>in gay relationship
>inb4 faggot etc etc
>have known him for years
>know he is not a great person but didnt expect this shit
>as soon as we get in relationship demands i dont hang out with anyone else and says i cant talk to anyone else but him
>he convinces himself that that is what normal couples do
>too much of a cuck to fight back
>lose contact/ignore all friends
>hate myself for it
>shit like this happens for months
>have an argument one day
>gets heated af
>he starts getting up in my face
> i push him away
>he swings at me and lands multiple hits
>partner is physically weaker than me
>by a lot
>dont hit back, just restrain him
>fucking grabs sciscors and cuts me on the arm
>still have marks from 2 months ago
>im too much of a cuck to leave
>look up "how to leave an abusive relationship"
>first thing that shows up
>"Know the phone number to your local battered women's shelter."
>unironically being a fag
this is god's punishment, anon
Dude, you've got visible scarring. That's literally the only evidence you need to get him charged for domestic abuse.
Go to a police station and just report it homie, it's that simple
He fucking cut you, with the intent to harm and maybe kill you in the moment. You're exhibiting classic victim behavior. THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE TYPING - this person who you supposedly care for and who supposedly cares for you tried to hurt you, maliciously.
He WILL NOT CHANGE FOR YOU. Either you go to the police, and get him arrested, because it is the right thing to do - or you keep getting abused. Your call, fag.
Thank you to both of you. This stuff is the type of thing i need to hear. He has this twisted view of the world and always makes me think that everything that happens is my fault and its all terrible, horrific things to do, even if its chatting online with my best friend of 6 years. This may sound cheesy but these two comments actually helped me realize that im not in teh wrong, so thank you.
then leave you fucking retard. you are consciously putting yourself back into a bad situation. unless you guys share a house or bank accounts there's no reason for it. he's shown that he will use a deadly weapon in a fight in order to win, and he WILL do it again if a situation gets as heated as that again.
pack your shit, get out, and call the police if he shows any sign of trying to get to you.
>b-b-but i love him!
if you think being with him is worth risking your life, then go for it.
no worries homie, I had to deal with this firsthand with my abusive father only a few years ago
things get better, but you have to take action as soon as possible because otherwise it only gets worse
seriously though go to a police station as soon as you can
or for sure as fuck call the cops as soon as this happens again
dealing with domestics are pretty routine for police officers and they walk you through literally every step, it's super easy you just have to talk to them
>>"Know the phone number to your local battered women's shelter."
If you're serious, you're stronger than him, grow some fucking balls and tell him to kick rocks. His bitch ass had to get a weapon for you and you have scars to prove it. He tries something else, you can go to the cops with that evidence.
i am alot stronger than him. Like im not even strong, maybe a bit more than average, but nothing special. One time when he was hitting me, he put me in a headlock so i picked him up (almost above my head. idk must have been adrenalin or some shit) walked like 8 metres and put him down once he let go of me. If that gives you an idea of the situation. i could hit back, but i dont.
>picked yourself up out of a headlock
You don't even need to hit him. I'm pretty damn sure he knows he's weaker than you and just wants to keep you meek.
Just make sure you're not in a kitchen or something next time you have to restrain him or whatever.
Document all injuries including taking pictures. Document all altercations. Try to audio and/or video record altercations. call the cops.
Also, leave ASAP and contact family and/or old friends and tell them what is happening.