Warm, their body is soft, you feel safe, time stops, nothing matters, no worries, stress or trouble. Then you get sick of them and want your own space and shoo them away. And when you want them to come back you just go on the bed and gently tap the space next to you and make a sheepish look on your face. The tapping will annoy them and force them to come and cuddle with you. And then you shoo them away after three seconds. hohoho
>>25904128 I wouldn't know, I've never been in love. However I imagine it's very fearful to know this physical and mental dependency you have on this person that doesn't ultimately respect you will turn into horrible withdraw that will last for years and years.
>>25904128 maddening. the entirety of my four year relationship, we were a beautiful couple. everyone figured we'd go all the way, high school sweethearts who moved in together. then she asked for a break and fucked two people.
it wouldn't be so bad if she wasn't so sweet. a part of me knew, laying there at night, if anything were to go wrong that there is literally no hope. she wasn't a hoe, was kind and loving and even a little below my league.
I don't think I'm the only one who, when cuddling that one special person, doesn't have that thought in the back of their head. and now it's not a thought. it's a reality. don't feel bad, anon. love is just a lie. I hope you come to peace with it sooner and easier than I had too, man. best of luck.
>>25904128 It feels like bliss mate. Cuddling makes you feel like the moment will never cease. It feels like an empty gap in your heart is being filled with love. Your heart and body are embraced and you feel each others hearts beat against your bodies. It truly is an amazing expression of love. I miss her man......
>>25904128 It's the warmest safest place I've ever been. Idk if love has exactly been part of it but still it feels amazing. You can vaguely recreate it with a body pillow, couple of blankets, a heated blanket with a cut-off timer (put inside the pillow), and relatively cozy/small place where you can lay down (a bed works). It's called taking a break-up bad. (Don't get used to sleeping with another person) That's still not the same cuz it can't recreate the heartbeat or the way they snuggle further into you cuz they're just as comfortable but it's better than sleepless nights.
>>25905733 That hit me in the feels pretty hard. I'm dealing with my first breakup. Seems like just a few days ago we were lying in my bed cuddling. I was smelling her hair, wrapping my arm around her stomach. She fell asleep next to me. Now it is all gone.
Truly there is more pain than pleasure in the world because the memory of it hurts more than the experience felt good.
>>25904128 It is the closest thing I have ever felt to not being alone or completely alien to every conscious creature around me. It makes me feel safe.
Not only do you know that you aren't alone, that somebody has your back, but your bodies are together to prove it. When the cuddle breaks, it's a subtle reminder that all things break. That your safety is always precarious. In this way, every cuddle is a nicely wrapped lie. It has little purpose in and of itself, but it can give you the confidence to make whatever changes you need to make.
>>25906365 Hollow and unfeeling It cannot compare That's just meatpleasure, it's not like the soulpleasure brought on by love cuddles
As a product of our utilitarian culture, it is little surprise that it emulates those very same qualities that our culture itself exhibits on the whole. But of course, it pretends not to. Humans will always buy lies because without them the truth would surely kill them.
>>25906694 Asking questions is never bad for your mental health Uncovering and resolving problems usually isn't either It's only when you expect a specific answer, or expect the problem to resolve itself, or bemoan the fact that it LITERALLY WILL NEVER BE SOLVED to the point where the longing becomes a CONSTANT AND ETERNAL, NAGGING OBSESSION, THE PAIN NEVER REACHING A FINAL CRESCENDO OF UNBEARABILITY, INSTEAD IT JUST BUILDS AND BUILDS FOREVER that you become poorly suited for this reality. Which isn't your fault.
More like the world isn't good for your mental health anonymoose. The world is very, very bad for our mental health.
Most of the time its hot, sweaty, and uncomfortable. I usually cuddle with girls til they fall asleep then roll over on to my side and get comfortable. But if you're not planning on going to sleep soon it feels amazing. You feel whole and secure. You know you can take on anything that comes your way cause you can feel the love and embraces of your other half currently holding on to you. But when you really think about it, cuddling while young is scary. Cause either you will spend the rest of your life cuddling with that girl every evening... or one of you will eventually leave one another and you can never cuddle with that person again.
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