reason #1 Because women can't be truely foreveralone blah blah blah.... reason #2 girls who overuse tumblr usually tend to have the same sense of humor as "t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m!!!!!!!!", are yaoi fangirls and like tumblr-tier shows/animes like FAS-sherlock and Kill la Kill reason #3 tumblr overusing girls are usually full of red flags reason #4 I'm an overweight neckbeard who can barely order at a McDonalds
Male loneliness = Being basically impossible to ever find a gf/wide because of being under the threshold of which girls find attractive. (girls get hit on all the time and constantly have men at their disposal. All of them.)
Female "loneliness": Getting fucker by Chad at the party then realizing you're his 23rd fuck in the month and he doesn't want to commit to you.
>>25623537 Maybe you shouldn't use degenerate fucking hookup culture apps to find "love" then you fucking retard. That shit is promiscuous in its very nature, no genuine conservative man would lower himself to that level of subhumanity.
I understand that there's a limited amount of homos and you need to do that, but you should NEVER find a straight man from a fucking dating app.
>>25623427 That's because grinrd is the gay tinder and nobody uses tinder for a gf or a bf, it's just for quick sex or people who wants to cheat. Why don't you get into some activity gays enjoy, like costure or dancing? I have a gay friend who found his bf while sewing clothes in some kind of club.
>>25623303 I get hit on like once every two years, and it's always guys who are "under the threshold". You know what the problem with those guys is? Substance abuse, domestic violence, sexism, ex-convict, debilitating mental illness, domineering entitled attitude, low intelligence, poor social skills, abrasive personality, no decent job, education, life skills or other prospects for a healthy happy life. All of these problems are statistically more common among men than women.
There are a whole lot of average, ordinary girls without massive defects that make them impossible to live with, who don't have male counterparts. They have to either be with a guy who makes their life worse, or be alone.
>been on 4chan for about 5 years >made a tumblr about 3 years ago >post about my favorite niche jrpg >there are other fans of said jrpg >they're almost all female, a good 5:1 female/male ratio >become friends with said females >become friends with their friends >know all these lonely internet girls >surprisingly not ALL hambeasts >met up with 4 of them now, will likely make it 5 before classes start again It's a time investment, but a worthy one, so long as you're into something relatively popular, it's impossible not to find girls with similar interests.
>>25624491 You bet how much? Because you can send it to my paypal.
Yeah, I can sometimes tell that a guy who is hitting on me is being fake and disingenuous and manipulative. I don't stick around such people, they ruin my day. I DO deserve better than someone like that. I DO deserve better than someone who makes my life worse. Being alone is better than that, and I'm sure even you won't dispute that I fully deserve to be alone if I wish to.
>>25624642 It was ironic you dumb fucking swine. Women reject men all the time on grounds of being too "boring" or being a "nice guy" (I.e. not being a fucking aggressive Chad) and you wonder why all the guys that you end up with are druggies or some shit like that.
At the end of the day, Chad fucked you at that one party when you were 17, and now you feel like that's what you deserve.
>>25624761 You just keep coming up with more shit that has no relation to reality. If you're so interested in the details of my life and personal history, why don't you ASK me what they are? Because we can play the guessing game an awfully long time before you get it even remotely right.
Yes, I do reject guys if I find them boring. I've never ended up with a druggie, I'm complaining that the quality of available men is substandard as too many of them have massive flaws, such as being a druggie.
>>25624784 I'm aware that women are abusive. My own mother was. It's just more common that men are abusive than women, and if we assume (big if) that all the shitheads and druggies end up with each other, that leaves a bunch of decent girls unable to be paired with a decent guy.
>Then I am not allowed to have an opinion on the subject. Therefore you lose by virtue of starting a meaningless debate. I lose by stating a fact about a common experience shared by many women, and that means I've "lost" because your experience doesn't trump ours? You've learned awfully weird rules for having a conversation.
>>25623009 I don't want to date fat people. Fat people are disgusting especially personality-wise. Plus if I was given the option to permanently wipe out a group of people from humanity permanently I would not hesitate for one second to pick sjw like tumblr users are.
>>25624966 >most guys here >implying 2016 /r9k/ isn't full of tumblr tards and normalniggers Anyway, here's some OC
I made a fake facebook account with some images I stole from some random myspace girl a couple years ago. With only a few friends and barely any activity I've received friend requests and messages from random guys just completely out of the blue.
