How do I get my wife's kids to respect me?
>32 NEET, wife 30
>wife has 2 kids that are 14 and 12
>those little shits will not listen to ANYTHING I say telling them to do chores etc..
>her son that's 14 mocks me and makes fun of me because I don't have a job
>gets the 12 yo little shit on it too
What do I do /r9k/? I want to make it work with this woman.
sorry, you really cant. dont show any aggression to them whatsoever, one day they'll look back and regret acting like that to you. when a woman has a baby with someone else and still wants to keep it, don't expect an amazing relationship.
yeah and that's one way to lose your wife, if she cares that is. just be as peaceful as you can, by 15-16 they'll be more different, but i can't really say that, whenever they mature that is.
That's what you get for choosing a woman that has kids. They have absolutely no reason to fear or respect you. Why should they? You aren't their father. You are a jobless thirty two year old whose doing their mother. Hell, i'd hate you too.
as a kid that grew up with a step dad youre fucked. you are basically another dependant in the household. if you had a job i would suggest you try and connect with them in whatever ways you could via shared interests. in this case though, you are on their level in their minds, also they hate you for sexing their mom.
ps get a job and they might not think you are a total scrub loser undeserving of their mother.
All these redditors getting memed on