To the few anons who've managed to get one, what's it like having a girlfriend?
I'm asking because I know I'll never get one so I'd at least like to know what it's like
I had a gf once and she made me sell all my vidya because she said I was spending too much time on them, and then she said she had to most of the money because she said she helped me sell the vidyas even though she didn't do anything but I didn't want to argue, and then shortly after she broke up with me.
Ups and downs. Sometimes it feels like a lot of work but overall in my experience, for the emotion, company, sex and general companionship, it's definitely worth it when you find a good one. Makes the world a little less harsh.
Oh and before normie ree, I was 28 before I lost my virginity and 29 before I started my current relationship (now 34) so it took a fair while for me to find my feet.
It feels nice first but then it comes to that how much each of you is willing to give up for other. If she's feminine and you're not masculine then it's going to be hard because she'll be demanding things from you and you wont be able to put your foot. Ofcourse you have a high chance of having sex but it still depends from your gf sex drive.
I'm 6 months in and it's great so far, never thought I could feel this happy and loved tbqh. People told me the feeling would only last a few weeks, and I happily ignored them, now I'm sure they'll tell me it'll be gone within a year but I'll keep ignoring them
I currently live with my girlfriend. It has its ups and downs. My feelings towards her fluctuate from ambivalence, to dislike, to complete adoration. It's not about just being constantly, blissfully happy. It's about sharing your ups and downs with a partner who puts up with or enjoys your weird shit.
>tfw first gf at 20
it's pretty dope, I knew her in high school and sort of dated her before but this is my first actual relationship, we've only been dating 3 weeks and haven't had sex yet but I'm not gonna rush it because I know it's gonna happen.
It feels good anon, when you get a text at 3 asking if you'll take her ice skating in Chicago it's nice to know that a girl wants to do things with you.
Sometimes I go to the bathroom and there are little bits of poop leftover from the first flush. It's alright, though. Everyone shits. You also have to deal with things like morning breath and BO. But she puts up with that from me so whatever. She also doesn't give me shit when I've gone a few days without a shower (weekends).
And to answer the original question I guess it does ruin it a bit in the sense that any idealized notion of women you have is destroyed. They are just breathing, fucking, shitting creatures like you or I, anon.
Sometimes, if it's a nasty shit. She really likes hot cheetos. But honestly it is pretty nice once you get to the level of comfort where you can both talk about bodily functions openly instead of trying to hide your farts and whatnot. I mean if you live with someone that kind of shit is pretty much impossible and highly uncomfortable.