I never experienced teenage love.

Good

Teenage love will only make you nostalgic and miserable

not even a hug or a kiss? how do they live on?

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>you will never experience awkward and cute love and relationships where you're both nervous and learning everything from scratch
>every woman you meet now will be well versed in relationships and be cynical as hell
>they will just take what they want and leave when they're done

It's really weird how it's now literally impossible for us to experience it. It sounds obvious and dumb but just think about it. There's literally nothing in the universe that can make you experience that feeling. You will never know what it's like ever for the rest of eternity.

>>25810068
For every sexual partner and for every new boyfriend, you get less and less special. Even if i were to meet my furst girlfriend now, she will have all her memories. She will have that special love only can have for your first sexual partner or your first boyfriend, in the back of her head. You will never be as special to her as she is to you. For you the relationship means something extraordinary, while for her its just another ordinary thing.

>>25810128
Also this clip

http://youtu.be/SfxgB0_IUoI

It's not THAT different from later loves anon. The only difference to me is that it's your first love, and likely the other person's first love as well. It kinda sounds like maybe you haven't had your first love yet, but when you do the feeling will be equally magical. It'd be kool if you can find someone who hasn't been that experienced in relationships either.

But it really doesn't matter and this is kind of an irritating and stupid and childish thing for you to be depressed about honestly

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>>25810068
It's not even about being envious about missing out on that experience, but more the fact that it affects you socially as an adult.

I did, we took each others virginities and promised to stay together and get married. I gave up everything and then she left me, and now I'll never have a relationship I can be satisfied with for the rest of my life. I was a lot better off before it.

>>25810156
>That vid
Jesus..

>be me
>13 years old
>meet qt black girl in 8th grade a Tech class, 6/10 and funny
>become friends
>fast forward to Junior year
>by this time we've both matured some
>I'm 16 she's 15
>she's smoking 9/10, killer fashion sense, same great personality
>over the past 3 years I fell in love with her
>reasons I'm too lazy to explain, never got with her. Pretty much eternally friendzoned
>decide to try to escape
>fail, she says she doesn't like me like that and never will
>she gets a crush on some asshole stoner guy, lets call him Marty
>I sit there being bombarded by constant "Marty's so nice/great/sexy/etc" from my friend who I love while my grades slip and I try to drown my sorrows in stolen prescription opiates and casual sex w/ another girl I came to know at the time
>pretend like I'm over my feels for the world to see

That was almost 10 years ago, and looking back I'm very conflicted over whether I wish it hadn't happened so that I wouldn't have felt the pain, or if I'm glad it did because of everything that time period taught me.

Long story short, teenage love fucking sucks. Figure out how your heart works, OP, but don't regret that you didn't get to do it then.

>>25810156
it's like these parts of society are pushing young outcast guys to become killers at the same time
and then they wonder why elliot happened, when shit like this is popular

>>25810273
that's not really teenage love, at least not the one I'm talking about. Most of us had a "one-itis"...

like you, I wish I actually pursued it when we were younger... The regret is probably worse than not having experienced it.

>>25810031
Me neither, my first gf was at 19.

There is only 1 good thing about teenage love and that is PRACTICE.

All those gf's those people had in school? Notice how they never really worked out? Its all practice for the big thing when you are older.

Your First gf is always your practice gf, second gf is where things get serious.

>>25810273
You had some experiences anon, and you learned how to handle rejection.

For all of us who never had a gf in school but we got rejected a lot, it makes it way easier now when we get rejected instead of before.

>>25810037
This is so fucking true, don't worry about it op

Don't stress too much about it anon.

>25
>finally acquired gf
>awkward and still halfway beta as fuck, and it shows
>before it all went to shit she told me she liked it that way because she could relive that same teenage abandon, y'know, holding hands constantly, laying under the moonlight and listening to the beat of my heart, all that shit

at least that could be something

>>25810076
This
It's like robots were wired to act a completely different way
At first we are completely oblivious/don't care, then we get really desperate, and bitterness comes after
I've seen it happening, a milion times, with myself too

>>25810420
I kinda glossed over a lot, but it was one-itis. I ignored everything else for her for 3 years. I would've literally given everything I had for her. The bread and circuses I found in the other girl didn't come until long after I'd figured out that I'd never get what I wanted.

>>25810506
19 right now and never had a gf

>>25810420
To this day, I still can't understand how normies can shrug off oneitis like it ain't shit
I guess being a KV makes things infinitely worse
>Not a single day I don't think about her
>We don't catch up since junior hs
>I still can't move on

>>25810216
This. Everyone already runs laps around me. I'm 24 but mentally still 15. Who the fuck wants to put up with that?

Thanks alot mom.

>teen in a rural Catholic middle / high school
>extremely homophobic
>pretty shy, unpopular

>college student in same rural area
>extremely shy, never talked to anyone ever
>still heavily in denial

>adult with an actual honest-to-god career in the city
>still don't really have friends or go out after work
>still closeted virgin

I honestly don't know what my life would've been like had things turned out differently, but it does feel like I fucked myself out of a better life by using the internet as a refuge from the real world for far too long, like I've missed out on something everyone else seems to have mastered long ago.

>>25810745
>why normies
No idea.
>why me
Cause I'm cold. I don't love so I don't have to fall in your state.
Works for me.

>>25810128
fuck man, this hurts so much.
I don't blame robots for wanting a virgin.

>>25810037
Fuck you.

