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She contacted me first (very rarely happens with women so that in itself was a green flag for me) and as soon as i found out she was lurking too it developed into an e-relationship where for a while everything was awesome and she kept giving me tidbits about her life and we made plans to meet up IRL so on - This went on for like 4 or 5 months but then all of a sudden it's like she turned her infatuation switch off and she started making up insane incoherent stories/excuses for her own shitty behaviour (which she later admitted she pulled out of her ass) and then i basically told her to fuck off when she directly hinted at wanting to end it and friendzone me for no viable reason at all

She came crawling back multiple times a couple months later but i just told her to fuck off again, never heard of or seen her since

>>26139396
>>26139396
You're an idiot, trusting these whores puts everything at risk and gets you nothing in return. I found this out myself. You don't "trust" a dog not to run off while you're taking a walk with him, you keep him on a tight leash.

>>26141636
No. I broke up with him, and it was one of the hardest things to do because I did actually feel bad for him. I just couldn't deal with his shit on top of my family issues.

>>26141668
Living in a shared house doesn't sound as bad as getting yelled at for not doing his laundry though.

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I tried to start one. Didn't work out.

>Tfw even online people see you as unlovable
>tfw once you fall in love you can't be friends with them without feeling horrible

I've had several, and all of them ended with the girl stopping all communication with no warning. It's pretty fucking heartbreaking when that happens and it seems to happen a fuck of a lot more often online. So I'm done with that shit.

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I have never been in an online relationship but many of my skype and steam friends have
I don't think they work, skypecalls and cybersex can only sustain it for so long. Physical intimacy is absolutely an essential for a successful relationship. Probably why most of my online friends ended up finding out their E-gf had a IRL bf the whole time etc

>>26141724
I pity anyone that moves in with a manchild that can't do basic chores desu. Even when he brought out the "I can't trust you anymore" I still went to target by myself and got detergent and did his fucking clothes so he would shut up.

>>26141760
>be in middle school
>acquaintances with some girl
>start chatting it up on online
>go to diff hs and we start chatting even more
>really hitting it off as friends, 'i can't believe we've become such great friends anon'
>one day she's just gone
Everyone online disappears, it's the rule.
>>26141798
>actually doing his laundry
>getting cucked by his mom cuz she bakes better cookies

>>26141434
Have to ask
Did you say that you'd do his laundry?

>>26141798
>a man doing chores instead of the woman

kek, I would've sent your fat ass to the store as well

>>26141780
>Probably why most of my online friends ended up finding out their E-gf had a IRL bf the whole time etc
How filled with rage would you fucking be if you came home to find your gf needs so much god damn attention she degrades herself for dweebs on skype?

>>26139478
You overestimate women

Online relationships lasting more than a week are guaranteed to end in the guy getting cucked.

>>26139396
>suicide pact
uh..that escalated quickly

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its the only thing i could tolerate after my past unknowingly and unwillingly led me to a life of seclusion and isolation from others. online dating was a way for me to feel comfortable with things and feel not numb like i ended up for a long time

pic related

>>26141829
Tfw literally cuckolded by his mom

>>26141860
>How filled with rage would you fucking be if you came home to find your gf needs so much god damn attention she degrades herself for dweebs on skype?

I'd probably be pretty destroyed desu. Would probably cut contact.

>>26141861
I can vouch for this, I ''took'' some fags online gf even though they were together for like 2 years. I didn't even hit on her is the worst part.

>>26141895
Hey cunt answer >>26141843

>>26141843
Yeah. But I didn't expect a 22 year old to not know how to/use such emotionally charged language about it. After all it's not like he ever forgot to do anything for me (sent my bday package a month+ late)

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>>26141924
>Yeah
TOP FUCKING KEK
The manchild was in the right

was in one on and off for 8 years, we finally met and banged and she never spoke to me again after that

cringy

>>26141967
<:3c #noteventriggered

>>26142223
>passive aggressive smiley

*pats your head* there there...

I think they are absolutely ridiculous. I'm sure people in them are deluding themselves big time.

It also confuses me, what does either side get out of it? I can only assume the dude is an omega orbiter and sends her money or something.

I did it once, never again.
We talked literally every day for about 2 months, then one day she just fucked off completely (literally like 2 days after telling me she loved me). She came back about a week later and gave me the whole "lets just be friends, we were never official dating, etc..."

any girl whos willing to online date you is probably fucked in the head and should be avoided at all costs.

>>26142440
>"lets just be friends, we were never official dating, etc..."
That must really have hurt man.
I wonder what made her just do that all of a sudden?

>any girl whos willing to online date you is probably fucked in the head and should be avoided at all costs
True shit.
They're either fucked in the head or just doing it for attention.

When I was like 14 some "13 year old girl" I met on starcraft decided she wanted to be my girflriend and would just follow me into random channels and try to chat with me.

It was probably some 30 year old autist but it was weird. They eventually gave up after like 3 weeks after my friends kept making jokes.

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>>26139221
I've been friends with a dude online for almost 6 years now and I like him so much I can't stop thinking about him.
He used to like me at one point a long while ago and I didn't have any strong feelings for him, and now the tables are turned and I don't really expect his feelings to reignite anytime soon.
If they did, though, I would really try to make an e-relationship work, but I don't think he'd be happy in it for long because of the lack of physical contact and distance (he lives in the middle of fucking eastern Europe). Plus we've been through lots of shit and pissed each other off a lot in the past.
Feels really bad, I'm mad at myself for not doing anything when I had a higher chance.