Why does the "women only wants chad" meme still exist when men have tons of opportunities to get normal women, but instead go after Stacies?
>have sex more often and with more partners than women
>have a much sicker fantasies about stacy
>the sex toy industry for men is bigger than women
>porn (featuring stacy) aimed at men dominates the porn industry
>most stripper club patrons are men (watching stacies)
>the male brain only thinks about getting fucks with stacy
>pretty much all the nudes (featuring stacy) that are requested and received by men
This meme needs to die.
Also "chads" aren't the top 1% that gets laid. Those are real A+ and A ranked alpha males. Most guys are B/C ranked and still get laid regularly. If you can't get any it's because you're some F failure omega or not trying hard enough.
Thats bullshit, at least from personal experience and that of a few friends.
I went after a short, ugly, pale neet poorfag girl, and she didn't want anything from me other than being friends, my fault for spending $$$ on her thinking it would change things.
And no, I'm not a neet, i got a job with almost 6 figs a year, i'm just really angry at myself for the lonely failure I've become
>my fault for spending $$$ on her EXPECTING it would change things
Do you have aspergers?
Or maybe you're dumb as fuck?
If she said she only wants to be friends and you don't listen then what do you expect?
>i got a job with almost 6 figs a year
Welp then you're either god ugly, beta, annoying as fuck, aspergers(already confirmed this), a jerk (already confirmed this too), greedy(definitely confirmed this), and a multitude of other issues that make you unattractive.
Well the A+ Elite is of course the top 1%, but nobody really implies they are the only ones getting laid. 20% Just happen to be chads that have an easier game than anybody else. The rest are normies that usually have game too, but are not as alpha as chads.
Its statistically proven that women have more opportunities than men, so please stop using false memes.
>Its statistically proven that women have more opportunities than aspergers that don't leave their rooms
You see the part of being A MAN is that you try as much and as often as you can.
You think the average guy is a chad who goes "u wan sum fuk" and gets laid with the first girl he tries?
No. Average guy probably tries with 100+ girls then meets up to 10 and maybe 1 will fuck him.
Guys on /r9k/ are either losers who have to go through 1000 girls to do the same and give up or are average guys that don't put up with the 100+ girls.
"more opportunities" are in perspective. YOU MAKE YOUR OWN OPPORTUNITIES. (except you don't. thus why you're a bitter ass loser)
>tfw not as tall as Enrique.
>Everything else is true, except the social part.
>volunteer work is pretty fun.
At least I make more;the dudes here aim for stacies because that's what they're programmed to do, women do the same but are in a position to actually do it.
Well this actually is a much better way to put things, looking at it why the hell did I even post the tip portion of this?
>Playing the game.
>You see the part of being A MAN is that you try as much and as often as you can.
This is what blue pilled man or women would say because they need to raise beta bux to keep the system going.
>Average guy probably tries with 100+ girls then meets up to 10 and maybe 1 will fuck him.
No, I had average male friends that just got gf by luck. Getting a gf is all about social skills + luck.
>Guys on /r9k/ are either losers who have to go through 1000 girls to do the same and give up or are average guys that don't put up with the 100+ girls.
/r9k/ is full of losers that don't know how to socialize or have genetic issues like ugliness that hold them back. (often a mix of both)
>YOU MAKE YOUR OWN OPPORTUNITIES
The truth is that she will never love you back. Unless you are some kind of evolutionary win ticket (chad) she won't really "love" you.
Again, you are using just-word fallacy to use low-quality shitposting to waste your time on r9k.
In the end its better for beta males to choice 2D.
>the dudes here aim for stacies because that's what they're programmed to do
Most men aim for Stacy. Men here aim for nothing then complain like bitter faggots.
>women do the same but are in a position to actually do it.
Most women don't aim for alpha males.
Most women are smart enough to realize that they can't keep alpha chad.
Problem is that guys on /r9k/ are literally the shit of the male race at the bottom 1-5% of the barrel but they want the top 40% or so of women.
Exactly why you're stupid. Luck doesn't exist. It's probability. Even if you're lucky you'll never win the lotto if you don't buy a ticket.
>all about social skills
Life is about social skills. You're socializing right now.
>/r9k/ is full of losers that don't know how to socialize or have genetic issues like ugliness that hold them back. (often a mix of both)
Thanks for reaffirming my point.
>The truth is that she will never love you back.
Me? Aren't we projecting here? I have girls say they love me, but I've shot down. Love is a very subjective thing that changes from person to person buddy.
