How do I stop liking him, /r9k/?
I can't stop these feels
Tell me I'm not good enough. Tell me I don't deserve it. Reading it from someone else might help me move on with my life.
>Tell me I'm not good enough. Tell me I don't deserve it.
If you're a girl, telling yourself this is exactly the reason you're falling for him.
Read up on red pill shit and take an objective look at your psyche. Acknowledge the completely retarded ways women are attracted to men (social status, basis of how many other women like him, minimum 9.1/10 appearance)
Also link a picture so we could roast him for you.
He doesn't have social status, I don't know of any other women who like him, and his appearance is likely average though that stuff is subjective. I don't have any pictures saved, not that I would post anyway.
I'm simply not good enough. Irreconcilable differences of opinion mainly.
Thank you sir can I have another.
I don't think I'm the person you think I am. I'm sorry sir I wish you the best.
He doesn't want me. I want to kill the feels. Here we feel the feels and hate women. Hate me if you wish. Help me kill my feels. Tell me I am not good enough so it's not just me. That's all. If you don't want to then I'm sorry for being a nuisance.
I like his personality, conducive to mine. He's a beautiful soul and doesn't realize it. We have similar interests. I could write an essay but ultimately it's not important. I shouldn't think about why I like him, I want to get rid of the feels. How do you get rid of your feels?
I myself know a girl irl who's into me but she's extremely short, stubby+pudgy, and has a really... really just "bleh..." personality that's always lazy/ never gives anything a shot.
Rule #1 is don't be fat. It's not hard to change that.
Wouldn't it be great to have the affection you feel be reciprocated by him? Imagine the joy you would feel, even if only for a short time, at least you'd know forever onward you're worth something. Think of all the fun you two would have, all the experiences to share. Even the fighting, cause there's no-one else you'd rather fight with. :)
But, what if he rejects you? What if he speaks to his friends, and rumors spread. Your reputation would turn sour. Once learning you're on the prowl, the entire male sex just might reject you. You'd become a pariah, a social reject, beyond redemption.
Maybe you already are one.
I met him on /r9k/. I'm not looking to settle for anyone, just get rid of the feels. pls b0ss
I won't post pic, but I'm not fat. I'm average looking, but it's not my appearance that he doesn't like.
Please how to be killing feels. How do you kill your feels?
What I don't get is why you girls always go for the same kind of guy but anyway. You cannot really get rid of this feeling until it passes. Just try to win his heart in another way.
>But, what if he rejects you? What if he speaks to his friends, and rumors spread. Your reputation would turn sour. Once learning you're on the prowl, the entire male sex just might reject you. You'd become a pariah, a social reject, beyond redemption.
This guy is mixing up men and women, this is petty shit that guys are incapable of
But sure, just to make her feel bad, let's just agree that everyone's in a secret club/ network that talks about her and to stay away
>but it's not my appearance that he doesn't like.
if he's under 21, I can assure you this is literally the only thing he cares about first and foremost
You're either ugly or remarkably stupid
Write that essay here and we'll tear it to shreds
it's the only way
How do you kill your feels?
>until it passes
Is it just time? I likely won't win his heart. Irreconcilable differences of opinion. The mind is rational but the heart still longs. I want to be gone with it.
Why are you saying nice things? I am a woman, you hate me. Hate me. Ridicule me. I am not worthy. Thank you.
We're both mid-20s, and I don't think he finds me too stupid. We have what I consider to be in-depth conversations. He's just not interested in me. He's a robot.
I don't want him to see it while he browses.
I don't hate women. Even if I would, it doesn't change the objective fact that those capable of self criticism are often smarter than those who can't, and those with at least a minimum shred of intelligence are of value to me.
If it's a difference of opinion, he might just be uninterested in you because you downplay his point of view.
In fact, his disregard for you might be the only reason you like him; you want what you can't have.
Ignore cuddling and romance shit; if you two were to live in the same place for instance, would you be upset with stuff he did and vice versa?
>I don't want him to see it while he browses.
Worst case scenario; he sees it and either thinks about you a new way/ gives you a shot, or has an honest and open episode with you and makes it easier for you to let him go.
Thank you for your kind words. I think I may have approached this thread too honestly, I should have came from a more baiting perspective to get the ridicule I desire.
I did, he rejected me. I don't sit around and wait for men to make the first move.
Thank you for your advice. I will try time and more distance.
I do not downplay his point of view. We're mature and open with each other. We differ on core values and both of us know that changing for the other, to make it work, is a bad idea. I'm just trying to convey that to the feel center of my heart brain.
>he sees it
I've already expressed those sentiments more or less to him, I just don't want him to see how pathetic I am in making this thread.
I realize I went about this all wrong. I'm sorry to have wasted time. Have a good day everyone.
How? Ok, I'll be serious.
When I was stupider, and still allowed myself to develop feelings for people, I made sure to remind myself that I had no chance. Then, I told them I liked them. I was rejected, obviously.
The rejection is what kills it. Effectively all feelings I had for that person died out in a matter of a couple days.
Quit with the "feels" shit, too. Please.
>I did, he rejected me. I don't sit around and wait for men to make the first move.
>I've already expressed those sentiments more or less to him, I just don't want him to see how pathetic I am in making this thread.
Confirmed ugly, OR your "robot friend" is the normiest of Chads.
Hmmm... It's just... TOO god damn easy to assume both of those things are true... Almost... undeniable...
No, it's not the looks. She's fine.
Don't want to say anything she doesn't want me sharing with you guys, but it's a difference of values due to a few reasons. I'd share but you guys would go full misogynist.
Fuck off, both of you. We don't need normie drama here.
Fucking saged; you're both probably more likely just some fat autistic weebs who met at a convention and are playing hard to get
This isn't the place for this thread but you're retardedly bitter.
Sort out your shit, anon.
You're still OP. All you've done is try to validate whatever feelings OP tried to set out and validate.
>I realize I went about this all wrong. I'm sorry to have wasted time. Have a good day everyone.
Nice new bait, basically.
That make sense. If just first two I would advice him to pump and dump, but going in LDR with used roastie is a waste of time and resources (your used roast is not worth the resources for travel), with nothing getting in exchange.
I have trouble letting people go. Friends are friends.
I'd be willing to travel to him though, spend my own bux on it.
I would say that people using me is how I became so experienced in the first place, but that all sounds rather dramatic. I just want him to feel as special as I think he is really. The other stuff I feel we can work though perhaps. The children thing is the biggest issue for me.
>He's a beautiful soul
>and maintain relationships with those I have been with
>We live considerably far from each other.
>We differ on core values
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>maintain relationships with those I have been with
Ree, ree, etc.
plsgo i actually dislike you now.
Dude went nuts.
They make for shitty relationships
>she still hangs with ex-lovers
>baby crazy and near baby batter
>she skypes you one day
>I'M PREGNANT OH GOD SORRY SORRY SORRY I STILL WUUUV YOU
Cucked without even touching her, it's like going into an arranged marriage with a girl who ended up a huge skank and she's 6 months pregnant on the wedding night.
Plus so many people get catfished online, you can say anything on the net I don't respect it as a basis for a strong relationship.
this is like a study in the mating habits of autistic faggots.
I also like how they're both cringey and socially awkward, but hes never even touched a girl and shes "experienced." shows that any girl who complains about getting some is full of shit.
ROASTIE ROASTIE IN MY WAY
YOU WILL MEET YOUR DOOM TODAY
YOU SHALL TASTE MY COLON SOUPY
AND DRINK DEEP OF PEE PEE POOPY