>tell the smart girls they are beautiful and tell the beautiful girls they are smart
Its that easy anon.
that doesn't even sound like bad advice, thanks chad
>tfw r9k actually gives meaningful advice
I never thought of telling beautiful girls that they are smart, I'm sure they would love that compliment. I always tell them they are pretty, but telling them something they rarely hear and making them feel like "they aren't like other girls" is a very smart tactic that I will use now. thank you Chad :)
>manlet approaches nearly a 1000 women over the course of 5 years
>rejected each time
>posts his problem on reddit in a confession sub for sympathy and advice
>gets downvoted so hard he gets banned
>desperation is a stinky cologne and people can't smell their own
>Nobody wants to date the guy that asks a girl out almost every single day for three years!
>Dude you're a creep. Learn how to make people feel comfortable around you (ladies and gentlemen) and then you might have a chance to connect with someone before your creepy vibe sends them running for the hills. Relationships are built one step at a time, and if you try to run toward the top of the stairwell without doing the lower ones first it's no longer a step, but a wall you're running into.
>A girlfriend isn't something you "get." Love is not something you find. You can't go looking for these things like you're going to a grocery store. These are events. These are things that happen over the course of time.
>Looks arent everything... I have been with guys who were just simply charming. They didnt even ask me out, they made ME want to ask THEM out lol. There is nothing wrong with short and unattractive
>Female here. Based on what you've said I would steer clear of you if I knew you and was single. Desperation is really unattractive.
>Dude, stop counting and just be.
>tfw gf is smarter than me
>tfw she provides for me too
>"I've approached dozens of women and everyone of them turned me down!" "Woah there Quagmire! No way you were actually attracted to them all. Shouldn't you get to know them, become their friend, identify their unique inner beauty?"
>"I got friendzoned." "Whatever man, you were just too afraid to tell her what you thought, and she assumed you were just a friend. Your fault."
>"I'm only ever attracted to/approach a small portion of women I click with, but nothing has worked out." "Come on man, dating is a numbers game, just start talking to people. Ask them out for the hell of it without hanging your self worth on the answer. Or maybe just hang out with them, get to know them. You'll improve eventually, and one of them is bound to say yes."
>'jus follow da gimmicks, you don't gotta Chad to get gf's /b/reh'
Kill yourself my man.
>don't approach women
>blah blah you can't expect love to just fall in your lap, you have to approach girls man
>approach women and get rejected
>blah blah you're desperate
Literally normie logic.
I actually don't understand how the average female IQ can be anywhere close to the average male IQ. Where are all the intelligent women? An woman who is capable of making basic common-sense judgments or pull her own weight at my university is almost unheard of.
>talk to this girl at work a bit
>really start to like her
>I never talk to her on Facebook, she posts literally nothing on Facebook
>can't help but feel creepy if I said "hey" and since she is barely on Facebook, I probably couldn't stand long replies
>Always try and scheme ways to get her to start the conversation
I could go on and on about this girl but I just can't fucking deal with this oneitis. Wat do r9k? do I try my best to get over her? I am pretty much obsessed by now...which is fucking scary for me.
She's 2 years younger than me, in college this year (Australian, so turning 18 later this year) and whilst I am a complete beta with women I have a career, a really nice car and I consider myself semi attractive. Do I just fucking go for it?