Most of these guys aren't desirable but... men will go out of their way to give everything to women they don't even know and I've never had any female attention ever
>>25624906 The problem isn't men, the problem is you and other women. You have impossibly high standards and a fantasy of some supermodel making 100k+ a year pursuing you and wanting to settle down. The majority of men are "boring" to you since they don't want to do disgusting things like go to parties or clubs and other decadent shit. There are much more alone men in their 20s than women, and that's because women get the perfect man pumped into their head and refuse to accept any other, while men in their 20s are desperately trying to keep up with this by working their ass off, going to the gym, constantly trying to "improve" themselves when it will never work.
And lo and behold, the man that didn't "bore" you was that drug dealer that fucked you, then later you realize you were used like a piece of meat and go BOO HOO ALL MEN ARE SHIT while simultaneously rejecting decent men on grounds of being "boring."
>>25624966 No, that is not a point. It's as if we're both starving to death, and you tell me I don't have a problem because I have horse shit and can eat that. You're making the whole conversation absurd from my perspective.
It's disingenous of you. It makes me think you want me to be miserable, and you can't even pretend you don't for long enough to argue from a position that recognizes my interests as valid. So essentially, you want me to be miserable, and that's all you have to say.
>you: women have it so easy, they never have to be alone, they can always get man, many men can't get women >me: but being with a bad man is worse than being alone, and often bad men are all that's available so women end up exactly where you are >you: but we'd love it if you were even more miserable than you are when you're alone >you: women have it so easy, they never have to be alone
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>why haven't you found yourself a forever alone bitch from tumblr? Females can't be forever alone. Tumblr is full of obese people which are gross. I bet the average user there weighs three times as much as me.
>>25625234 I'm not saying everyone I run into are assholes. I get along with people in general pretty well. It's just the single guys I could have a shot with I generally don't think much of, and I even get along with some of them fine. Some people who can't keep a job because of their drug habit, or with mental illness that makes them unpredicatable are kind, polite and absolutely sweet, compassionate people. I'm still not going to date them.
>>25625184 Everyone "deserves", ie. has an indisputable right to decide whether they want to be alone or not. If I want to be left alone, I deserve not to be forced to marry/whatever.
>>25625300 >You have impossibly high standards >And lo and behold, the man that didn't "bore" you was that drug dealer that fucked you Did you read my post at all? Can you read?
>>25625415 Where did I say that? What men want varies. I know many men who want relationships, and who don't want casual sex. What women want varies. I know many women who enjoy casual dating far too much to settle down with anyone. I myself have given up dating, and casually fuck men and don't really have standards there apart from respectfulness. The horse shit is analogous to a relationship with a man who makes my life worse, not to casual sex if that's what you thought.
>>25625721 I understand that they're bitter and I feel very sorry for most of them. I can't imagine how awful it would be to have whatever horrible character traits that make them so unfuckable.
What I don't get is, how is their situation helped in any way by denying women's experiences and minimizing their problems? Why do they do that? Out of simple pettiness, being mean because they're mad at women? Why not just call us whores like you usually do and be done with it?
>>25625743 tags. search tags for shit either you're interested or girls like in general. You're bound to find blogs, and you can snoop them and see if they're girls.
>>25625799 well, you got a blog, and followers and people whose blogs you follow. Your front page consists of all the posts made on all the blogs you follow, and if someone follows you, all the content on YOUR blog is on THEIR tumblr front page.
So if you, say, only follow three blogs, one of which posts kittens, another one posts the same image of Steve Buscemi every day, and a third one posts pictures of black chicks topless, your dash is going to consist 100% of kitties, titties and Steve Buscemi.
But most blogs are more varied, so you can really fine-tune what YOU like to see and share. And post your own content, if you like.
>>25625986 I'm not asking for sympathy, I'm asking to be treated like a human being. You know, not being told how I'm wrong about how I experience what happens to me. Or not really even a human being. They wouldn't tell a dog it's not hurting when it's hurting.
They could just say nothing and that would be fine.
>>25626601 Letting them shit on me makes me feel a lot worse than speaking out. I see no reason why being in pain should exempt them from basic decency.
>What they need is for someone to love them, perhaps they first need to love themselves or whatever. It doesn't really matter. That's exactly the thing though. What they need to do is to stop being such horrible people, whose instinct upon feeling pain is to inflict it on someone else.
>>25626735 Basic decency applies everywhere. It's not some facade we're forced to hold up so other people won't punish us for being assholes. Basic decency is a character trait, and they need to be reminded to learn it.
>>25625823 My question as someone reading this fucking dumb-ass discussion is simply, why are you here? Do you know where you are? This place is like misogyny central, the anti-tumblr, the place that enshrines Elliot Rodger, a killer who had a raging vendetta against all women. Maybe /r9k/ isn't for you
I haven't blamed anyone for not having found a man, I'm simply saying that there aren't enough good ones to go around. That problem is just going to fall on some other woman if I happen to get lucky. It will inevitably happen to a lot of women, and it's not their fault. There's nothing anyone could possibly do about it.
