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Posted in several threads last night talking about possibly breaking up with my gf next weekend.
She called me tonight and started saying our relationship was tough. I decide now's the perfect time. I say "That's funny I've been thinking about breaking up with you all weekend". She gets a little defensive and bitchy. We share what we're feeling. We end up saying that we love each other and we'll take some time to assess our relationship. Something really good came out of it in that she finally admitted she has a lot of emotional baggage and if she didn't she would be perfectly happy to be with me. I never thought she'd be strong enough to admit that to me or herself, that it's primarily her fault the relationship is tough. I know I'm biased, but I'm a perfect bf, alpha enough to get shit done and take charge, beta enough to understand and care deeply for her. So it was cool to hear her say she recognizes that I'm pretty much exactly what she would want in a husband, she's just dealing with a lot of shit from some trauma that happened in her past and left her kinda numb.
>Don't know if I have a gf or not
>In love with this girl
>Really want it to work
>Probably won't because she's not in a good spot mentally for a relationship
>I'll always love her regardless of how this plays out
Sorry guys. I don't mean to steal this board from the neet/khv robots. But are my feels any less than yours just because I have kissed a woman before? Do we not all feel loneliness? Do we not all feel despair? You guys have helped me in so many dark times.
Please r9k. I just want to talk to someone.