I can understand pic related type women having high standards and only wanting to date celebs, sportsmen, rich entreprenuers, royalty, heirs to fortunes
But why the fuck would a woman her in looks have the same standards. Can one of the out of shape fat women who post on here help me understand the thinking here?
A tall handsome wealthy popular guy brings his money, status , looks and connections to the table and what he gets is an out of shape chubby or even fat women who might have a kid and works at a call centre?
Whats the thinking here? Can't be serious.
I knew this one rather bland looking chick who was rude as fuck but always dated better looking guys. I once got to talk to one of her exes and apparently she gave the best head ever. Men are simple like that, it seems.
I'm a 200+ pound 5'7 woman in her 20's who doesn't into standards because I have no chance. The most romantic thing a guy ever told me was "not even snot would fuck you" in front of my whole class and I've never been hit or or hit on someone so your "all ugly/fat women" approach is wrong. I just don't like generalizations, mon.
You have no standards because you don't put yourself out. Create an Okcupid profile or similar like that. I guarantee you, there'll be at least 10 guys (maybe out of 1000, but who cares?) who'd fuck you and at least a few who'd date you.
I don't really understand people with high standards like the ones you listed because it seems unlikely and unreasonable, but I do understand the idea of not settling.
For context, I'm a 5/10 at best. Being female, I don't experience the kind of thirst that males do. Because I'm not in it for the sex, it's not worth my time and energy to be in a relationship that isn't fantastic. So I don't settle.
I've thought long about it and I decided a while ago that I wouldn't put myself out there until I stopped being a cow , so I lost 50+ lbs so far but I got another 80 to go until I'll be skinny and then I'll start learning to put some make-up on. I simply cannot go on a date when I'm a planet.
you honestly think robots wouldn't settle if given the chance?
you are quite the fool, you need only see how they bombard every post that gives even the slightest hint at being female to know that they'd take what they could get.
I rejected two guys because I was my fattest back then and they wanted to meet so I cut off contact. Funny thing is one of them dated a chick much fatter than me and after they broke up he told me how he hated how fat she was. So i sort of dodged a bullet there. I never rejected any guy because of standards, only because I wasn't good looking enough for them and it would've been a waste of time.
It doesn't matter if you're fat
robot's don't lie when they say females can't be robots
because women have always been hedonistic, not matter how beautiful they are.
and most women are average, this is where you find the most slags, or rather, the best women who embrace their nature, because the average woman is bombarded by average men and chads as soon as puberty, because these men think that she is affordable. of course, a girl being a girl, she never refuses to spread her legs before chads, but is always more reluctant before average men, especially if she fears that chads treat her of slags.
reminder that any girl despise ugly and/or poor men, in general, any man from which she does not expect to have pleasure.
also, women look at other women: it means that Women Objectify Themselves. women compete between themselves, in the sense that if a woman sees another hooker with a man, she knows that this man has been accepted as viable by this woman. if a man can please a woman, he can please another one.
the point is that even average women think that they deserve to have all the pleasures of being beautiful and they lust naturally towards men who are willing to satisfy them AND from which they expect satisfaction.
Fuck off roastie. You're full of shit. If i was you i could find a guy to take me on a date in less than 1 hour
Relationships with men are a waste of time in general.
I am somewhere in 5-6/10 range, which sucks since I lose to any qt girl no matter what.
What does it matter that I can find a man that will be okay with dating me? I'd rather be alone than with somebody who settles for me- since settling goes both ways, and I am sure as hell nobody's ideal.
We could be years after marriage with good family-life and children and for what? A second 10/10 girl would make a move, 90% of men who settled would leave their wives in heartbeat.
It's just not worth it in my opinion.
Not really , I don't want to look like those hamplanets that try hard to sort a small issue when the bigger issue is more important. I look really fucking bad even with make-up cause my face is so round with all this fat on it.
you know people cheated for thousands of years?
In my opnion, for married women the worst thing is that when they should feel most secure in marriage (stability of 10+ marriage, being 30-40years old) is when they are more likely to be cheated on.
Men will often leave them to be with younger (and unmarried so your argument about keeping stacies in marriage doesn't work there) women.
majority probably would. Although I would argue that women value different traits than men and those traits don't decrease with time (looks)
>In my opnion, for married women the worst thing is that when they should feel most secure in marriage (stability of 10+ marriage, being 30-40years old) is when they are more likely to be cheated on.
careful, your under-aged shows too much. but I am sure that a 20 yo like you know a lot about women.
