Online dating is toxic. I've been in a relationship for 3.5 years online. Never even met her physically. Thankfully I'm not being catfished, I think?
If I'm chatting a girl and we aren't taling on cam by 2 weeks I already assume its a man and break contact...
I've got some bad news if shes not willing to snapchat shit with you.
Its either a dude or just some girl using you as emotional support, she obviously isnt using you to masturbate.
I've shown myself, she hasn't shown herself on cam. She is mute, so I haven't heard her voice.
>You do realize she's having skype sex with someone, right?
I have suspected it for a long time, since she said she was an eslut when she was younger (nude pics and skype sexing).
>If I'm chatting a girl and we aren't taling on cam by 2 weeks I already assume its a man and break contact...
>Its either a dude or just some girl using you as emotional support, she obviously isnt using you to masturbate.
I have tried not to think about it for a long time, but now ater this thread I'm starting to seriously doubt myself.
Yes, obviously I am that naive. The other anon is probably right. I'm just being used as emotional support or I am being catfished.
It's not a "bait" thread. Believe it or not.
Tell her that you would like to see her live, and explain your concerns rationally and coherently
Worst case scenario is that she didn't know you were "e-dating" for 3 years and thought you were just an online friend.
Honestly after reading what I said, this probably looks like a shitty troll or something, but I am serious. I should of acted on this sooner, but I've had many arguments with her in the past about this. I have been too afraid to ask my normal friends about it out of shame and even the few online friends I have, I'm also afraid of being ridiculed.
I don't know what to say. I'm just feeling more depressed the longer I stay in this thread. This is why I never consulted anyone else for so long because who the fuck would believe me? Apparently I am the only person on Earth who has ever been played this hard. So what honestly can I say? I have to leave for work. I'll probably be back later tonight or tomorrow around this time to post the results, if I'm even capable.
>in a relationship with someone for over 3 years
>have only seen pictures of her
You do realize you're being catfishes, and this is exactly what catfishes fiend off of, right? i guess you wouldn't know that unless you were into that kinda stuff.
Do you know how actual relationships work? Do you understand the deviations from what you're doing to someone in a relationship?
>i have to leave for work
shoo shoo silly wagey, best make a few shekels
Man how fucking stupid can you be?
If you haven't seen her too much why bother, she probably isn't real. This is coming from someone in a ldr relationship for 3 years (yes over seas) and we meet all the time- she's upstairs asleep RIGHT NOW. For you though- It's really not hard, and if she's in europe travel there right now is a few hundred bucks cheaper at the moment because of isis.
How about you say-
>hey sweetie! I've been saving up for a long time and I finally have enough money to see you!! Would you be comfortable with me staying in your house or will I stay at a hotel?
If her reply is anything other than an enthusiastic yes to you coming over then she don't real my friend