how's online dating going for you guys?

Black guy here. Shitty

the guy i was seeing told me i was too sad for him

>>25900483
>Things are heating up!

A Korean girl said my hair colour is nice.
It's a nice change of pace to be complimented as a ginger.

>>25900483
Its going well. He lives a continent away from me and has tastes that I cant compete with. Pretty sure he likes me only because I give him attention and doesnt like any other part of me.

Too scared to take the first step. I've always been incredibly insecure about my appearance. I can't take a good picture.

>>25901019
I only say well because it's nice to have someone. I'm also pretty sure he'd kill himself if we broke up.

>>25901042
angles, lighting, and makeup. Idc if you're a dude dont be a pussy about concealer.

>>25901065
I have a skin problem that makes my face look like I'm sunburned at all times. I can't wear coverup forever.

>>25900967
be my sad lonely gf

>>25900967
this girl i was seeing told me i was too sad for her

Want to be my gf?

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>>25900967
ayy you just need some vitamin D
if you know what I mean ;^)

>>25901081
But you can wear it when you take pictures and go out. Also there are concealers that are medical.

>>25901109
>>25901131
duel it out

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>>25901109
>>25901131
>implying anon is a girl

>>25901170
I asked first faget

>>25901176
im more comforting and clingy than you are
fite me irl anon

>>25900483
i recommend making troll accounts / cutegirl accounts. it's fun as long as you aren't malicious.

seeing things from the other side helps put things in perspective. these girls get like 100 messages within the first day. think about that.

also looking at guy profiles and stealing good descriptions is a good idea. some guys have extremely autistic profiles. don't be one of them. some guys legit seem like cool dudes to chat with / date. in a no homoway of course :^)

>>25900514
Ha, you should have responded with.
Black guy here,
>As good as my IQ tests
>As good as swimming
>As good as my career prospects
>As bad as my sense for sarcasm
>As good as an african invention
>As good as an african economy
>As good as an african philosopher/classical artist/artist in general/scientist/lawmaker
>As negative as my sickle cell test
>As negative as my HIV test
>As good as my wit.
To name a few.

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>>25901193
>im more comforting and clingy than you are
>he really believes this

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>>25900483
>that picture
might as well reply to those chatroom ad things in porn sites if you're gonna be retarded

>>25900483

It's been good to me in the past, but only because I got into tinder in the early days. Everyone just wants to date now.
Maybe I've just got uglier lel.

this girl finally gave me her number and i figured i better facebook stalk her before i text her and it turns out she has two kids and one looks half mexican/niglet. dodged a bullet there

>>25901195
reading the book mate: become the man women want by tucker max will also make things better. some of you will have no hope because you're just too damaged to recover and fix your life. but some of you are normie enough that if you get your shit together you will be able to escape the hellhole that is r9k

the epub should be on kickasstorrents

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>>25900483
>actively choosing to compete on a level playing field with every single sexually frustrated beta who is too afraid to approach girls in real life

>>25901416
How/where do I find girls to approach in real life

>>25901310
Thank good for facebook amirite.
Imagine fucking her and then see a halfblood niglet on the couch.

>>25901416
im a device used to safely cook meat over flames

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>>25900483
It's going quite well, actually.

>>25901416
I don't see a problem, I'm more attractive than most betas

>>25901753
Then it completely makes sense. Hope you find someone

what are some good sites?

>>25901753
A... frying pan?

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>signed up to most websites
>all I ever got responses from were ugly fat chicks or trashy looking druggies
>tfw all you attract are bottom of the barrel, shit tier women

I'd rather be alone for eternity than settle down with any of them. Seriously, fuck that shit.

>>25900514
>Black guy here
become a white man

>>25901493
Cultivate social hobbies, make friends, leave your wank-cave of a bedroom to spend time in places where you like being, and generally try to live a fulfilling and interesting life.

Talking to a girl in real life is scary, messaging one online is not... why? This makes no sense.

You go through so much bullshit just to avoid this fear. You sacrifice all of the advantages you could have in real life and instead choose to reduce your entire personality (assuming you have one) down to photos and text, which only makes sense if you have no personality but you do have above-average looks (which most of us don't).

Your message will be just one of 50 that even the worst looking girl will receive in a given day, you could be the only guy to hit on a girl in real life for months. Which is going to make a bigger impression?

And you do all this bullshit... in order to try to arrange to meet girls in real life. So eventually you're going to have to talk to girls in real life. So why not just skip the hassle and talk to them in real life? If she's not single or she rejects you, then just move on, no big deal.

>>25901841
Holy fucking shit, you're using that chad bait image. Post some actual chats you've had with these sluts.

>>25902082
It's better than being barraged by messages from fat nigger whores.

Literally all I ever get.

>>25900483
>Claims there are cute local girls
>99% look like Tumblrinas

>>25902082
>all I ever got responses from were ugly fat chicks or trashy looking druggies

You just described 60% of a dating site's female userbase. The other 40% are single mothers with chad and tyrone's niglet crotchfruit dangling just out of shot in their deceptively-attractive profile picture.

Dating sites are the bottom of the barrel, you're not going to find any kind of quality women down there.

