I used to have friends but only really ever 1-2 friends that were girls and that was when I was still in elementary school. I'm almost 25 and haven't really hung out with anyone in around 6 years. The last text message I got from someone that wasn't business related was in november 2014
This is me. I have younger twin sisters who I have a decent relationship but it's not like I spend time with them. I have a female teacher that I have a fairly close 1 on 1 relationship with and we get along fine but I wouldn't call her a friend even though she's probably the closest thing I've ever had to a female friend. A few of my friends are in relationships but it's not like I ever talk to their partners unless I'm spending time with the friend and they're around too.
>>26125410 only have four female friends, but not sure if I could even call them friends because I've had some sort of sexual involvement with all of them, so it could just be that they've stuck around afterwards
The only female friend that I had tried fucking any guy that I showed slight interest in. I moved out of state and she didn't bring up visiting me until it was mentioned that i'd have hook ups for LSD and opioids - if I wanted them.
We hadn't spoken in two months so I cut her off. The women I meet are either normie as fuck and we have no similar interests or they're batshit.
>>26126129 I don't want a boyfriend I want female friends. It sucks always seeing every fucking normie girl having a good time with each other. I haven't had a friend since like 5th grade. I went through middle school and high school having no friends and never being invited to anything. I didn't go to any school events because no friends. I've never made a Facebook because I had no one to add. I've never had anyone text me "wanna hang out this weekend" ever.
I have quite a few female "acquaintances", but they're all normies. And that's fine, that totally wouldn't bug me, except... I can't really carry a conversation with them for very long, because they just care about low-tier fad-memes. They say "senpai" and "same" unironically. There's never anything else they wanna talk about.
There are some girls who I'm told really like me, which is cool. But when I test the waters, I don't see it going anywhere. My one and only requirement for a gf is that we can carry on a conversation for a while. That's it. That should be simple. I'm not even socially inept or anxious, I can carry a conversation pretty well.
Maybe... Maybe it's not that they're normies. Maybe it's MY interests that are too obscure?
>>26126504 That sucks. I had one when I was 14, then didn't have another until I was 18.
I now (21) have exactly one female friend/acquaintance (she's kinda in between) who I have talked to for longer than a minute several times. It feels good. I think I'm gunna make it, but not for a few more years.
>>26126547 I see a lot of stuff like this on here.
It's true that all girls are normies, but they aren't all that pleb tier. I've met girls with really intense interests in literature, history, music. The sort of stuff you can talk about for longer than a minute.
Sure, most girls are just into TV and surface level music. But there are plenty that aren't, which is something I literally didn't realise was possible until I got to university (not suggesting that you aren't already there or past it).
I'm sure you'll find some eventually, if you're already at the stage of having female acquaintances and carrying on conversations normally with people.
Theoretically, I could say I have one friend and a couple acquaintances from highschool. But I see them once or twice a year, so it doesn't count.
Also 2 years ago I had few acquaintances. They were all assholes, and going out with them once every 3-4 weeks reminded me that I have no friends.
Now I holistically have absolutely no friends. I'm even cut off from my family.
And you know what? It's a great thing. Now I am completely alone, I get to reflect on myself, fix my issues and make good friends. I'm in the process and it's great to see that you can fix over 2 decades of spaghetti.
>>26126698 I'm very bad at picking up text based sarcasm, so I'm just going to assume you're being genuine and say that you're welcome. If you're taking the piss just know that I meant what I said, and that i bet you find some non-complete normie girls eventually.
>>26125410 Never really had a just friend. Two years ago I entirely never had, then I made one and she rapidly became my best friend and managed to hurt me like nobody else could in the process. We then dated for nine months and now I haven't seen her since she left 10 months ago. Will find more females in the future but I doubt many will ever be just friends.
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