It's not about having the same standards. It's about the fact that you cant force yourself to love or be attracted to someone.
If people could just fall in love with anyone without making themselves miserable them they would. But unlike men, women don't see an extreme value in sex (something they can get anywhere of any value and something that sullies them) as any indicator for a stable relationship.
Remember. Sex only feels good for a moment. After that the disgust sets in.
You honestly wouldn't want to be with an ugly woman. You say you would be robots would be miserable too.
What's worse is that if a good looking guy hasn't got any in a while or has blue balls he will fuck a fatty for one night.
Ugly girls would rather wait for that one night every 6 months than be in a steady relationship with someone closer to themselves in looks.
you have to understand how the male sex drive works and how biology works.
sight is basically the number one sense, what we're using to find women, we're not smelling around for them and we're not listening for them.
if sex wasn't driving us, we wouldn't be compelled to talk to you. you have to take the fork but use it as a spoon as well.
yes, we want to have sex with you, but that isn't the important part, that's just the will that gets us through the door.
without sex drive, i can't see men talking to women at all, lol and vice versa.
thats just how life works, majority of women who had been cheated on (and I know quite a few) had it happen to them when they partners got bored with them or had a chance with younger girl.
what it has to do with what I've said?
>All these tall, ripped guys with huge dicks asking if they're good enough for her
This is exactly why the dating market is fucked up.
Don't blame the women, blame all the stupid motherfuckers who date way down because they think it will be easier.
its a biologial need for women to want the alpha. We are not alpha's so we take what we get with knowedge that we are beta's and that if an alpha comes along we are fucked. dick is a limitless resource for women, whereas pussy is a rare and treasured find for most of the beta fucks here.
You don't wish for a hundred dollars, you wish for a billion kind of thing.
we want the best, hold out for the best. because we are greedy, we want it all or nothing and society tells us that THAT is how we should live.
you said something about men's interest being tied to visuals, i explained why they're tied to visuals. we also used our eyes to hunt.
it has everything to do with your pessimistic, "omg guys only want to fuggg me" attitude, every woman has it.
i think they just checked out of biology, they're literally frustrated at nature.
yeah but if we are going to go with men's biological nature there is really no reason to go into realtionships with them. Men aren't naturally monogamistic and they will always have drive for younger and better looking women.
Why even bother?
it was just one explanation, it's not "what we're going with".
you're too apt to jump to conclusion and too narrow minded to spite it.
if you want to give up on men, give up, nothing is stopping you, plenty have given up on women here, you're not unique for it.
women do the same shit but in reverse, it's called hypergamy. you trying to point the finger or something?? lol thats a joke.
I don't really care about women but I don't doubt hypergamy is a real thing.
I don't see biological reasoning as "one explanation", since for for me it is pretty much "the explanation" or at least a base for all other theories.
Relationships with women are a waste of time in general.
I am somewhere in 5-6/10 range, which sucks since I lose to any remotely chad-looking guy no matter what.
What does it matter that I can find a woman that will be okay with dating me? I'd rather be alone than with somebody who settles for me- since settling goes both ways, and I am sure as hell nobody's ideal.
We could be years after marriage with good family-life and children and for what? A second 10/10 chad would make a move, 90% of women who settled would leave their husband in heartbeat.
It's just not worth it in my opinion.
>ithout sex drive, i can't see men talking to women at all
>I'm retarded and I believe that if someone is standing next to you at a similar event you would just ignore them and be completely asocial.
It's highly inappropriate to talk to someone only for sex reasons in non-hookup settings.
If you're in a college class and you won't talk to the females in the class for any reason, that's willfully barring yourself from knowledge and if she were to be very knowledgable on the subject but you didn't know without asking just setting yourself up for failure.
Nobody forces you to be friends with anyone. But not socializing with an entire gender? You've got to be retarded.
Because what's the point in settling for a shit-tier fatass NEET if he's going to cuck you all the same? Fat people are insufferable and difficult to be around. They show no discipline and eat nonstop and desu it's revolting.
You should never let yourself get in the friendzone to begin with, if she's not interested, and you are, don't waste time on her.