>>25902130
Know any good social hobbies?

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>>25902150
I literally haven't said a single word to any of these sluts since I made this account, yet the messages keep pouring in.

>>25902130
But my wank-cave bedroom is the only place I like being.

I gave up after a year. I got no responses and I only got messaged by fatties.

>>25902247
That's both sad and hilarious, god speed anon.

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>>25900483
I suck at online dating. I'm only good at getting grils in person. Lol
I swear no one ever replied to my messages. Once I bumped into someone who I sent a message to (of course she didn't reply) she was all over me that night.

I even got that "congrats you're hot" message from ok cupid a few days into creating the account.

>>25900483
Can someone post Chad pictures? I want to make an ok cupid profile

>>25900483
It's going horribly, seems harder than ever

>>25902231
There's fuckloads. The important thing is that you're actually interested in it. Try different things out and see if you like them.

Try some kind of sport, even something like fencing or archery if you're not keen on normie team sports.

Try to find a club for a hobby that you already have which is non-social. Even start with your shitty autistic faggot hobbies see if there's an anime club near you for example.

Even if your hobbies aren't normie-approved, it doesn't matter, you might feel more comfortable in those types of environments, and they might serve as gateways into other social opportunities and groups.

Maybe take classes, like a language course or woodworking or something. Even if you don't meet any friends on the course itself it might lead to some kind of club or group opportunity as mentioned above.

Even just leave your house and hang out in a cafe or something and read something that doesn't consist of whiny shitposts all day. Baby steps anon.

>>25902608
Oh yeah, you can do voluntary work too.

>>25902608
>>25902660
I'm 24 but completely clueless. So say I pick a sport. What do I do next? How would I find an anime club near me?

I quit again a few days ago. No fun trying to date as an obese male. I mean it's not that I didn't get anywhere. I actually had a few decent girls message me...but it always comes to nothing because the reality of being an ugly deformed guy is I have to try WAY harder than the average man to appear interesting. When girls are naturally drawn to beautiful, handsome men guys like me are still considered but ultimately need to prove themselves worthwhile.

I don't like to advertise myself. I don't initiate conversations anymore. It's really soul crushing to date as a fat man. Everything's uncomfortable. I'm better off just waiting until I'm a reasonable non-obese weight. I've lost 110lbs, still need to do another 90 before I look "normal".

I've never bothered because I have bad skin.

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It's ok I guess. I get responses pretty consistently but it never goes anywhere. I also severely hinder myself by only messaging asian girls, the most sought after girl on the site. But it's alright, a good response rate means I should do great in real life when I finally get the balls to try that.

>>25902660
How do I find volunteer work?

I deleted tinder 5 minutes after downloading it cause my profile pic from facebook sucks and I cant take a more natural picture. I also realized that I couldnt bring a girl home. And I wouldnt even want to date randomly like that.

>>25902247
>>25901841

it's sad because in reality you're a loser who would never get this much attention, so instead you spend your time being an asshole

>>25902859

Lost and triggered roastie detected.

>>25902859
>roastie being this toastie

>>25902887
>>25902897
>the only way anyone could possibly point out how sad this is, is if they were a woman who was mad for some reason (?)

this is some omega-tier loser behavior

>>25901198
That wouldn't make sense though. I have an IQ of 132, can swim just fine, should have a fine career after college, understand sarcasm, no HIV, and good wit. I'll give you the rest.

>>25902703
>What do I do next?
Find a club that does that sport, call or email them and ask about lessons or how to start.

>>25902703
>How would I find an anime club near me
>>25902804
>How do I find volunteer work?
How do people find anything in this day and age?

You have the greatest information tool in the history of mankind, and more information available to you than all previous generations of humans combined, and you're posting on r9k asking to be spoonfed information.

FUCKING GOOGLE IT!

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>>25902924
Nothing to see here folks, just an extremely toasted roastie.

>>25902150
Please don't. The more bait accounts there are, the more women think there's actually a hot guy on this website and raise their standards.

I wish >>25901841 would just delete.

My options are;
one who works night shifts and answers my messages between 12am to 5am, sometimes skips a few days

one who's into an open relationship and we've been talking for a long time

that's about it, one girl deleted her profile a few hours after messaging me, was a shame she seemed cool I know she didn't just block me since I use a second empty account

most of the time I message a girl, she visits my profile like the next day and it ends there. I'm starting to put way less effort into my messages because of this, fuck bitches

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>>25900483
Made an OKC account with that shopped picture of eggy and mystery. In under 24 hours I have over 100 hundred likes and just as many visitors. Only 3 messages though.

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>>25903203
Kek, get rekt normie

>>25903348

I'm >>25902790 and get consistent replies competing with that?

I simply feel better about myself now.

>>25902977
I'm not finding anything my man. I'm looking for volunteer work now

>>25900483
So far only single moms want me. Shits frustrating because children are the only red flag for me, also 300+lbs.

>>25902977
>>25903459
There's a beach cleanup about a month from now... Sigh this is pointless

>>25903203
I want them to raise their standards so high that they never settle for anyone and their womb dries up.