I think you have some growing up to do.
>The other is available to anyone.
You can never have 2D either. In a way, 2D is even worse because you think you own something when you don't.
Delusion within delusion.
>dated shy neet girl with anxiety issues for years
>loved her and took care of her and tried to help her get her life together even though I'm still in the process of trying to sort out mine as well
>years down the line she hasn't done anything to advance her life, became an alcoholic, developed anorexia, became a total fucking bitch and refused any help from me or anyone else
>revealed that she was doing shit behind my back like going to parties and drinking and a couple years ago at one of them some guy who already had a gf (who was her friend and encouraged the situation apparently) fucked her at the party
>refused to give any names or admit to any other cases but I wouldn't be surprised if she was still whoring it up in secret over those years
>likely became anorexic and emaciated in an attempt to attract more men and became bitchy because she resented me after she started cheating as all those changed lined up with when she started doing that
>should have just gave up on her then but I cared about her and stuck it out though I didn't know she was lying and stabbing me in the back the entire time
Fucking never again. It doesn't matter where you shoot for, even a seemingly innocent girl who's completely not a "Stacy" can turn into an absolute fucking whore if she thinks that she can do better.
Sure, you can get laid easy enough if you play your cards right, but having a stable relationship with a faithful girl who would turn down chad's dick even if she knew she could keep it a secret? Dream on
high test threads blow your thread out of the water completely
someone refute me
it always gets me.
Blame thirsty ass niggas for that shit. And going after ugly girls is a stupid strat anyway, they have some of the worst personalities of any women. This "ugly girls are nicer" shit is a meme that needs to die, some of the most horrible girls I ever met were fat/ugly.
I agree that it was an absolute fucking mistake on my part. She was good at first but I was completely delusional in thinking that I could somehow make things go back to before she showed her real colors.
>please refute this post>>25675108
>plenty of guys here want a fat girl and cant even get them
Prove this. I don't want some fat bitch. I've shot down fat bitches before. Stop projecting whale hunter senpai.
>i-i-it d-doesnt count!!
guys wanting stacy is a meme. im a fairly average looking guy and all i want is a belly girl with a big ass and big thighs and cute soft arms
yet ive been rejected by 300 pound girls on online dating. im willing to post a photo if i need to
Being good on the internet =/= being good in real life social situations
It was the only point I could agree upon.
Its not possible for women to love you when you consider what the biological task of a women is.
as expected, no reply kek
just delete your shit thread OP
Yeah, if they completely changed their personalities and the way they acted. You'd probably need to erase most of their experiences up to that point as well.
It's not even about having a bad personality, just having one that makes you less likely/able to meet and talk to women reduces your chances significantly.
>Being good on the internet =/= being good in real life social situations
I wasn't saying that. Learn to socialize on the internet senpai.
>Its not possible for women to love you when you consider what the biological task of a women is.
It is possible because love is different for each person. It can range from attachment and affection to deep romantic attachment to the point of acting irrationally.
The fact that you can say it is impossible for a woman to love is just your way to saying no woman even loved you.
My condolences, but it's not my fault no one ever loved you nor does that mean your beliefs are right because of it.
I was pointing out that there are differences between socialising on the internet and real life.
Again you make it sound like being good on the internet will allow you to not sperg out in real life, which is simply not true.
Consider that women biologically chase after resources. They don't love the men, they love the resources the men can provide for her.
It's my understanding of the fundamental goal of bonding between partners in humans. If I am wrong you are more than welcome to refute my point.
>go after Stacies
>posts a list of things that aren't actually going after stacies
I don't know where this "all men only go for the top 20% of women" idea came from, especially on /r9k/. If robots post about their experiences with a girl, it tends to be a fairly normal girl, in terms of attractiveness.
I'd even go as far as to say that a decent amount of the guys here aren't even attracted to 'Stacies'. I know I'm not - I'll see a girl like that, and I can see that she's objectively attractive, but I'm not into her. Can't even fap to girls like that. It's probably my brain being realistic with my chances, to avoid disappointment.
>tons of opportunities to get normal women
Is this literally your first day on /r9k/? What makes you think most men here have 'tons of opportunities' to get any women?
Unless you're talking about normie men, in which case why post it here? We don't care about them.
Not sure if you thought this wasn't obvious but this is the point of 2D. You can actually use your imagination to live out your intimacy needs.
