How old are you guys?
What's your reason for still not losing your virginity?
I'm 25, and I'll be 26 this month. The reason I'm still a virgin is because women aren't interested in me and I'm no longer interested in them. Whenever I would try to get to know a woman or ask them out, they'd straight up insult me. Besides, I feel like a snowflake being a virgin for so long.
I'm only 18, I've never asked a girl out or tried to initiate anything before
I find basic social interaction very difficult, luckily alcohol seems to make it easier but I don't want to become dependant
I'm 25. Lost my virginity to a hooker two months ago. It was shit. Nothing changed, except I may have become addicted to hookers.
Just get it out of your system and throw that garbage away. Hire an escort today.
I have a decent number of male friends but am still a KV. Whenever the conversation shifts to girls that people have got with I feel like shit. Girls just dont like me. I'm not sure whether its's my looks or how I act or both.
>middle school girls all bullied me because I bloomed early and got acne
>high school was a male-only school
>university now is too late to do anything
the cards I was dealt are shit fAm
Never happened, and I never really made much effort for it to happen either. It doesn't bother me as bad as most people here though, I don't get why so many people care so much about it. Either something is wrong with my hormone and my sex drive is way lower than it should be, either those complaining used to have great social lives at some point and eventually lost it all. I never really had that many friends, I'm an only child and I'm used to live alone, so maybe my needs of interacting with other humans aren't that great? I don't know.
Slightly overweight and small penis, therefore little confidence in my body. I also have some other health problems.
I'm also too busy because of my studies and trying to focus on my career.
25. Prefer to stay in my room on computer mostly playing mmo, anime or other video game with occasional other hobby activity. My major usually has 1 girl in each class of thirty guys, and each girl already knows a guy(s) in there so it's pointless. Thought about going to anime club at my uni but I'm not big on joining big groups out of nowhere and it's probably full of smelly fatties anyways. I just want a nonfat weeb girl that isn't an unstable whore with a bunch of orbiters and ex-boyfriends. And these girls all want a tall skinny kpop bf which is my antithesis (5'5 175lb 22% bodyfat masculine features all around).
I'm 25. I'm not bad looking or an aspie, but I have no friends, which means no way of attending social events and no opportunity for networking which pretty much makes me an involuntary shut in.
It's mostly alcohol, parties, 420blazeitfaggot, and starbucks
Did that once on a /soc/ thread and the highest I was rated was a 2, a bunch of 1's, and a couple 0's. Never doing that again unless I want to kill myself. I'm probably the only legit ugly person on /r9k/.
>Hey guys, I'll attract girls by joining an anime club!
I don't have friends at all, just one classmate from HS (I'm at Uni now) that I talk to from time to time). I don't go to clubs, don't do alcohol & drugs, don't go to concerts and other stuff people of my age usually do.
Girls have never been interested in me.
Grew up as a fat, ugly, glasses wearing manlet.
As a result I never had any friends growing up, like at all.
I have no social skills to speak of, and social interaction in general makes me very nervous and spergy.
I think it's a remnant from being bullied for so long, you just can't shake the feeling that people still want to hurt you.
I have very bad social anxiety issues which make any social interaction stressful to a degree, and because of that and various other reasons I'm a total neet. Met on girl on a rare occasion I left the house, but didn't go far.
23, almost no friends, socially inept and I don't really make an effort to lose my virginity.
Also has something to do with me being a former fatty. My body is great by now (for normie standards) but my confidence isn't where it actually should be.
Mostly me being fat as fuck. Also my mom is a hoarder so the house is an absolute mess, like the ones on the show. So I was always afraid to get close to girls and then have them want to meet my folks. Also I'm fat as fuck.
If there's even one girl there it's over for the club. You can't add a girl to any male hobby without fucking it to hell and back.
Won't do it dubs bro. This is basically what I look like:
>100% of teeth fucked up
>long thin neck
>huge as all fuck nose
>receding & thinning hair
>huge as all fuck adam's apple
>skinnyfat out the ass
>terrible bacne and some acne
>Sebaceous Filaments filling almost all my pores, especially on my nose
>small pencil dick
Yeah, I'm fucked. Thanks genetics for giving me a death sentence from the start.
>don't believe in casual sex
>before I was too fat and had nothing going for me -> nobody was interested
>now too high mental standards to hook up with the girls at work who are looking for an upgrade
>also too much of a workaholic to meet people
Pick one man,that board is the most normalfag board on this site,m00t hated its inclusion,but it was a nessecary evil to contain all the attention whoring and "lol I'm so pretty don't hit on me silly boys"
Don't trust /soc/,/soc/s taste is shit,and they underrate literally everyone.
