I like choking and hitting because daddy never loved me. I'm in love with Bruce Campbell and I want to kill myself. I want to be choked to death while having sex. I am so alone and insecure but sometimes I'm very confident. I also hate myself because of the fictional characters I find attractive.
>>25959476 Mostly supervillains, but really anyone fictional who is sufficiently evil or evil-looking ever since I was a little kid. I remember ten-ish and wishing Darth Maul would beat the shit out of me. The one I'm most obsessed with/my husbando is Slade from Teen Titans.
>>25959607 Yep. I think a lot of us are like that. When we're ashamed of our own bodies and urges and don't feel like anyone sane would want us, it's our instinct to want to look for help satisfying those urges with crazy people. We have rape fantasies because we don't feel like bad people in those fantasies.
Sure, no one ever wants to discuss my fetishes so I don't expect you to reply. I like micro, rape, forced crossdressing, tickling, non consensual snuggling, MILFs, hypnosis, cuntboys, and people being turned into cyborgs.
>>25959800 Dicks don't really have much going for them honestly. They don't have character and a dildo can replace them. They're also invariably ugly. Besides, if we fetishized them there would be even more people whining about our tastes. Dicks are a fetish for men who want to feel cool with their big dick or who want to feel humiliated about their small one.
i want to rape my qt manlet bf but I also want to be his completely submissive housewife because I like the idea of having men make my decisions for me. I'm also into breeding/lactation, which I've never admitted to anyone before.
>>25959856 I said forced crossdressing but I just like people with masculine personalities forced into girly clothes. So mostly guys but also tomboyish girls. >>25959866 I just like seeing forced unwanted affection. Like in the old cartoons when the characters would run away from someone trying to kiss or hug them.
>>25959641 This is so true, and it's what pisses me off about girls. I got a girlfriend once somehow, and her fetishes turned out to be the old kidnap/rape fantasy. She said she FELT ashamed to do anything sexual maybe because she was 16 and never did anything sexual before so I basically had to 'rape' her whenever I wanted anything. She was way into it, she would get incredibly fucking wet and would try to find any excuse to be put in those situations, but she later got ashamed of feeling that way and told me to stop.
We broke up because she felt like things were getting too weird, which they were. I just want a gf that actually cares about snuggling and wants to have passionate sex and snuggles, not emotionless fingering and cunnilingus after I overpower her and forcibly remove her clothes.
>>25960148 Trust me, it's not something I'd choose for myself. If I had a choice I'd pick the option where I got to have sex without feeling ashamed of it.
Did your ex grow up somewhere where there was a lot of stigma and shame associated with anything sexual? I did AND I'm a legit autist and misinterpreted a lot of things young. That sense of shame fucked up my entire sexuality. I can't even give blowjobs without having to run off and puke because I get panic attacks.
If you ever have a girl kid, don't treat sex as shameful around her.
>>25960275 Super Christian mom, she has PTSD from something and basically doesn't function. Her dad is a really cool guy, non-religious and not against sexual stuff (we went to a public bathhouse once and bathed nude together, good bonding), but he went to another country to work when she was 10. She pretty much went through puberty without anyone to tell her about sex, and she was so embarrassed that she skipped sex ed day at school.
She also has really bad body dysmorphia, she is ashamed of her boobs and can't look at herself naked in the mirror. I kinda feel bad for her.
The breast thing is interesting for you to mention, I had that really miserably from about 11 to 15 and pretended to be a boy as much as I could while wearing tight sports bras to hide my breasts. For me there was a lot of terror that people would be interested in me because of my breasts and I felt like I was a monster if I let that happen.
At least not everyone is like this. Most of my girl friends have healthy sexualities.
>>25960388 I talked about it with her before. She's 17 soon and she still has problems with her naked body. I was hoping that fooling around with her would make her feel more comfortable about herself but it really didn't.
I knew her since she was 13 (I'm 4 years older than her) and back then she was even worse about sex, to the point where implying something sexual would cause her to go red. She moved with her dad for a while and she got a little bit better but she still has problems :/
She also wears high-neck shirts and jeans or shorts every day. Never dressed like a girl other than fancy socks or pink T shirts. In fact, she was embarrassed when I asked for a pic of her in a dress.
Like zoo stuff the most, sadly. Thankfully I'm not into actual kids, at least. I haven't fucked any animals, but I do get aroused when I'm around people's dogs, if they have an attractive one. I try not to be weird about it.