Its more accessible and easier to handle, considering 99.99% of women will never want us in the first place.
Are we still talking about 3? or is that 4? I stopped discussing 3 because we had agreement already....
>Consider that women biologically chase after resources.
Consider that humans biologically chase after resources.
But Women are built to be much more caring in nature. Sure there will be your deviant psychopaths, but I'm speaking in general here.
Women at the very least love their children more than men. Even men have more caring side for children, but it was an adaptation that developed later.
In early nature, men were literally pump and dump types.
>They don't love the men, they love the resources the men can provide for her.
Muh dik and muh sperm also count?
Also you can flip it around
>They don't love the women, they love the ass/tits/pussy the women can provide for him.
Few men on /r9k/ expect anything of a woman that they don't have themselves, besides a vagina, and usually quite a bit less.
I know that it's nice to pretend that robot's target models because "we have to make it sound equal", but it simply isn't the case.
The Stacey meme needs to die. Stacey doesn't exist, because men's expectations are far lower.
already covered most of what needs to be said.
>I don't know where this "all men only go for the top 20% of women"
It's more like top 40%, but most robos on /r9k/ go after girls out of their league if at all.
How do you know?
Because if they went for someone at their level or lower they wouldn't be alone and bitter.
That's the reality of the world.
>Muh dik and muh sperm also count?
If that is the only reason, then its not love.
>They don't love the women, they love the ass/tits/pussy the women can provide for him.
Ha jokes on you guess which gender made most poems about love? Men are not as shallow as women are.
>Because if they went for someone at their level or lower they wouldn't be alone and bitter.
>muh just world
This is the dumbest logic ever and it's already been covered many times.
It's top 20%, if they can't get a Chad, they'll settle for a Brad, if not a Brad, then an average guy.
In a woman's mind they are settling for less. Once Chad is available, they'll run off fast enough to leave you in a cloud of dust. It's called Branch Swinging
Believe it or not, stacies are the robots greatest ally.
It is the duty of a stacy to secure chad for herself only and to do that she knocks the confidence of normalfag women down.
It is only because of this that Robots have even a sliver of a chance.
And it is for this reason that Robots and Stacies should be allies, if only you horny fucks would keep it in your pants we'd be getting a gf but instead you intend to orbit stacies and normie girls, therefore giving the normie girl confidence and undoing stacies hard work.
>Few men on /r9k/ expect anything of a woman that they don't have themselves, besides a vagina
Nope. Most men on /r9k/ are neets, fatasses, ugly, and have no friends.
Sure these aspergers might be ok with a neet gf with no friends, but very few of those girls exist and guys with friends/jobs would still pick them up.
Note there's still the fatass and ugly parts which /r9k/ wouldn't accept.
Did I also mention low IQ, uneducated, ignorant, racist, and sexist?
Because /r9k/ is dying to get with a fat ugly fuck neckbeard ignorant man hating fenazi with no job and nor friends.
>but very few of those girls exist and guys with friends/jobs would still pick them up
Good job, you've finally gotten it through your thick skull.
Now you can go back to being an obnoxious retard somewhere else.
You would be surprised how non-stacies still reject regular guys and dream about the cock carousal.
We are fucked form the beginning and not even 4-5/10 girls are interested in us.
Men will settle easier not because their standards are lower, but because they're horny and desperately need holes available to fuck at all times. If they weren't driven purely by sexual desire they'd wait for a decent partner.
You will not have any good chance to get with a 5/10 female while in her youth. She will only consider you when her beauty starts to fade off.
In the end you will only be able to enjoy used goods.
I don't really look forward to it.
How does that apply to Chad?
How do you stop Chad going after whores?
I already know I just don't want to believe it
However at the very least it will deny the normalwhores Chad right?
>Good job, you've finally gotten it through your thick skull.
Nah. I've been saying that since the beginning.
>Also "chads" aren't the top 1% that gets laid. Those are real A+ and A ranked alpha males. Most guys are B/C ranked and still get laid regularly. If you can't get any it's because you're some F failure omega or not trying hard enough.
Realize your aspergers. You still have time to change.
>700k end of year bonus
Every. Damn. Time.
This will never not be funny.
>even a seemingly innocent girl who's completely not a "Stacy" can turn into an absolute fucking whore if she thinks that she can do better.
what a based post anon.
I just got dumped by the love of my life, my first ever gf, we dated for 5 years, she hated herself on a daily basis, she started work at some cafe, realised she was cute and could do better, started to go to club then dumped me.
