>>25846589 I tell my family that all the time but they keep telling me "one day youll find a woman and youll have children" ive been telling them for the past 8 years i dont want the headaches from having a wife and kids.
>dad was one of the best boxers in his country >always talks about how he fucked so many girls >"anon should I ask that girl out for you" >"hey anon, are you gay" >"hey anon, dad asked me if you are gay" Everyday, just end me
sometimes. they go months without asking and then out of nowhere will show concern. my excuse had always been that I'm focusing on my education and don't want distractions but I'll be done this semester so I won't have that excuse anymore.
After I ended up dating a chick, the question stopped. My mom learned I had sex, because the girl deliberately moaned loud enough for my mom to hear. I tried kissing her to muffle the sounds, but to no avail, and she later confronted me about it. But what the hell? Why was she so intent on making it known?
Anyway we soon split up and my mom later commented she can't wait for me to have a new girlfriend. That only bothered me a little, because on one hand I was beginning to think I'd be better off dating a male. Ultimately, I just want a loyal partner. But not rushing it. I lived without looking for one and at 22 ex showed up. I'm 25 now and although my ex and I only parted last year, I'm sure someone else will show again.
>>25846633 Yeah from time to time i also here that "one day you'll" meme but i dont give a shit anymore. To be honest if one day i'll become Chad (by a miracle or turbo plastic surgery) i'll have plenty of sex but zero relationships. It's just not worth to living with women once you know their true nature.
>Why don't you have a girlfriend anon? "Because I don't know any girls interested in a 22 year old self-pitying, unemployed manchild with no university degree, no job history, no driver's license, no car, no hobbies, no self-confidence, no disposable income, who doesn't go to the gym, who has no friends, who still lives in his childhood home with his mother and who cannot carry a conversation on ANY subject whatsoever. Do you?"
Yeah they do. My uncle thinks I'm in the closet. I don't consider myself gay nor do I want to live that lifestyle but sissy trap threads turn me on but I can't bring myself to fap to them. It took me awhile to get myself to fap to furry yaoi shit... Porn has fucked my head up since bbc porn when I was 11
My grand mother used to ask me if I had a girlfriend yet. She also said I reminded her a lot of her late husband (he died way before I was born, in his 50's) and it was almost as she couldn't fathom why someone like me wasn't swimming in pussy.
I'm soon 30, and still a KV. Grandma passed away last year, and I really feel bad about not getting a gf to introduce her to while she still lived.
almost every week, but then again I'm around my extended family all the time since I work at my grandparents' store. I think they are just trying to make me feel bad since they are jealous I am going to inherit this and all my cousins, aunts and uncles aren't getting shit.
>>25846867 I click on those threads but it doesn't do it for me. I only edge to the sissy shit it only get me a chub. The furry yaoi gets me off cuz of the talented drawing and how fem the fur getting it is
Yeah it's become so god damn annoying it's like I constantly have the label of faggots on me in my family. I was regularly verbally abused by my father Alot so I think that has had an impact on my connectivity with others especially females no one knows this about me though!
>>25847123 Kind of now that you put it that way, I do have a high sense of pride so this may be why. Honestly though the time consumed with another individual is just to much of a commitment for me unless I immediately know the relationship will be worth it!
>>25846571 Pretty much. I used to date a lot and they are wondering why I don't have a gf at the moment. Now I'm sitting here wondering what went wrong and why girls don't like me as much as they used to. I have a car, job, fit, and a decent circle of friends.
Then again, back when I used to date a lot I was living in a different city. Girls here where I live now aren't really attracted to me.
Anyone else experience this issue or something similar to it?
>>25847244 As a kid my parents argued on a very prevalent basis and I would vouch that this also did some psychological trauma to me at the time, I don't know why I cared so much about their relationship at the time perhaps it was cause I was young. Now that I'm older my internal care for my parents relationship has seized perhaps it will for you too
>>25846571 >dad always bothers me about girlfriends >come one day, he's drunk and pesters me about that bullshit again >lash out at him, tell him why i don't have or want a gf >it literally makes him cry >mfw never saw my dad cry before >i storm out and we never discuss it again
That was a couple of years ago and to this day he still hasn't brought it up so I think I won.
>>25848285 >When was the last time you made your mom happy by not having a gf? Literally never. Holy shit anon I'm so fucking jealous of you. >mom grew up as a party girl in california >still holds shitty californian values >yelled at me because she wanted me to "go out and make mistakes while you're young" >called me a "waste of a life" when I told her I prefer staying in and being by myself to going out on weekends
What I told him was that I literally hate women and everything they represent and even if hell froze over I would never have a woman not that any would have me either and that they're literally nothing but holes. No homo btw,
I just don't want to sign up for that bullshit. Too much trouble.
>>25846571 >Mom is turbo-liberal >Raises brother a faggot >Raises me knowing I never did well with people >Has intra-uterine implant so can't make more kids >Oh anon I would love to hav grandchildren one day Bitch you reap what you sow. I wonder when she's gonna remove the IUD, she still has plenty of time to reconsider and raise a Chad.
>>25849305 If it couldn't get any more meme, she married le rich doctor man and divorced a few months after having me, getting majority custody. At the very least it's funny because her siblings are all in awe at how I'm not a degenerate. They're more proud of me than she is and I barely even know them.
>>25846571 No they stopped when they realized they aren't getting any grandchildren. They always look soulcrushed when people talk about their grandchildren. My boss keeps asking me why I don't have a gf though and told me considers me a son.
I'm an okay person and "good looking". I just can't connect with people.
Basically the only way I could have a girlfriend was if I met someone like me and we used each other as a kind of free girlfriend-experience escorts while keeping up the appearance of a normal relationship towards society.
But of course we'd bite each others heads off before it'd even come to that.
nah they don't bother. though all things considered, they don't expect me to. they're super religious and probably don't see me as mature given i'm not baptized, and Probably think i'm retarded. but fuck 'em, i'll move a country away and come back with kids in a decade or so.
>>25848390 Atleast she is not lying in your face. Mine tells that im handsome an nice yadda yadda yadda an all the grills want a guy like me. Im non of the above and im hitting 30 in a year as a virgin who never had any relationship. After that only burned out crazy single moms are the option which im not interested in.
The most annoying is when elder colleagues are telling me how and what i should do. Who the fuck are them to me to tell what to do.
>never had any close contact with a girl >turning 21 and realize that I have to do something >best and only friend's little sister has always given me the feeling that she likes me >she's only a year and a half younger >decide to test the waters and give some signals >seems like she's responding positively >thinking about making a move
My friend even confronted me about it a few days ago. I denied that there was anything going on between the two of us but he said he'd be okay with it.
Since he is my only friend I'm just afraid that if things turn sour between her and I that I can't hang out at his house all the time like I do. Plus she and I go to different colleges which I heard makes relationships (especially new ones) not last.
Should I do it? I'm just so scared to lose my friend.
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