Ok lets get this out of the way first, yes I'm a normie by r9k standards. I'm still KV though
>friend gets gf
>other friend is trying to get gf
>they wanna go on a double date
>ask me if I wanna go
>say I could take anyone I want, but more importantly say that they will set me up with basically anyone on our circles
>boils down to choosing between two girls
>or even going, at all. Not really interested in dating right now
>one is qt marine bio major kinda chubby but cute, tall (same height as me), kinda odd at times, nerdy, etc.
>other is this ultra qt girl I literally met yesterday who's a friend of one of the ones who's going, and by ultra qt I mean literal 9+/10. Pic related similar looks, but maybe not as qt as pic. I don't actually know anything about her except that she's an artsy tumblr-tier type, but apparently she's really nice according to friend
Please r9k, what do? I might actually have a chance for once in my life. And I promise that the second I'm no longer KV i'll leave r9k forever
I assume you want to get a gf, as in you want to end up in a serious relationship, and not just get laid?
Then go on the date with the one you feel more attracted to. It's just a date. Relax. Use the time to enjoy yourself and get to know the girl. Don't sperg out, don't reveal embarrassing power levels etc. Make sure you listen to what she says (and actually remember what she is saying).
Then judge for yourself. Ask yourself if you want to see her again or not. The biggest mistake you can make is putting her on any kind of pedastal just because she's so beautiful. You're equals. You're both looking for the same thing, a partner. Sure, you should try to show your best side. But if she turns out to be a major bitch, or if you simply are not compatible, you should simply move on. Don't make a huge deal out of the date, and your chances of succeeding will increase.
If the thing with girl a doesn't lead anywhere, you can always ask out girl b later.
you're right about me wanting a relationship rather than just laid, but I'm also not sure if I even want a gf right now, then again I won't have a chance as big as this one in any near future.
I'm also trying to prevent myself from becoming inevitably embarrassed, as well as the girl. The 9/10 chick might be too qt for me to handle. Before this I've always assumed the role within my circle of friends as that super funny dude everyone loves but no one would actually date or think of as even wanting to date. But now that they've invited me I feel as though they genuinely feel I might get a gf.
How the fuck do you know if a girl is out of your league without previous experience?
I'm good with everything else. I'm a really good actor and can fake personalities etc as well as make myself seem genuinely interesting/cool/nice, which I can be most times when it is limited time.
Tl;dr how to know I won't embarrass myself by trying to get with a girl who is most likely very out of my league?
>How the fuck do you know if a girl is out of your league without previous experience?
You don't. Or rather you will have to find out.
>how to know I won't embarrass myself by trying to get with a girl who is most likely very out of my league?
There is no shame in trying, OP. Go on that date, and get to know her. Show interest in her, make her laugh (be careful to test the waters first if your humor is somewhat extreme). It is a group date right? You won't even get too many chances to truly embaress yourself as you won't be able to flirt very directly or get physical in front of the others. (You might try getting somewhat physical if you do something fun like mini-golf but since you don't know her yet, you should take things slow anyway.)
There is no need to overthink any of this. If you do really well, chances are she'll write you a message after the date, thanking you and telling you that she had much fun etc. It is easy to go from there. If she doesn't, but you want to see her again, you should reach out to her in the same fashion and see how she reacts.
Also, there is no shame in being turned down (no matter if the girl is out of your league or not). I was turned down harshly by plain Janes and had trouble getting away from gorgeous-looking crazy chicks.
Life's too short to care too much about "embarrassment". The worst thing that can happen is that you gain some experience and will have a laugh with your friend about your sperging out in a few years. If you don't try, you'll regret it. Believe me.
rationals responses on r9k?
the actual spergs on this board must be wagecucks
not the guy you responded to but I'm fully aware of your advice to him but sometimes I need a reminder to remove significance from these interactions and try to determine compatibility
I have some pics of her body she sent me too, but it's nothing extremely lewd. Just cute pale midriff and legs