I tried hard with a girl for 5 years, she forgot me in 5 seconds.
I'm not trying to redpill you, but never, ever trust a girl a 100% and EVEN MORE if she had a happy and long sexlife before you.
>never, ever trust a girl a 100%
>tfw already didn't
>tfw wondering if I could ever really have an actual relationship if I can't trust her
>tfw my remaining glimmer of trust in women is tied up in some girls I know, who have been in their relationships for years and never cheated (I know all 3 of them very well, and lived with one of them for years)
>tfw if they were to cheat my remaining trust would be shattered
>men have tons of opportunities to get normal women
>can't get any it's because you're some F failure omega or not trying hard enough
You said it yourself roastie. I'm a 5 foor 6, ugly manlet and no matter how hard i try, people laugh at me. Tried lifting and there were women pointing at me and laughing, tried dating sites and every woman stopped talking to me as soon as they learned about my height. I'm fucking invisible if i'm not trying to improve myself and when i do, everyone laughs.
It's not entirely a question of cheating, It's a question of faith and whether she treats you like garbage or not, mine started to treat me like shit while putting all her friends on a fucking pedestal.
What you have to do is open up, but always keep in your mind buried deep, that things can go to shit within seconds, the person you love the most, the girl you respect the most on earth, can turn against you and forget you in a flash. If you aren't prepared it can break your life.
Girls are like this, they play act on a daily basis and whine about being the one that are fucked on relationships, but this can't be more wrong, women aren't loyal, they tell whatever you want to hear but If they think they can do better they'll leave you in ruins, without even regretting it a single second while you cry yourself to sleep asking what you did wrong.
Be careful mate.
You're on /r9k/ anon - remember to use the feel version next time.
Male sexuality doesn't function this way. Men are wired to just take what they can get, women are wired to be hypergamous.
Men want kindness in women above all.
>Also "chads" aren't the top 1% that gets laid.
It's more like the top 20% percent or so.
This isn't even just r9k saying this; Dr Jordan B. Peterson, Professor of Psychology at the University of Toronto admits it himself in this video.
Skip to 58:50 and watch for about 10 minutes.
>fit with good hygiene
>nice and funny
never had a gf and I'd not only be willing, I'd be grateful to have a gf like you described given the sexual market value of guys like myself.
>What you have to do is open up, but always keep in your mind buried deep, that things can go to shit within seconds, the person you love the most, the girl you respect the most on earth, can turn against you and forget you in a flash
But how am I supposed to trust anyone if they can do this? Do I have to always be on my guard?
I don't want to open up and expose myself to being hurt like that
>tfw you almost wish you had never found /r9k/ so you would still trust women
>tfw would be just as likely to get hurt, but without all the worrying about it beforehand
fucking stupid whore i really like to rape you
woman have tons of oportunities to hang out or fuck with other nice guys but they go with chad because chad have a big dick and looks like thor
fuck that bitch i will fucking rape you
and what the fuck is this about ?
where the fuck you think you are you piece of slut ?
this is r9k the place of robots.
we are robots. we dont want a stacie we want just a shy or innocent girl like us . just want someone to rely on .... to talk or we just want a hug .
you dirty prostitute i swear to god that if i have you near i will fucking find you and beat the shit of you. i hate fucking stacies like you
Trust the person you want to the trust, just don't place all your hopes and dreams in her, don't give her the opportunity to ruin you If she abandon you or treat you like shit.
It's a hard balance and I think you'll find it through failure, you'll meet a girl you will love her will all your heart, she will fuck you up so fuckind badly you'll say "never again" bam you're set.
>all these femanon threads
Jesus are the "fembots" trying to overthrow the malebots of /r9k/? Fuck you roasties, you won't ever be robots and you will never conquer this board
I literally have to try alot harder as a manlet and I'm sort of greatful for the challenge, maybe take yourself less seriously, I'm a bit shorter than you too, if you are white I'm going to counter ree.
You don't understand; the case is increasingly that, if you're not naturally hot enough, you have no opportunities to make.
You're just backwards rationalizing and assuming so you can cling to your preconceived notions. There are men you would deem lazy that rake in pussy because they're hot, and men who take all the initiative in the world but don't get anything but shamed as "creepy" because they're unattractive.
The truth hurts: there isn't someone for everyone, and some men are just plain living on easy mode when it comes to getting sex in this hookup culture that women created. Even normies know this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ohbv6haI1aQ
Not to mention, why should a man have to try so hard and so often just to fuck? Like Patrice O'Neal said, "why do I have to be everything just for your pussy?"
