How do I finally give up hope and just learn to accept it?
I'm sick of being constantly depressed because I have no girlfriend, money or prospects. I just want to accept my lot in life, accept that I'm beta and that I'll never succeed and just be happy with the mundane life I have, living at home.
How the fuck do you ACCEPT your situation and let go of all the impossible aspirations? How do you ACCEPT, fundamentally, that you will never have a girlfriend?
Girl, money, these are normal aspirations. So forget them.
Study a branch of science, a political event you're interested in, anythinf that interests you. If you're reading, do it with purpose, as if you want to share the information so the person out there smarter than you can piece it all together. Care. The only interesting theological arguments out there always seem to be between two people who want to rip each others heads off. You've got plenty of religious zealots but nobody willing to stick their neck out and put the work in over impartial analysis with proper understanding of cognitive biases.
On the other hand, maybe you should get away from 4chan. This place is obsessed with sex, death and politics. Every time you come here you've got serotonin and dopamine flooding into your head, and you've got porn and violence and various extremist ideologies that historically have killed many people. People want to brainwash you to their but the reality is they can't control the site.
Maybe cut down o. 4chan. Don't browse and shortlist, find a topic you're interested in and learn more about it. Or do real science and go to college like any non Chrischan-tier adult would. Go outside. There's an endless repository of information out there, this is totally unprecedented and there's no guarantee it lasts.
4chan is indeed poison. I've been here for so, so long and yet I keep coming back. It is pure addiction and I don't know why
Just recently I've been spending time on shit like Redpill too which is just as bad. Mind poison
I found happyness when I stopped to attest my problems to a certain fact off life. What I mean by that?
It might seem like a platitude, but you just have to realize your prioritys. YOURS not what others or society tells you to want.
Lets face it, most of us here don't have the lack of a girlfriend as the only thing that's wrong with them. Make a list, where are you at your life.
Education-wise, health-wise, money-wise. What steps do you need to take to have imrpove on those.
Start to workout, get fit, eat healthy. With fitness comes a certain healhty way of life (usually at least) You'll have a steady sleep-cycle (at least when you want max-gains).
Get a job, if you study get a parttime job. I've been NEET, I've worked, I did it all. Doing nothing is fine, but doing an easy job that isn't killing you on the side is better since money is nice to have, even if just for the fact of being secure when something happens to you.
Get an education, think about going back to school if it pays to do so (it's not allways adviced)
Once you see yourself improveing in your prioritys you'll have a completly different selfpicture and life will be more positive.
After that you'll be hard-pressed to fend of the moneyhungry sukubi to pump and dump and you can meet girls.
Liveing the life of asketism is the easy way out. Everyone can say "I don't want it" out of lazyness. Improve yourself and don't give yourself up and the rest will fall in place, Ain't nothing to it but to do it!
power to you, mate. We're all going to make it.
By understanding it and being conscious about it. Positivity in terms of understanding you will never have a GF is the key. I know I will never get one but it doesn't seem grim to me anymore since its one less thing to worry about.
I moved on from this and ignore once the subject is brought up.
This guy knows what he's talking about. You really got 3 options here OP. 1 is to wallow in your self pity and stay there. Life ain't no anime where you get saved dood. You've realized that its only you and will only ever be you, so what the fuck are you gonna do? Achieve bodily perfection, study, anything but nothing. You gotta break the cycle of your life in order to stop the loop. Its the hardest thing to do but if you really want change you'll do it.
>give up hope and just learn to accept it?
Everyone is different. For me it was realization that as long as I find a job and pay bill no one will bother me unless I will want to stick out.
And I dont want.