The only true way to be judged is by your homeboard.
If that's /r9k/,post it here,there's no judgement.because we're all in the same boat.
Yeah I want to do this but would feel bad showing up once and never again.
Well it's not just for girls but the community would be nice ideally. But the people there tend to not really like anime but have a few favorite shows and spend the rest of their time playing lol or something.
>lose virginity at 12 to much older girl I thought was my cousin
>don't sleep with anyone else again till 16
>have a girlfriend now in college, still on the rare occasion get laid outside of my relationship
If you're in college and can't lose your virginity you just can't have sex in general
>pale as fuck
I'm picky and will only date a short qt virgin who isn't an attention whore. I'm attractive but shy so even on the very rare occasion I find one I might like, I end up not doing anything. Also I'm very conservative when it comes to sex. I would ideally like to wait quite a while into a relationship before sex.
22 years old. I haven't tried hardcore yet but every guy who's seemed interested in me has backed off before we had sex. Some combination of being a 4/10 and then not wanting to stick their dick in crazy.
> How old are you guys?
> What's your reason for still not losing your virginity?
I'm ugly. And when I was a kid/teenager I was fat.
I changed my way of life when I was 23, but nothing really changed.
Now I'm not interested anymore in 3d women, they are all trash... I hope they all die in horrible, slow ways
Literally never even had a meaningful conversation with a female. Never had a female for a friend. The only time i might have maybe got any type of sexual contact in my life the girl was in a on/off again relationship and probably thought i was an autist.
Long story short i'm a fat fuck and socially retarded and a shut in with no ambitions or drive.
I've become so used to not having any friends that I just push away anyone that shows interest in me. I also grew up having to deal with my parents having a horrible relationship and it made me wary of getting close to others in case history repeats itself.
are you a girl? and how old are you?
that feel when this thread made me miss having meaningful conversations with my ex
"Im a virgin because no girl has made all the moves" the thread
Maybe you fags should stop being pussies or just become prison gay
ITS NOT MY FAULT THEY SENSE MY BETA AURA AND STAY AWAY.
aftersex images are the best
This is me exactly, except I'm 18. Sometimes I justify being a hermit by thinking I don't want to be around people, and pretend to hate women and girls, but I know that I don't really believe that deep down. Sucks most of the time.
Holy shit, so many people like me here. Im not even fat, im just scared to get outside, if i needed to i would, but here in germany we get neetbux, that are so high like normal minimum wage.
I don't have friends, maybe one or 2 online "friends" which i am sometimes talking to, but not often.
Im not bad looking either. I just hate this world this society and want just to watch it burn comfy.
2 Years ago i had the opportunity to fuck a virgin, we had switched nude pictures and talked dirty she was an 7/10 red hair, but i was too scared to meet her, biggest mistake in life, but now i don't care anymore, sex is for animals, humans just have sex for fun, and i don't need fun.
I just drink alcohol, go in nature with my beautiful dog, ride my horse in the forests, and enjoy the simple things, work isn't something for me, i just want to life like an native american as much as i can.
oh ok just checking you weren't this girl i know kek
24, stopped trying years ago when my ex started going out with my best friend. They were together for years, moved in together and then broke up. Of course the friend was immediately trying to patch up our friendship after that, and I let him just because I didn't have any friends other than him, and had been thinking of suicide for years and once almost made it. Nowadays we're in good terms, somehow.
I realized I'm just the type of guy who gets any attention only when there's no other people available, and if any girl would ever end up going out with me she would dump me the second someone better comes her way. Kinda made me not to even want to bother to try anymore, since the best years of my youth have already passed by trying to deal with depression and being virgin at this age, in this day and age, is just sad.
>How old are you guys?
21, 22 on sept
>What's your reason for still not losing your virginity?
im a fat fuck and a manlet. I don't really care anymore about virginity... its weird i used to have tons of friends because my classmates told me that im funny and shit.. but started the college... finished college ... im paramedic.. and no friends
fuck this shit. fuck all of this.
Na not felicity, we are allgood dude
Ugly, fat, socially retarded, poor, fucked up teeth, fucked up eye, dropped out of highschool, don't properly take care of myself or clean up my living space, poor, no self-esteem, don't want to do much of anything and anything I potentially would do I'm too ashamed of the way I look to leave my house
I'm a fat fuck with a dick size of around 2 inches, don't know if its because I'm Asian or because my fat is taking most of my dick but I'm going to the gym now but so far i can only bring myself to it 3 times a week a pathetic amount and all I do is lift weights
I wouldn't even know what I'll do even when I do get a girl in my bed. My dick size is so small I'm scared of getting laughed out of bed and that what keeps me from even buying a whore
>tfw 7 inch dick
>tfw not fat
>tfw social anxiety
feels fucking bad man oh and im 21 and virgin. kekerikoo.
