>>25716262 Well, provided that you're srs about pursuing a relationship and considering you're not blood related there shouldn't be a problem in bringing it up with her that the two of you spend some time together alone Go on a date to the park/cafe/somewhere calm and just talk about where you're both at, get to know each other a little better and see where things go from there If there becomes any problems from other family member it's not really their business to bitch because it's not like you're inbreeding
>>25716423 I can 100% admit I am attention whoring right now, but at the same time I know there are robots out there who genuinly want to hear from a females point of view on certain matters who is not gonna troll them
Do you believe that feminists are shit these days?
I'm not referring to the history of feminists, but today's feminist. I've seen a lot of polarizing views that if you aren't feminist, you're sexist...and that feminists today are unrealistic harpies who'll shout rape and insist on being a victim rather than being empowered by doing...whatever they do.
And if you don't mind a second, of course gender equality is seen as a good by most. Do you believe that, in the mainstream, men and women are equal? If not, who do you believe has the genuine privilege and edge?
Thanks. Since you say you're competent, I'm guessing you don't drown yourself in media shit.
>>25716634 >Do you believe that feminists are shit these days?
I do believe that a vast majority of today's feminists are very ignorant in a way that they lack a lot of awareness. But in a way I know a lot of them choose to ignore things to support their intense views
>if you aren't feminist, you're sexist...and that feminists today are unrealistic harpies who'll shout rape and insist on being a victim rather than being empowered by doing...whatever they do.
As far as I've seen, no group of people are all completely alike BUT nowadays the women of today's radical feminism has given it a bad name and any women who know better stay away from the term. If someone believes in gender equality but don't consider themself a feminist then I'm glad they have half a brain
> Do you believe that, in the mainstream, men and women are equal? If not, who do you believe has the genuine privilege and edge?
It's a very broad thing to consider which gender has the genuine privelige. Clearly feminists believe that women have suffered and been victims for thousands upon thousands of years, which, whilst correct they ignore that men have also suffered throughout history due to other controversial topics such as religion and during times of slavery. I believe that at this current time women have the upper hand in many situations and because of radical/fourth wave feminism they are only pushing for more
>I'm guessing you don't drown yourself in media shit.
Absolutely not, I stay very clear from a lot of the world's trash. I consider it junk food for the brain to say the least.
>>25717008 It's not late at night where I live I don't have many expectations, I started this thread with small speculation that people can ask me anything they're curious/unsure about that they may want to know about women and completely random questions are welcomed
I recently got a job and a told my college study group, we were discussing salary ,and I said " This is the highest salary I've ever hade, got no idea what to with the money" a girl I like said "you can buy me dinner." was she interested or is that a thing people say jokingly?
>>25716867 Thank you again for answering. I've been talking to a girl I've liked for about six months now and she seems...incapable of realizing that feminists are too toxic. It's refreshing to see that at least one woman is capable of realizing that men also have issues. Especially in this day and age in which technology helps negate problems society has had since...ever.
then again she's also only 18 and gives me a funny look because I 4chan instead of Tumblr
>>25717230 I've never seen anyone say that in a way that didn't have the subext that they may be interested unless it was said in a joking way (loud, sarcastic, looking towards others for a laugh afterwards)
Even so, if you wanted to hang out with her you could mention it one day saying it was the next thing on your list to spend some money on. Doesn't even need to be a date, just eat and chat and hell by the end of it she might end up being a bitch but what does it matter? It's better to know and move on than to spend far too long wondering
>>25716133 Why do women say they are attracted to "XYZ" when they aren't in reality?
A lot of the times, I hear women say they want a financially stable, nice man, who is loyal, and a good father, and yet when I press them on that, they eventually cave and say they are really only attracted to physically strong, masculine and dominant males.
Why lie? Why the deception? Seems to me that a lot of frustration would be simply evaporated, at least for me, if women were simply honest.
Also, why do women whine that men are "nice guys" simply to get laid, when women cake on 50 layers of make-up to hide the fact that they really aren't that attractive, for exactly the exact same reason?
>>25717299 bro don't go down that path of dating a tumblr feminist, I did and as hard as I tried to make it work it just doesn't. The aggressiveness of their tactics of "equality" just blow my mind, just let people be people you don't need to belittle others for having other mindsets.
>>25717326 Well she was looking at me and didn't laugh bit I chuckled a bit out of curtesy because I thought she was joking. Did I fuckup? >got presentation in 2 hours and she's in your class Maybe I'll ser IF there is something there.
