Anyone else feel like 90% of girls are too good for them?
I feel like even if I did get a gf, it would only be a matter of time before she left me for someone better.
It's called hypergamy. She will leave if you show weakness and stop improving. Always be improving, always be a leader, always be powerful and dominant. Never let her walk over her, pass every shit test, and she will fucking love you. Be as high status as possible.
That's probably the same sense I feel honesty. I think most girls are fully cognizant of the power their vagina gives them. It's guaranteed sexual security. Girls can hop in and out of beds and relationships at will.
Kinda makes me lose all motivation to even get a gf.
>all this for some meat flaps around your dick
I can't believe how beta "alpha" guys are in reality.
In a constant struggle to prove themselves and outdo themselves for the sake of the most pathetic creatures on planet earth.
Both those women are trash tier to me.
>fat one has no self control and probably doesnt exercise. Too stupid to even dress right. Gross. Thinner girl brings her along for one reason or another.
>Normal weight one probably has some self control, but she probably doesnt exercise. Enough smarts and control to manipulate people to a point. Obvious she's had a bit of a lower class upbringing and prominently displays her tats. The tats are her sour disposition lead me to believe she is probably more than a bit unstable.
r8 my analysis.
I used to, but over the years my self esteem as really gone up. Not so much because I'm all that great but because other people are so much worse. I'm not perfect- far from it, in fact- but next to most I'm a pretty good partner.
Have you ever even talked to a girl? I didn't think so, fucking carl.
It's what women are attracted to, m8. Women are unable to love men the way we as men want to be loved (as in unconditionally, despite our flaws and issues). Women instead love what the man brings to the table. She loves her attraction to you.
I know this is Reddit, but it provides a good explanation about what I'm talking about
Also some relevant Rollo
i think 99% of girls aren't good enough for me
>Anyone else feel like 90% of girls are too good for them?
more like 99% but yeah. like why would a girl even want to be around me, cant even fathom receiving female attention. so i dont even try, and why would i when there's shitton of better guys going after her that she can choose from
She has to be a 6/10 or below.
for a robot, anything past 6.5/10 you weren't meant to be.
Maybe get away with a 7/10 if she was black or an ethnic minority. Westernized Asians and Latinas don't count.
I do know that feel. Growing up we wanted a girlfriend that'd be like a best friend at the same time, where we wouldn't be afraid to hide anything, including our fears and weaknesses. We would love each other for each other. But this isn't true. Not at all, unfortunately.
You can become your own girlfriend op. You can get rid of that nasty testosterone in your blood and get pumped full of nice estrogen. You can be pretty and cute and feminine. You can smell nice and suck all the chads cocks. All it takes is a little effort and you can be a pretty girl just like you know you've always wanted.
You need to realize that isn't true. You just have no confidence. Most likely you bombard yourself with negative thoughts all day, every day, like I used to. Yes, it sounds cliche, but you need to start thinking positively. The mind is powerful as fuck, you have to train it, otherwise it will destroy you. This is why most people who are depressed, usually get worse no matter how much meds they take, they won't really get better until they change their thoughts. Say something long enough and the mind will eventually absorb it and bounce it right back, negative or positive.
Link related, a technique that helped me out greatly.
Like I said, I know it sounds cliche, but I promise it's not bullshit.
I think I just have a weird perspective. I love women, I think they are so beautiful and lovely and almost otherwordly, and I feel like I could not possibly live up to them. How could a woman possibly like me?
Yes, because I cant hold anyones interest in a conversation for more than a minute or 2
Obviously that says something about me as a person. Ive tried to be interesting, but no matter how much effort I put into it, people put none back in
i think about that sometimes. height-wise i am a manlet, 5'6 so based on that measurement 3/4 of guys beat me in the height department. i'd say looks wise im about a 5-6/10
but it seems like the guys i know who can't even get a job and are addicted to fucking opiates can get gfs and i cant. on top of that, i'm boring as fuck and for some reason i prefer it that way. no girl wants a boring bf but i just can't enjoy making art or music or doing any sort of activity that a girl would see me doing and think 'wow he's interesting'.
all i have going for me is i'm pretty smart.