Guys, if you can go out, you can get a gf, i got 20 girlfriends when i was 13-15 than i started gaming and it ruined my life and got me depression, the redpill, and anxiety.
I hate and love the fucking Internet.
same here. but im 21 my dick is about 5 inches i think because im fat fuck.
i know the feel man ... it fucking sucks i really wanna make a tribute for the great and all mighty elliot and kill every single one normie superficial scum in a gym.
20 years old
Girls just don't like me much. Only made out twice, could have probably escalated one of them but fucked up. I'm decent looking but I'm short with no confidence or self esteem.
Pic related. Me
Are you me? Sans lifting.
> cardiobunny body
> big dick
> above average face
> deep voice
No girl ever smiled at me, even. I don't know why. Maybe I have a beta aura a km around me.
im 18. i didnt socialize much in high school and was awkward and fat. ive changed since i started college but now i dont really care about being in a relationship with anyone. if something happens, it happens.
>awkward to be around
>all of my school life was in special ed
>try asking a fatty
>she was like what?
>kids made fun of me for that
>college asked another girl she said no
>post here go to friend's house
>play video games there
>his bitchy mother complained i came there every weekend
>two years ago get in a car accident
>go to therapy and post here
Doesn't matter at all.
I had just few friends, with whom I was occasionally outside, but not at parties.
The good thing is that that I had back then more chance of getting a gf then now. Then we've met some other people (there were girls too), and that's how the most autistic of us 3 had found a gf. My other friend found later and I was out with two girls and it didn't turn out well. I simply didn't want a girl that smoke(although she wasn't that pretty), but now I see that it was maybe a mistake. She was a little chubby but boobs were enormous.... I am a retard.
Now I even sometimes drink and go to a party, cause that's the only way to enjoy that s***.
I listen to rock and metal, I don't really like that s***, but I just wanted to see if that would get me laid. Of course it didn't, it even made me a creep. Kissing random girls into a cheek wasn't a good idea.
Anyways, you got the point. The thing is just to go out with some friends that are like you, and you will eventually find something somewhere.
I've gone once outside with girls that I met in fast food. That was only going out like friends, but I could've met a future gf that way. It was really an accident meeting them, I didn't even start a conversation.
Still a kissless virgin, but man, I know some s**t
Eighteen. I've never been in a situation where I could get laid. Waiting for someone, currently.
Major depression and zero self esteem. I was rejected by every woman I ever asked out with gratuitous sprinklings of "Never" being used. In grade/middle school, I was a regular target for being fake asked out for a laugh. That school was a small school, and I had the same classmates every year. I was an anathema since 1st grade. That's just how it was.
I have accepted that no one wants to be with me. It helps in a way, like accepting that you have incurable cancer. I known I'm going to be alone, so I don't try to fight it anymore.
Anons i know u are ugly af, but remember no matte how ugly you are there are women out there for you. Number one advice for finding them; get the fuck out of the chair u lazy fuck, and go do shit , meet people at a course for kayaking ore som shit. There is hope for you even thogh u feel like a shit.
Overweight, working out 3 days a week to get in shape.
Most likely the major obstacle through my entire life. Working on it though, that aside, I feel assured that after getting in shape, that a world will open up
>self censoring on a website famed for its lack of accountability and total freedom of speech
Pick one and lurk moar.
I detest women and want nothing to do with them. I've seen what they do to guys, and having sex is just not worth given all the bullshit and heartbreak you have to deal with. I'll rather stay a virgin and just pay a good hooker once I have enough money.
29 and counting
Don't know how to drive a car
Still live with my mother
I am the absolute definition of failed normie. I am not ugly, i am not socially incompetent, i have a normal sex drive. But I have always had this obsession with ressisting social pressures. Whenever I find myself in a situation where I am being pressured to conform I always passively resisted, maybe even in a cold way. It has caused me to push away many close friends who just wanted to be apart of my life, btw we are still friends but not very close. And this obsession leaked over into my "sexual life". I have a fear of commitment, even if it means commiting to a single girl for a single night. Therefore, I have had no girls. The wierdest part is I want to get married one day. Which is the most oppressive, enslaving social institution of them all. I have no regrets for being the person I am today.
i just don't understand this. what are you scared of? that they're gonna try and fight you? youre just not confident and you lack self esteem. who cares if you aren't the best looking dude with the most to offer, if you dont at least try and talk you'll never get anywhere with it. there's nothing to be scared of, and if you sound dumb your first time trying, fuck it, and try again. just talk to them like they're a fuckin dude with tits and get over it man.