Face it, women's standards are just plain too high and their game is shit.
I did love a girl, and then she tried to get back with her ex while we were together. My only relationship ever, and that happened a month and a half into it. You can imagine what that did for my self-esteem.
I have no chances to get gf coming up, and I'm not sure I'd even want to have one, if past experience is any guide for the future.
I'm a fucking asian living in the Netherlands. I am literally going to stay a KHV my entire life. Not even asian women want me.
Elliott was right.
Maybe you should be yourself; seek counselling for the anxiety problem, assuming you have the money for it not much for me to work here with.
This is shit you've heard before though.
>luck doesn't exist
Luck is a major factor from before you're even conceived. Your parentage, DNA, environment growing up, are all beyond your control and left entirely to chance.
I mean come on, this is just blatant bullshit you're spewing to keep yourself comfy.
You're shifting agency from her to him to give her a pussy pass. Let's not pretend otherwise. People, especially the female, don't wear their intentions like a neon sign.
Even women admit this.
What you need to understand OP is that Stacy wants Chad, meaning all women want Chad because all women are either
2. Failed Stacy
There's no in between. Any girl who isnt a Stacy, is only so because she isnt attractive enough to be one. They will all jump at the chance to be a Stacy; get attention, fuck hot guys however, and that chance is simply guaranteed to be given to anything with a vagina. This is what we mean when we say
>the case is increasingly that, if you're not naturally hot enough, you have no opportunities to make
Yet tons of ugly ass men with women except you
Maybe it's only " you have no opportunities to make"
Oh, when I'm on point I get mine, son.
But "tons" of ugly guys? Far from it. Of course, money and status contribute to your "hotness" but I guess this concept is beyond you. Even then, it still goes to show you have to be everything just for pussy.
Let me know when you have cogent points to make with solid facts and not self assuaging smart ass cumshitterspeak.
I wouldn't get raped by a tentacle monster either, but I still jack off to it. Porn is porn, dating is dating.
I doubt i'm in the minority on /r9k/ when I say I prefer weirdos and autistic girls to Stacys.
No, not "lmop I bought this horse mask i'm so quirky Xd" or "just chilln at home in my snuggy with my dog and bingin on netflix, like if u do 2" types either.
I mean full blow autist.
The "won't look you in the eyes until the third date, excessively apologizes because she thinks people can't tolerate her opinions and hate her for them, can't leave the house for more than an hour a day without almost having a panic attack" type of girl.
The sort of girl who spends hours a day pacing and imagining social situations and how she'd react to X.
The kind of girl with a 14GB folder of images of her favorite anime character, as well as posters, figures, and a dakimakura with a dildo sewn onto it.
Physical attributes rarely factor into it.
This is generally the opposite with women. She can look over any negative if you're hot enough.
Inb4 my descriptions aren't autistic enough, i'm not good at these sort of things please no bully kyohai.
>explaining how you're wrong=butthurt
That's not even a rebuttal smhtbhfam
>explaining how you're not butthurt = butt hurt
You haven't been serious one single time ITT have you?
> Tfw with my body type and salary I could be Chad in Mexico
Maybe I was wrong and I should have phrased it better. Porn is sexual, and when it comes to porn it's fetishes above women. If I date a girl, it's not going to bother me if her eyes don't roll into the back of her head the second I put my dick in, or if she doesn't squirt when I fuck her in the ass. The point i'm ineloquently trying to make, is that I value personality over physical attributes. I speak for myself though. I'm also not a saint, so if you say "but what if she looked like the hulk with overcooked bacon for pussylips" it's not going to be good. I can see past some ugliness, being overweight, or some physical deformations though.
To answer your question though, no. That's asking for trouble.
>I don't know where this "all men only go for the top 20% of women" idea came from
But they do, they want a young, thin woman with at least average face, and that's basically the top 20%.
>If you can't get any it's because you're some F failure omega
That is why and most of R9k admits it. The rest are just in denial.
> or not trying hard enough.
Fuck off. That's the only part I take issue with. Blaming some guy for not banging his head against the wall hard enough is fucking stupid.
>No. Average guy probably tries with 100+ girls then meets up to 10 and maybe 1 will fuck him.
This is also why r9k are virgins, they don't waste time and gas and money to meet 10 women just so they can fuck for 20 minutes.