>she is nice to me
>instantly fall in love
>meet other girl
>she is nicer
>fall in love harder
>I know she knows
>she is too good for me
>like everyone else but she is especially too good for me
>instantly crushed, I always knew nothing is going to happen, why do I feel like this?
All I am sure about is that I have autismo levels of standards.
I am a very physically active muscular and lean person, lifting for 11 years now. Most women are inactive and flabby and I just can't get into that. I want an active GF that takes actual pride/care of her body, not pretend pride/fat acceptance shit.
Yeah I feel like every girl who's mildly attractive is out of my league. Plus I was told that women are usually very friendly and it's never a good idea to assume their friendless is attraction or willingness to date you.
I know, I know, you're supposed to risk rejection and blah blah but still. This board, the internet, all the shit I read and hear and all the experience I've had myself has told me that women "aren't worth it". The meaningless platitudes I'm given about why pursuing relationships is worth it in the end are meaningless to me, when I can't help but feel like every girl I meet is either already dating some guy or already has a guy in their sights, and can't be trusted to commit to me at all. If I can't be "That Guy" for her, I don't want to be much of anything in her life at all.
Same here, I'll probably end up alone since I won't settle for just any girl. Unless they're cute, a virgin, and think a lot like me I don't see any point in dating them. I have a low sex drive so I certainly don't need a girl so she can annoy me and spend my money.
>she loves her attraction to you
i could argue the same for men honestly
I know you're going to say "but there's outliers, men love fatties/criples/etc." but that works in reverse too. Most men I know including myself fall in love with a girl with some combination of what she brings to the table, AND her attractiveness. And I'd argue it's a bit dumb to try and get with somebody you aren't attracted to at all. My friends never got broken up over a girl who was super ugly; usually she was at least kind of cute.
this. i mean it sucks not having a loving gf to cuddle with at night but the hoops i would have to jump through, the act i would have to put on, and the fact that i would just have to completely change myself makes it just seem like too much work. plus, i always hear from people with gf's
>man you're so lucky to be single
>if you're depressed and get a gf you'll just be depressed with a gf
it aint worth it, jacking off is just so comfy
if any girl showed interest in me she wouldnt have to worry about getting cucked. there's such a tiny chance i could even manage to get with another girl and unless she was just absolutely gorgeous and begging for my cock i wouldn't see any reason to pursue the chase. too much effort
>if you're depressed and get a gf you'll be depressed with a gf
This one is my favorite, alongside any statement that could be interpreted as "when you meet a girl and you two like each other and things start to happen.."
Because that is something that I'm not sure will ever happen. But it's either "you need to be a perfect person or you'll never get a relationship" or it's "if you get in a relationship your life won't be any better".
I go on to tell myself that maybe if I just believed in getting a gf I'd get one some day but even that seems completely foolish when there's always guys better than me, when every girl I meet either has a guy or is eyeing some other guy, when no girl ever loses sleep over me or thinks of me as more than a friend.
you're projecting your own securities. If you can imagine that most men are better than you, then you can see your own faults. You shouldn't be concerned what girls think, just concern yourself with what you think about you, and do what it takes so that you can think highly of yourself. Women don't know what they want, but if you're certain, then they'll believe in you.
Most women are all flash and veneer, they're basically the human equivalent of looking at someones dolled up facebook profile. It's all about projecting an image and getting people to buy into it, which women as a whole are incredibly proficient at and dedicate a ton of time to. The closer you get to them though the more the bullshit in their story starts to become apparent and the image starts to fall apart, which is where you see notions like "No matter how hot she is, some dude somewhere is tired of her bullshit" show up. They'll still expect the sun and moon from men, but that's almost a separate issue that comes down to immense demand for vagina. But don't assume a bitch is perfect from a distance, it's a show to get people like you that don't know them very well to think exactly that.