>>25717299 Some girls may feel an obligation to lean towards feminist views because they're pulled into the idea of "I'm a woman this is my responsibility" and ESPECIALLY if the girl is using tumblr because that stuff would be in her face all the freaking time! It really grinds my gears to see some women not consider men, it's so narrow minded and it does suck to see people lack empathy. When I was younger I used tumblr for a number of years but over that time it very quickly became more and more radical and overall just a cesspool for confused "sheeple"
>>25717301 1. I want to begin by saying that I don't entirely approve of more makeup than may be necessary. Personally, on days where I want to wear makeup I wear a minimum amount but if you want to learn then the internet is your friend. Start by researching natural looks and makeup must-haves or basics, what colours and stuff suit your skin tone and from there you can decide how you want to look, head to store, come home and practice. Over time you learn a little more and get a little better. The only way to get good is to make a start
2. Same thing as before, the internet is your friend. Start by assessing your body shape and from there research styles and clothing that suit your body shape. The most important thing for me is having clothes that fit, are comfortable, and are practical. From there you can go out to stores and look for the same kind of clothing you find online and trying things on in store is a great thing to do obviously in order to know what fits, what works together and how you feel overall about an outfit
3. I've found that it's not entirely about knowing how to talk to certain people but knowing the kind of things you like and finding people who have common interests. If you're looking for a relationship then it's a great start to have things in common so there is already things to talk about
>>25717391 I genuinely believe she's so vehemently feminist because...well, 18. I don't believe she has enough of a world view to know better. I'm only 23 but I know I have a better grasp of how society works than her. Rather, my social history extends beyond highschool.
It's also rare for someone to bring up empathy with men. Just...at all. Especially whenever men's issues are brought up, feminists ensure it's EVERYONE who has their issues, plus female-only issues. It's crazy how everything is either for women only, or "everyone".
>>25717339 A lot of women feel the need to be superior of males and thus feel the need to lie about things. This does draw back to today's issues with modern day feminism where women think they need to uphold some ridiculous standard to sell lies to others
I've found that a lot of women are insecure, self conscious and lack direction (even myself) and when some people are given too much freedom turn to being cocky, arrogant and deceptive to hide behind a facade
I feel that makeup is one of the biggest issues out there because it physically gives women a mask to hide behind and lie to others. When someone is so used to deception and paranoia that mask becomes who they are and the high standards they hold for themselves rub off onto others (so they end up having high standards for everyone around them)
>>25717605 Well, I wouldn't say all women are to be avoided and there are obvious redflags to look out for when meeting someone One of those redflags being the amount of makeup they wear as well as their body language and the clothing they wear - these are the 3 main things that you can observe from someone that can already show a lot about their personality and how approachable you might consider them to be
>>25717514 I've been in a relationship for many years now to someone who I was originally just friends with In my experience it became very obvious that we liked each other after a while and we decided to make things official after discussing/confessing our feelings
If you've been friends for a very long time with now signs from the other side of interest or wanting to spend time together then it could be that she's either not interested or she isn't close enough to you to know where her true feelings are at, If you're feeling ballsy and like mentioned before by the other anon want to risk things being awkward for the possibility of things working out you can start talking to her a little more in terms of getting to know her personally, her hobbies, personality, life, etc. and vice versa and if she seems interested you could try asking to go out for lunch to chat
It could either be a good decision or a bad decision - either way you'll survive and learn from whatever decisions you make
>>25717545 This Being passive or agreeing with everything someone says makes for a dead end conversation - I can understand being unsure about saying the wrong thing but at the end of the day it's better to really let someone know how you feel about things, add to the conversation and have a discussion than to slowly fizzle out the talking It's great to listen intently and it's okay to not agree with people and eventually you will be better at flowing conversation and discussion with others
>>25717724 When you think about it, it's just things that people use to advertise the kind of person they are
1. Excess make up Too much makeup can show that a woman may be very insecure, very shallow (or even both) and it's your best bet to stay clear of those kinds of people in general
2. Body language and also the people they surround themself with When seeing women out in society you can tell by the way they compose themself and how the people around them compose themself how they are as a person. e.g stacey looking girls who surround themselves with look alikes, are very loud and obnoxious and disrespect their surroundings in general
3. Clothing Clothing is big advertising for someone's personality from brands names, colours, styles and the amount of skin someone shows - e.g people who wear darker clothes can tend to be more reserved, people who show more skin put more importance on advertising their bodies and not their personalities
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