>tfw raised by a single mother
How can I fix my girly betamax personality caused by this? Is it even possible without professional help?
How does it manifest?
And please don't just respond with "I'm shy talking to girls"
Going out, meeting people and risk being not liked saying your opinion will be part of it in any case - you can start now
I let people walk all over me just to avoid confrontation, this is also why girls generally don't respect me. I can talk to a girl easily if we share interests but it never goes anywhere because I'm a bitch.
Not him but I was raised by a protective single mother that also spoiled me.
The "betamax" phenomena is not something that can be summarized easily. It's a collection of small traits that people pick up on. Subtle differences in body language and whatnot. Like speaking in a low, calm, humble tone, and not being forward with women, wanting to take it very slow. Stuff like making less eye contact and having a slouched, small posture (which is even noticeable if you're tall).
The result is that I'm a doormat that reeks of virginity and everyone can see it. I am described as adventurous and bold. I'll go out and have some crazy fun. I like traveling to new cities alone. I've risked my life in various odd and self destructive scenarios. But people still see the the meekness and naivety that permeates my personality.
all things that you have identified and can work on, no?
Especially stuff like posture and eye contact.
eye contact, tone...Just go in the creep direction for a bit, that's my advice
I have worked on it a fair bit, and I've had some limited success with women even. But that only made me realize women are nothing but trouble, and now I plan on remaining celibate for my entire life.
I'm not making any excuses, I am trying to improve these flaws but I've been conditioned to have them since birth and I'm 22 still living with mom so... it will take some time. I'm not a misogynist, I'm a misanthrope. My plan is to live as a hermit when I get off of regular welfare and onto autismbux ($1,500 a month or so). The only reason I want to improve my social skills is to emit an aura of respectability.
This is my life OP. I allow people to walk all over me to also avoid confrontation. I don't raise my voice or anything. I'm about to have a child and work a dead end job. I am pretty unhappy with myself.
After being raised by a single mother I just pretty much hate women and men and pretty much everyone. I think the thing that would make me pretty happy is killing my father, his parents, and my aunt and uncle.
Also raised by a single mother and I act the same way. I can talk to people fine but have a hard time being forward. If I say anything mildly confrontational Adrenalin kicks in.
>sitting in tutorial on monday
>TA comes in, he's even more beta than I am
>"o-o-okay guys time to s-start..."
>nobody shuts up
>sitting at the front, in a rare moment of bravery turn around, say "hey, shut the fuck up"
>everybody quiets down, I turn back
>meanwhile my heart is pounding like I just ran 3km
>tfw also raised by a single mom
>tfw also beta
>tfw also submissive
They found out they weren't as compatible as they thought, they're not divorced legally but both are separated, they're also both in a relationship with other people.
I'm the son of two literal cucks.
>implying a single mother has anything to do with the shortcomings being mentioned in this thread
the second the child enters the school system and starts watching tv the parents have zero control over how the child ends up