Up until about 1 year ago I looked and probably acted like a typical autist (long hair, unfitting+tacky clothes, skinny, general total lack of self-awareness).
I think I have made significant improvements since then and could probably get laid if I really tried, but having waited this long I can't imagine having sex with someone unless I love them.
I need to acquire a gf first.
As far as I can remember, 3 times. Once in high school, two in elementary school. I'm not particularly ugly either, just an average guy; girls have fallen in love with me in the past.
That was when I was naive and thought that women were just regular people and not the disgusting harpies that they are.
Im not trying to be your advisor, but try it can change your life. It's worth the risk. That is kinda how life works anyway, sometimes it gives you a cookie, but sometimes it fuks you hard in the ass instead.
don't mention it, dude. just try and think before you speak. i used to have trouble doing the same until i realized there's nothing to even worry about, the only thing causing your anxiety is that you feel like you'll be humiliated. and if they decide you're not worth it because you stuttered once or twice then fuck em and they're not worth your time anyways. i met a cool girl in class today, talked to her afterwards and yeah i'll admit i fucked up my words once or twice but just learn to laugh at yourself and look past it.
the best words i ever heard were "It's only embarrassing if you're embarrassed"
You're replying to two people, but fuck no.
I'm happy the way things are and I'm focusing on fixing a couple of things in my life: getting rid of a chronic illness and finding a stable job; don't have time to deal with inane emotional crap. I hate women way too much anyways for it to work. The amount of crap that the women would have to do to prove that she's not one of the 99% of those backstabbing sluts borders on the insane.
It' unbelievable that everyone is complaining on stars while swearing. I am used to it. If it bothers you, find some psychological treatment or something, it's not my problem. Also, die.
19, I just don't care. I've been living my careless anime/video game life since 12, I had no friends/love interests back then, I don't have friends/love interests now. Even when I was a little shit I stayed at home and watched TV all day. Getting a girlfriend or having sex just for the sake of it wouldn't really be MY decision, it'd be something caused by the society and I doubt it could turn out to be good because of that.
I'm male, 19, average looking, white, blonde haired, 193cm, about 80kg, also weak as fuck because I sit all day. I'm also very shy and it's very hard for me to meet people. I think that the main reason is, that I'm looking for someone who has the same taste in music and video games, etc. as me. I actually want a long lasting relationship.
and you too. remember, you're better than any girl will make you feel. it's normal to feel pressure wen talking to a girl but don't ever let it keep you from simply trying! their opinions of you don't shape who you are. eventually you'll run into a girl you can talk to freely, just be patient. take care, and don't be too hard on yourself man!
If you want a long-lasting relationship with a woman who's not insane, you need to stop looking for women who are into these things.
Women who are into video games are usually attention-whores, or at least very unfeminine.
It depends what type of music you like, but girls in the alternative music scenes are literally 100% insane, drug-using sluts with daddy issues. The only exception is probably indie. Think about whether the type of music you like is something that can truly relate to the feminine mind and experience.
But overall, don't look for a gf in places which are overwhelmingly male. The reasons are obvious.
26, ugly af, short, never had friends so being around people makes my anxiety go fucking nuts, i am usually depressed as well i am also poor and have 0 motivation to do anything but play video games and masturbate
I listen to alternative electronic music (IDM, experimental stuff), techno and some house. I don't even get it, why is this kind of music masculine?
I feel like I couldn't have a long lasting relationship with someone who doesn't have a similar taste. Too bad that there is only one girl in a million, who listens to these and is not insane.
Girls are just children. I used to be afraid, too until I realized this. I'm still a 26khv, but not for lack of trying at least. Eventually, you'll find a girl who has her shit together, and from there, I can't help you because I lost the one I found.
I had many chances and blew them because I've panicked.
One time I invited a girl over after she was crying to me over how another guy rejected her. She tried to give me a handjob but I couldn't get hard. She had H-cup breasts but I felt like I was having a heart attack and ended up masturbating under the sheets.
The other was a random internet hookup. I talked with a girl about memes and anime on OkCupid. We went to the pub. I was awkward but we drank a lot at Wetherspoons. She started going on about casual sex rather loudly and she was in no state to go home, so I invited her back to mine. She again tried to give me a blowjob, but the same happened again. I ended up giving her stubbly muff a handjob (which I found gross desu) and then she demanded that I fuck her, but I just went back to sleep.