Experiencing it would be worth it. I would literally give my left nut to experience it. You take what came easy to you for granted, never experiencing any love is much worse.

>>25810745
if you had gf you really loved and she dumps you, it never shrugs off even on normies. its just getting past about thinking it all the time

>>25810764
Do you know Miguel Delibes?
If you still have God, women are not that important.

>>25810800
Problem is, she wasn't even that
She was just a friendly girl
But you know how it goes
First you start thinking too much about her
Then, you are fucked

I have 8 months left until I turn 20.

Should I go out and find another 19 y/o girl so I don't miss out on this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity?

>>25810191
The magics dead, only emptiness now.

>>25810191
The point is its not cute to be having your first real love in your mid-twenties to early thirties
You're emotionally stunted compared to your partner and it might be frustrating to you partner when you're floundering at thing normal people already have a great deal of experience with

>>25810861
It's already over for you. You experience these things in High School, around 14-18.

Collage is a whole new ballgame. But I suppose you can still experience some remnants of it.

>>25810128
This so much, if you date grills 25+ you are fucked up, just used goods

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>>25810031
neither will did i, nor will i experience adult love.

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You know what's the best thing about high school girls?

I keep getting older and older, but they keep staying the same age! :D

>>25810216
I honestly think sexual and romantic experience per se is overrated.

If you're healthy, happy and not "creepy" (which is just another word for "lacking in confidence"), women will want your dick, virgin or not. The problem is that being celibate for too long makes men depressed, after which they start letting themselves go.

you'll never be 15 and in love
lying on the grass on a warm summer night, watching the stars, carelessly chatting
not worrying about rent, bills, student loans
only worry in life is how you're gonna cheat on that history test on monday
you'll never take a young, tight, hot-bodied girls virginity, pulling out to cum all over her back and have her look in your eyes and say "I love you"
you'll never have a girl around every day after school, pretend to be doing homework together, but instead just **** like rabbits
you're in your 20's now
gotta get a good job
gotta be a serious man now
all the good ones are taken
maybe a nice girl will eventually settle with you
they have already felt all those new exciting feelings before, and are usually jaded and bitter
you missed what it feels like to have not a care in the world other than making your girl happy
you have missed out on teenage love

> mfw

>>25811276
>not being chad and dating high school girls well into your 30s

Doin it wrong man

>>25811377


> tfw 18 and lining up 15 year old right now

feels good not dealing with baggage

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>anime will never be real
just end it all now senpai

>>25811485
>>25811485
>implying
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ExynqQU7gs4

I don't know, robots.
Having experienced this and having it end, knowing you will never, EVER feel anything even close to it...

I'm not saying it's as bad, but it isn't sunshine and rainbows for sure.

>>25812030
Fucking this. The highest of highs feel so good and when it ends you just wanna die

the sad thing is that despite I'm 22 years old people think I am 16 because of my babyface so in theory I could get a teenage gf and experience it (here 16y is legal).
But all these years with no female interaction have fucked me up so nothing can change my KV status

For some reason back in high school I never even thought about it. There wasn't any girl I liked or something like that.

As said before the only thing that I feel I missed out was actually trying those things (kissing, sex etc) for the first time. But to be honest, I will probably always be alone, so it doesn't even matter.

>>25812548
This was also the case for me until the girl of my dreams just falls into my lap my senior year of hs. It was a great 6 months. Every time I think about it a part of me dies

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GIEInLGffC0

>>25810031
Oh what's so great about it? I almost gf'd this girl but then she just stopped talking to me. So there's teen love for you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H6OmfaYRcyQ

>>25810799
Love is not something you choose to experience and speaking from personal experience it just tears your fucking heart out and no love will ever be the same

>>25810031
This
Should be a requirement for r9k posters

>>25810031
And now I obsessively archive teen porn.

I'm 18 and never had a gf, is it still too late for me?

>>25814411
No. You have over a year left

I feel like I missed out on my entire youth. I came out of high school with no friends, no love, not even any experiences. Just a sheltered lonely kid with no hobbies or interests who stays inside and can't talk to anybody.

>>25810031
i did but she was a fat batshit cunt so now i'm really bitter and jaded
i think living knowing it doesn't exist is worse than believing in it but having never experienced it

>>25810031
I guess I kinda experienced it,idk.
>crush obviously likes me and tries to flirt with me
>this goes on for 4 years
>ignore her,always respond sarcastically
>after two years, I see her again
>"Anon I missed you!"
>"Ok"
>Doesn't say nothing to me,changes expression,from the best smile I ever seen to hateful gaze, goes away
>2 years later,never saw her again

>>25810037
At least I would have known something as pure as puppy love could have existed. Even if I got into my first relationship in my 20s women will have already turned into cynical prestige and gold diggers.

>>25810128
Absolutely this, I think this is a part of the chronic robot inferiority complex, because we most likely will never experience a relationship as a woman's equal

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>>25810031
I'm going to Japan in the summer for a few days to meet up with a buddy of my less-sperg years I reconnected with recently.

Hopefully she can introduce me to a few of her Japanese classmates.

Not much hope that I'll get laid though, what with my shit face and me being Chinese.

Fuck, when can I meet my Rin?

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I experienced it twice

>>25811188
I think past the early 20s the simple lack of experience is going to be a huge turnoff or red flag for women, some things just can't be faked. They will think something is seriously wrong with you if you're don't have a single romantic experience.

>>25816062
Haha, scumbag harry, good movie, 1 & 2