I said I spoke out to make myself feel better. That's hardly the same as asking others to make me feel better.
>>25626794 >Basic decency is a character trait, and they need to be reminded to learn it. >. I can't imagine how awful it would be to have whatever horrible character traits that make them so unfuckable
are you really somebody qualified to dictate about basic decency?
Even though I have met another girl who finds me attractive and is totally into me and is beautiful and cool... It makes me sad that cat doesn't want to fuck me. She's so beautiful, but I guess that means that she doesn't think enough of me to want to fuck. This is the first girl I've asked out in a while and while I tried not to care, I built up too much hope. I hope I'm handsome and one day I can make love to a girl that's so gorgeous in the way cat is. >mfw she turned around and walked into her room and obese her tight leggings and tall skinny body from the back Guuuhhhnnnngggg
>>25627025 Taking abuse from other people because that leads to less conflict overall is a standard of niceness people can't and shouldn't be held to. You're talking about feeling good as if it was something frivolous. Self respect and dignity are not frivolous. I have a right to them. If asserting that right is not nice, then I don't want to be nice.
>>25625642 >I myself have given up dating, and casually fuck men and don't really have standards there apart from respectfulness. And you wonder why men don't treat you like a human being. Also >women's tastes >varying Kek they all want the same shit in the end, they want the fun that women project onto the 'bad boy' archetype and the stability provided by older men. You all want the same shit and pretend to have unique tastes in order to keep men on their hamster wheels running
>>25623208 Tumblr girls would have these reasons to support your response to OP
>reason #1 guys who overuse /r9k/ usually tend to have the same sense of humor, like "reeee, kill all roasties. beta uprising when?", are futunari and trap lovers and like robot-tier animes like welcome to the NHK >reason #2 /r9k/ overusing guys are usually full of red flags >reason #3 I'm an overweight feminist who can barely order at a McDonalds
>>25627179 I brought blanket abuse directed toward all women in my situation on myself by... being born a woman? Ending up in this situation? Trust me, I tried very hard to avoid this. I don't think I can be blamed. I'd even prefer to be a guy.
>>25627195 I'm glad you're coming around, but you don't have to die. Admitting you were wrong, repenting and becoming a nice person would be preferable.
>>25627292 >And you wonder why men don't treat you like a human being. But you would have done the same anyway. You did it before you knew. >they want the fun that women project onto the 'bad boy' archetype and the stability provided by older men. I find older men super gross, like literally pukeworthy, and I've never fucked a man who could be described as even remotely 'bad'. >You all want the same shit and pretend to have unique tastes in order to keep men on their hamster wheels running From my perspective it looks remarkably like I'm just saying what I actually like, but okay. Perhaps I really do like the opposite, and there are elaborate rationalizations going on I'm not aware of. They convince me though, and I'll keep fucking the guys I think I want to fuck and avoiding the guys I think I wouldn't fuck with a borrowed dick.
>>25627532 >Admitting you were wrong, repenting and becoming a nice person would be preferable. Nah kill me, plus a "nice person", a "better person" are platitudes meant to keep me running around in circles
>>25624423 Out of curiosity, whereabouts do you live which is supposedly infested with druggies and mental problems?
Sounds exactly like me where my town has basically no soul, but instead lower-class degeneracy, drugs and the occasional thuggery. I'm quite probably the odd one out as I've never consumed a milligram of alcohol or smoked a gram of any substance whatsoever.
>>25627653 Oh the drug addicts are not all that common, especially not among the people I meet. There's just more men among them than women so on balance, that's a problem.
I live in a pretty nice place actually, North Europe, with not that many problems. I see plenty of guys every day who are too good for me. Bad social skills (I don't mean shyness or awkwardness, I mean the kind that makes you unable to have an at least somewhat happy relationship), sexism and mean personality are probably the three problems that limit the pool of generally acceptable guys the most. For me personally intelligence is another factor, I acknowledge my standards there are pretty high.
>>25627841 Well, imparting wisdom and coaching personal growth are not exact sciences. I can be and often am very helpful if I have the relevant skills.
>>25628191 Yeah, my standards are pretty high too. Social media faggotry and partygoers all over the place. I feel like I'm too good for a lot of people in this town - I was pretty academic in school, never gave two fucks about sport. Came from a travelling background with a good family and I've got a good grip on social issues, politics and things that affect the world stage entirely. History is interesting too.
Meanwhile, everyone in "Great" Britain is enjoying the greatest of pop culture where everyone hates the decent, middle-class people who never hurt anyone and have virtually no morals whatsoever. I want the aristocracy back.
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