/r9k/ has redpilled me on girls with piercings and tattoos
i met up with a girl from tinder yesterday and she was great. i honestly hadn't enjoyed a date like that in a long time. well after a few hours she opened up about more personal stuff and was telling me if i had any recommendations for new piercings. she has one on her nose and belly button, but then she asked me if she should get one on her other nipple since she already has one on one breast. later she showed me a tattoo design she's getting on her entire left leg.
i have no tattoos or piercings, nor will i ever get any. this isn't for religious reseasons or whatever, it's because honestly they look Chaddy and trashy as fuck. to say that i thought less of her when she opened up about this would be pretty accurate. am i in the wrong here?
No, you aren't in the wrong. It's perfectly rational thought. Tattoos/piercings show low foresight, and a tendency toward impulsive behaviour. It isn't wrong at all, you're making a simple, rational observation.
Nah you're not in the wrong. There was this one girl I dated in college and the moment I knew it wasn't going to work out was when she showed me these ideas for tattoos that she wanted. Oddly enough, she never got those tattoos.
There's too much commitment for a tattoo, and someone who doesn't meticulously plan each one and just gets them on a whim or very short notice isn't someone you want to be making any big decisions with.
how do you even explain that to someone who thinks it's "cool" and "artsy" to get tattoos?
i mean, how the fuck does anyone think i massive fucking tattoo on their leg is a good idea? that shit follows you until you're a 90 grandma who can't wipe their own ass.
People like that are a different breed to us. They follow social norms, or stuff that's 'trending'. For example, look at the amount of men with beards now, and a similar hair style. Etc. These people are sheep, they are not self aware, and aren't capable of the thought.
Sheeple can't be helped.
That shit is absolutely disgusting.
I kid you not, no matter how nice or good the person is, if it's pierced INTO THE TRASH IT GOES.
I find it repulsive and disgusting.
I only accept tattoos that have a meaning or a story behind it, absolutely no brands or franchise characters, save for military tattoos
You should have asked to see the nipple piercings, my g. She was inviting you to make a lewd comment.
Like, I dunno. "I gotta see how it looks on one nipple before I can say if you shoud get the other pierced too."
What's doing it right? I have a busted ankle so physically demanding activities were not an option.
If you're suggesting fucking her on the first date, I physically can't fuck strangers. My pee pee doesn't get hardy.
Dude, of course she won't show you straight away. It's called flirting. You shoud have said that with a smirk and a wink (not a real wink, just to make sure nobody does that). Just to see how she'd react.
>and someone who doesn't meticulously plan each one and just gets them on a whim or very short notice isn't someone you want to be making any big decisions with.
Tattoos are for retards. There is no hierarchy of 'meaning'. They're all trashy.
>how do you even explain that to someone who thinks it's "cool" and "artsy" to get tattoos?
You don't. You secretly thank them for advertising they're a moron thus saving you time. Then keep it moving.
How do you outweigh this new found trashiness with how much you enjoyed spending time with this person? It was a great time, honestly. As soon as she opened up though I could tell she was sort of troubled and definitely on the trashy side. I may see her again but honestly I'm so redpilled about this shit I might just tell her it's over.
Tinder is semi-ubiquitous at this point. It doesn't say much about you other than you're single. People used to say the same things you're saying about meeting anyone over the internet in general. lt's luddite and silly tbqh.
You can meet people over the internet without it being set in a distinctly trashy, and impulsive medium. A woman being on tinder is way more of a red flag to me than having a tattoo.
I know a Stacy who got a big fern tattoo on her stomach, just because she "thought it was pretty". Also has a hope tattoo on her wrist, and a bird one on her shoulder blade. What can you infer from this guys? I don't know much about the redpill
Piercings I don't mind as long as it's not overboard like piercing your uvula or your back or something.
Tattoos I like a lot. The more the better. In fact a woman with just a couple tattoos is lame. Either get a full sleeve or get nothing. None of this inspirational quotes on your back or celtic symbol on your shoulder. YOU'VE NEVER BEEN TO IRELAND AND YOU DON'T KNOW SHIT ABOUT CELTIC HISTORY SO FUCK OFF.
>not going full mutant
I'm disappointed in you anon c'mon
Thank you for the check good sir. She is very childlike now that I think about it. Likes living in her own "happy bubble", doesn't care about others as long as she feels good (aka will exploit orbiters), her friends are normies who circlejerk to feel happy, e.t.c. you seriously can't bring up a problem about her, she doesn't see herself as a problem, and will shut you out of her life because " she can't handle your negativity" instead of discussing it out. I also sense a sort of entitlement/high horse mentality from her, can you guys actually predict these things just because the person has tattoos? If so that's an amazing skill