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At what point did you realize that it's not that you're shy, but instead that you're stupid and have nothing to talk about?

How did you handle it?
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>>25843853
dont you ever post a fucking gif of my fucking wife ever again do you hear me
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Joke's on you, I'm both shy and stupid.
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>>25843853
Pretty early. Now I make up conversations in my head where I sound better and smarter than I could in real life. I usually go through the same ones over and over because I can't come up with original material.
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I have lots to talk about from literally just fucking about online all day

no matter what the topic of conversation is I will have a funny story about how I read a reddit thread about a couple who broke up over it or whatever
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>>25843873
What did you just say to me?

>>25843901
Get out.
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About the same time that I forgot I suffered from social anxiety disorder.
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But that's not even the truth anon. I can talk for hours with people I feel comfortable with and feel like I don't have to pretend.
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That's negative thinking, anon. I am just a man of few words. Lots of women like quiet guys too, anon. Stop wallowing in this negative pool of depression called /r9k/.
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>>25843942
Then this thread clearly isn't made for you.
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>>25843853
Ur cute, what's up? :D
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>>25843853

I have things to talk about when I'm around people I'm familiar with which is around 13 people.

Around everyone else I have an impossible time acting like myself and I can never come up with anything to say.
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>>25843959
I think it's just being objective. How would you express that in a positive light?

>Lots of women like quiet guys too
When they're attractive, and you'll seldom find an attractive guy that women won't like.

If it's truly negative thinking, you can express it in a positive way.
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>>25843969
I continually cling to hope that this is me, but it's so hard to judge. I've got no one IRL that I'm comfortable around. Even before Uni, I wasn't really comfortable around my family because I never shared anything with them in shame.
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>>25843962

>for stupid people and how they handle their stupidity
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>>25844045
>using "stupid" as an insult against people who willfully recognize their stupidity
But for what purpose.
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But I'm not shy, I'm a social deity pretty much
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I have stuff to talk, just not all people can understand them. inb4 fedora
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To the people saying they have things to talk about, what do you have to talk about?
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>>25844119

You literally put that in your OP.
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>>25844010
Women find a quiet man to be cool and mysterious. They generally finding whining, crying little bitch-baby manchildren who find Linkin Park lyrics to describe their life to be unattractive though.
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>>25843853
I'm exactly like that
at least with girls
I've got plenty of friends, even chad
but kv
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>>25844119

Cos I can. rekt
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>>25844259
I think I misinterpreted you then.

As for >>25844045, it's more specific than that. It's for stupidity rooted in social inability.

You have no problem communicating with people so this thread isn't for you.
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>>25844261
>quiet man to be cool and mysterious
When he's attractive. When he's average/unattractive, the quiet man is ignored. He's nothing.
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>>25844277
Why being a kv such a big deal in this time we live?
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>>25843853
I'm shy AND boring.
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>>25844440
>parents say "Just get out of your shell!"
>tfw there's only a ghost in the shell
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>>25844261
Do not reply to him, newshit.
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>>25844606
What?

I'm confused.
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>>25843920
who is this cum mum?
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>>25843920
>>25843853
Who is that semen demon?
itsanoriginalcommenttbhfamilia
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>>25843853
I have lots to talk about. It's that I don't care what you have to talk about. Most people outside of college are fucking retarded, narrow minded, and have lost the majority of their knowledge. It makes them boring. I realize you can't stay up on your mental game forever but shit. There are some dumb people on this planet.

>people ask me to explain my degree
>look at me like I'm speaking a foreign language when I do
Electrical engineering is not difficult. Come on.
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>>25844261
>Women find a quiet man to be cool and mysterious.
If he's attractive.
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>>25844819
lina merkalina
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>>25844546
>"Just act like yourself, anon!"
>do so
>"No, no, you're not like that! Act like your real self!"
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>>25844951
You probably don't realize how much approval-seeking behaviour you exhibit when you think you're trying to "be yourself".

Having low self-esteem can fuck up your attempts to interact with others in the most insideous ways.
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