She was really into me though for some reason, so we kept talking and she wanted a second date. She was a radical feminist SJW (as was the first) and I ended up putting her off by talking about how I was a conservative and wearing expensive, pretentious clothing and a crocodile skin wallet, but I felt nothing anyway.
I've reached a point where I feel that real women just can't satisfy my emotional or physical desires. I find virtual reality to be more enticing, and it makes me feel 'happy', albeit a bittersweet kind of feeling. It fills some kind of void, but is nonetheless a very empty feel.
Now I can't emotionally connect with real women. If they're interested, which is rarely the case, I just shrug them off and show little to no positive feeling towards them in person, because I cannot, and then they assume that I am not interested. I've become an emotionless human with no love but money and anime. Just kill me now senpai.
I recently got a 3/10 fwb girl and all those memes about sex being over rated are true.
Maybe if I had sex with a person I love could be better, but as of now, the pure physical aspect of sex is not worth it.
Constant pressure staying hard, fumbling around to get in, fucking exhausting to pump, condom feels like shit and almost no feeling even though I'm uncut and have those 3000 nerve endings.
Anal is god-tier though.
I literally memed myself into girls' pants. That was the only way I have managed to do it, and with rad fem SJWs. They liked the whole menimist act, but the irony probably ran too deep for them, as it did for me.
I'm a mentally ill shut in who's never even fingered herself and is scared of getting close to people. Also I fell for the ''special person'' meme, I know people are scum and life is meaningless but I don't want to lose my virginity to a random, it feels wrong.
ahh gotcha. well man, you don't *need* your girl to have the same tastes, although it helps. part of the good in a relationship if how different you guys can be while also maintaining heavy similarities. while you guys might not be into the same music, you might be completely similar in your day to day activities. take the good with the bad, man, and just be patient.
I only leave my room for food once a month, don't interact with other humans never mind girls
I stay in my room and play vidya ,do push ups, or do some drugs that I can get my poor fag hands on.
i'm a social outcast and I prefer to be alone.
back in elementry school all the kids wanted to feel better about themselves so they made fun of me. their bullying worked like this
>If I ask to join them to play they say fuck off
>since Im alone in recess they all call me gay since when you're in 3rd grade being gay means being alone all the time
I think all that bullying that lasted all through elementary and half of middle school really fucked me up socially
now I just prefer to be alone and do solitary activities since thats what i've always done since 3rd grade
as far as attractiveness goes im average I would say. 6ft 2, brown hair and, skeleton with a bit of muscle. acne is a bit of a problem since I drink milk in order to get gains and milk causes acne for me.
>Why do you flip your shit when some women are virgins for the exact same reason?
because women don't really have to put themselves out there that much when compared to males.
males have to initiate the female so being a shy guy means you will never get laid since you won't be the first to talk due to social anxiety. being a shy female the male will engage you and males are less judgmental of a female losing spaghetti since their the ones carrying the conversation.
im not one of the robots that flips their shit when a femanon says their khv but the game of romance is shifted in females favor so it pisses off a lot of robots when a femanon says they have it as rough as them.
Basically my deal.
Never grew up with anything like that. I don't really feel a drive to have a girlfriend and I've had very few chances but never took them.
>ADHD (Legit not being lazy kid)
>grew beard in high school
I think I've unconsciously replaced my sexuality with porn. I don't really feel any desire for the women around me.
I also am very avoidant and feel uncomfortable at the touch of other people. Shaking hands and looking people in the eye was something that took a lot of time for me to master.
I have crippling confidence issues. Girls are attracted to me and have approached me/asked me out but I can't handle the attention. Having a gf sounds like a lot of stress and one night stands are even more pressure because they're expecting you to sexually satisfy them (something that undoubtedly won't happen).
24 yo hhkv.
Like many robots the main reason that I'm alone is because I'm alone. I don't have any friends, don't approach girls despite not being bad looking (not attractive either) and don't attempt to widen my social circle because I've learned to enjoy being alone.
It's easier to stay alone at this point. I've missed out on the parts of my life I was meant to develop on during teen years. I'm left behind, a women doesn't need to put up with this shit.
