>tfw my gf is going to break up with me
this girl means everything to me. she's the most amazing person ive ever met, and the best thing that ever happened to me and ive fucking ruined it for myself like i always do. i dont know what to do, but i dont think im going to make it to february
My gf recently broke up with me anon. Trust me, it hurts the first few nights. She will come back if you do as I say. Ignore her for 21 days or until you feel like she is pracitcally begging for you to come back. This only works if you treated her well. But yeah just ignore everything, remove her from all social medias. Make her think you don't give a fuck about her anymore. You can do it. Make sure you keep a journal of each day without her, see as your life improves. Hang out with friends and do stuff to get your mind off of it. Good luck anon, my ex gf is begging for me to get back with her but she is /mentallyunstable/ so im glad she called it quits.
I honestly can't give you advice without context, but apologizing usually works. Normies eat up apologies.
I have trouble controlling my anger and dealing with stress or frustration because I'm a sperg, so in order to avoid saying something to her that we'll both regret, I usually just leave until I've calmed down enough so that we can either rationally discuss it or put it behind us. It happens way too often and I've been trying to improve by doing these dumb breathing exercises and shit but it doesn't work. My gf hates feeling like I'm ignoring her when I leave, and she also feels like we're just incompatible, which is a bit sad because to me, she's the one person in my life I actually get along with.
Tell her that. All of it. That you leave to calm yourself. That shes the only person in your life you actually get along with.
She might be concluding the both of you are incompatible because you avoid her. She might think shes not good enough. You said going to break up , not that she already has.