Why aren't you using interpals, /r9k/?
It's literally a free gf. I've been on the site for only a month and I already have a qt korean girl I talk to daily, and I'm a fucking ginger. Nobody cares if you act like a sperg because they hardly know english themselves.
I'm too berg to maintain a conversation with anyone even trough interpals. People just stop answering me after a few messages, if they ever answer to my initial message. I'd like to talk to some guys too but they don't accept messages from other dudes.
Are you me?
I'm talking to a qt korean too. Though we only talk on weekends, because by the time I'm free, it's night for her. (eurofag)
Feels bad man
This is my 2nd Interpals gf though.
1st one I had was from Brazil. She was totally into me and I talked to her for 6 months. Got sweet nudes and webm's from her fingering herself. Eventually I got bored, so I cut contact with her.
It's a great site, if you don't expect anything real. I'm a total sperg IRL with no friends, but 3rd world whores think I'm total Chad. It's fucking hilarious.
I'm a european too, but for some reason she's an insomniac. I honestly really, really enjoy her company. I hope to not get cut off, I'd love to continue having her as a penpal at least.
You don't have to open up senpai.
You're never going to meet that person anyway
Pretend to be Chad
Get those 3rd world sluts wet and they'll send you nudes like crazy, just for a chance to get a green card
Its not worth it trust me women are boring and it ended up with me having a stalker who i dont know the name of, just some freak that is obsessed with me from reading my ip profile.
I'm not interesting enough for a pen pal relationship.
I feel like I'd get obsessed and they'd just get bored.
> talk to cuties for a long time
> be myself
> they all get bored eventually
You suggest lying, pretending to be Chad and trying to get nudes. Maybe I'd even get nudes, but what is the point? I'd have turned a girl to damaged goods and won nothing, the internet has better nudes.
>internet has better nudes
true, because 90% of girls can't take a decent fappable pic to save their lives, but it's the novelty alone that makes me hard (girl sending me nudes personally)
That's the thing though.
There are some real fucked up girls on interpals.
Daddy issues, neglect, depression, loneliness, etc.
The girl I texted who was from Brazil was all things above. It was easy to manipulate her for nudes. Not proud of doing that to her at all. I was feeling very depressed and lonely, so I figured I might use her at the time for my sick satisfaction (real edge right here, I know).
If you have a girl that worships you(she called me fucking ''daddy'' all the time), and you know there is no possible scenario of meeting her at all and it's only a matter of time before she dumps/cucks you, then why not use the chance?
I met my first really serious gf there (5 years) and two hook ups. I miss that site, but I don't know what I would do if I go back now. I wonder if the same regulars are still in the chatroom... probably not it's been years...
I guess it wouldn't hurt to go back just to look for some people to exchange letters with. It'd be fun. I've been meaning to get back into snail mail since my last one died or something (THANKS SYRIA).
Thanks for reminding me of it!
They all seem like that, they're not gonna flash nudes on their profile. It's on a get-to-know basis.
Besides a little attention goes a long way with most of these girls. If they get bored easily, they just stop logging in. If they have nothing else to do but be on the site and look forward to replies, it's almost like having a pet dog that only lives for food 3 times a day and whatever attention you'll spare.
The one I texted with seemed that way too
Of course when we talked for a while (like a month), she laid all her family shit on me, admitted me her fetishes (rape, domination, calling me daddy).
Apparently her dad cucked her mom and left her, and her mom was treating her like shit and even kicked her out of the house. Shit was fucked up. Guess she liked when I gave her attention. I just hope she didn't kill herself, because I haven't talked to her after I broke up with her.
I like her personality, honestly. She's enjoyable to talk to, I couldn't do that to her. If that happened to me I'd be broken.
She seems fairly well balanced, if not a little lonely, but that seems to be the case for most people on the site - including me.
She by no means worships me, we talk like two people interested in each other - and that's all. She alludes to wanting to visit other places, and wanting me to visit her country every so often - so I hope that that means we can stay in contact for a long time.
Good for you anon. I hope it works out.
Im poor as fuck, so Im never getting out of my eastern euro shithole to bang some qt 3.14 asian, but if you think you have a chance, then Im happy for you. Maybe you'll make it and live with that girl in Korea.
tfw 2 years worth of strong feelings for an internet girl from another country
tfw it finally seems to be going somewhere but I'm sure it'll come crashing down on me regardless
the ride never ends
Syrian guy here. If anyone cares or is looking for someone to talk to, MoldyBread.
I haven't had a proper conversation in 4 years.
Twice isn't very much. I had to message maybe a dozen girls, but I found one who stuck. We've been talking for over 4 years and now skype more often, about once or twice a month. She said she wants to do it more often this year. She's qt as fuck too. Getting a penpal is easily one of the best things I've done.
What do you mean?
One of you messages the other, and you get a message in your inbox. You open it up and you have a list of people who have messaged you. You open up the one you want to talk to, and it's a bit like a private chatroom.
Basically, I got in touch with the first one, bode my time, managed to meet her IRL but could put a lid on top of my cascading udon so I ended up losing her as a love interest.
This one's on me.
The second attempt took me even longer to acquire and a few weeks before the meetup took place she went silent and to this I can't really put the finger on what made her go AWOL.
So I reckon there's no point in looking for a LDR on this medium.