I'm 20 years old
I used to have a lot of female friends, more than male friends. I got the opportunity to lose my virginity many times but I never used all those great opportunities because I am asexual and won't get aroused by anything. My sexual life is non-existent and I haven't told anyone about that I'm asexual because it's very embarassing
fuck this so much
>tfw all my friends got the good parts of puberty
>armpit hair/facial hair
>tfw I get acne, crackly voice, and freakishly long pubes
My social life consists of playing video games in one of three places and occasionally getting food somewhere. When not doing that, I look at things like pic related.
I enjoy myself, but coming to the conclusion that you'll die alone is not fun.
19, Because I'm a massive pussy.
I'm a passable 5-6/10 but I've never asked a girl out or basically made any attempts to talk to them outwith times I have to like uni and work.
I've pulled a few random club sluts but only because I was fucking wasted for confidence and they came on to me first.
How do I get over the first hurdle?
I have Aspergers, which puts me at a natural disadvantage, and haven't had friends since elementary school, so no chance to try to learn social skills. Even if it were possible to get as far as a date or a match on tinder or something, I wouldn't even know what to do.
I've never tried pursuing a relationship as I'm afraid of rejection and getting that close emotionally to another person. It's gotten worse over the years, as my friends have gotten even more distant or became involved in their own relationships. Have grown more reclusive as I get older it seems.
I also avoided the couple chances I had in college, as I didn't want my first time to be with some drunk chick I barely knew looking for a one night thing (at least what I tell myself). That, or I didn't notice the obvious flirting. I never make the effort to get close to other people, so I don't see me getting to that point.
Also chubby and I never go out. It's really not surprising. Don't really care about sticking my dick in a hole. Just don't want to continue down the increasingly lonely road I've been going.
I went to a hearthstone club at my uni. There was what seemed to be some chill guys there, but there was also the undesirables. There was this one fat annoying fuck who sat next to me. doing loud pitched voices to everything that happened in the game. I just left after a while and never went back.
Anxiety disorders aren't good for getting friends.
I know from experience.
That doesn't mean she wants needy otbiters.
I'm alone and male and wouldn't want one.
Using the argument "at least someone wants" you is faulty, they want you because they're the other sex, not out of genuine reasons.
>I have crippling confidence issues. Girls are attracted to me and have approached me/asked me out but I can't handle the attention. Having a gf sounds like a lot of stress
26khv here, too. I feel you here. I have 0 self esteem and was picked on all through elementary school. I was told later in my HS days that I had some missed chances because I am incapable of believing anyone would be interested in me. Hell, my one friend (not one of, literally my ONE friend) actually tried to set me up with this girl, and I did nothing because why bother? She was literally sitting next to me on my parents couch.
What amazed me is that my friend was a fatass. Now, I was always a fatty, but my brothers were all athletic. I got a bit of exercise playing with them, so I wasn't as bad as I could've been. My friend? He was 5'8" and ROUND, yet he always had a girlfriend. I couldn't believe it, and wouldn't have if I didn't see it. Made me feel even worse.
Now? I don't even think I want one. All everyone I know with a GF just complains about them. I can't imagine sharing an apartment with someone who needs constant attention and wants to talk all the time and nags whenever I go out somewhere like the cardshop. Why do people bother?
Pretty much what I expect it'll be like. There'll be like 1-2 fakeChads and some fedora bronies that I wouldn't really want to hang out with or even have to wave if I see them around uni.
20. I don't really care about trying to lose it any more. I've left it too late and trying to start a relationship completely blind at this point will just lead to embarrassment and social problems that I would rather just avoid. I'm fine with just doing my own thing.
poor decisions and shyness mostly, but acne/scarring and social retardation don't/haven't helped
the fact that I'm back living with my parents after dropping out of college and don't have a car seals the deal
i had a lot of anxiety issues when i was younger, so i never tried to initaite contact with a girl. i'm not terribly unactractive tho, and i think i got a decent enough personality, so i probably could get laid if i put in the effort, but sorting my life out is more of a priority to me right now. it's not something i'm hung up on, and i'd rather lose it someone i like rather than just some random girl.
Not true here, my parents were amazing. I'm an only child which definitely slowed me down socially, but I still had a great group of friends. I just never had the aggression and willpower it takes to impose myself on a social situation, and I don't really think parents can teach that
I have all of the ingredients of for a successful person.
I just self sabotage the very second I start becoming good at anything.
That's why I like doing nothing. Because the second I get involved into something I just immediately get passionate about it, start doing really well, then drop everything and fall back into depression and just wait until cycle repeats itself again.
>shitty face (assymetrical eyes, nigger nose and lips, no jaw)
>due to my physical weakness throughout my life I am also mentally weak
>cannot be arsed to work out
With each passing day I give less of a shit. I am actually starting to think that if I lasted this long, might as well go all in an see what wizardry is like. Celibacy ain't hard when girls don't like you.