>>25960500 Have you gotten better since? What age did you start being comfortable again?
And... do you think it's possible that she could be asexual? I was friends with her for 3 years before we started dating and that whole time she was attracted to 2 boys, one from an anime and one from an animated movie. Plus, she wanted (still wants I'm pretty sure) to get a house and live together as friends when we're older, and never get married.
We're still friends, though after the breakup I've been a little bitter towards her, but after talking about this I can see it from her point of view a little better. So thanks for that
>>25960548 I had sex for the first time when I was 21 and had had time to sort of process enough to start putting together that my views about sex were neither normal nor healthy. I was open with my partner about everything and he was really non-judgmental and willing to take things slow for me. Things improved very gradually and we tried new stuff, but it was basically the reassurance that having sex didn't make me a bad person that helped and that if I wore dresses it didn't make me a bad person, etc.
My ex told me that I'm likely asexual but I'm not entirely convinced because I still masturbate and different sources say different things about what asexuality entails. My crushes are usually fictional and my one real-life relationship started as a friendship.
>>25960583 Yeah, I'd really recommend roleplay in general as something that's both fun and a stress-reliever.
I find it kind of cringey sometimes if it's too cheesy and mitigate that by making it a really elaborate storytelling system. My partner and I made costumes and developed characters really carefully so when we went to do fetish stuff we were almost just in it to see how our characters were going to develop. I don't know if that would make it better or worse for you, but it helped us out.
>>25960613 Only difference here are that she recognizes there's a problem. She wants to see it as normal but she can't... I tried helping her before, went to sites with her about getting comfortable with your body, but it didn't help. Too bad, she's really cute.
She doesn't masturbate, but she once told me she was really ashamed for wanting to put a teddy bear between her legs and grind it. Like I said, I was her only sexual experience.
It's good to know there's others like her. What kind of fictional guys do you crush on? She says she has no concept of "hot" or "sexy" and goes for cute instead.
>>25960721 She's pretty young so I imagine she still has plenty of time to investigate herself and be introspective about her feelings.
I posted earlier in the thread about the fictional people I like when I was talking to a different anon. >>25959505 was me. I have a poor gauge of attractiveness and am often interested in characters in masks or characters with faces that are otherwise obscured. I like monsters too sometimes but those are less common.
>>25960808 Ah, okay. She liked Robin from teen titans actually, funny you mentioned Slade. She's more into skinny guys with messy hair and a sorta girlish round face. The main character from that movie "Big Hero 6" for example. I hope she gets better, she'll have my support and I'll try not to be so bitter about the breakup.
It's like quarter past 4 so I'm heading to bed now. Nice talking with you though
Guy here with an interesting question for girls, if there's any still here.
I see a lot of guys that are into sexual denial or whatever you'd call it, stuff like chastity cages, being forced not to cum, etc, and usually it's part of a femdom thing. (I'm into none of this, BTW.)
Well, most women are into maledom by default, but I've never heard a woman talk about a sexual denial fetish. I've seen stuff like it in porn a few times, but that's usually made to suit men's tastes. Are there any women into this kind of thing?
A couple of my own fetishes that I'll see if anybody's into, as well: -Non-forced crossdressing, where the "trap" is dominant. -Pussy and cock pumping. (It's weird that I'm into the latter because I'm already above average.) -Lingerie fetishes? I have a huge thing for women in certain kinds of panties and stuff, and I've heard girls talk about getting turned on by wearing sexy stuff, but I've never been with a girl that was into it. -And how about wearing no panties at all? Tons of guys are into this, but very few girls seem to "get" it. I've always imagined that if I were a girl I'd get massively turned on by it.
>>25961035 Denial not one that I hear women having very often. Personally I can't see the fun of any kind of sexual scenario that doesn't involve an orgasm. Forced orgasms are a more common fetish.
I have no idea what pussy and cock pumping is but it sounds unpleasant.
Lingerie fetishes aren't super common, but I know that some people get a little thrill out of wearing it. That thrill is more just a part of feeling good about looking good though. The biggest thing that makes me nope out of lingerie fetishes is how stupid fucking expensive good lingerie is. I'd rather sink my money on other stuff and buy cheap, comfy panties.
No panties is just not pleasant. Vaginas are self cleaning and give off tiny amounts of discharge through the day, not counting the possibility of getting turned on and wet. It would make the pants a mess inside and I usually like to wear my pants more than one day while changing underwear every day.
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