about transgender stuff. y'all need som educating and i'm here to help!
Q: What's the biggest crime committed by trannies? A: Male fraud.
I guess that's fair.
I don't think you'll have much luck with /r9k/ in general though. Most posters who don't hate transfolk will just move on while the people who have bizarre hates and fears for no reason will froth at the mouth and not really listen.
>mfw find out old highschool friend wanted to become a woman and cut off his penis with a razor-blade and then died of blood loss
>mfw i have no face because i don't know how to feel about this
not really, no.
there is nothing wrong with being a feminine man or a masculine woman. there is also nothing wrong with taking hormones for the physical changes they bring. so long as the person will be happy for the changes!
gender is much more than a social construct, and to suggest otherwise is silly. doesn't make much sense to ignore the psychological sense of self, right?
hah nice one
sounds like any random place on the internet, on a good day!
please sir ill give you every tendie in my tendie collection
Speaking of Trannies...
I matched this "girl" on Tinder. She's pretty obviously DTF. I've never been with a trap, but am at least interested so long as they pass.
I'm on the fence. Should I at least meet "her"?
sounds good. the world can always use more creative expression. let's see what you've got, anon!
yes. always fuck the trans girls. they really need the love...
maybe even gf her if she's really cool?
IF YOU COULD FUCK ONE WHO WOULD IT BE
Fuck it I'll take your roll OP.
when in doubt, sea slime. might be poisonous but I'll take those odds.
might as well roll, let's see if I can get a waifu at least.
'trans' doesn't exist, crossing dressing fags do and that's what they are. You have to be truely deluded and distrubed to believe that you have a dick and are actually a girl, you are a man down to your fucking DNA (XX chromosome, XY chromosome) Gay rights, fine whatever but this tranny shit is twisted and degenerate.
My opinion is that in ideal world being Transgender wouldn't be a thing because of the lack of gender roles. Gender would only relate to sexual organs and nothing else so there would be no need to be Transgender.
if you feel you have to censor yourself then being able to make jokes is all the more important so that people don't collectively lose sight of the purpose of freedom of speech which is to allow all speech no just speech that doesn't offend you
>doesn't make much sense to ignore the psychological sense of self, right?
I understand gender identity issues on a personal level, looking at gender roles, social norms, and mannerisms of traditional gender binary, I share more of these characteristics with women, and I believe being born a girl would have likely saved me a lot of psychological strife. I get the social aspects, I'm much better with my girls; than my 'bruhs'
I understand the struggle of your body not feeling 'right' for the role, and as a teenager I would have killed for a body shape that'd let me rock a formal dress.
That being said, when I turned 19, I was at the height of my anxiety and depression, I opted for both drug and positive cognitive behavioral psychotherapy, and started working on some of my other psychological issues (some parent stuff, and a bunch of shit because of my severe ADHD). I worked my ass of and slowly got better. I got off the meds in 4 months and another 6 months after that, each day started to hurt less and less. Because of that I kept ramping up my schedule, more work, more classes. About a month after I turned 20, depression started coming back again. I got so sick of just going through the motions that I decided to quit my job (No, silly NEETs, I immediately got a new one like a good wagie), cut away from a good 60% of my friends, changed majors and after the shock of it all wore off, my depression wore off for good and I started to actually function in life.
I still felt and still feel the same gender identity issues, but I place much less importance on it. I still don't identify as male, or think that my body feels 'right', but I just can't give a flying fuck about concepts linking "sex and gender" anymore. Its far more freeing to just know you can do what you want, associate with who you want, and know who you are mentally.
Why do so many want to BECOME another gender in the trans community? Why isn't there more emphasis on gender fluidity?
>Why isn't there more emphasis on gender fluidity?
I wonder this a lot too.
Not who you're replying to by the way.
Maybe not just gender fluidity but things other than one end or the other.
I'm somewhere toward the feminine side of things but I have really butch days too and I've always hated having breasts.
With gender roles as a social construct I wish we could think of gender more like an emotion or an experience, where more people can think about fluidity. I guess it's just my own experience but I can't imagine anyone ever feeling just one way about their gender.
while i respect that their gender identity and sexuality are none of my business, i am personally physically disgusted by transsexuals (not uncommon of course). i do not wish to restrict their existence in any way. would you encourage me to fuck or gf a trans girl despite my natural revulsion of them?
Do trans people make doo doo like the rest of us? If I were to have gender reassignment surgery, I would have the doctor close up shop on that troublesome anus too. Not to reroute feces into a colostomy bag, which is 100x worse. I would request an incinerator to completely burn away all solid waste, to be vented every night before bed with three smoky farts. It's embarrassing to ask for that unless it's a supplement to pee pee chop surgery, which is already the most shamefully embarrassing request in the world.
this desu qh senpai
>Maybe not just gender fluidity but things other than one end or the other.
> I wish we could think of gender more like an emotion or an experience
Exactly! My body still isn't 100% "comfortable" to me, and likely never will, because of the schemas I built in my early development about gender, society, and sexuality. But since I decided to disregard gender as a limiting or defining construct linked to sex, I am more okay with it than I've ever been. If we could all think that way, I feel like everyone, not just trans, would harbor much less frustrations, and be a hell of a lot better at expressing themselves.
Maybe I was born the wrong sex... Doesn't matter to me anymore. Worth it. My body works pretty good job of being a vessel, and like my car, so long as its performs its primary functions reliably, I don't mind that its the squared, rather than rounded model
Yes yes yes! All of these things.
I don't know if anyone uses the phrase "postgender" but it's the best word that I can kind of make up to reflect my thinking of trying to move beyond a strict categorization system. I've actively worked hard to not give a fuck about gender and society and I have to say that it has dramatically improved my life.
Also, I live in a place with a lot of gender neutral bathrooms. Not only is this great for transpeople who want to be themselves, it is great for everyone because there are no lines! Ever! I never have to wait to use the bathroom! There are lots of benefits to be found.
I know that a lot of people are super comfy with labels and sorting systems, because things feel nicer when we can sort and organize them, but for me it has really been the opposite and I can't help but think that there are a lot of other people like me who would do well with a society that doesn't care about what I consider to be an unimportant part of me.
I feel like you're trying to insult me but not realizing that you are actually agreeing with me and validating me
You are a faggot, OP.
It is not okay to be sensitive. It is a crime, and the punishment is being offended. Get a sense of humor and thicker skin, you worthless shit hog.
I am not joking when I call you a shit hog. I mean that form the bottom of my heart cold tiny heart. I have nothing against trannies, but I honestly hate sensitive people like you with a passion. There just happens to be a large overlap.
If you believe in tolerance and love you are in the wrong place. Hatred and loathing, mostly self-loathing, reign supreme here. Go back to your hugbox, you worthless faggot.
>trying to move beyond a strict categorization system
>a lot of people are super comfy with labels
This is too true. I won't say labels aren't good in general, but people tend to go over the top with shoving people into categories so oversimplified, that it takes all the meaning out of the useless label itself.
The larger issue is that people ALSO have a nasty habit of arbitrarily assigning correlating attributes to all individuals in a group,.
>some hippies smoke weed
>some stoners are hippies
>THAT GUY WEARING A TIE DYE SHIRT IS A DEGENERATE CRACKHEAD COMMUNIST
And even worse than that, our intuition deceives us into thinking that we can measure and place something as complex as personality into anything less than 1/group, while still being able to describe it with any accuracy