Like all only children you were probably spoiled as a child by your mother and not forced to go out and socialize. Your parents probably never showed affection around you so you never learned how to socialize with the opposite sex. Tl;dr your parents fucked up.
This is quite right, I find the whole girls having beta orbiters thing weird. Granted I've had guys orbit me before but I ditched them when I noticed that because I think it's leading on in a way. I just want someone I care about and cares about me, I might not find this person any time soon if ever because I don't put myself out there but I'd rather that than slut around or have an army of orbiters.
And what do you think made your parents raise you the way they did?
What about them?
And so on.
So essentially by blaming your parents, you are just blaming life itself.
Sure they might be the reason why you are a fuck up, but they can't really be blamed for it.
former fat here with gyno. got it removed a year ago, but still dont lift for muscle. now I am just skinny fat.
my body is and always was why I thought I was still a virgin and yet I dont do anything about it. I have been on and off workout for 3 years. longest serious lift was 2 months and I felt pretty good doing it.
I have not much relatable to other people. gaming and tv is all I do. lots of people watch walking dead and GoT so I can talk about that, but I feel like tv and gaming as not the desirable hobbies.
physical activites are where it is at or at least watching sports. tried to get into it, but feel like I am wasting my time. ( tv and gaming is also wasting time, but I dont feel that way about it).
To also provide an argument for the orbiters:
Men will add you because you're a girl, they will act differently when they find out you're a girl. That is normal and expected, because they probably just want someone as well.
Just because they start orbiting doesn't make them any less really, it's only when they start bending over backwards trying to please you, not being genuine regarding their character or intentions. I'm not saying give them a chance, just be up front if anything, if you see them getting hurt then maybe drop them. Guys (I'm projecting) can't really control themselves too much around girls, they will act differently, but that doesn't imply much.
Honestly in our grand parents time, fathers spent time raising their sons, women were home a lot to make sure kids didn't spend time in their rooms all day and their wasn't the same amount of tv/vidya and no Internet. But you're right its up to us to break the cycle and not be completely a victim or our environment/circumstances.
24, soon to be 25.
Got close this year, didnt have a condom. After that she realized im a fucking weirdo and stopped talking to me.
Dunno why im bothering anymore, everything ive seen in my life has shown and told me it isnt worth it to get involved with women, and after getting to know me I'm not exactly desirable.
Why do I keep trying
No libido and lack of interest in my peers... until a few months ago when I saw the most beautiful princess in the world, now I can't stop thinking about finding guys like him.
I already saw my future as a loner when I was a kid. And here I am, at the age I foresaw.
Now my path lies in darkness and I must sink deeper, with the climax of my life dying as a khhv, with no friends, family or relatives by my side.
Iwill leave this earth, whispering the words to this world, that there is no happy ending, that there is no god that would provide happiness, and that not everyone will die knowing any sort of form of love in their life. There is no hope, there is no "other fish in the sea". You are stuck in a desert, far away from the ocean. Life is not a fairy tale. There are no happy endings.
Only anger, hatred, loneliness, despair and sorrow lie in wait for you.
>shit fashion taste
>get smiled and stared at by 10/10 qts all the time
if you have a godtier face you can make it no matter what fampai.
>grew up in a small rural town
>bullied and molested
>be some kind of lesbian gay bisexual transgender but didn't understand until it was too late because I live in the rural middle of nowhere where that shit just doesn't exist
>now in college but missed all of the important developmental milestones and too socially incompetent and disoriented to meet anybody and I'm a fucking ugly creepy looking anorexic faggot that LITERALLY NOBODY will ever want to fuck
I don't even try anymore. From time to time a girl starts liking me but I'm too much of a faggot to do anything. Last year there was this asianese girl, not qt, but she was ok I guess. Avoid all her attempts of getting close to me, started approaching other girls, just to let her know I wasn't interested in her. So, after some months she stopped trying, know she's with some normie I think.
My workplace is basically full of girls, I'm the only man there.desu senpai, I've sorrounded by girls my entire life, and that's kind of a curse. I never learned to act all masculine, my problem is not the same as most robots, I don't care for women, and with this I mean I'm not annoyed by their presence, I can talk to them, make them laugh or whatever, but I can't find any of them interesting.
Sorry for the blog, tumblerino post familianos.
I'm a gayfag. I have phimosis, which means I can't fuck ass, or get my dick sucked. I also have chronic constipation which means I can't get my ass fucked without fear of it being messy and unclean.
