>>25660801 >>25660802 He left me in February of 2015. His reasons were vague - it was out of nowhere, too. I thought we were doing great, up until the moment he called to tell me it was over. Just a few days before, he had called me, told me that he was planning on buying a one-way ticket so that I could move in with him, and leave behind life here.
I still miss him, everyday. He doesn't want me back - he hates me. I tried to contact him a number of times, afterwards. Told me to fuck off, eventually told me he'd file a restraining order if I tried to talk to him again.
>>25661068 I can think of a few things. However, they seem so little and petty to me, that I struggle to wonder how they could have prompted him to leave me so suddenly and from out-of-nowhere. Even when he left, he said many - sometimes differing and conflicting - things. I don't remember much detail, either, because I had a nervous breakdown. I just remember crying and begging him not to leave me.
Why can't I get over him? It's odd: in a way, I don't want to get over him.
>>25661147 Well I don't have much experience with love as I am a kissless virgin, but I imagine the pain your going through is pretty bad. This is just part of your journey though. I like to believe in fate and destiny and maybe in the book that is your life it is written that this is merely an obstacle for you, and because you encountered heartbreak it led you to finding another special someone who you spend the rest of your days with. I bet your thinking that he was the one that it would be with but clearly if he left you with stupid reasons and that quickly he was thinking of leaving you for a while or was cheating on you. Either way don't let Iit get you down that much, we are all lonely souls here that share your pain.
>>25661658 as someone who has been used up and toss aside by people, no you really don't, because you end up feeling like it was all lies and they never really cared about you and just used you, not to mention the constant nightmares and crying all day about them on top of the loneliness
>>25661658 >I would rather have a bf for a few months only to have him ditch me than to be lonely for the rest of my life
It's a really fucking terrible feeling, and it's better to never have felt it at all, because you don't know what you're missing. The only reason it hurts so badly is because you know what you are missing - you know it full well, but realize you can never have it again, even after it was all in your grasp. Whereas someone who has never felt it... they feel a general sense of want, but nothing specific, seeing as it is something they have never experienced.
I'm sorry, Robot. But you're better off as you are, than being dumped after something as intense or emotional
>>25661505 >Be me >Horny 15 y/o freshman >Approached by really hot upperclassman >Engages in conversation, we date and shit >We casually hang out for months >Think I'm in love b/c gay teenage feelings >One day she just stops talking to me out of the blue >I start to worry, weeks pass by >I walk to her house, only to find her fucking some big older dude >"What the fuck anon? Get the fuck outta here!" >I lock eyes with him, he gets out of the bed to presumabley kick my ass >I run outside to see it started raining >He catches up, my frail body falls to the ground >Grabs me by the hair and smashes my face in mud >Left there in a puddle of blood and tears >Tfw my only purpose was to boost her confidence Aand thats when I gave up on women. Anyway, don't worry anon, it hits like a tidal wave at first but it gets better. You'll find someone else.
As pathetic as it sounds, I'm still waiting for him to come back. I know it's stupid, and that he never will. But I sent him an email in early November. Every few days, I check the account, to see if he has replied. And every day, I'm greeted by an empty inbox. I know I'm never going to see that (1) appear on the window.
The sight of that empty G-mail box makes me want to cry. It's going to stay empty forever because he'll never answer back.
>>25660604 >found out on Christmas Eve 2014 bf since high school was trying to fuck random women on POF >met up with someone 10 years older with three kids >still hate his guts >still has all his stuff in boxes under my desk >mfw can't let go of them
I don't know why this is happening. I'm looking to date another guy but I can't let go of his stuff. I haven't looked in the boxes since then, but I can't get myself to throw it all away. Picture frames, prom and graduation pictures, crafts, dried daisy from our 1 month anniversary...etc.
Fuck I still wear his baggy sweatpants too. Whyyyy
>break up with gf >have very hard time getting over her >"get over her" like 5 times >thoughts get back every time >they start fading away a bit >start dating total cutie that I want to marry >still kind of love my ex >read this read hoping she posted >she hasn't
>>25664467 Do molly, you will dance and you will learn to like it. But if it's really not your cup of tea then thats okay :) >>25664545 Goabase dot net Watch for one to pop up near you, you will not be dissapointed I promise. >>25664586 Yea well maybe I'm a normie idrk anymore
>>25664545 >>25664624 >tfw not fat, just out of shape so i sweat easily >tfw a rave is literally like a sauna to me It's hard to feel attractive enough to hit on girls when my hair is all matted to my forehead and such. I'd definitely be afraid to try Molly because of that, I feel like I'd be at an even higher risk than the average person of dying from dehydration on it.
>>25664691 As a relatively fit guy I can tell you at something like that you are left dripping with sweat regardless of drug intake. The girls are sweating too you just can't tell because you're sweating just as much. They're there for the same reason you are, to have fun and potentially fuck if someone is cool to them (And there's always sluts that all you have to do is dance on them with a boner and act tough. like everywhere in life)It's honestly part of the experience. If the entire place doesn't smell like manure by the end of it, it wasn't going hard enough
>had almost-bf years ago >was making plans to meet up with him, would have payed for all his stuff and everything >found out he'd been getting intimate with a couple other people >broke it off. fucked me up for a good while >every once in a while he tries to contact me >found out through friends he went slutty trapmode, in and out of relationships monthly >years later come across his blog >he's whining about how nobody loves him fuck you, dave.
>>25664624 >Goabase dot net >Watch for one to pop up near you, you will not be dissapointed I promise. No, I mean, there literally aren't any. I live in fucking Sweden. I'd have to fly to Germany or the Netherlands or similar.
>>25665041 when we were together he wasn't so mean to me. afterwards he would taunt me about how he never cared or how he was doing so much better. this was usually followed by an "I miss you." text or a friend request.
i'm better at knowing how to be a good person. it's very hard and i'm not very good at it, so i've just become more quiet and reserved instead
>>25661147 Lurking normie here, I've been in his situation before. You try to get out of the relationship tonnes of times, especially while drunk, but you feel bad about how you handled the situation and apologise and grovel.
The problem isn't one thing, but tonnes of little things that stack up. My girl it was things like > much less attractive than me > dumber than some cats and dogs I've met > vegetarian > ALWAYS late > ALWAYS getting lost > got in 4 or 6 car accidents a year
In the end none of those individual reasons are worth breaking up for, but if you've dated someone for almost two years and you haven't said I love you, it's time to pull the pin.
>>25665490 i was emotionally abusive. had a little temper. got angry over dumb things. i've always had severe depression. at times suicidal. i was so happy to have someone close to me like he was that i dumped a lot of heavy shit on him. i tried to help him back, but i was bad.
>your bf constantly berates you, goes out of his way to call you stupid, and ignores you when you try to talk >if you bring any of this up or do the same to you he immediately gets emotional and tells you it's because he's depressed so it's ok >he prefers it when you don't speak at all and just agree with him when he's talking
>>25666055 Oh man, you're young as fuck. You've got plenty of time to change that kinda shit, dude. Most of us were either cringey as fuck, hypocritical or immature as fuck at that age. You're still growing, and you can still shape how you grow. Or some gay shit like that.
>>25666199 i hope i can, anon. i'm slipping into long-term NEET status. i'm finally getting sleepy. thanks for talking to me, i was having a bad night. if you wanna talk more tomorrow, i believe this same thread is up on /lgbt/. goodnight anon
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