>you will never experience awkward and cute love and relationships where you're both nervous and learning everything from scratch >every woman you meet now will be well versed in relationships and be cynical as hell >they will just take what they want and leave when they're done
It's really weird how it's now literally impossible for us to experience it. It sounds obvious and dumb but just think about it. There's literally nothing in the universe that can make you experience that feeling. You will never know what it's like ever for the rest of eternity.
>>25810068 For every sexual partner and for every new boyfriend, you get less and less special. Even if i were to meet my furst girlfriend now, she will have all her memories. She will have that special love only can have for your first sexual partner or your first boyfriend, in the back of her head. You will never be as special to her as she is to you. For you the relationship means something extraordinary, while for her its just another ordinary thing.
It's not THAT different from later loves anon. The only difference to me is that it's your first love, and likely the other person's first love as well. It kinda sounds like maybe you haven't had your first love yet, but when you do the feeling will be equally magical. It'd be kool if you can find someone who hasn't been that experienced in relationships either.
But it really doesn't matter and this is kind of an irritating and stupid and childish thing for you to be depressed about honestly
I did, we took each others virginities and promised to stay together and get married. I gave up everything and then she left me, and now I'll never have a relationship I can be satisfied with for the rest of my life. I was a lot better off before it.
>be me >13 years old >meet qt black girl in 8th grade a Tech class, 6/10 and funny >become friends >fast forward to Junior year >by this time we've both matured some >I'm 16 she's 15 >she's smoking 9/10, killer fashion sense, same great personality >over the past 3 years I fell in love with her >reasons I'm too lazy to explain, never got with her. Pretty much eternally friendzoned >decide to try to escape >fail, she says she doesn't like me like that and never will >she gets a crush on some asshole stoner guy, lets call him Marty >I sit there being bombarded by constant "Marty's so nice/great/sexy/etc" from my friend who I love while my grades slip and I try to drown my sorrows in stolen prescription opiates and casual sex w/ another girl I came to know at the time >pretend like I'm over my feels for the world to see
That was almost 10 years ago, and looking back I'm very conflicted over whether I wish it hadn't happened so that I wouldn't have felt the pain, or if I'm glad it did because of everything that time period taught me.
Long story short, teenage love fucking sucks. Figure out how your heart works, OP, but don't regret that you didn't get to do it then.
>25 >finally acquired gf >awkward and still halfway beta as fuck, and it shows >before it all went to shit she told me she liked it that way because she could relive that same teenage abandon, y'know, holding hands constantly, laying under the moonlight and listening to the beat of my heart, all that shit
>>25810076 This It's like robots were wired to act a completely different way At first we are completely oblivious/don't care, then we get really desperate, and bitterness comes after I've seen it happening, a milion times, with myself too
>>25810420 I kinda glossed over a lot, but it was one-itis. I ignored everything else for her for 3 years. I would've literally given everything I had for her. The bread and circuses I found in the other girl didn't come until long after I'd figured out that I'd never get what I wanted.
>>25810420 To this day, I still can't understand how normies can shrug off oneitis like it ain't shit I guess being a KV makes things infinitely worse >Not a single day I don't think about her >We don't catch up since junior hs >I still can't move on
>teen in a rural Catholic middle / high school >extremely homophobic >pretty shy, unpopular
>college student in same rural area >extremely shy, never talked to anyone ever >still heavily in denial
>adult with an actual honest-to-god career in the city >still don't really have friends or go out after work >still closeted virgin
I honestly don't know what my life would've been like had things turned out differently, but it does feel like I fucked myself out of a better life by using the internet as a refuge from the real world for far too long, like I've missed out on something everyone else seems to have mastered long ago.
>>25810191 The point is its not cute to be having your first real love in your mid-twenties to early thirties You're emotionally stunted compared to your partner and it might be frustrating to you partner when you're floundering at thing normal people already have a great deal of experience with
>>25810216 I honestly think sexual and romantic experience per se is overrated.
If you're healthy, happy and not "creepy" (which is just another word for "lacking in confidence"), women will want your dick, virgin or not. The problem is that being celibate for too long makes men depressed, after which they start letting themselves go.
you'll never be 15 and in love lying on the grass on a warm summer night, watching the stars, carelessly chatting not worrying about rent, bills, student loans only worry in life is how you're gonna cheat on that history test on monday you'll never take a young, tight, hot-bodied girls virginity, pulling out to cum all over her back and have her look in your eyes and say "I love you" you'll never have a girl around every day after school, pretend to be doing homework together, but instead just **** like rabbits you're in your 20's now gotta get a good job gotta be a serious man now all the good ones are taken maybe a nice girl will eventually settle with you they have already felt all those new exciting feelings before, and are usually jaded and bitter you missed what it feels like to have not a care in the world other than making your girl happy you have missed out on teenage love
the sad thing is that despite I'm 22 years old people think I am 16 because of my babyface so in theory I could get a teenage gf and experience it (here 16y is legal). But all these years with no female interaction have fucked me up so nothing can change my KV status
For some reason back in high school I never even thought about it. There wasn't any girl I liked or something like that.
As said before the only thing that I feel I missed out was actually trying those things (kissing, sex etc) for the first time. But to be honest, I will probably always be alone, so it doesn't even matter.
I feel like I missed out on my entire youth. I came out of high school with no friends, no love, not even any experiences. Just a sheltered lonely kid with no hobbies or interests who stays inside and can't talk to anybody.
>>25810031 I guess I kinda experienced it,idk. >crush obviously likes me and tries to flirt with me >this goes on for 4 years >ignore her,always respond sarcastically >after two years, I see her again >"Anon I missed you!" >"Ok" >Doesn't say nothing to me,changes expression,from the best smile I ever seen to hateful gaze, goes away >2 years later,never saw her again
>>25810037 At least I would have known something as pure as puppy love could have existed. Even if I got into my first relationship in my 20s women will have already turned into cynical prestige and gold diggers.
>>25811188 I think past the early 20s the simple lack of experience is going to be a huge turnoff or red flag for women, some things just can't be faked. They will think something is seriously wrong with you if you're don't have a single romantic experience.
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