>Meet a girl in NYC
>Fumble my way through introducing myself
>We swap phone numbers
>Text six hours a day every day without fail for over two months
>She invites me to see Europe with her
>Today I'm flirting with her a bit again
>She tells me she hopes I didn't think she liked me
>She considers me a good friend
>She still hopes I'll go to Europe with her though to keep her company
Jesus Fucking Christ, everytime I think I've finally figured it out and become some alpha with a girlfriend on the way, I get baffled again. Who texts someone for six hours a fucking day and just assumes there's nothing there? No feelings? I'm so fucking sick of girls, might just become a fag desu. They're disgusting but at least they're not so fucking complex.
She likes you but she knows she can play you, she wants to sex better guys then cry and your shoulder and eventually marry you when it never works out with other guys.
You're her back up.
How can you even talk to a cutie in a non-prefoessional setting for more than 10 minutes without flirting and hinting towards more? Why would you waste your time like that (unless you were already in a relationship and looking for platonic friends)?
how many times does r9k need to explain this shit
you are an emotional sponge for her. that's it. let me guess, she tells you things she says she doesn't tell anyone else and that she feels omg super comfortable talking about these things with you. am i right?
you're just an orbiter. if you were attractive she'd fuck you and be your gf.
You have to be clear up front. Usually that means being physical, touch kiss fuck.
Do not text a girl every day all day. It's not a good practice because you end up in situations like you're in. Use your phone to plan meeting times with girls and little else.
You don't have to say things like 'I want to be in a relationship with you.' Just act normal when you meet and if you can't flirt, go for light touch moves then eventually kiss her. This is how you do it.
WIth this girl now I would stop texting her and arrange a meeting and start again, doing the above. If she's a little resistant, just back off for a while (minutes) then try again REPEAT getting further each time. Don't be embarrassed if she moves away from your touch or you, that's part of the dance. All of this stuff is available online if you don't know specifically what to do. If she's totally resistant, leave and start with a new girl.