I will admit, i have sucked dick. Wish I could do more though.
Lmao, it's terrible as a gayfag.
>"i have sucked dick"
Literally fucking kill yourself you fucking normie.
GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY BOARD
19, soon to be 20.
I don't know, if I had to guess it's probably because I can't bond to people. I don't love my family, I have a few friends but I never call them, they do all the work and if they stopped calling me we'd stop being friends.
Unlike friends and family, no girl is going out of her way to be with me, since I'm average in terms of attractiveness, and the few girls who have done so were below my standards. I don't care about fucking ugly girls either.
25, just got my PhD, no interest in sex, friends, or relationships.
Grew up in super rural area, homeschooled until high school by poor family, which basically meant I read books all day every day.
Autist in high school, was valedictorian but I didn't give a speech or anything. Took most of my classes alone online because really good at standardized tests. I couldn't tell you a single classmate's name. Never got my driver's license.
Went to a pretty high-tier college, got a single room freshman year because autist. Latched onto one professor, who pretty much wrangled my autistic self through grad school. Never left room other than to go to class. Don't own cell phone. There are three other human beings in my life: my parents, and that professor. I do not have, and have never had, any meaningful interaction with any other person, nor do I wish to have any such contact.
22, not kissless or handholdless but still virgin because my first and only relationship was with a bengali Muslim girl who was saving for marriage. She was innocent to the point of literally thinking she was having orgasms from me licking her tits alone. She wouldn't let me see her vagina because she didn't like the idea of her legs being spread "like a whore"
God I wish I'd have known how rare this is in a girl.
Didn't turn out well because she kept blaming my autism for making her fail in school, and at the same time her dad had recently found the light of Allah and would probably have killed me if he found out about us. Her mom was keeping it secret from him.
im 26 and lost my virginity at 18. i thought it took me too long because so many of my friends lost it by 16 or so. my first was a 10/10 qt korean girl, ive tried white girls but now i go for almost exclusively asians. theyre so much better
i havent been single for a month straight since then, usually with a girl for 3-6 months before i break up and find another. when i have a gf i have sex about 3-5x a week depending how busy i am.
i got kinda fat like 6 months ago so im scared to break up with my gf in case i cant find another, but i dont want tomarry her and shes in love with me. i feel bad for leading her on still
>How old are you guys?
>What's your reason for still not losing your virginity?
It didn't happen in high school for a couple reasons. I think I am autistic, I say stupid things, completely fail to read emotions, and am simply awkward. I had acne growing up. I was bullied pretty much every day which wrecked my confidence and gave me terrible social anxiety. Every time I tried to even be friends with a girl I was shot down in mean ways for their own laughs. My social anxiety was bad enough that I became a shut-in with absolutely zero friends for years. I didn't fix my acne and social anxiety until I was about 22 and half-way through college.
I think by that point I had given up and decided it was never going to happen for me. I was also bitter, because I felt that aspect of my life was ruined (largely by of other people,) and "starting late" would not fix it.
I finished college and nothing changed. I moved back with my parents to save money and because I saw no reason in moving out. Why move out if you're never going to need privacy to be with someone?
I started working and have been since. I have no friends. There are very few women my age around me and they are often married or they have boyfriends. Even if they did not, I doubt they would want to tolerate a relationship with a friendless, sexually and emotionally stunted person. And I doubt I could like them as people, because I can't help but view them as spoiled (in the sense that young women have to do virtually nothing to have a great sex life.) My views are probably tainted by the way I was treated by girls in school.
So I work long hours and save all of my money. I don't know what I am going to do. Dating seems unrealistic and getting married or having kids even more so. I might buy a house in the wilderness and live alone. I do okay but have spells of panic attacks about being completely alone, missing so much, and having absolutely no one to help me. I think time has proven I can't fix it myself.
Small dick so there's no point in even trying
i'm also not social at all
Underrated post desu. Like I just looked at a mirror. In a way, I'm glad I'm that way, that it doesn't bother me. And the fact that I am also a only child has helped me greatly in coping with loneliness, and to be fine without anyone close. Cheers, anon, for we are the same on this regard.
20 something male. 909, california. Not fat but have an ugly face. Will let ANYONE have sex with me while I lay still and quiet. Doesn't matter how ugly or male you are as long as you bathe. I can wear a bag over my head. You can hit me if you want, but not in the head. I'm terrible at conversation so you can start doing whatever you want as soon as you want to.
This is a serious offer to anyone desperate enough in the area or within driving distance.
Get off my board teenagers