Anyone here /notmasculine/?
I have some "manly" interests, but my personality is feminine. I'm not powerful. I'm not dominant, I'm a follower and not a leader. I am quiet, shy, and sensitive, all things that aren't manly and are very unattractive. Remember, opening up to women will kill all attractiveness. Never cry in front of her. I wish I never could cry, but I've cried over the last three days because I've felt like shit.
I'm also not that physically strong (kinda of a fatty, never worked out a day in my life) but I want to change that.
It sucks. Anyone else have these feels?
yep. I don't particularly want to be masculine though, I'd never feel comfortable doing so
I spend a lot of time on my appearance (though I'm not really muscular, more fit/slim), into fashion, very sensitive/emotional, all that stereotypically fem stuff
also found a girl who likes that, and she's on the tomboyish side herself actually
My dream is to find a tomboy qt to fall in love with. I hope it all works out for you m8.
Personally am a feminine guy more so than masculine but I think it's great that we're at least trying to grow our masculine side more. I've been working out and just trying to be more confident in approaching people.
Sensitivity is something I need to work on too.
I kinda know that feel. I have masculine values and interests but my body is slim and soft and my face is cute. I look younger than I am, sometimes people think I'm underaged too and my voice is soft. I don't look intimidating at all.
It doesn't suck so much for me because I've discovered that it helps when chatting with random girls casually. They're more open to get to know you and don't expect you to be flirty or bold. If you fuck it up they don't expect to see you again anyways and then they forget about you quickly.
>Sensitivity is something I need to work on too.
You're not supposed to be sensitive as a man. Sensitivity is weakness and will dry up any potential girlfriend/sex partner's pussy up until it's the pink version of the goddamn Sahara Desert.
Become redpilled. All women want red pilled men. Chads are just guys who didn't need the red pill because they're natual alphad. It's why people take it, so they can be as close to Chad as possible, until it becomes natural.
Not all people can be alpha. Don't try to be someone you're not, try to be the best you can be. One day you'll meet a girl who will like you for what you are, just look for her she can't find someone she doesn't know even exist.
Also. If you're gay you are the type of guys I like so there's that.
Started college again and have been stressed. Been having some major depression issues for years now but its gotten worse. Mainly because nogf ever and also no friends, so loneliness sucks. Also been reading a bunch of stuff
specifically red pill stuffthat has rocked my world view, broke my heart and made me even more fearful of women.
Though at least I managed to get out of work for a few days after explaining my situation to my boss. So that's something, I guess.