People that don't want children are very interesting to me. In some way they are broken or mentally deficient.
>In some way they are broken or mentally deficient
Nah... Just selfish.
>but why waste time and money to put up with the misery of a screaming shit machine?
To make sure you will never be a lonely faggot.
Also, parenting is not just hard work. It is also lots of fun and love, and - if successful - hugely satisfying.
Same reason I don't what a faggoty pet dog. Real freedom.
There's no way to have a kid these days without participating in some way, at the very least paying child support. It's not worth blowing a ton of money on a kid I don't care about.
Why would I want kids?
I'm ugly, short, and also might be balding. Why would I have a kid? I wouldn't want him to go through the same shit I did and suffer, that's selfish as fuck.
And also fuck living a normal life, fuck that shit man, fuck having to get a wife, a good job, a house and having to settle down and live a life millions have lived before me and will live when I'm gone.
I'd love to have children provided I have something worth passing onto them. The other major problem that hinders my having children is the fact that finding a worthwhile woman is incredibly difficult, though that's a bridge I'll cross when I unfuck my life.
I want to impregnate a shy shut in girl and have like a dozen kids is that too much to ask, god?
I don't want children, senpai.
They're annoying and frustrating, a money drain, time drain, will take up a good 20 years of your life, it will be hell for the first ~6, there's only a window of a few years where they will enjoy your company, they'll have to go through life lessons while being stubborn little shits like every other teenager that ever existed.
Why would I do this for the sake of 'love' or the likes?
Having children makes no sense. If you want a family adopt an 8 year old or something.
>advocates being an absentee parent (and child support cuck if male)
>talks shit about anyone else being broken or mentally deficient
I should use 1/4 of my life to raise a little shit like I was? Going through the same motions as most people with children?
I'd rather study during those years and have an overall contribution to people however small.
Only way I'd ever have a kid is through adoption of a kid around his/her teens, and only if I'm well off financially so they have a proper shot at life.
It's cruel to bring a life willingly into the struggle.
Actually if you're reasoning this way you're less self centered than a large portion of people who have kids. Think about how people selfish, lazy, unempathetic, impatient people look at themselves in the mirror and STILL think they need to make more of themselves.
I know this place fosters autistic opinions but having kids is just as pointless as any other reason people choose to life for.
Enjoy yourself, try to fuck a women from every country, do drugs, have hobbies and things you are really good at. If you have a decent job you might even be able to contribute to society in some way. Go to faraway places and do crazy shit, spend money on expensive cars and guitars and houses (if you can make that much money). Most men who are married with children are jealous on some level of a successful bachelor who is enjoying life, paternal instincts delude many more. Kids are altogether too restricting and time consuming.
People have kids because they have nothing better to do with their life/time, just like their parents before them.
Also because it's what everyone else does, and it's human nature, if not the nature of all living beings.
And finally because they're miserable bastards who aren't loved by anyone, so they just make more people who will love them.
I would rather spend my time taking care of myself, experiencing life for myself and spend my money on traveling the world.
Perhaps if I still have nothing better to do at 40 I will spend the second half of my life raising children but it really depends.
We aren't broken.
With today's information freely spread, any woman can see how having a child affects a woman.
There are thousands of posts showing men anonymously complaining about their wives bodies and vaginas after children, how they don't desire her anymore, despite the fact that she sacrificed her youthful beauty and tightness for his genetic offspring.
There are thousands of posts and photos from women and doctors talking about the horrors of childbirth and its effects. Episiotomies, incontinence, deflated breasts, stretch marks, sagging skin, anal tears, vaginal prolapse, and even death.
Parents who sacrifice all their time, money, and energy on a child who may grow up to be a useless NEET or a serial killer.
Not to mention the world is fairly overpopulated. And the environment suffers for it.
So no, I don't think I'm broken for not wanting to ruin my body for a man who could up and leave any time he wants.
A true Chad has multiple children with multiple women and has a bunch of beta faggots raise them for him. So Then he has propagated his genes, and has lived life to the fullest. This is my only goal in life
im from toronto canada. i dont want kids either but theres so many fucking shitskins coming here and white is becoming a minority so i feel obligated to have children to contribute to the white superior race. imagine a world where whites arent in charge. scary shit man.
all you edgy zxXSephirothXxz celibates trigger the fuck out of me
this post is an example of how a smart person can use their intelligence to rationalize something dumbfuck stupid
>the world is fairly overpopulated. And the environment suffers for it.
How do you face the fact that you've chosen to be a genetic dead end? There's been a long unbroken line of mothers/grandmothers etc to get to you and now you've chosen to end that line. Personally I feel sad when I think about it so I'm still on the fence about having kids.
Whats the point of having them? Id rather have fun my whole life, I really don't give a fuck about humanity. I just want to continue with my escapism, whatever happens after I die is not of my concern.
My brother has already had a child. I wouldn't carry on my fathers last name or anything.
My family would love it if I had children but they understand that I don't want to, and would rather I not have a child if it would be unwanted. I also think it's somewhat narcissistic to assume the world will be so much worse off just because you don't procreate.
>I also think it's somewhat narcissistic to assume the world will be so much worse off just because you don't procreate.
Yeah this is true.It won't make a bit of difference whichever decision you make. It's just a personal decision.